Carolyn Hodges Cromwell

Carolyn Hodges Cromwell

Carolyn Cromwell Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Dec. 14 to Dec. 19, 2008.
CROMWELL, Carolyn Hodges, 61, of Midlothian, born in Roanoke, Va., to the late C. Andrew Hodges and Eleanor Graff Hodges, passed away after a long battle with a brain tumor on December 12, 2008. She is survived by her loving husband of 29 years, Robert "Bob" Cromwell Jr.; her children, George Richardson Turner III and his life partner, Jim Harrison, of San Diego, Calif., David Scott Turner and his wife, Elizabeth, of Vienna, Elizabeth Hodges Cromwell of Arlington and Robert Joshua Cromwell of Midlothian; three sisters, Mary H. Coleman and her husband, John, Margaret H. Furr and Ann G. Hodges; her brother, Lt. Col. C. Andrews Hodges Jr. and his wife, Jo Ann; sister-in-law, Joan Cromwell Hammond; also two grandchildren, Andrew Willis Turner and Clayton Graham Turner. Carolyn will be missed by all of those whose lives she touched. She was employed by the Bank of Virginia as a branch manager and had been a pre-school teacher at Salisbury Presbyterian Church. She was a devoted member of Manakin Episcopal Church where she was a Sunday School teacher and served on the Altar Guild and Vestry. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Friday at the Huguenot Chapel Woody Funeral Home, 1020 Huguenot Rd. Funeral services will be held Saturday, 11 a.m., at the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer. Interment at Manakin Episcopal Church Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial gifts be made to the Manakin Episcopal Church.


This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Alice Clark

December 8, 2021

There is not a week that goes by that I don“t think of Carolyn. Her smile, her laughter and her quick wit. Miss her so much

Alice Clark

December 8, 2020

I think about Carolyn each time I pass her grave at Manakin Church. She was such a wonderful, fun person. I miss her. Hopefully she has found some bridge buddies and wine drinkers in heaven!

Patty Love

December 9, 2009

I am so glad that the guest book is still going---I wanted to say to all the Cromwells and Turners that you all are always on my mind. I pray for you to have a wonderful holiday and keep the good memories---All of the Bridge girls certainly have many, many wonderful times with Carolyn!!!

Wishing your the best of the season.

Love,
Patty Love

Linda Taney

January 3, 2009

Cromwell Family: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, Carolyn was in my 9th grade science class, and was not only smart but so much fun to be around. I don't think I ever saw her without a smile on her face.

Take care,

Linda Garland Taney
Patrick Henry HS Class of 65

Debbie & Bill Jones

December 23, 2008

Dear Bob, Richard, David, Beth and Josh, Margaret, Mary, Ann and Drew,
I am not sure where to begin. Even now, even knowing she is at peace, tears well up in my eyes! I miss her so very much! I know she is in a wonderful place with God, Jesus, her parents and my parents, Bob's parents & now Bill's mom & so many more.......but I know we will all miss her terribly! Even in the toughest times...she was always so sweet, loving, thankful and caring to others. I can still hear her say, "Thank you soooo much!" and her delight when we took her to Chick Fillet or brought it to her. Our special moments reading the "Daily Word" and saying a prayer when I sat with her during her illness or when my dad died, she was the 1st one at my door step with food and she helped to organize food for the rest of the week! We have laughed until our sides hurt, sang into candlesticks, cucumbers, salt and pepper shakers etc. until our hubbies brought us our coats and pocketbooks to take us home (or as Kenny Boerner always said, "Say Goodnight Marylou" so the guys used that line too!) We hugged and cried with each other when we hurt. We've shared the joy (& a couple defeats...but I am sure only one or two) of David's sports teams, all his girlfriends, his move to Chicago and happiness of his engagement and wedding to Liz, celebrated the birth of their 1st son with dinner and champagne before she flew to Chicago.....we shared the enjoyment of Richard's beautiful piano playing, being the 1st son off to college the same year his baby sister was born and Richard's awesome cd of music he wrote and his meeting Jim who we just love! We shared the excitement of Carolyn being pregnant with Beth and preparing for the baby shower, the stenciling of Beth's nursery and her birth, the quilt to match her nursery, Beth's 1st steps and then the big step into high school, 1st dates and college. We shared the excitement of her being pregnant with my Godson Josh, and his birth, all of his 1st steps, his girlfriends and playing sports and his senior year in High School, graduation and his graduation party and now his senior year in college. Not to mention, Bo, Dewey, and the 2 latest cockers, Bob's surgery, Bob & Carolyn's 25th wedding anniversary, the CA. Raisins, Witch, Pumpkin & Harpo Halloween outfits, several fun trips to Smith Mountain Lake, Playing Nertz with cards on the floor (which none of us can remeber how to play) and her many spills at parties (which apparently is a trait Beth has taken on huh Beth...) Carolyn being my bed buddy at the Watkins Beach house & Atlantic City & her laughing about me trying to hug her during the night in my sleep(sorry Bob...I didn't know..I was asleep), block parties, tacky parties, karoke parties, playing games, scavenger hunts and dancing. Also participating in a Toga birthday party and so many other crazy "Birthday Group" get togethers. .....oh and shopping for Bob's surprise 50th birthday!!! I thought Carolyn, Jan and I were going to get kicked out of that shop with all our giggles!! After 29 years of being neighbors and 28 years of being good friends....I feel as though we knew each other forever. Your wife, mom, sister and our friend was funny, had a great laugh that made you chuckle even when you didn't think you were in the mood, she was always caring, loving, smiling, fun, supportive and a woman of great faith......and has 4 children with many of those same traits! I could go on and on & I guess I have already done that...but most of all to me.....she was one of the dearest friends I have known and will ever know. I will miss her forever. She loved all of you so very much. Bob's unbelievable devotion to her has touched all of our lives in so many ways. Carolyn's unbelievable devotion and love for her family and faith during her illness...did the same. We are all better people for having Carolyn in our lives and that is a beautiful thing to carry with you all always! We are always here for each of you. Just stop by or pick up the phone and we'll be there! So a toast to our "Dancing Queen"...she will forever be in our hearts and thoughts. We love you all! Debbie, Bill, Jimmy, Cameron and Keegan

