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Bobby Gardner
February 15, 2023
To June’s family,
I read the story of love so well shown by her husband years ago. I was moved to tears and copied it. Wondering and hoping that I could share it with others as a great example of true love. I am still moved today as I think of it or share it with others.
June and her husband Stanton Berg must have been a great example to others and certainly have been to me. Yes, a person who never knew either, yet feels as though I’ve known them for many years. I shared their story today on Truth Social and hope doing so has blessed many others.
Connie Lowers
April 21, 2021
June, I feel as though I already know you hearing the stories Stanton tells looking at your pictures your memory is alive I love your smile you’re beautiful inside and out and loved.
Thank you for leaving such a beautiful example for the way women should live your husband is a wonderful man.
Connie Lowers
S H
July 27, 2020
Remember.
Lora Robinson
April 5, 2020
sweet June...hugs
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Kathy Williams
October 24, 2019
Your life story is so beautiful! What an amazing woman! You are loved even by those who never met you physically on Earth and your memories and the example of Gods love that you shared is still being spread. Your example of living life with grace humor and love continues to inspire many. Thank you June for such a beautiful example for others to follow. I know you are singing dancing and loving still and patiently waiting on your reunion with your beautiful family
Clare Gallagher
October 23, 2019
What a wonderful partner/husband. I always read the yearly column he wrote but missed the one from the last couple of years. I hoped that Stan was in good health. God Bless!
John Stevens
October 23, 2019
May your memory live long and true for generations to come.
Paula Valentino
October 23, 2019
June lived a life many of us could only dream of; filled with love, light, and happiness. She certainly brought that joy to Stan's life. June, Stan honors you every day and misses you so much that words fall short. Be with him through the rest of his life and meet him at Heaven's door when the good Lord calls him home. Until then, Stan is educating the world about what real love means, and about dementia. Thanks to the life you lived and to Stan, we will always remember you and honor you.
Kathy Williams
November 27, 2018
Such a beautiful smile and a beautiful soul !
Julie Dimon
November 26, 2018
God bless you June..what a life well lived with love! It will be wonderful to meet you and see your warm smile on the other side! Thank you Stan for sharing all your precious expressions of June...she truly was and is your "Ängel".
I came across your Bible class - Christian Believers...Asleep or in Heaven after Death? ...when researching for a friend whose son recently died. Your class is very helpful and very clear! Thanks for putting it together and sharing!
Kat Wheeler
November 18, 2018
Hi June ❤
I feel like I know you through reading about you from your Husband , Stanton .
He Adores You & Talks About His DEEP love for you & shares photos of y'all together & shares cute stories of your life with each other , WITH ALL OF US all over the world ❤ I admire you June & I want you to know that every time your Husband shares a photo of you & I get to see your angelic smile , I feel so happy :)
Hugs & Love for you June , Sincerely & Fondly , kat wheeler
Marsha Ault
November 18, 2018
It will be a glorious reunion for you and your family one day. The brightness and splendor of that day will pale the pain and sorrow of the day you left this world. I hope one day to have the privilege of meeting you.
Marsha Ault
June 30, 2018
I have never met you, but I feel I know you the the photos shared and the written words of your husband. Your husband helped me when my dad became a victim of Alzheimer's.
Kat Wheeler
June 29, 2018
Hi Beautiful June
I have enjoyed getting to know you , through your dedicated & loyal & loving Husband :) He loves you very very much & I am so blessed to read about your amazing adventures & see your beautiful photos I know you are resting comfortably in the arms of Jesus You are a very special lady & the love you & Stanton share is for ETERNITY & BEYOND ! I wish I could give you a big hug peaceful dreams June , sincerly & fondly ... Kat Wheeler
Barbara Duggan
June 24, 2018
She lead a loving life. Her husband must be smiling big about now.
Mary Hanson
November 12, 2017
Thank you for developing this very good website. June was a beautiful woman, and this is not only a tribute to your love but a good way to interest the public in giving more for research for Alzheimer's.
