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Carolyn Flinkman Obituary
Age 64, of Erin, passed away on Tues., Oct. 16, 2007. She was born Nov. 10, 1942 in Elmira, NY, the daughter of George and Doris (Roe) Wood. She is survived by her devoted husband of nearly 28 years, Robert Flinkman; sons, Brett (Karen) Cobb of Lompoc, CA; Scott (Aislinn) Kelly of Corning, NY, William (Belle) Davis Jr. also of Corning, NY; special daughter, Sherri Thompson of Horseheads, NY; grandchildren, Corey Thompson, Connor and Kate Cobb, Evan and Molly Cobb; brother, Donald Wood of West Virginia. She is also survived by special friends, Norma Bennett and Linda Howard. Carolyn was an active member of St. Paul's Lutheran Church in Spencer, NY, active with the Spencer Picnic Youth Outreach, and President of the Council of Church at St. Paul's. She was a graduate of South Side High School, Class of 1960, and was the Deli and Bakery Manager at the Spencer Big M. A special lady, Carolyn left her mark on all those people she met. Family and friends are invited to call at the Barber Funeral Home, 413 So. Main St., Horseheads, on Sat., Oct. 20, 2007, from 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 noon. Her funeral service will be celebrated at the Funeral Home also on Sat., Oct. 20, 2007, at 1:30 p.m. with her friend and Pastor, The Rev. Laura Daly officiating. Interment will immediately follow in Scotchtown Cemetery in Erin.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carolyn Flinkman
Scott Kelly
October 12, 2024
Mom was always there
Katie
July 14, 2021
I think I´m the only one that still comes and looks at this I miss you so much it hurts the memories I have will always be so special to me I love you grandma I hope you and grandpa are doing okay we all love and miss you guys so much my whole heart my everything keep flying high till we meet again
Katie
September 21, 2020
I miss you so much I’m in need of your hugs your voice your everything rip grandma
Heather Ray
October 28, 2007
Carolyn was a wonderful person & like a 2nd mother to me. She watched me grow up & I know she help me grow as well. I was lucky enough to spend some time w/her over the past 2 years & will cherish those memories forever. My thoughts & prayers are with the family now & always. God Bless you Carolyn
Robert & Martha Bailey
October 20, 2007
Uncle Bob,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at a time of sorrrow.
Darlene Tadder
October 20, 2007
Dear Bob ,
I am very sorry for your loss . If there is anything at all that we can do to help you out in the days to come , please let us know .
Darlene and the girls
Sue & Jim Wells
October 19, 2007
Bill & Belle, we were so very sorry to hear about your Moms passing. We only meant her once at your wedding, but we could see the special love she had for her family. Our thoughts & prayers are with you both in the coming days. Love & Hugs, Sue & Jim Wells
Martha McKinney
October 19, 2007
to Carolyn's family and friends---It was such a privilege to spend time with you during Carolyn's last days. I'm grateful she went so peacefully, and I'm sure you all made it easier for her. Sending love and good wishes from all of us at Southern Tier Hospice,
Neil and Helen Riker
October 19, 2007
All the family is in our thoughts and prayers.
norma bennett
October 19, 2007
dear carolyn, i loved you our whole friendship . it was special so special and so are you. love always.
linda howard
October 19, 2007
dear ones ,how can i tell you of the love i have for my friend. she was beautiful in all ways. she supported me in all my times of doubt. she was the best friend ill ever have. thank you all of her family for allowing me to walk that last walk with her. you allowed me to feel like one of you. and for that i am so grateful. so miss carolyn, i will see you soon. till then loving you friend. love linda howard
Sherri Thompson
October 19, 2007
Mom (Grandma) is going to be missed by all of us, but we take comfort that she is with the Lord now that she so obediently served.
M-Motherly and Motivated
O-Observent to others needs and
obediant to the Lord.
T-Thoughtful and Trustworthy
H-Helpful and Happy
E-Exuberant and Enlightening
R-Resourceful and Respected
Barbara Hurd (STHospice)
October 19, 2007
Carolyn was a strong woman of faith and hope. I am sorry that I am unable to be there for the services, but you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I will miss our weekly visits.
Love and prayers for everyone.
grace mcdougal
October 18, 2007
so sorry for the loss of your loved one,grace mcdougal sherri's grandma
connie carroll
October 18, 2007
CAROLINE WAS A RAY OF SUNSHINE IN EVERYONES LIFE SHE TOUCHED, SHE WILL BE MISSED, CONNIE CARROLL SHERRI'S MOTHER
Kenny, Judy, Tara, Devon McGinnis
October 18, 2007
Bill and Family,
Just to let you know that we are here to lend a hand if only to talk. May our thoughts and prayers be with you in your time of sorrow.
Kevin Marble
October 18, 2007
Bill, Belle, & Family
All our thoughts are w/you in this trying time. Take some solace in the fact that her long suffering is done now, & she is at peace. We, your friends, are here for you w/love & support whenever you may need it. Know that she was deeply proud of you all, & her love for you is eternal.
With deepest sympathy, Kevin & Suzi Marble, Morgan Burrell, Gayle & Bob Manzer.
Jim Thompson
October 18, 2007
My condolences to all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Carolyn's touches to Sherri, Corey, Connor and Katie were nothing less than angelic. I've been significantly blessed by Carolyn's role in our lives.
Mike Dunham
October 18, 2007
Bill and Belle,
We were deeply saddened to hear about your mom. She was a kind and caring woman that loved life. You can take solace in knowing that you were very dear to here and a great help to her in her declining days. The world is a lesser place without her.
Your friends
Mike and Linde Dunham
Scott & Aislinn Kelly
October 18, 2007
Dad, Bill, Belle and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and we feel the sorrow and the loss, Mom was the world to each of us in our way and will be missed. You are and will always be in our hearts
Scott and Aislinn
October 18, 2007
There are no words..
Please know that you are loved..
Brightest Blessings
Mr. and Mrs. Tim Lott and Family
Giselle Shollenberger
October 18, 2007
Brett, Scott, Billy & Bob:
Those who knew her will miss her. I am sorry for your loss. Anything you need please do not hesitate to call
Camille Hackett
October 18, 2007
Remembering you always with love.
Jesse Wells
October 18, 2007
She was a great lady, and always made me feel welcome any time I was around her. Condolences to Bill and Belle (who are wonderful friends and just fun, dependable, people in general) and the rest of the family.
October 18, 2007
The Drake Family, James and Jennifer (Cobb)Drake and Yasmina Cobb. We will miss Aunt Carolyn very much.
Robin Yetter
October 18, 2007
Bill Belle and Family,
AS you know you all have been in our thoughts and prayers thru these sad times, you continue to be so. No words can express the sorrow of your loss. Bless each and everyone of you at this difficult time. We will be in touch! Much Love, Aunt Robin, Brian and All
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