Jean Tanner Williams

Jean Tanner Williams

Jean Williams Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Oct. 15 to Oct. 16, 2008.
WILLIAMS, Jean Tanner, of Lakewood Manor in Henrico County, died on Monday, October 13, 2008. She was the wife of Donald E. Williams, retired Commis-sioner, Department of Motor Vehicles. On August 7, they were married 54 years. Born September 19, 1932 in Edenton, N.C., and named Jean Calmes Tanner, she was the daughter of Fielding Felix Tanner and Lillian Layton Tanner, both deceased. At the age of six, she and her brother, Fielding Felix Tanner Jr., now deceased, moved with their family to Cohutta, Ga. She graduated from Berry College, Mount Berry, Ga., with a B.A. degree in Science and Secondary Education. Before retiring in 1990, she was a science teacher for 27 years with 19 years at Tuckahoe Middle School in Henrico County. She taught in Acworth, Ga., Roanoke and Richmond, Va. She is survived by her husband, Donald Eugene Williams. She had two sons, David Emory Williams, deceased in 1992, and is survived by her son, Dr. Robert Layton Williams and his wife, Ingrid, of Aiken, S.C. She had three grandsons, Ryan Tanner Williams, Derek Matthew Williams and Andrew David Williams. She leaves behind a nephew, Huntley Tanner and his wife, Elaine; and their two sons, Brandon and Hunter. Other family members include an uncle, Aubrey Guy Tanner and his wife, Martha, of Tupelo Miss.; an aunt, Etsu Tanner of Niceville, Fla.; and many cousins. Jean was an active member of Derbyshire Baptist Church, the Koinonia Bible class, Hermitage Country Club, Investment Club, Henrico County Retired Teachers Association, Goochland Snooty Fox Society, Society of Versailles-the Calmes Family and past member of the Goochland Woman's Club. Jean enjoyed traveling with her husband, playing Bridge, playing golf, taking museum tours, antiques and collectibles, reading, bird watching and nature. She had a love for flowers and gardening, and especially enjoyed her many relatives and friends. The family of Jean Williams would like to extend their deepest gratitude and love to all of the friends and family who send cards and emails, and spent time in visits and phone calls. They would like to express gratitude to the Bon Secours Hospice staff, the members and ministerial staff of Derbyshire Baptist Church, the Lakewood Manor residents and staff, and her physician, Dr. Randall J. West and his staff. After a five-year battle with cancer, when illness made it too difficult for her to compete, she could say, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." (2 Timothy 4:7). The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday, October 16, 2008, at the Parham Chapel, Woody Funeral Home, 1771 N. Parham Road, Richmond. Her funeral service will be held at Derbyshire Baptist Church on Friday, October 17, 2008, at 1 p.m. Interment will follow on the next day, Saturday, October 18, 2008 at 12 noon, in Edenton, N.C., at Beaver Hill Cemetery, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Ave. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to Derbyshire Baptist Church, 8800 Derbyshire Road, Richmond, Va. 23229. Condolences may be registered at www.mem.com.


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October 23, 2008

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October 22, 2008

Nancy Sweeney posted to the memorial.

October 21, 2008

Barbara Payne posted to the memorial.

laney and kermit layton

October 23, 2008

october 23rd:.. Don, we are thinking of you daily still. Even though Jean's hardest days are over, we know that you will have many hard ones ahead. Take comfort in knowing you did ALL humanly possible to make the last years "good" for her in whatever she asked of you. She's now in a wonderful place.

Nancy Sweeney

October 22, 2008

Commissioner Williams,
It's hard to understand a loss like yours but hope you know that others are thinking of you. Love lives on forever in the heart. May you find comfort in memories and strength in each other's love throughout this very difficult time.

Barbara Payne

October 21, 2008

Mr. Williams,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Bob Tingle

October 21, 2008

It was wonderful that you had fifty four years together. This must give you many, many pleasant memories.