Louise Neborak

December 23, 2008

Bob, Richard, David, Beth & Josh,
I worked with Carolyn at preschool for 5 years and loved every minute of our association. She was a true joy to work with and a I considered myself lucky to have her as a friend as well. She always had a good word for everyone -- even those wayward children. The soft spoken way she had with everyone was her gift to all of us and something we will all remember through time.

My thoughts are with you during this sad time. Just know that she is looking down on all of us with that wonderful smile.

Ron Ayers

December 21, 2008

Our deepest sympathy.
My father, Frye Ayers, was roomates with Carolyn's father, Claude Hodges in the 1920s at Va Tech. The two familys would visit together on summer weekends, often at our farm in Moneta.

My brothers and I spanned the ages of the Hodges sisters. I can remember leading the horse so that each member of the family could have a ride. Those are wonderful childhood memories.
Ron Ayers & Susan Loy

Cindy Meier

December 19, 2008

I am very sorry to hear about Carolyn. Her picture brought back memories of Carolyn and South Roanoke, Crystal Springs, Highland Park, and PHHS. PHHS Class of 1965 will miss her, especially at reunion time.

Mary Ann McCoy

December 19, 2008

To Carolyn's family, my deepest sympathy.
Life just seemed better when in her presence. I feel fortunate to have been one of her many, many friends.
I was in her bridge group 17 years and loved every minute spent with her. My we had good times together whether at one of our homes or on a trip.. Carolyn could always make us smile and laugh. Love radiated from her.
We have lost a precious "earth" angel.
With great sympathy,

Diane Thomas

December 19, 2008

Dear Bob, Richard, David, Beth, and Josh,
We are so sorry to hear about your wonderful mom and our friend. We have so many great memories of her, as well as, all of you when we lived in Roxshire. She was so much fun to be around and talk to. What a great mother!! Your memories will be great ones. We have been praying for all of you as you go through this time. Please know that we are thinking of all of you. Our sympathy goes out to your entire family.

Sincerely,
Diane, Bill, and Will Thomas

George Turner

December 18, 2008

Bob, Richard, David, Beth and Josh,

Carolyn's loss will leave this world with one less "gyro". She was always the leveling force in so many lives. I know you all feel immense pain and loss, but you can rest comfortably with so many great memories of how many lives she touched. I have known her since she was 15 years old, and she will be truly missed. On behalf of Cathy and me, we send you our loving thoughts and prayers.

"George/Dad" and Cathy

Patty Love

December 17, 2008

To Bob, Richard, David, Beth and Josh,
You have been in my heart and prayers during these most difficult times. Gracious and kind are two of the words that come to my mind when I think of Carolyn. But by no means are her qualities limited to these. From high school homeroom memories to now and through her illness she has been the example of the person we all aspire to be. She has always been a courageous and gracious lady who thanked everyone for the smallest of kindnesses. Most of all though I remember the fun and laughter and great and loyal friendship--never an unkind word about anyone, able to laugh at herself and take genuine joy in all aspects of life.
So rest sweet angel we miss you terribly.