Sandra
August 3, 2017
Dear June, please continue to watch over Stan. He is such a dear man! You were gone from this earth too soon! Stan loves and missed you so very much. RIP dear lady!
Tina Tullos
December 12, 2016
What a Beautiful life the two of you shared together. There are people that search a lifetime for that kind of forever love. Lucky you to find it the first time you laid eyes on your beautiful June.
Tina Hand
December 2, 2016
What a lovely lady. What a wonderful husband. GOD bless you Stan. I'm sure June is smiling down at you with love and pride. I've known quite a few folks who suffered this horrible disease and I pray for them. Thank you for sharing.
Beth Doucette
April 22, 2016
Again, so enjoy all entries in this Guest Book for June:) Thank you for sharing!:)
April 21, 2016
What an inspirational person June, it would have been a pleasure to have known you, your memory lives on with your loving husband Stan RIP June, died but not forgotten.
Marian Mullowney
February 14, 2016
I had the honor and privilege of meeting Stan yesterday at Applebee's where he shared a meal a glass of wine and tea with his beautiful bride June. I wish I had known this fine woman as she must have been someone spectacular. To have a man love you so completely you have to be a good soul. Stan you brought tears to my eyes yesterday when I first hand witnessed your loving tribute to June. It gave me renewed hope in mankind to see something so special and heartwarming. It was sincerely my pleasure meeting you. God Bless you Stan and rest in peace June.
Lora Robinson
January 25, 2016
you are still a shining light in so many ways...through the love of your life...Mr.Stan...
Mary Tyers
October 20, 2015
I truly wish I had known you June.
You sound like a remarkable lady.
Much love to you.
Xxxxxx
connie Berlinguette
July 30, 2015
I send condolences ...ADZ is not a nice illness and my heart goes to you and thank you for sharing your life and the yeas with June and all the readers. My mother has ADZ and she did live with me for awhile now living in a dementia/alzheimers home in the town where I live. I go visit daily take her out twice a week but the progression of the ADZ is heartbreaking but I am dealing with it quite well.
Pam Owens
April 17, 2015
I met Stan today at Bakers Square having lunch and commented on the lovely picture...so glad I did. WOW is about all I can say. What a life!! Can only hope that there is a little Stan and June in all of us. So devoted to one another. We take life for granted and sometimes we need to stop and smell the roses. I'm glad I did today. You could hear the love in Stans voice when he spoke of June. I wanted to know more about these wonderful people and found this website. A wonderful site it is! Thank you for sharing.
JoAnn Williams
March 18, 2015
Thank you Stan for inviting me to June's page and her beautiful Guest Book. Im so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful Lady. But I am so glad to see your keeping her memory alive with everything the two of your shared! This is something that touches my heart so much! I've done similar with my husband Roy also! Your an awesome husband who misses his love wife tremendously! I admire this so much. Roy's mother who I was so very close to had Alzheimer's. We watched her slip away from us little by little. She was so full oflifeand then one day gradually the disease took its toll on her. I an so glad to have met you! I wish it would have been under different circumstances. God bless you Stan and this is jus a wonderful and beautiful memorial! Again thank you! JoAnn
February 26, 2015
Hi, I just met a lovely man having lunch with his wife...well, a photo of his wife. I asked him about the photo on the table and he was eager to tell me all about his wonderful wife....I was deeply touched by the love he has for his wife...it reminded me of Christ's love - deep and abiding.

Enjoying Life in Christ forevermore!
Kathy Settles
October 20, 2014
I was looking into Alzheimers recently due to a friend going through some memory challenges and ran across June Berg's information. She certainly seems to be such a beautifully vibrant soul and I'm sure she yet rejoices with her King in The Heavenlies. God bless her family and friends. May the memories you share sustain you for decades to come. Pastor Kathy Settles, Refuge Church, P. O. Box 9, Olney, MD 20830
Bill Ficker
August 24, 2014
HI Stan, Read your nice words of June in the paper. My mother in law also had this disease. I miss all of the nice people I meet like you at champps. I hope you are well. ---Bill the host of Champps.
