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Helen Wilber Obituary

WILBER, Helen B.
Age 93, of Seminole, FL, formerly of Breesport, NY, passed peacefully into the arms of her Lord and Savior on December 5, 2007. Devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend whose constant faith and caring was a beacon to all who knew and loved her, and whose daily devotions served as her constant guide for living and loving. Helen was the youngest of nine children born to Rev. Burton E. and Myrtie Mead Butman of Red Creek, NY. She was married for over 50 loving years to Donald C. Wilber. She was predeceased by her parents, husband, and siblings. She was a graduate of Syracuse University and was employed for a time by Cooperative Extension of Chemung County. She was a longtime member of Breesport Methodist Church and more recently, Pasadena Community Church in St. Petersburg, FL. Helen is survived by her five children, Jean (Alan) Jones of St. Petersburg, FL, Judith (John) Arikian of Pine City, NY, John (Annette) Wilber of St. Petersburg, FL, James (Pauline) Wilber of Ava, MO, and Jeffrey (Jane) Wilber of Downingtown, PA; 15 grandchildren, 14 great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and a host of friends. In addition to the many poems she recited from memory, were some favorite bible verses: Ephesians 4:32, Romans 12:18, Romans 13:10, and Proverbs 31:28. Those wishing to honor her life are encouraged to attend their own place of worship and celebrate her memory in their own special way. In Florida, there will be a memorial service at Lake Seminole Square, 8333 Seminole Blvd., Seminole, FL 33772 on December 28, 2007 at 2:00 pm.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Dec. 9 to Dec. 12, 2007.

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Mary Jane and Gerry Austin and Helen Comfort

December 13, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Sharon Denson

December 11, 2007

Jean & family. I was trying to locate an address for you to send a Christmas card and the next day read about your mother, aka Gram, as Kris called her. Kris has many fine memories of her. Our sincere sympathy, love and prayers to you and your family. She was a lovely person. Sharon, Kris and Denson family.

Rod and Marge Struble

December 10, 2007

Jean and family. I will always remember you and your family from all the fun times in Breesport. Your Mom and Dad will always be in the fondest avenue of my mind. Sorry for your loss, your Mom was a fine lady.

Kathy & Harold Besley

December 9, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Dorothy & Paul Stermer

December 9, 2007

To Jeff and Jean (the 2 kids)I know.. She lived a long life. She and Don were nice neighbors. Used to pay Don my school taxes. Our son Tom went to school with Jeff. Our prayer are with you. Dot and Paul Stermer

Glenda & Norm Wilber

December 9, 2007

We send our sincere sympathy to the entire Helen Wilber family. Glenda & I have several fond memories, one of the most recent was in Erin, N Y. a few years ago. Everyone at the Jones household thought Aunt Helen was asleep, when from down the hall we heard her ask: Did someone mention pie!!! Your Mom & Grandma was a very loving person. Hugs to you all. Love, Glenda & Norm Wilber

Marty and Judy Wilber

December 9, 2007

Jean, Judy, John, Jim and Jeff: We are so sorry to hear of mom's passing. She was a great lady and I for one nephew used to love spending time in Breesport with your family during the summers. She made all of us better people and she will be missed. All our love to all of you. She has been in my prayers for many years and will continue to be.

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