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Beth LaLonde
October 7, 2020
It's 2020 and I still miss you dear friend. We shall meet again. I will recognize your smile and I know your arms will be wide open to greet me. I realize you couldn't say goodbye to me, since you really weren't okay with going. I love you kiddo.
Beth
Alana May
October 8, 2009
It's so hard to believe Renee has been gone a year.I think about her all the time.I pray that Julian will always remember his Momma and know she loved him very much.God Bless Fred & Julian
My thoughts are always with you both
Beth LaLonde
December 22, 2008
Renee and I have been friends since we were in second grade and as close as sisters could possibly be, but distance came between us as our adult lives unfolded. We knew no matter how long we went without seeing each other, we could always "catch up" just from where we met again. Oh how I miss you now my friend but I know I'll see you again. Your smile is with me and I can hear your voice. I don't remember you ever being angry even never at me. I will share all my memories with Julian and be sure he knows his momma. He will always be the "miracle baby" to me and you know how I love him too. I know you didn't think God would give him to you and then just take you away from him, but I know God has plans for you and you'll do us all more good from Heaven than you could have done on Earth anyway. We love you Renee. Now hold that babygirl and say hey to Grandma Pauline for me and your folks. Love you all.
Lisa Green Harris
November 6, 2008
Dear Fred,
I only recently read of the loss of your beautiful wife. There are no words that aptly express my sorrow for you and Julian. My hope is that you both find solce and comfort in her memory.
With love-
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john regensburg
November 4, 2008
so sorry to here of your lost fred an littil man god bless you friend
Bridgette Williams
October 26, 2008
Renee will be missed, no more emails or infrequent chats on the phone. The smiles, laughter and tears we had over your beautiful hair and head and the inspiration you were to me will always be remembered. May God Bless both Julian and Fred at this time.
Gayle Lanning
October 17, 2008
Julian, I loved your momma's smile. She smiled her brightest when she picked you up from the center; she loved you very much. To Fred: I can't imagine how much you will miss her.
Marilyn Smolen and son [née Anderton]
October 17, 2008
To all who admired, adored, and loved Renee, but especially to Fred and Julian, I extend my deepest heartfelt condolences. Since she was a little thing, way back in the 1960's, I too have admired, adored, and loved Renee.
From the time she gave herself that scar from using her daddy's razor, I knew she would grow into a formidable, revered, and cherished woman. I am sorry beyond words that her life was to be so short lived.
For a long while your memories will be painful, Fred, but in time they will sustain you. I hope that time comes to you soon. I believe it was her friend, Sharondia, who wrote in this guest book that Renee will survive and live on in her husband, Fred, and in her son, Julian, and the countless others who had the good fortune to love and be loved by Renee.
That too is my belief and I hope those who loved Renee will never let her name and their memories of times shared with her fall silent on their lips. Please remember Renee in your heart, but also with your words. Do not lock her away in the past; speak of her often permitting the gift of her life and the gifts from her living to be in the present and in the future...especially for Fred and Julian.
God bless you and keep you throughout eternity, Renee. My life was enriched through your living.
With Love and With Gratitude,
Ted Brazil
October 17, 2008
Fred and Julian-
Renee will be missed by all. She had a great outlook on life, always thinking positive. Renee was lucky to have you in her life. You guys loved her and took good care of her.
Hope to see you soon
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a 1,000 winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled light
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.
Anonymous
Kevin & Judy Kilgour
October 17, 2008
God is great, God is good, know & understand he "NEVER" makes a mistake, Renee is in the hands of the Lord, another precious angel experiencing an Eternal Life free from all pain, she was a courageous individual, who had a zest for life, love's her family & although, no longer here on this earth, she is with her Lord, watching over her precious family & waiting for the day when they to can experience the joy of Eternal Life, God bless Fred & Julian & know that the Lord is answering prayer's daily & we are praying for each one of you to live a life filled with the many blessings that the Lord has in store for each one of you!! NEVER UNDER-ESTIMATE THE POWER OF PRAYER..... Julian when you look up in the sky, you find the brightest star, that will be your mom & you say good night to her, I promise you she's listening, she's with you everyday!! Fred how blessed Renee has been to have such a wonderful, loyal husband, may God continue to bless you!!
