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Brian O'Neil Obituary
Age 45, of Odessa, NY, passed away unexpectedly on December 2, 2007 at home. Brian is survived by his wife, Jane and son, Colin, both of Odessa, NY; sister, Peggy Brown and husband, Joel of Saratoga Springs, NY; sisters-in-law, Jennifer Dunlap and husband, Gary of VA, and Julie Dunlap and husband, Jim, also of VA; brother-in-law, David Dunlap of AZ; nieces and nephews, Jason Brown of New York City, NY, Caitlin Brown and Andrew Brown of Saratoga Springs, NY, Abigail and William Boshart and Alexander and Patrick Corrigan, all of Virginia; aunt, Joy Hanlon of Odessa, NY; and cousins, Mike (Laurie) Hanlon and family of Horseheads, NY, Sue Wigglesworth of TX. Brian is predeceased by his parents, Dennis and Lois Hanlon O'Neil; grandparents, Howard and Helen Hanlon; and uncle, William Hanlon. Brian was in the lumber industry his entire life and as a family member he served on the Board of Directors of Cotton-Hanlon, Inc. and was also a big part of the Cotton-Hanlon working Family. Brian will be remembered for his good heart and quick sense of humor. At the family's request there will be no calling hours. A private service will be held at the convenience of the family. Those wishing to remember Brian may do so through memorials to a charity of one's choice or plant a tree in Brian's loving memory. Arrangements entrusted to the Vedder and Scott Funeral Home, Odessa, NY.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian O'Neil
Tim and Dawn Reynolds
December 18, 2007
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Brian was so helpful to us when my husband was hurt in an accident. Tim worked with Brian and became good friends. The LACC group will miss Brian at our next canoe and camping trip in the spring. Him and Steph came on a couple of them this year and we had a ball. Steph your are welcome to come with us any time. The gang will all miss him very much.
Mike & Sheri Trombetta
December 12, 2007
We met Brian through Steph...no matter what we doing or where he was it was always a good time and he was always smiling. He will be missed by all of us.
William (B.J.) Woodworth
December 12, 2007
I was saddened to hear of your loss, although I have not seen Brian in quite a while I considered him a friend. The world was a better place because of him with his smile and laughter. Brian will greatly missed.
Ben Alleman
December 11, 2007
It has been 26 years since I spoke to Brian. My high school memories are of a young man mature beyond his years, full of compassion and humor. My prayers are with his friends and family. God bless.
Stephanie Lewis
December 11, 2007
Brian was a wonderful man, always with a sparkle in his eye, and willing to help anyone. May you rest in peace Brian. Catch you in Memphis.
Kristen (Sand) Wooten
December 11, 2007
Dear Peggy and Family,
I am so very sorry. I will keep you
in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Kristen
Sue Rounds
December 10, 2007
From one grieving family to another. Paul knew Brian from work. He always treated Paul with kindness and respect and Paul liked and respected Brian very much. I met him and he was such a likeable, sweet guy. Our hearts go out to your family for your loss. God Bless all of the family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Rounds Family
Nancy (Saunders) Aycock
December 10, 2007
Jane,
I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. Memories of Brian will always be pleasant in my mind, and I will always hear his laughter. Time passes so quickly. Find peace in your memories too. Call anytime. Love, Nance
Anita Johnson
December 10, 2007
Jane & Collin,
I am so sorry about the loss of your husband, father & friend. I remember Brian in school as a funny and kind person. May the peace that passes all understanding that only God can bring comfort you at this time of loss.
Chris Szalay
December 10, 2007
Very sorry to hear of the loss of such a great guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bettelynn (Strong) Bravo
December 9, 2007
Jane,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Know that he is in a better place and watching over you always.
Tim and Dawn Reynolds
December 9, 2007
To Brian's Family, We are so sorry for your lost. Our prayers are with you. We meet Brian through work and became good friends. We will miss him at the next LACC club Canoe and camping trip this coming spring. We had such a great time together this pass year. We have to give him a thank you for cutting our wood for this winter seeing how Tim had an accident and could not do it. We will miss his laughter at our BBQ's. He is in a good place now.
Pastor Dan Corretore
December 8, 2007
To Brian's family & friends,
I was Brian's pastor for the five years I was at Odessa Methodist Church (1982-87), when Brian was in college and then after graduation. I remember what a fun, positive person Brian was. He surely will be missed on earth, and welcomed by family & friends in heaven. May God hold you in his loving care, and fill your heart with the many good memories.
woodchuck
December 7, 2007
i only had a short time with my friend brian but all the time we had were great times. he was full of such great storys and love for everyone he had as friends.
its said to see him leave us. but he was loved by all. i will never forget you my friend brian.
Deborah Zimmers
December 7, 2007
Dear Jane and Colin,
I was devastated to hear the sad news of your loss. Please find some comfort in the fact that I care and you are in my prayers. I am so sorry.
