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Robert Rutherford (Rhashanna Grant)
November 20, 2020
I didn't keep in touch over the years and I should have ... Maybe then I would have known when he actually passed. I enjoyed Doug's company in late '92 and early '93 ... he directed the only two productions I was in while staying in New York ... MacBeth and Lisbon Traviata ... I wanted to reintroduce myself as Rhashanna Grant ... rather than the Robert Rutherford he knew me as. I am so sorry I missed you Doug ... You are a fond part of my memory and those are so far and few in between. You are still missed.
Tom Scarff
February 12, 2008
I am so sorry to hear that Doug has left us.  He was a true professional and a true character of the finest play ever written.
I met Doug when he directed me in "Jeffrey". He never hesitated to say "Scarff you are far, far over the top".  He was right and he will be missed by all who ever had the great opportunity to know him.
RIP
Tracy Young
February 11, 2008
Dearest Doug,
My uncle, someone I will always have warm and loving thoughts of as a child. What fun we had when you came to babysit!! I will always remember the sparkle in your eyes and the warmth of your hugs. Laughter was a balm you readily applied to many family situations with your quick, sharp wit. These memories will be cherished forever. To Denise, God bless you for all you do and have done for your family. And thank you, Jean, for being there and helping our family during this difficult time.
All our love,
Tracy, Nigel and Grace Young
Carol Galvin
February 10, 2008
It was hard to sit down and write this, as I cannot really believe you took your final "bow". I keep expecting you to jump out of the closet and say boo! You were the best prankster of all times...you did all things to the utmost! You were faithful to your family and you have left a BIG void in our lives and I am so grateful for the many funny (and sometimes not so funny) memories you have left for us to rehash and embelish...ah yes, you taught us to do that well too! I love you so much....but I know I will see you again little bro. Love "Sissy" Good grief....glad no one but YOU called me THAT! :)
Patrick McKenna
February 9, 2008
Doug was truly one-of-a-kind. He exuded a joie du vivre of Falstaffian proportions -- opera, playing cards, good food, movies and of course ... Dracula. He didn't easily suffer hypocrits or the self-important, but he was tolerant of fools, and inexperienced (but aspiring) actors. Doug enriched my life greatly ... and my heart goes out to his friends and family. Rest in Peace, Doug
John McEnerney
February 8, 2008
The thing I remember most about Doug was his laugh..... it was a deep laugh that was just contagious.... That's how I will remember him.... My thought go out to his family at this time....
Allison Sharpley
February 5, 2008
One of my favorite moments onstage, I was lucky enough to share with Doug in Nellie Bly. My deepest sympathies to all of his family and friends. He was a truly great talent and a wonderful human being. I feel very fortunate to have known him. Rest in peace.
Elizabeth Giblin
February 5, 2008
Doug,
You will be greatly missed in the opera world. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends at this time.
Sincerely,
Your friends at Lake George Opera
Scott Fields
February 5, 2008
Doug,
  Although I did not know you as well as I could have you definately made a lasting Impression on My life.  My time with you during "Little Shop" was such a great time. You can rest now My friend, what a contribution you made to the world of theater and music. Thank You Friend.
Scott
Patrick Dowd
February 4, 2008
Doug,
Thanks for your keen laugh and your sharp wit.
I learned a lot from you at the Record and will always remember. Peace
Ron Perry
February 4, 2008
Denise and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Linda Rubino
February 4, 2008
Doug,
I will always be your friend, and will miss you more than you know.  The times we worked together I will count as some of the best times of my life.  When you cast me in "The Crucible" I was overjoyed, and learned more from you about acting (and life) than I can ever measure.  You are a truly gifted soul and I hope you continue to direct all of us who had the honor of knowing you. 
Love,
Linda
Maureen Lique' McGill
February 3, 2008
So sorry for your loss. We lived on Morris St in the 50's and knew your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Cindy Nagle
February 3, 2008
Doug, it's far too soon to see you go, but I'm relieved that you don't have to suffer any longer. I and so many others will sorely miss your mischievous blue eyes and droll humor... your impeccable eye for casting and directing... your incredible generosity. I'll never forget your spot-on directing of All in the Timing, and how your performance in Lonely Planet made me cry. I'll always cherish every wonderful moment of Little Shop of Horrors, of which you were so rightfully proud. We have all lost such an extraordinary talent and witty, kind friend in you. May peace and comfortable rest now be yours.
And to Jean: words cannot express my admiration of your selfless love and devotion to Doug. Bless you, and my deepest wishes for healing of your heart.
Ruth & John Bauchiero
February 3, 2008
We are so sorry to hear that Doug had passed away. May God bless your family & friends in your time of sorrow. Our thought & prayers are with you.
Richard Keegan
February 3, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Delisle family & friends on your loss.I always got along with Doug, i remember a long time ago he stopped me on State St and he was so excited about getting a job as a Art critic, and i was so glad for him. My prayers go out to Doug and his family.
Ret'Det Rich Keegan APD
Gregory Bradley
February 3, 2008
I was a cast member of two productions that Doug directed at the wonderful Albany Civic Theater.  I was in "The Foreigner" and "Biloxi Blues" and had a great experience with Doug and the other wonderful cast members.  There is a long list of things to say about the greatness of this man but to me Doug was a prince.  We had a lot of fun together in the short time I had the pleasure of working with him.  I loved him and I am honored to say I knew him.  
Rest in peace, my friend.
janet LaPlante
February 3, 2008
You will be missed my friend. Working together at the Record you took me under your wing. Your passing was so sad but you will be in my prayers Janet LaPlante
Mary Banten-Kidd
February 3, 2008
Please accept my sympathy during this sad time . I worked with Doug in the early 70s at the Record and will remember his great spirit and humor forever. He will be greatly missed by many. Mary Banten
theresa lorica
February 3, 2008
to the de lisle family and dear friends of doug my deepest symathy to all of you i met doug years ago weused to play cards at his house we always enjoyed joke of the week im sure he is with his creator and am sure he will be missed theresa lorica
Denise Rossi
February 3, 2008
Dearest Doug(ie);
Because of you
I will never watch another episode of Project Runway.
I will never place another exclamation point in a sentence without hearing you sigh!
I will never eat Veal and Peppers in Puerto Rico, or see the sunset over the condo we shared.
I will never have a brother in this world.
Because of You
I will always know the meaning of the words UNCONDITIONAL  LOVE....
and know how to spell it.   
You edited my life with humor, drama and care.
I will always love you,
your sis
"Denny"
Chris
February 3, 2008
Rest in peace, Doug.
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