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Patricia Milhado Obituary

Published by Morrissett Funeral and Cremation Service on Mar. 1, 2009.

Milhado, Patricia "Smokey", 52, of Richmond, went to be with the Lord on Wednesday, February 25, 2009. She is survived by her companion of 16 years, Ross Griffin; daughters, Nicole Milhado, Deborah Morse and her fiancÂ‚, Michael Baines; sons, Andrew Griffin, Chris Griffin; sisters, Jean Horrell, Carolyn Manuel. The family will receive friends 4 to 5 p.m. Friday, March 6, 2009 at Morrissett Funeral Home, 6500 Iron Bridge Rd. (Rte. 10). A celebration-of-life service will follow at 5 p.m. Interment is private. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations be made to the National Breast Cancer Foundation, Inc., 2600 Network Blvd., Suite 300, Frisco, Texas. 75034.

This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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February 23, 2019

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February 23, 2019

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23 Entries

Dee Dee Pinkney

February 23, 2019

I didn't know your mother, but I believe she had to be an an amazing woman just because of the way you are. And she had to be a wonderful mother because you are. Love you guys.

Deborah Baines

February 23, 2019

Miss you every day, Mom.

TANYA RHEA

February 25, 2011

SMOKEY YOU WERE MY MOM DAY IN AND DAY OUT... WHENEVER I NEEDED GUIDANCE, I COULD ALWAYS COME TO YOU FOR THE RIGHT ANSWER...WHEN I LEARNED OF YOUR PASSING....ALL I COULD DO WAS CRY ON YOUR FRONT DOOR STEP... YOU WILL BE SO REMEMBERED, THROUGH US, DEB AND NICOLE, OUR CHILDREN WILL KNOW AND LOVE TO HEAR STORIES OF YOU... MEELAH ALREADY LOVED YOU. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DEARLY!! YOUR MEMORY WILL LIVE ON LIKE THE LIGHT THAT SHINES IN OUR HEART FOR YOU. LOVE YOU MA

carolyn manuel

January 10, 2011

as your birthday nears thars not a day that gos by i thank of u, your always in my hart and sole.i always wender when the pain will stop,but iknow it never will beacuse i will always miss u.i love you.

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Clarence

March 1, 2010

I wish I had been able to spend more time with Smokey. During the few times I was able to visit with her and Ross, it was clear to me that she was a vital and powerful woman, a positive influence on those around her.

Deborah Morse

September 17, 2009

Miss Me, But Let Me Go

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free

Miss me a little - but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me - but let me go

For this is a journey that we must all take
And each must go alone
It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home

When you are lonely, and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me - but let me go

Anon

http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/smokey

I miss you, Mom. Hope we're making you proud :) Love you.

September 16, 2009

i miss u every day i have no one to talk to i miss u with all my hart save me a place near u i love u so much it hurts. love u your little sister carolyn.

Diane Gilmore

March 18, 2009

Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. By reading your words in the website, I know your mother touched your lives and the lives of many others in so many ways. Let those precious memories get you through the difficult times ahead. I am also touched by your mother and I've never met her...what an inspirational person she was and still is...yet she is now in the arms of our Heavenly Father. She is your angel and will always look over her children and loved ones. God Bless you all.

I am Michael's cousin...Diane Gilmore

Brandy Yager

March 10, 2009

I really cannot believe it. Nicole, Deborah, Otis, and everyone - I am so so so sorry for your loss. Growing up, your mom was invinsible to me. I have so many memories with you Nicole and your mom. You were the friend with the mom that we didn't dare try to lie to ... she always knew what we were up to :-) Man I miss her. My last memory is seeing you guys at Applebee's, and the two of you sat down and talked with me and my mom for a while. So many times I've driven right past Lawnwood Drive and contemplated over and over about taking that turn and stopping by to see your mom, but was too worried that I'd catch her at a bad time. I will always have a million memories to think back on. Thank you for the memorial site. The pictures are a comfort to look at and brought tears to my eyes with a smile on my face. I love you guys. I love you mama smokey.

Brandy

cindy flavin

March 6, 2009

my heart is breaking for you. i am so sorry for your loss. what a beautiful woman she was. and what a beautiful display you have created in her memory. you're in my prayers.

michael baines is my cousin...

Linda Goode

March 6, 2009

To the family of Smokey
I am so sorry for your loss
God Bless you all
Linda Goode

Carlos Shirley Adkins

March 6, 2009

Although I never meet your mom, I feel she was a strong, beautiful, joyful and loving person, that has raised such a daughter like her.I keep you and yours in my heart and prayers at this time of sorrow. We love you Deborah and Michael

Jean Horrell

March 5, 2009

Words cannot even describe how much I will deeply miss you. You will be on my mind and in my heart everyday of my life until we meet again. I love you so much, Sis!!!!

Debbie Fayman

March 5, 2009

I had the pleasure of meeting Smokey when Clarence, Gay Ellen, Mary and Grover were in Richmond. Ross and Smokey were gracious hosts of a family get-together. My Mom, husband and I were invited and got to reunite with old friends.
Smokey and I had a wonderful talk. I've lost a husband and my father to cancer and we discussed the mental and emotional endurance it takes to live with this dreaded disease. Smokey's attitude and outlook on life and dying were inspirational. She made a lasting impression on me. I'm sure her loved ones will miss her terribly.
God bless you.

Ken and Karen Martin

March 5, 2009

We send our love and prayers to surround you as you grieve the loss of someone so special. We never had a chance to meet your mom, Deborah, but know what a special lady she was. She is proud of you both. Your gift of this memorial website is priceless. Thanks for giving us a glimpse of your mom. We love you. (Michael's Aunt and Uncle)

Hope Horrell

March 5, 2009

You were always there for me when I needed someone to talk to. You gave me strength and encouragement when I didnt have any. You will be extremely missed, always loved, and in ours hearts forever.Love You, Aunt Smokey.

Mr. & Mrs. Dennis Baines

March 4, 2009

With deepest sympathy to the family. We only met Smokey twice but came to know and love her through her daughter, Deborah. Her strength, courage, generosity & joy live on in Deborah & her family and continues to bless us all. Looking forward to the day we all rejoice together with our Lord. We celebrate a life well lived.

Michael Baines

March 3, 2009

You are loved very much and will always be in our hearts and thoughts (especially at Christmas). We miss you and hope to see you again someday.

March 1, 2009

http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/smokey

Tracy Castle

March 1, 2009

You were so loved, even though we never meet. You touched me sister from deep in your heart. Know that I will alwayssss love you and someday we will meet in heaven. To the Family, My thoughts and prayers are with each and every single one of you. Just know that Smokey is now watching over each of us with such love.