We love you all,
Sharondia Smith
October 16, 2008
I met renee while working as a receptionist for the Department of Surgery at MCV in 2000. She always called me "beautiful". She complimented me on my smile and easy going demeanor. Yet, she did not know that her smile was brighter than mine. She was a very strong woman who believed to the end that she would survive. And, she was right. Her legacy and spirit will survive through her son and through all of the people whom she made feel special on the way. Renee you will be missed but not forgotten. Julian God will protect you and keep all harm from you. Your mom is watching over you. Love,
Sharondia
Melody Maddox Snelson
October 15, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. Renee and I were high school friends and have run into each other around Mechanicsville from time to time over the years. Whenever I would see her, it felt like no time had passed since our last conversation, even if it had been years. She was a beautiful person. My prayers are with you all, especially her husband and son, as you go through this very difficult time.
Pattie Ollis
October 15, 2008
Fred and Julian, We will miss Renee as she was a life force and a precious soul to everyone who knew her. I can't fit on this page everything she meant to all of us. She is at peace. We will carry her in our heart. God be with you.
Joanne Rosel
October 14, 2008
As a new Sales Rep at MCV, Renee was the first person to befriend me with her generous smile and warm, welcoming spirit. We shared the bond of easy friendship and I could always drop in to see her sunny face and trade funny stories about LIFE in general. She loved life and the best word to describe her is "fun-loving". She adored her son, Julian, and described her husband, Fred, as "wonderful". She was a loyal friend and was always accepting of you, despite your individual flaws and imperfections. She saw the good in people. We were blessed to know her and she has left behind a huge void....she will be greatly missed by many. Renee, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
shannon wells
October 14, 2008
To the Perry Family:
I just wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss of a truly good person and mother.Renee is in heaven watching over Julian and Fred,when the sun is shining you know she is smiling down on us.We will truly miss her.
Tiffany Goodson
October 14, 2008
Renee was always a fighter. She saw the good in everyone. She always lit up the room when she entered it...her personality was so great. She treated me like she had known me forever. I saw her when she was sick but she never let on that she was feeling bad always the brave side out. I admired her toughness she told me to always hold my head high no matter how hard they were hitting. I try but she mastered it. Renee I will surely miss you and I will pray for Fred and Julian. You are home with your mom and brother now looking over your family. May Julian be as brave as you when he grows up. Sincerely Tiffany
Melanie White
October 14, 2008
My sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Renee. She has touched so many lives with her kind words and dynamic personality..what an inspiration she has been to me and so many people.
Ede Fenick
October 14, 2008
She called me "Tinkerbell" because of my running around at work; her smile lit up everywhere she went;she loved life and was a fighter for it; she was Julian's devoted "momma", Fred's loving wife and my friend. My love and condolences to Renee's family.
Alana May
October 14, 2008
My Family and I would Like to express our sincere heartfelt sympathy to Renee's Family and also to her friends.She was a beautiful person inside & out.I will never forget her smile or her honesty."To Live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die" May your heart and Soul find peace & happiness.God Bless you All...Alana & Billy May
Linda Eichler Rauguth
October 13, 2008
My dearest childhood best friend, my heart and prayers are with you as you start your travel with the Lord. May God be with your husband and your little boy in this difficult time.
Peg Hill-Callahan
October 13, 2008
I met Renee while working on a research project that includes her team at VCU. She was a delight! She had a wicked sense of humor and such a strong spirit. Even when she was clearly very sick, she remained optimistic and determined. She fought the good fight. My condolences to her family and her friends and colleagues.
Christy Topalu
October 13, 2008
Fred and Julian
Our love, prayers and thoughts are with both of you.
Christy and Nancy Topalu
Midlothian Virginia
Charlotte Hofmann
October 13, 2008
will always remember her pretty smile and friendly personality, will greatly miss her here at MCV.
Charlotte
Andrea Herman
October 13, 2008
Renee had one of the strongest spiritis I know. She was continually optimistic no matter how sick she was. May her spirit rest now.
Amber Cox (Tatum)
October 13, 2008
Renee will be missed greatly, she was a kind warm spirit whose presence will linger on. She smiled through it all and will forever smile down on those who knew and loved her. My sympathies to her family and beautiful little boy. May he always remember how wonderful his mother was.
The law firm of Kimberly A. Pinchbeck, PC
October 13, 2008
Our sincere condolences. Renee was a very special person.
Aaron and Rebecca Perry Family
October 13, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Hugh Brazil
October 12, 2008
If love could build a highway
If memories could build a bridge
We would walk to heaven and bring you home again.
We love you Renee'.
Eddie
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