Pam Stump

December 17, 2008

Carolyn is truly one of the good people God put on this earth. There are so many fun memories..........she was my roomie on all trips over the years the bridge club traveled. We shared white russians and walked in the rain in NYC laughing so hard we scared everyone. Carolyn read the NYC phone book and map of Manhatten until it was in shreds. I loved and love her still because she will always be in our hearts. I know an angel is looking out for us left here and will pave the way forward. Our love to Bob, Richard, David, Beth, Josh and the rest of Carolyn's family. With love, Pam and Barry

Alice Clark

December 17, 2008

Carolyn will continue to live in spirit with the bridge group. But I will miss her infectious laughter and gracious manner.
Whenever I hear karaoke or the words "Asti Spumante" I will think of Carolyn.
My love to Bob, Beth, Josh, Richard and David.

Dana Kuhlen

December 17, 2008

I can recall different times throughout my life when I was lucky to get to know and spend time with Mrs. Cromwell. I can remember my childhood when I first became friends with David. I will always remember how sweet and kind Mrs. Cromwell was to all of David's friends. Eliz's friends and I were fortunate to spend time with Mrs. Crowell at various events in preparation for David and Eliz.'s wedding. She touched the lives of so many of us with her kind words, thoughts, and prayers. She was a dear woman who was lucky to have such a wonderful family. We will miss her.
Dana Schwartz Kuhlen & family

Amy Fadool

December 16, 2008

Bob, Richard, David, Beth and Josh...
Please know that you all are, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers. Your mom was an amazing person, and that is evident in how amazing each one of her children are. Words cannot truly express my sorrow, but know that my thoughts are with you all at this time, and always.

Mary Johnson

December 16, 2008

Bob, Richard, David, Sara and Josh
We are all deeply saddened by the loss of Carolyn. She was an amazing person with a courageous spirit. Although she suffered for some time, we are all blessed with the fond memories of her engaging personality and beautiful smile. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the entire family during this difficult time.
With Love,
Irma Holland (aunt)
Mary Burwell, Terry and Bobby (Holland)

Tony Fadool

December 16, 2008

Carolyn first graced my life at Bank of Virginia some 25 years ago. I was touched then by her warm caring spirit and delighted years later that we would have a family connection through David and Elizabeth. What a joy she has been to her family and friends and she will be sorely missed. Winnie and I extend our heartfelt sympathy and love to all of her wonderful family.

Jocelyn and Lewis Williams

December 16, 2008

We are saddened to hear of Carolyn's passing. What a beautiful woman, taken from her family too early in life. May her memories live on forever through stories you share and photos.

Harper and Kathy Alexander

December 16, 2008

Bob:
Kathy and I offer our sincere condolences to you and your family on Carolyn's passing. She was taken from us much too soon but take comfort in the fact that she is at peace after her courageous fight and that in time the warm memories of your life together will ease the pain of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Samantha Hendricks

December 16, 2008

Our thoughts are with you Josh, and family,
~Hendricks Family

Sharolyn Smith

December 15, 2008

Bob,
Please accept my sincere sympathy on the passing of your wife. Although she suffered for a long time and this moment may seem like a blessing, it is still a grave loss for you. Life is never quite the same when she is no longer present, and I am sorry for the hardship you are experiencing.
I will hold you and your family in my thoughts and prayers as you move through the process of grieving and healing. Please know that there are many like me who are thinking of you.
With warm regards,

Laura Swoboda

December 15, 2008

Dear Uncle Bob, Richard, David, Beth and Josh,

My thoughts and prayers are with you! I was blessed to have Carolyn as my aunt, and will truly cherish all of the fond memories I have of her. My love to all of you! Laura

Chris Morrow

December 15, 2008

Bob - all of us here in the Chesapeake branch are saddened by the passing of Carolyn. Knowing that she now has a perfect existence without anymore earthly struggles is comforting. Our prayers and thoughts are with you as you continue forward.

Kim Onder

December 14, 2008

Carolyn was my daughter's first preschool teacher. She was pretty, gracious, patient and kind. I was so sorry to learn that she had been ill and am very sad to read that she is gone. We will always have her picture and our memories. God bless all of you as you comfort each other with your memories of her.

melissa nice

December 14, 2008

YOU were an amazing person and I loved you with all my heart -melissa

Butch Lindsey

December 14, 2008

Sorry for your lost,she will be missed but remmember the good times and keep happy thoughts..

Jennifer Little

December 14, 2008

To Carolyn's family, especially to Bob, Richard, David, Beth, and Josh:

You are the epitome of the strength and immeasurable, unconditional love of a family.

Carolyn always took such good care of her family, and of people generally, throughout her life. You in turn were there to take care of her, and love her through her illness, and give her comfort every hour of the day and night.

Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you always. I hold very fond memories of Carolyn, and of all of you as a family, in my heart.

With love,
Jennifer Little

Pattie Migliore

December 14, 2008

Mr. Cromwell and Family,
We hold All of You close in hearts and prayers.
May God Bless Each of You during this time of sorrow with His Love Divine.

Sincerely,
Pino and Pattie Migliore

Larry Brooks

December 14, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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