Beth Doucette
August 24, 2014
Well, now we are in the Cable WI area cabining for awhile with the kids before school starts. Always enjoy hearing from you and haven't heard from you for awhile:-):-) Hope you are okay:-) Have a good end of Summer and keep in touch:-):-)
August 23, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Louise Ann Howard
June 16, 2014
Stan and family I live in australia and helped nurse my father in law for many years. I was the good and bad of this illness we even moved in with my father in law gave up our own home to keep him out of a care home but he had to go interstate for that care. When he finally was going I asked his son do you want to sit with your dad he said he could not I said I would. I read the bible to him sang hymns he kept giving me hand signals after a wuestion I would ask do you what a prayer yes so we prayed to. Through all his suffering the end was so beautiful he went so quickly peacefully. Thanks for sharing June's june life we know we are not alone in the long battle and in the end know God has them all.
Beth Doucette
June 16, 2014
Good Monday morning from Homer AK:-) Starting our second week in AK:-) Very cool and brisk but beautiful scenery:-) Son, David, fishing again but the rest of us enjoying this very nice house and hot tub:-) We are blessed and enjoying everything:-):-) Thank you for sharing beautiful entries in Guest Book.
Connie Sue O'Brien
June 16, 2014
Stan, I'm so sorry for your loss June was a very special lady. The two of you had what most of us dream about in life a soul mate. I have experienced Alzheimer's first hand taking care of my mom it was the hardest job I ever had to do and a devastating loss. I've always said when it rains there really are tears from heaven!
God bless,
Connie

Dad at the dedication of the Sharon D. Nichols Auditorium, Casper College, Casper, WY
Jon Nichols
June 16, 2014
What an awesome site. I know Stan did a lot for me with his wisdom and good humor. Having lost my Dad a year ago to this terrible affliction I can say that this helps the transition come easier. Thank you...!!
Terry DAHL
June 15, 2014
Stan sorry for loss your wife June I work in a nursing home I work with residents who have alzheimer's and dementia I like your post and the purple angel that great I've had residents their family say we are angels of night glad we are there for their family member I love taking care of them all enjoy my time with them and family get to know each one miss them when they are gone so hope u know she was in good care take care of hope this help u and your family sorry for your and family loss prayer and thought with u she at peace now with purple angels in heaven now she still watching over her love ones she your angel on your shoulder remember that OK god bless you family take care !!!
Cathy Arnett
May 19, 2014
I want you to know that your article about June and her eating patterns was so intriguing that I felt compelled to thank you for sharing this journey with others who are possibly facing a similar situation. Stan , I know that you are right about having time, patience regarding feeding a person with any stage and late stage of alz.
I read that entire article and then decided to read your tribute to June. I know that it was the excellent care that you and others provided that extended her special life.
I feel like you could actually write a book! As a nurse and bring a caregiver to my own Mom, the entire nursing home industry truly needs to be transformed .
Just know that June and the love that you two shared is an inspiration . What a wonderful and beautiful smile she had. Her face truly glowed with happiness!
My deepest sympathy goes out to your family and eventhough
June may be gone now, her life and how well you treated and cared for her during those trying times... It is truly a love story that brought tears to my eyes.
My daughter used to live in Cary, NC and now
She is in another state. She works at a large hospital
In Seattle now.
I will tweet your story and share it with my online alzheimer
Support group.
My Mom is now 94 and she did not feel like eating today. Through Google I found the article about late stage feeding.
Rest assured that Love lives on as we share our experiences with others.
I only wish that I had known June. She truly
Has had an impact on so many.
To caregivers who might be reading this, especially those of us dealing with an alzheimers relative or friend ...learn the art of patience as exemplified by June's husband.
Thank you again for your article about feeding
and your experiences.
I know that many have been helped... Bless
You all. Cathy Hudgins Arnett
Beth Doucette
May 8, 2014
Very nice:-)Always inspirational to read about you and June:-)We are about to embark on 55 years of marriage on 5/16:-):-) Doesn't serm possible:-):-) The years go by so fast but we too have many memories of family trips and outings and now we are enjoying our grandchildren and great grandchildren. Thank you for sharing.
