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Howard L. "Pa Pa" Spicer
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Howard Spicer Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Melissa Brooks-Goodwin
March 12, 2009
I am going to miss Uncle Howard very much. I know he is in a beautiful place now. He was always a clown that turned my frown upside down. I know the pain of losing a father. I lost mine twice and life just isn't the same with your loved ones missing from it. If there is anything I can do for ya'll just let me know.
Laura Smith
March 9, 2009
Dear aunt Mary and family,I wanted to let you know how much Uncle Howard will be missed. He was a special man and brought a smile to my face everytime I saw him!I hope you all know you are in my thoughts and prayers! Love You ,Laura Smith and Family
Your Sister & Aunt Linda
March 8, 2009
Mary, Pam, Kelli, Shawn, Derrick, Tyler, & Macie,
What can I say about my wonderful brother. I know he was one of a kind when we were young. When God made Howard he broke the mold. The memories we all have of him will comfort us for years to come. I know we will never stop missing him and needing him in some way.
I have already needed to call him and ask him something. God only knows how much we all are going to miss him. Mary, I want you to know how much we love you for falling in love with our brother. You were so good for him and to him. You understood him like no one else could. If anyone every found their true soul mate it was you and Howard. Thank You, from the bottom of my heart. I love all of you so much. I am only a phone call away.
May Gods loving arms hold all of us close to him til we all meet again one day.
Romans 8:23
Danielle Luck
March 6, 2009
Kelli and family- Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Howard was the kind of person that brought smiles to everyone around him. He will be missed. If you need anything, we are here for you.
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Connie Britt
March 4, 2009
Dear Pam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. I have been thinking of you since I first heard of the passing of your father. Having lost my own father, I know what a hard time this is. Just know I am here for you.
madelyn Norton
March 4, 2009
Spicer Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I traveled from Texas and visited the church many times. I remember Howard as a kind and gentle man who truly cared about those around him. I loved his brunswick stew. I am especially thankful to him for his love and support to my family...Brian, Tammy, Taylor, Kim, Andy and Adam. He was like a grandfather to my grandchildren and a great support to my children. He will be missed but with so many loving memories by all whose lives he touched.
Henry and Joyce Ward
March 3, 2009
To Tyler, the Maxwell and Spicer families. PLease know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We met Howard Spicer on two occassions as Tyler's grandfather and it only took a few minutes to realize what a special person he was.
Diana Mullis
March 3, 2009
Mary, I can only imagine what you're going through. I want you to know that I woke dreaming Sunday morning of put my arms around you as so many have done these passed few days. As one of your Sunday School mates, just know that we are there for you and your family. Be strong and take care of yourself. May God Bless all of you during this time.
Love Diana
Doug Goodman
March 3, 2009
Pam and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Doug & Trudi Goodman
Jordan Phillips
March 3, 2009
Dear Mary and Family,
Howard was one of the nicest men I have ever met in my entire life. He was constantly telling jokes and making everyone laugh. I remember one Trunk or Treat at church when he put on this silly mask and laughing the whole time. Youth was always fun. We will all dearly miss him at church and in our lives. My sincerest sympathies to you all for this loss.
Love Jordan Phillips
Walt Smith
March 3, 2009
Howard is going to be greatly missed. He was my brother-in-law, member of my sunday school class and my friend.
Howard could always be counted on if you were in need of anything!
I'm going to miss him.
Brian, Tammy, Briana, Taylor & Micah
March 3, 2009
Mary, Pam, Kelli and Families,
Our hearts are broken with the loss of our dear friend Howard. We are truly blessed to have him in our lives. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if you need anything.
Christy Mitchell
March 3, 2009
Mary, Pam, Kelli and families,
The news of Howard's passing was so hard to hear. We're never ready for the death of someone we love so much. Howard was so vital to our church and youth that it wil be difficult to get over this big void that he's left. We (the church) are one big family of Christians, so your pain is our pain, your suffering is our suffering. May the beautiful memories we have of Howard sustain us as we live out our daily lives and hold each other up. Each of you are in our prayers and we love you.
