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Jack Gillian Obituary

Jack Dempsey Gillian, 82, of 123 Pilch Road, Statesville, died Tuesday, Aug. 11, 2009, at Gordon Hospice House. He was born June 26, 1927, and was the son of the late John Gillian and Ida Cales Gillian. Mr. Gillian attended Sandstone School in Sandstone W.Va., and on Feb. 24, 1951, was married to Emmagene Cales Gillian, who preceded him in death in 2000. He was retired from John Boyle Co. as a machine operator. Mr. Gillian was a member of Command Baptist Church. Survivors include three daughters, Brenda Hopkins (Gene), and Sandra Gillispie (Lloyd), both of Statesville, and Jackie Wisocky (Rob), of Spencer; a grandson, Scottie Hopkins, of Statesville; two granddaughters, Kristie Lewis (David), and Brittany Gillian, both of Statesville; three great-granddaughters, Abigail Snook, Kaylee Lewis and Zoe Hopkins, all of Statesville; four great-grandsons, Zachary Lewis, Paxton Lewis, Ebin Perguson and Kaleb Hopkins, all of Statesville; a host of nieces and nephews; and his second family, the Cales family, who adopted him following the death of his parents. In addition to his wife, Mr. Gillian was preceded in death by five brothers, Donald Gillian, Robert Gillian, David Gillian, Luther Gillian and Romey Gillian; and two sisters, Atha Ward and Rosie Adkins. Funeral services will be conducted at 2 p.m. Saturday at Command Baptist Church, with Pastor Jim Morgan and Tony Fox officiating. Burial will follow in the church cemetery. The family will visit with friends from 6:30-8:30 p.m. this evening at Nicholson Funeral Home, and at other times at Mr. Gillian's home, at 123 Pilch Road, Statesville. Active pallbearers will be Zachary Lewis, David Lewis, Scottie Hopkins, Hank Cales, Bob Cales and Bob Haynes, along with an honorary pallbearer, Paxton Lewis. Nicholson Funeral Home is serving the family of Jack Gillian.
Published by Statesville Record & Landmark from Aug. 12 to Aug. 14, 2009.

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Cynthia Miller

August 30, 2009

Dear Jackie and all family,
Please know that I am very sorry for the loss of your dear Father. I was out of the country when your Dad passed away to Heaven or else I would have responded sooner. You are a kind and sweet lady Jackie and I know that this has been so hard for you.

Please know that your Dad's sweet spirit and fond memories will be with you always. He is not far away - so talk to him and allow yourself to grieve but also to smile. He would want you to be happy always. You are in my prayers. Blessings to you and yours.
Cindy Miller

Tom&Hazel Martin

August 15, 2009

We are truly sorry for the loss of your Father and my Uncle May the Lord always bless you all He is in a better place......Hazel and Tom

Alisa Davie

August 14, 2009

Dearest Jackie, I am so sorry, sending lots of prayers and hugs your way

Renae Beeker

August 14, 2009

Dearest Jackie and family...

After the loss of my daddy, a great friend told me, "Now you have a special angel in heaven". The thought of my daddy watching over me from heaven did give me comfort. My family and I are saying prayers for all of you at this most difficult and sad time. Be tender with yourselves.

August 14, 2009

August 14, 2009 Jackie, Sorry to hear about your Dad. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers. May God bless you . Gail Austin [China Grove, N.C.

Tabitha Holshouser

August 14, 2009

Jackie, Am so saddened to hear of your loss. Keep your memories close to your heart and know Keith and I are praying for you and your families. God Bless, Tabitha Holshouser

Mimi Morris

August 14, 2009

Jackie, I am sorry for your loss. Remember the good times and rejoice that he is with Our Lord now.

NY Hugs,
Mimi

MARY HALL

August 13, 2009

MY GREAT UNCLE WHO I THOUGHT OF OFTEN I WILL TRULY MISS. I AM SORRY THAT YOU LOST YOUR DAD. I WILL HOLD MY MEMORIES OF HIM AND HIS WIFE CLOSE TO MY HEART. I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT THERE WAS A GREAT REUNION IN HEAVEN ON TUESDAY MORNING. YOUR GREAT AUNT MARY HALL (ADKINS)

Joshua Edenburn

August 13, 2009

My family will be keep your family in our prayers

Ann & Mike Sherman

August 13, 2009

Jackie,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Cherish your memories.

Melissa McGlothlin

August 13, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Roberta Carter

August 13, 2009

I am very sorry for the lost of your dad.I has been a long time since I seen you guys.I am very sorry.This is sissy Rosa Jack sisters granddaughter/daughter whatever.
Roberta "Sissy", Greg Carter, James Cassie and Evan Adkins

Amy Cathcart

August 13, 2009

Jackie & Rob
My deepest sympathy at the passing of your father and father-in-law. You're in my prayers and I know God will see you and your family through.

August 13, 2009

Jackie, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Amy Whaley

Cynthia Nabors

August 13, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Buster Adkins

August 13, 2009

We are sorry for the loss of your Dad, I am glad we got to visit with Jack and his family. Our prawers are with your family. Buster and Eve

Fran Gruen

August 13, 2009

Sis I am so sorry to here about the passing of your dad. it is not easy. It will get easier . Just remember the good times. My prayers are with you. Love your Avon sis Fran

August 13, 2009

Sis I am so sorry to here about the passing of your dad. it is not easy. It will get easier . Just remember the good times. My prayers are with you. Love your Avon sis Fran

Ginny Alley

August 13, 2009

Jackie and her two sisters,

Just want you all to know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Know my friends and family are praying for you all too. May you be at peace with this and know he's in a much better place now.

God Bless you all,
Ginny

Joe, Cindy & Elizabeth Coleman

August 13, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Vickie Barnhardt

August 13, 2009

Jackie and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy at the passing of Mr. Gillian. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Angie Beaver

August 13, 2009

I am very sorry for the passing of your dad Jackie. During this very trying time find strength, peace and comfort in the Lord who will fill you with much more than you need. Take confort in knowing that your dad has been restored to a new and healthy body in Heaven and no longer suffers from any ailment. God Bless you and your family, and again I am sorry for your loss.

Jackie Wisocky

August 13, 2009

What Makes A Dad


A Dad is a person
who is loving and kind,
And often he knows
what you have on your mind.
He's someone who listens,
suggests, and defends.
A dad can be one
of your very best friends!
He's proud of your triumphs,
but when things go wrong,
A dad can be patient
and helpful and strong
In all that you do,
a dad's love plays a part.
There's always a place for him
deep in your heart.
And each year that passes,
you're even more glad,
More grateful and proud
just to call him your dad!
Thank you, Dad...
for listening and caring,
for giving and sharing,
but, especially, for just being you!

~Author Unknown~

I love you Dad! You will always be in my heart! Jackie

Kenneth & Michelle Bowden

August 12, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

August 12, 2009

Girls; Forgive me I don;t know you all. I will always remember jack as a teenager I'm not much younger than he.Jack would show up just anytime where he had been before he came to our house I don't know.I would come down but my health is not good.I'm on oxygen and could not be without it long enough to make the trip.I'm glad he is not suffering no more now. Sorry we have not kept in touch.
Retha Gillian Beard

sandra gillispie

August 12, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

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