Pam Miner
March 16, 2014
Stan,
It was a pleasure to meet you (and June) yesterday at Applebee's. I saw you sitting there by yourself and knew I wanted to come and meet you. How was I to know what a great person I was about to meet. I really enjoyed the stories you told me about you and June and the wonderful life you shared. I know how proud you are of her, but you must know that she is looking down everyday thinking how lucky she also is to have such a remarkable man in you. It was my pleasure visiting with you! I will see you again soon at Applebee's. I am looking forward to more wonderful stories. Sincerely, Pam
Julie Stuart
August 14, 2013
Thank u for sharing junes story stan.you went through so much..love julie X
Roxanne Berg (Aune)
July 27, 2013
Stan and family,
I grew up across the street from your family in Fridley and graduated with your daughter Susan. My family name is Aune. I have followed the Fridley cancer group as 4 of our 6 family members have had cancer and my mom had unbelievable bouts of cancer from breast cancer to pancreatic cancer to colon and stomach cancer. She passed away in 2003 at the age of 76. My father surpassed her in living but ended up with dementia/Alzheimer's so was probably no better off in the end since it was a long road. He passed away in 2011 from his disease and I can certainly understand your situation with June. After seeing your story with the tornadoes and your wife June's struggle I felt compelled to write you with best wishes for you and your family.
Roxanne Aune (Berg - funny I ended up with your last name. I also noticed you must be from Cameron, WI which is where my dad's sister Esther O'Brien and family originated from.)
Martha Knight
May 27, 2013
Such a loving tribute!
Alex Bester
May 22, 2013
Dear Stan, thanks for sharing your and June's story. I found your page through a search of seizures and Alzheimer's, which came about because of my mom's first grand Mal seizure this morning. She is still in my dad's care but permanent care is imminent. Regrettably, for being at this advanced stage, she is only 67 and was first diagnosed at 63. Thank you again for the enormous time invested in your pages. These terribly difficult times are somehow easier when reading about others that have travelled the same difficult road.
Barbara
May 13, 2013
Your journey is an inspiration to all of us who are caregivers for our respective spouses who are in the clutches of this terrible disease. I am still able to care for my husband at home but dread the day when I will be forced to place him in the care of someone else. You are to be commended for the extraordinary devotion and care you gave to you soul mate. I hope that I will be able to follow in your footsteps.
Martha Sanchez
November 19, 2012
Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you and your family.
November 5, 2012
God Bless You!
October 20, 2012
Dear Stan,
My father suffered rom Alzheiemers and struggled throuh it for 10 years Your struggle for giving June the best possible treatment reminds me of my father Thanks for sharing your experience
Dr Prabha
Sandra
October 13, 2012
Stan,you are a wonderful man! June was so fortunate to have you. What a love story. June will always be in your heart and no one can ever take your precious memories away. She lives on in your children and grandchildren. God Bless you and your family always.
Sandra Powell
September 24, 2012
Although I did not know June, the story of her life and courage has helped me with my mothers struggle. Thank you for sharing her life with us all! May God bless you all and may you find comfort and peace.
Burt and Beth Doucette
September 13, 2012
Your love and dedication to June and Alzheimers is absolutely amazing:-) You are an inspiration to many and your research is to be commended:-) Please know that you are helping many:-):-) I love reading all about your beloved June, and we enjoyed meeting you at Applebee's awhile ago when they held the benefit for Alzheimers. Keep up the good work:-):-):-) Your friends, Burt and Beth Doucette.
Heather Brennan
September 12, 2012
God bless you and your family. Lost my dad and best friend April of this year to AD. Painful beyond words and i will never be the same. Thamk you for sharing yours and June's life with us.
Monica Novak
June 19, 2012
What a wonderful man you are. I have a dear friend with Alzheimer's who has just been placed in a home. Her husband is suffering terribly with this decision. I have just emailed him your story.
Judi Walker
June 1, 2012
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife June. The love the two of you share shines on. This is a wonderful way to remember her and share her memory with others.