Janeen Kelly
December 7, 2007
I bartend at the Odessa House and will remember Brian for his bright eyes, jokes, and positive comments. He always had a smile and will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Janeen
Don & Laurie Frisk & Family
December 7, 2007
We would like to offer our very deepest condolences to all of Brian's family and friends. "Out, out, brief candle . . . "
Cynthia Cratsley Harrington
December 7, 2007
Dear Jane and Colin,
We are so sorry to hear about Brian.
Brian helped our son Caleb when he crashed his bike in front of your house a few years ago- he packed him up and brought him home, then went back for the bicycle! Our thoughts are with your family.
Mark Schrage
December 7, 2007
Brian, we only had the pleasure to know you and Steph for a couple of years but we will never forget you! You are the sweetest guy we ever knew and Debra & I loved you. We will miss you long time. I know you're in good hands now because I prayed for you, (something I'm not known for) Ask our Father if you can come for a visit and we'll leave the Christmas lights on for you because that would be a " special occasion." All our love, Debra & Mark Schrag.
sarah Roberts
December 7, 2007
Brian you will missed by many. I hope that you are finally at rest. No worries I will watch over your girl.
Stephens Family
December 7, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Mike Sullivan
December 7, 2007
Brian,
Over the years we became great friends and had some good times. I love You and I'm going to miss You! Jane and Colin, Steph, my thoughts are with you. I'm here if You need anything.
Sully
Theresa Cleary Siri
December 7, 2007
Jane and Colin, so sorry for your loss, Brian will be missed, many great memories of Brian making us laugh, memories that will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace Brian and Let Light Perpetual Shine Upon You God Bless Theresa Siri and Patrick Cleary.
Kevin Gardner
December 6, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Mark Leszyk
December 6, 2007
Brian(Nipper)
I will miss you Thanks for being a great friend, All of our times were filled with fun and laughter, graduation feels like yesterday. Jane I am so sorry for your loss, remember I am always there as a friend.
Mark D. Leszyk
William & Paige Gates
December 6, 2007
Brian:
We will miss you, rest in peace.
Rock Oak Lumber
December 6, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. We will miss Brian.
Lois Halpin Sprague
December 6, 2007
So sad to learn of Brian's passing.
His Mom was my Sunday school teacher.
May the family find comfort in prayer.
Susan Beebe
December 6, 2007
Dear Brian,
Your laughter and kindness will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathy goes out to your family and friends. may you rest in peace.
Mary Anagnost
December 6, 2007
Jane & family,
My thoughts are with you all. Know that you are not alone in dealing with your loss.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Barb Workman and Jody Darling
December 6, 2007
We got to know Brian a few years ago and always enjoyed his company. Everytime Brian walked into the room it was like turning on a light. We shared many good times together and will hold onto many fond memories. We feel a great deal of sorrow and emptiness. Our hearts go out to Brians family.
We will sorely miss you Brian-God Bless you.
Donnie Messersmith
December 6, 2007
Sorry for your loss,Knowing Brian for 40+ years was honor and he will be missed.
Peggy Buzzetti
December 6, 2007
My
family met Brian two years ago through Stephanie. We enjoyed him very
much, as he did the Buzzetti Clan. I am sorry we had such a short time
with him. My sympathy to his family and his friend, Stephanie.
jim gee
December 6, 2007
With deepest sympathy for family and friends...........
Jim Gee
James Gee Logging
Peggy Visscher
December 6, 2007
Jane and family my name is peggy Visscher(Seymour) we all went to school together I'm so sorry about Brian he will be missed very much i waited on him as well at the Dandy. myself and all my family send or condolences. your family is in our prayers. god bless. Peggy and the Seymour Family
Mark Pederzolli
December 6, 2007
Brian i am going to miss you a lot we always had a good time together my heart goes out to your whole family god bless you
Priscilla Kelly
December 6, 2007
Dear family of Brian, I did not know him but but worked for his Grandfather and with this Mother, Father and Uncle Bill. He has gone to be with part of his family and I know the ones left behind are very sad but some day we will all be togehter again. God Bless you and Keep you save. Priscilla (Pike) Kelly
Andy Parker
December 6, 2007
Although I havn't seen him in a couple years, my memories of Brian as a childhood friend are as vivid as ever. Not a single warm Summer day passes that I don't think of the great times I spent with my "adopted" big brother. As sad as I am now that he is gone, I would never trade the memories I have and my life is better today because Brian was a part of it.
The Austin Family
December 6, 2007
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our family sends our deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Jodi Crozier
December 6, 2007
To the family of Brian O'Neil
We would just like to send our deepest regrets to all of you. We only knew Brian a short time, his company was always a pleasure. He will be missed by all.
Sincerely
Jodi & Mike
Felko
December 6, 2007
Brian,
Thanks for being a great person and being there for me. May you rest in peace. May God bless your family and help them through this troubled time.
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