Christy, Brett, Campbell & Chelsea
Kaye Hawthorne Wisman
March 3, 2009
What a nice man! He always had a smile when I saw him. I met him many years ago when I lived on Patch Road near his parents house. I am so sorry for your loss.
Holly "Danner" Manke
March 3, 2009
Pam,
Since we were little girls, maybe 6, on the softball field, I remember your Dad as larger than life. Always smiling, always there to cheer everyone on even when the uniforms were bigger than we were. He was always at the concession stand, always doing all he could for our little community of Hunton. I am so very sorry. My prayers are for you and your family.
Amy B
March 3, 2009
Dear Mary, Kelli, Pam and Family,
I do not have the words to express how sorry I am for the loss of such a sweet, funny, caring man. I have many great memories of Christmas Lights, and getting scarred to death in the woods in front of your house around Halloween. I have been where you are and it hurts,but it will get better and the memories you and all of us all have of him will become very precious in time. Let me know if I can help in anyway.
Martha Lewis
March 3, 2009
Pam and family ~ Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal. Keep the love and laughter in your heart and memories will help to ease the pain.
Sherri Glenn Bowen
March 3, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Mr. Spicer's passing. I knew him from working at MAB paints in Richmond- they have been closed for over 10 years or so now. Mr. Spicer was one of the most loyal customers we had. It was always a pleasure to see him walk in the door. He always had great stories to share and greeted you with a warm smile. Living on Greenwood Road, he would always wave when he came by in his red Chevy. He will greatly be missed.
May your memories comfort you during this difficult time.
Sheri Bedwell
March 3, 2009
Dear Aunt Mary, Pam, Kelli, Shawn, Derrick, Tyler, and Macie,
No words can express how sorry I am. I know the pain you all are feeling, you just have to take it one day at a time and hold all those memories close because he is right in your heart. I will miss him so much, his humor, kindness, the great memories he gave so many of us. The legendary scary old man mask! What did he always call me when I was younger, Bedwater! He was loved by so many people and he was a great man.
I love you all!
Sheri, Doug, Lauryn, and Trey
Janice Vincil
March 3, 2009
Mary, Pam,Kelly,& Family,
Howard will be missed dearly. We all loved him very much.He was a very special person & touched so many lives.
you all our in our thoughts & prayers.
We love you.
Kurt,Janice,Tanner,Lindsay
Greg Edwards
March 3, 2009
Dear Mary, Pam, Shawn & Kelli,
I was deeply saddened when I head Howard had passed. He brought joy and gave my family many great memories. We all will miss him. If there is anything we can do for you and your family please call us.
BRENDA SPICER
March 2, 2009
DEAR MARY, PAM, KELLI, AND FAMILY
I WISH THERE WERE WORDS TO LET YOU ALL KNOW HOW MUCH MY HEART HURTS FOR YOU. IT IS SO HARD TO LOSE SOMEONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH. PLEASE KNOW ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS CALL IF I CAN DO ANYTHING, HAVING BEEN WHERE YOU ALL HAVE TO GO, I KNOW THE PAIN YOU ALL ARE SUFFERING THROUGH NOW. I LOVE YOU ALL. I TOO WILL MISS HOWARD.
LOVE,
BRENDA
Peggy "Brooks" Strong
March 2, 2009
Dear Mary and Family,
Howard was such a character as long as I can remember. As a young girl, I spent many hours in the Spicer basement watching and playing pool. I have so many memories of Howard, like at the Haunted Houses put on in the neighborhood. He loved people and made all of us smile. When my sons third baby was born with so many problems and had to stay here in the hospital, Howard gave my son work here in town. That made it possible for him to be near his sick baby. Our family was so grateful to Howard for that. To sum it up, Howard was great. We will miss him, but now Heaven has his great smile and sense of humor. God bless you and the family. My prayers are with you all.