May 29, 2012
What Stan continues to do today for June is probably the most amazing honor ever given to a wife via internet. Though this beautiful woman now walks the streets of heaven, I'm certain her tender heart merged with her loving and faithful husband, Stan, before her departure. You set a wonderful example of how "true love" will brand the heart and soul for all eternity Stan.
~Dianne Cogar,(Legacy Poet)
Springfield, Ohio
Beth Doucette
May 25, 2012
Stan, thank you again for sharing with us. When I feel sorry for myself with my arthritis and hip recalls I think of nice people like you and June and realize my situation isn't that bad. Have to have my hips done for a second time but it could be worse and I know that. Thanks again. Just read the poems, etc dedicated to June and they are beautiful:-)
Sandra B
May 14, 2012
I love the site up you have put up stan! Ands it's been so great to see you around Applebee's and it was my inspiration towards the paper I wrote in my English to make people more aware of your cause and what they can do to help out with Alzheimer's!
Casandra Barron
May 14, 2012
I love the site up you have put up stan! Ands it's been so great to see you around Applebee's and it was my inspiration towards the paper I wrote in my English to make people more aware of your cause and what they can do to help out with Alzheimer's!
Mahnia Madan
April 3, 2012
Stan, thank you for sharing June's poem with me at the Eye Care Center. What a beautiful tribute to June and your life together. This is a wonderful website and I have shared it with my friends and by husband. Best wishes to you. - Mahnia Madan
February 14, 2012
Bless you and your family. Love, blessings, happy memories. You'll meet again on streets of gold.
February 14, 2012
What a "Great" Love story. Thank you very much for sharing. This is what LOVE is all about.
Pamela Thorpe- Willmar,Mn.
February 14, 2012
What a wonderful tribute to June and your life together. I hope this helps bring more awareness to the challenges this disease brings to anyone it impacts so that it can be minimized in the future.
Stacy
February 14, 2012
What a beautiful tribute to your wife in today's Star Tribune. It brought tears to my eyes, both for the joy she brought you and for the sadness when she left this earth. Happy Valentines Day.
Colette Haas
February 14, 2012
WOW!!! What a tribute and what a special Valentine in today's paper! I was touched by your special love and care for her; you were both so lucky to have each other. Thanks for sharing.
Beverly Wilder
January 27, 2012
Mr. Berg,
I am so sorry for you, AND so happy for you. What a loving tribute to your dear wife. Since the day I was born, I've never felt that kind of love from anyone. Thank you for sharing.
Jes C
January 20, 2012
What a beautiful tribute to your wife. She seems like she was such a lovely lady- I wish I could have known her! The articles were so interesting, I took a lot from them.
Debbie Larsen
January 2, 2012
I wish I could have had the opportunity to know this amazing women. My Mother is fighting this battle. It pains me to see her in the stages. June ,please watch over her. Her name is Ellie. I thank you June and Stan for educating me in her fight and being able to be there for her. June, blessed be your memory . Threw your beloved , I feel I already know you. Thank you, Debbie .
Rosemary Mather
December 31, 2011
June was a wonderful lady and I thankyou for letting me share this beautiful tribute to her.