Ronald C. Spiggle

October 17, 2008

Don,
I was saddened to hear of your wife's death. I often remember the my days with the Transportation Safety Commission and your visits to Appomattox for golf and relaxtion at Monte's cabin. May God take care of you at this time.
( I was Former Mayor of Appomattox)

Martha Kelly

October 17, 2008

Dear Mr. Williams please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family during this time. There are no words ... just know I am thinking of you.

Judy Johnston

October 16, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mary & Pete Jerman

October 16, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Rosalie Smith

October 16, 2008

I am so sorry to have learned about your wife's death. Hang-in-there.
Remember the Lord is holding your hand.

Cheryl Sowers

October 16, 2008

Mr. Williams, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lee Peebles Bereavement Counselor

October 16, 2008

On behalf of all the staff at Bon Secours Hospice and Palliative Care we wish to extend to the friends and family our deepest sympathy and ongoing support. We hope and pray you will find peace with time. Please feel free to contact me anytime if I can be of help.

Ambrose Woodroof

October 16, 2008

Don, I was so very sorry to hear about Jean.My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.May God bless you and give you comfort.

Peter Walls

October 16, 2008

Don,
Meredith and I have only fond memories of our evening together at the Club and visits to your home; Jean was always a most gracious hostess.
Peace be with you,

BILL JACKSON

October 16, 2008

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear wife Jean.
Please know that you and your family are in Pat and my prayers at this sad time.
However, take comfort in knowing that you will see her again!!
Take care,
Bill and Pat Jackson

Donald Robertson

October 15, 2008

Commissioner, What a wonderful woman we have lost. I remember with fondness the times that I had driving your wife to events or just to meet you. I thank you for the time I had to talk with Mrs. Williams and learned so much about your family. She was so easy to talk to and I will always remember her for that. She will be missed and I know there are no words to explain your loss. Please remember that so many people are with you at this sad time. She is now in a better place and able to be free of the earthly life. I know from your life that you will be with her again some day. May God be with you at this time.

Charlotte Roop

October 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Martha Ann Quillian

October 15, 2008

Don and family,
Jean was the epidomy of a Chriatian lady and will be greatly missed. We will keep you in our prayers during this sad time and hope that you will find peace in all the good memories you have of her.

Ab and Martha Ann Quillian

Sherry McBride

October 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Meredith, Craig, & Layton

October 15, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Cindy Hubbard/DMV Family

October 15, 2008

Dear Mr Williams,
You have my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time but take comfort knowing that God is with you and has you in his loving arms.

Jack Rouse

October 15, 2008

Mr. Williams, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jean & George Dungan

October 15, 2008

Mr. Williams, We were saddened to read of Jean's death in this morning's paper. But, we know that she is now free from all suffering and enjoying the beauties of her new home! Our love and prayers.

Linda Myers

October 15, 2008

Don, Remembering all the good times with Jean and our special VADA group.

Jane Alphin

October 15, 2008

"Commissioner", my thoughts are of you today as I have learned of the passing of your beloved wife, Jean. I will always remember her smile, kindness and hospitality toward others. Please know you are remembered by so many DMV friends.
My best to you and your family.

Milton & Esther Dufford

October 15, 2008

Jean is fondly remembered by us and own lives have been enriched by having known and loved her.

Mary Kaye Walker

October 15, 2008

Don and Family, I am truly sorry to hear of Jean's passing. She was such a wonderful woman. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May God's love comfort all of you during the days ahead. Mary Kaye Walker (DMV)

Howard & Gail Bogner

October 15, 2008

Donald, our prayers are with you and Robert and will always remember Jean.

We Love you and Pray for you.

Nancy Christian

October 15, 2008

Dear Mr. Williams & family,
I am so sorry to hear of Jean's passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. She will be greatly missed by all.

us Don will know

October 14, 2008

Thinking about you Don....Jean is healthy and happy! She's with David, Peanut, Lillian and Tanner. See you tomorrow..... God bless,
us
We definitley will help take care of you!

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