Evanne Benson
March 2, 2009
Dear Mary, Pam, Shawn & Kelli,
I was very saddened at hearing of Howard's passing. I want you all to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I will miss "Uncle Howie." That is what I always called him whenever I saw him and he always responded with "Hey there Finger." He had been calling me that since I was a little girl. I broke my finger playing softball and he never let me live it down. His humor and kindness will forever be a special memory for me and I'm sure for all those who knew him.
Much Love to all of you,
Evanne and Rick Benson
Stan and Dawn Chenault
March 2, 2009
Pam and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. May memories comfort you and God's arms enfold you at this difficult time.
Love, Stan and Dawn
Betty Brooks
March 2, 2009
Mary and Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Howard was a wonderful person and will be missed by all. Our prayers go out to you and your family.
Betty and Butch Brooks
Carlton Clark
March 2, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss, we wil be keeping your family in our prayers.
Nancy Brooks and Carlton Clark
The McDaniels
March 2, 2009
Mary,
The news of Howard's passing was so hard to believe. I know your heart aches but take comfort in knowing that when God needed an angel he reached for a man that was as wonderful as Howard. He was an angel here on Earth and now he looks over all of his kids from above. He did so much for the kids at Hunton Baptist. My wrong arm boys miss him more than words can express. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do.
With love and support,
Alan, Lisa, Justin and Zach
Bonnie Stinson
March 2, 2009
Pam, Shawn, Derrick, Tyler & Macie
Even though you knew this time would come one day, there's no way to prepare your heart for such a loss. I am so very sorry.
Bonnie & Curtis
Robby Spicer
March 2, 2009
Aunt Mary, Pam Shawn, Dereck, Tyler, Macie and Kelli, I just wanted to let you'll know that I love ya'll so much and I am so sorry for Uncle Howards passing. He was such a fun and caring person to be around. If you needed to be cheered up, he was the one to do it. If you needed something, he was the one to ask or he new who could help you. If you needed some assisstance he was more than willing to porvide it. I remember when we were at Ocracoke and I was about to step off the edge of the porch at the bait and tackle shop, he was the one who saved me and scratched up his knee in the process. He was a man of many small deads as well as big ones. He loved his family and would do anything for them. I am glad to say he was my Uncle and I will see him again one day. We love you and please let us know if we can do anything for you.
Love Robby, Tammy, Hayley and Avery Spicer.
Chuck and Brenda Crabtree
March 2, 2009
Dear Mary and family, Our sympathy and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May God bless you all.
Uncle Howard & Aunt Mary Spicer
Fletcher & Lisa Rick
March 2, 2009
Aunt Mary, Pam, Kelli, Shawn, Derrick, Tyler, & Macie....
I am so sorry that you have to lose such a wonderful man who has touched many within his 69 years of life. He was called because he was needed. You will see him again soon. We will all miss his humor & practical jokes, but most of all, his yearning to help those in need. We were all truly blessed by his presence in our lives. Having gone through this myself recently, I am totally aware of what you are going through. Please don't hesitate to call for anything you need, whether it is helping around the house, groceries, an ear to listen, or shoulder to cry on...we are always here for you no matter how big or small your need. You can count on us. We love you!!!!
Lisa & Fletcher Rick (804) 432-5801 or (804) 317-8493
Beth Alley
March 2, 2009
Mary, Howard's death is unbelievable. Your pain has to be unbearable if not for your faith, family, friends. We'll be there Wednesday to celebrate his life of service. Beth and Gene Alley
Jenny & Steve Bess
March 2, 2009
Mary & family,
Howard will be missed. Always a smile and a kind word for everyone. May God Bless you and your family at this time of sorrow.
Sarah Garrison
March 2, 2009
Spicer & Maxwell Families,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of loss. May the Lord continue to give all of you strength and guide you. Please let us know if you need anything. We love you!
Richard, Sarah & Jacob Garrison and Bert & Susan Lowery
Linda Mullis
March 2, 2009
Dear Mary and Family
I am so very sorry for the loss of Howard. Please know that you and the family are in my prayers. May God bless you and comfort you.
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