sharon duncan
December 24, 2011
June sure sounds like a lovely person and i wish i would have known her. as a personal support worker and working towards my nursing degree, ii work with patients with this awful disease. my prayer is a cure can be found soon! thank-you for a small glimpse into your lovely wife's life <3
December 22, 2011
Mr. Berg, I would like you to know that I read and saved a copy of your article, "God and Alzheimer's". I just ran across it again in my papers. You are so right. Alzheimer's, in it's final stages, does destroy a person's knowledge of God; but, as you said, it doesn't destroy God's love for that person. I watched as my Mom asked daily, "Is it church day?"...then suddenly she didn't even know how to take communion. The last Sunday (a month before she died) she actually kept the communion in her hand. A part of me knew that was the last time. I took it from her and saved it. It is kept in a "Tiffany box". It is now a treasured item reflecting the love my Mom had for God every day of her life, remembering or not. My Mom died a month later (November 17, 2010) from cancer, very suddenly. What a blessing that we did not have to endure the last stage of Alzheimer. I also feel the same sadness when I watch the movie, "The Notebook". It is a beautiful story, but false depiction of alzheimer's. It is the Hollywood version of Alzheimer's. No one with alzheimer's walks around the beautiful lawn of a nursing facility with beautifully coifed hair and dress. My Mom lived with my husband and me. I cared for her beautifully, but it was a chore to keep her clean and coifed. It certainly doesn't happen in a nursing facility. Thank you for your article. I feel so alone when explaining to others that alzheimers is more than just memory loss; it is body loss. You made me feel comfortable in my thoughts. God bless your during the holidays. Judy Rieschick, Nashville, TN
Lisa S
November 20, 2011
I read your valentine letter to your wife int he star tribune. One of the sweetest most amazing tributes. It is very clear that God brought you your soul mate - should everyone experience a love like yours. My condolences.

Susie Valentine
October 19, 2011
Mr. Berg just saw your messege on Applebee's facebook.. Reading your post a person can see how much you love your wife, how you did not take one second for granted, I think it's touching to keep the flame alive, let the love always live, I'm sorry for your loss, keep her with you..the memories live on. What a wonderful, warm heart you have, God Bless Mr. and Mrs. Berg.
Cheryl
October 15, 2011
I saw your note on Facebook (Applebee's). It sounds like you were a very devoted husband and looks like you had a wonderful life together. I hope you can remember all the good times when she was June and not the progressive disease that took her away from you. My condolences.
Mindy Fukushi
August 14, 2011
Dear Mr. Berg,
I have been following your website for almost two years. My mother in Beijing, China has the same disease. It is heart-breaking to see how mom has changed over the years. Last time when I was at my parents' home, I told my father (who is close to your age) about your website. Thanks for sharing your story. What a comfort for us to know that we are not alone facing this sad disease.
Bob
August 14, 2011
Stan, reading your tribute in today's Star Tribune (08/14/11) was so very, very touching. It's obvious June meant the world to you. My Mom was diagnosed in January 2010. She worked full time (without needing to, financially) until her 87 bithday. Three months later my sister and I placed her in a home for memory care. The other day on the phone, she asked me twice in our two minute conversation, "who are you?" We swallow hard and go on. The world of dementia. The world of dementia.
Marilyn
August 7, 2011
I am the 'Stan' in my mother's life who is in her third year of being diagnosed. To read June's story has brought tears to my eyes and some consolation that I am not alone in dealing with this. Thank you for telling your story. What a beautiful tribute to an amazing woman. God bless you and your family always.
David Welter
May 12, 2011
Thank you for sharing the memories of youo and your wife. And the memories your children and grandchildren have of their mother and grandmother. We can all only hope that we leave that kind of legacy behind.
Meicy Zopi
May 12, 2011
Thanks Stan for allowing me on June's website.I think that June live her life to the fullest so that death is just another chapter.Memories of her life, her works and her deeds will continue to live on in others.
Holly
April 28, 2011
Mr. Berg, I met you at the Mall with my Mom, Aunt, and Grandmother and got one of your cards. I just got done exploring your wonderful site and was very touched. Your wife sounds like an amazing lady, and know that she appreciates your work in informing others of this horrible disease.
Jacki Barton
March 30, 2011
Mr. Berg - you approached my mom, sister & me while we were having coffee at the mall recently. Your gentleness & sincerity in simply asking us to visit your site was enough to make me want to check it out when I returned home to Oklahoma. What an amazing tribute you have made for June. She must have been quite an amazing person for you to dedicate so much to her. I just know there's a brighter star in heaven because of you. Be assured I will pass along your site to my friends.
christine and mavis williams owen
March 27, 2011
DEAR June i shared your wonderful story with my mum today she is a typical english lady you made her cry and smile and i could see a sense of pride in her eyes.She said fancy June had it down to a tee she told me to tell you .Your husband is a special man but behind every good man is a good woman thats you June Love And Blessings from England Mavis Owen and her doughter Christine xx
March 26, 2011
June was always kind to me and Jordan even following my divorce from her son. I have very fond memories of vacations and outings we took as a family. She is missed but no doubt dancing in Heaven.
