Paul Nelson Massey

Paul Nelson Massey

Paul Massey Obituary

Published by Vincent Funeral Home - Providence Forge on Feb. 19, 2009.
MASSEY, Paul Nelson, 82, died February 17, 2009. He was preceded in death by his parents, William S. and Blanche Milby Massey; three brothers, Hersey, Ashley, and Samuel Massey; and three sisters, Ethlyn Moore, Gladys Rodgers and Frances Ohlson. Mr. Massey was a member of West Point United Methodist Church where he served on several committees. He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Florence Thomas Massey; his daughter, Carol M. Didlake and son-in-law, W.T. "Bill"; two grandchildren, Tommy Didlake and his wife, Kathy, Cindy Turner and her husband, Andy; six great-grandchildren, Brady and Lauren Didlake, Emily, Savannah, Kayley & Lyndsey Turner, all of Mechanicsville; two sisters, Ruth Jenkins of West Point, and Marie Malcomb of Richmond; a brother, Albert Massey of Staunton; and numerous nieces and nephews. Mr. Massey was a native of King & Queen County, where he was raised with his 10 brothers and sisters. He served in the U.S. Army and was a Ruritan. He was a devoted supporter of the College of William & Mary and their athletic departments. In 2007 he was made an Honorary Alumnus of the college, which he cherished greatly. Mr. Massey was employed by Whitmore Chevrolet and Taylor & Harrison Chevrolet for a total of 50 years. During his career, he earned the Legions of Leaders award for selling passenger cars in the district. It is estimated that he sold over 13,500 vehicles during his career. Funeral services will be held on Friday, 11 a.m., at the West Point United Methodist Church, 1020 Main Street, West Point, Va., with interment following in Beulah Wesleyan Cemetery, Saluda, Va. The family will receive friends from 3 to 4 and 7 to 8:30 p.m. tonight at the Vincent Funeral Home, 9923 Pocahontas Trail, Providence Forge, Va. Memorial gifts may be made to the West Point United Methodist Church-Building Fund, P.O. Box 610, West Point, Va. 23181, or to the Hospice House & Support Care, 4445 Powhatan Parkway, Williamsburg, Va. 23188. Condolences can be registered at www.vincentfh.com.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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March 6, 2009

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February 22, 2009

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February 21, 2009

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Suzanne Alvis Bisczat

March 6, 2009

Mrs. Massey, I don't believe I ever had the pleasure of meeting you, but Mr. Massey was a dear and sweet man who always had a smile on his face when I would see him at W&M events. My mother spoke so fondly of him, as she purchased a number of vehicles from him over the years. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time of sadness.

Betsy Guy

February 22, 2009

Florence and family: I am so sorry for your loss. As you will know, Paul was a great friend to all. I have been out of town. I called today, hope to get in touch with you soon. My prayers are with you.
God Bless. Betsy

Billy & Yvonne Bradby

February 21, 2009

We were sorry to hear of your loss. We knew Paul from Taylor & Harrison. He and my dad worked there together for many years and we purchased quite a few vehicles from him. Paul was such a kind and caring person. He would do anything to help you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow and may you take comfort in knowing that he is in a better place.

Neal Whitehead

February 21, 2009

I was sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I worked with him for many years at Taylor & Harrison. He was a great person and will be missed. My prayers are with you.

Jesse Holman

February 21, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Paul was such a kind person and a true Virginia Gentleman. Paul always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say to you. Paul also was a customer of mine at Fairfield National Bank and Central Fidelity Bank over many years. Paul and my family had fun when it came to buying a car. Paul always would work things out for you and save you money on the deals. He will be missed.

Jesse & Becky Holman
Sandston, Virginia.

Cindy Carlton

February 20, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

February 20, 2009

I am sorry for your loss please know that
God cares for your loss also

Maggie Haynes

February 19, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Gloria Couch Daniel

February 19, 2009

Florence and family,
So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was a fine man. He always had the nicest things to say whenever we saw him. (We bought several cars from him.)
Take care and know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Gloria & Gene Daniel

Cherie Pugh

February 19, 2009

Florence,
Paul will be greatly missed but I know he is at peace. I hope you will also have peace in your life.

Marie Guthrie

February 19, 2009

To the Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul was such a kind and caring gentleman. May you find comfort because he is now at peace.
Marie

Arnold G. Rodgers (Nephew)

February 19, 2009

Florence, Carol and Family,
We are very sad today and we pray God will give you compfort. Paul was a man of integrity and he loved people. God will welcome him home.

Lisa Hornsby

February 19, 2009

Oh how I'll miss that charming smile on Sunday mornings, not to mention my wonderful hugs. Florence - be strong, as I know you are, and I'll be looking out for you over the coming months to see if there's any way I can be of help to you.
With much love and prayers,

Derwin Cox

February 19, 2009

Ruth,
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Paul was a true gentleman.

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