Debra Lake
Katie Kloss
March 21, 2011
Thank you for sharing this website with me, Mr. Berg. It is so special that you are sharing the memories of you and June with the world. Hopefully learning more about alzheimers can help lead to a cure soon. It is so wonderful how you are keeping her memory alive!
Teresa Chalke
February 23, 2011
I am lighting a candle in memory of June and also in memory of my beautiful Mum, Violet May Sutton, who was taken from us in July 2009 after 10 years of facing this terrible terrible disease. Sleep peacefully June and Violet. We love you xx
Steve Muras
February 23, 2011
My name is Steve. 68, married/Linda 40 years.Diagnosed last May - doing well for now, at peace - took months to reach it. Really liked the Valentine "love line", and now the web site - what a memorial Stan!
I write poetry and find it healing. writersgiftstop.com Here is one entry written recently - Alzheimer's.
I won't write all of it, perhaps half, because this is your site Stan! If you wish to read more of this poem and others I've written - go to the web site mentioned above.
THE POWER OF POETRY AND ALZHEIMER'S
As I gaze yonder, and somehow ponder, the early morning sun sends silvers of tiny prisms through cracks in my bedroom venetian blind, I wonder as thought wander, will this be the day
my melting brain blocks something meant to be said?
I sit at usual, computer keys begging for me to pound out something that will strike verse bringing magnificent images of imagination to all who dare read my stuff! I have visions of creating words of magic on paper until I reach old age (I hate that term!) and beyond.
Yet I know that day will never reveal itself. I have Early-On-Set Alzheimer's. (what a crazy word, almost as crazy as what the word means to me!)
As I walk doctor's office - he sitting there looking at papers on his desk, me looking away, over his head out the window at trees dappled with new buds, ready to bring life and laughter into the world. Soon bright green bunches of green leaves will shout with excitement; "Look at me! I have new life once again."
While await his diagnosis with trembling thoughts of disaster...
When will I see new life again, I wonder? I walk out the door; numbness spreads its tentacles into my decaying brain. My life is gone, dreams draining from possibilities beyond imagination.
When! How! Where will I be? When words stumble out of my mouth Will I be in the middle of a poem never to finish? Will I be walking with nowhere to go? Lost, confused, and stricken with fear... what will I do now?
Attending my first support group - what does that mean anyway? I see people aimlessly stroll into a small sitting room, one by one, some supported by "caregivers" young people who have their entire life ahead to look forward to. Volunteers from various programs learning how to deal with the less fortunate. (Another dumb term.) Yet I am smug today, I am one of the more "normal" ones.
The man to my left - he is young - begins to share. Yes, well I... today, um, today... sometimes, all days... well you, yes...yes... He begins with determination, his failing brain trying to make sense. "Damm, I know what I want to say, but it just won't come out", he thinks.
For the last page and more poetry... see: writersgiftstop.com
Stan, thank you for giving yourself painfully in the memory of June... what a lovely name, and what a lovely love. Take care, keep going, and God Bless! Steve.
Liz Bachtle
February 15, 2011
Stan,
I just read your Valentine story. What a beautiful wife June is. You both had true love and respect for each other, something not seen much these days. God Bless you and your loved ones, may time heal your loss and blessed be the memories of your wonderful partner,best friend and wife, June.
Cathy Jones-Hatcher
December 1, 2010
I had the good fortune to stumble across Stan's website, honoring June, while researching this dreaded disease which is grasping at my own mother.I have read a good deal of the site and am grateful for the valuable information it contains, but also the chance to "get to know" June and Stan. I wrote a response to him after reading the archived letter that he had written to family and friends three years after June's initial diagnosis. I would like to share correspondance with you now:
Catherine Jones-Hatcher November 30 at 3:36pm
I continue to be drawn to June's website... it reminds me of reading a good book and not wanting to put it down.
Today, I read the letter to friends and family , advising them of her condition. In it, you talked about failing to see how this dreadful affliction could be part of God's plan, and stated that you did not believe it was so.
Years later, when you reflect on that statement, do you still feel that way? I couldn't help but react to it, because your site has been so helpful to me, and obviously to others. I was thinking that God must have known how you would process this challenge and had your work in this area predetermined for you.
The plan surely was grueling for you and your family, and so very difficult for June herself,... but surely you can see the "good' that has come from it. That theory certainly doesn't make you feel any less robbed by God, but knowing that you continue to have an "impact", and in her honor, must give you some solace. I truly feel like I knew her... and would have loved to be in her company!She must have FANS ALL OVER THE WORLD by now! LOL! count me as one!... and one of yours, Stan!
cheers... and keep up the good work!
Jeanne V
November 16, 2010
What a beautiful tribute to your wife and best friend (read in Nov. 14 Star Tribune.) God guides and supports us through much suffering and pain if we ask Him and you and June did that. It is clear that over the many years you were together you placed your trust in Him, and still do. Thank you for providing such a wonderful website for others. Alzheimer's is so far reaching and caregivers and family members need support as well as those who do the much needed research. June must be beaming in heaven as she sees how her memory touches the lives of so many others. God bless you Stan.
Jordan Skelcher
November 15, 2010
Stan-
Your words and thoughts of June and the love you two shared remind me so much of my grandparents. Several of my great-aunts and uncles have died from Alzheimers and one has been diagnosed for three years. Though I am not as closely related to the disease as you have been, you have my prayers.
I hope to find a love like yours and June's someday! I look forward to giving you great service! If not, dinner is on me!
Look forward to seeing you soon!
Sue Perko
November 14, 2010
Dear Mr. Berg - I just read this morning's paper with your tribute to June and once again (as in past years) I was riveted to the article and so moved by your profession of love for this remarkable lady. This year I was honored to march in Maria Shriver's March on Alzheimer's in Long Beach, CA. It was the first of her marches and hopefully it will be an annual thing and I would love to continue to participate if I can. I was one of a group of about 2000 that raised about $300,000 for research for this disease. As you probably know, Maria is very involved with Alzheimer's especially since her father suffers from it. I am afraid now that my mother is showing signs of similar problems and it's hard not to be able to talk to someone you loved to talk to as you used to. If I have my health, Lord willing, I will March again in Maria's March on Alzheimer's and I will include June's name in those I will be walking in honor/memory of. God bless you Mr. Berg and know that your tributes have touched me deeply.
Cindy Mellum
November 14, 2010
What an incredible dedication to June! I have read your postings in the Star Tribune the past few years and just today saw the site information. Thank you for sharing your history with me and others who visit your site. I feel that I have missed something special in my life for not having known her! I know several people who have been victims of this horrible disease and was astounded by the statistics you presented on your site. I will make an effort to build awareness and promote funding research. Thank you again for sharing your journey!
Rachel E
November 14, 2010
Stan, I read what you wrote in the paper. It was very sweet. Both you and June seem like such great people. I hope you have very happy holidays! :)
Donna Lentz
November 14, 2010
November 14 2010 I feel so sorry for your great loss. I lost someone dear to me with the same thing. He was my grandfather.
November 8, 2010
Today would have been your birthday. I miss you so much. You will always be in my heart. Love always, Julie
Courtney Dreon
September 12, 2010
This is a wonderful and beautiful site!! Thank you for sharing your story. I hope some day soon we will better understand this terrible disease.
Patricia Ledbetter
September 10, 2010
You have created a wonderful tribute to your wife and mother of your children. It will help so many people. I thank you and will remember your family and all those affected by this terrible disease.
Denise O'connell
August 28, 2010
Stan, this is a beautiful tribute. I look forward to hearing more about June every Monday
MAAN
August 19, 2010
hi
june must be a very wonderful woman may her sole rest in peace
GOD please save every one from any disease whether it is big or small
love and prayers for ur family..
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