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Robilotti, Mary E. COLONIE Mary E. Robilotti, 82, passed away on Sunday, August 3, 2008 at her home, surrounded by her loving family. Mary was born on May 8, 1926 in Albany and was the daughter of the late George and Esther (Marshall) Bushey. She was prede-ceased by her husband, Vitalo J. Robilotti; her daughter, Patricia Caswell; two brothers, Jack and George Bushey; a great-grandson and a great-granddaughter. Mary is survived by her six sons, Frank (Joanna) Robilotti, Michael (Jill) Robilotti, John (Michelle) Robilotti, and Nicholas (Donna) Robilotti, all of Colonie, Joseph Robilotti of Jacksonville, Fla. and Robert (Katie) Hughes of Colonie; her two daughters, MaryAnn (Walter) Stillman of Altamont and Kate (Pam Condon) Robilotti of Colonie; her son-in-law, Scott Caswell of Colonie; her brother, James (Maureen) Bushey of Albany; her sisters-in-law, Vida Bushey and Ruth Bushey, both of Colonie; 18 grandchildren, 15 great-grand-children; and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. Mary will always be remembered for her big heart, kindness and her open door. She never turned away anyone that needed a place to stay or a meal to eat. Everyone was always welcome into her home. A special thank you to Community Hospice of Albany, especially to Alice, Mary's hospice nurse. Calling hours will be held on Tuesday from 4 to 8 p.m. at New Comer-Cannon Funeral Home, 343 New Karner Road, Colonie (Rt. 155-South of Central Ave). Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m. Wednesday at New Comer-Cannon Funeral Home then to Our Lady of Mercy Church, 26 Wilson Ave., Colonie where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. Interment will follow in St. Agnes Cemetery in Menands. Memorial contributions may be made to Community Hospice of Albany, 445 New Karner Road, Albany, NY 12205 in memory of Mary E. Robilotti. To leave a special message for the family online, visit www.NewcomerFamily.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Aug. 4 to Aug. 5, 2008.

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May 12, 2009

It was strange Sunday. I felt bad that mm didn't have her mom to call and say happy Mother's Day.
Thank you for making this family the family you did...You were stronger than I could have even believed but going through life I realize, and the older I get the wiser I am and the wider my eyes open.
I love you Gram and miss all of you so much. Send my friends up there a hello 2. Look for Ma Janie - Will's mom. You would really like her....
Me tooo...

J.P McMahan

May 9, 2009

Thought about you a bunch yesterday, remembering you hiding your goodies in your room and in your bed (of all places!). Happy Belated Birthday!

May 8, 2009

Happy Birthday Grama!
I love and Miss you,
Jacque

Jacque Benoit (Robilotti)

February 25, 2009

It's been a tough stretch lately and I have been needing my grandma. It's hard to believe you are gone but with the things that are happening I know you are looking down on me and giving me the strength and courage I need to continue. I miss you and your love and wisdom. I have said that it is bittersweet that I had to say good bye but right now I just feel bitter. I want to be selfish but know that I can't. Kevin's tatoo is beautiful and I thank god my children had you for as long as they did. You made such an impression on them both. But than again how could you not. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and until we meet again I love you!

Mary Ann stillman

November 27, 2008

Happy Turkey Day Mom. I want to let you know that because of the strength you showed all of us we were able to get through this day. I never thought my heart could ever feel so heavy as it does today,but I miss you so much. Give Patty and Dad a big hug for me. Just keep on watching over all of the kids.
I love YOU FOREVER AND A DAY
MaryAnn

Keirshtain Benoit

November 6, 2008

nanny i had heard a song that reminded me of u and in the song it says it will hurt when it heels to but it will all get better in time and i call that my nanny song and i miss u so much and u are still my best friend and i will do good in school and make u proud its going to be hard when kevin graduates from high school and me from middle school because u promised u would be there but i love and miss u more every day

Pam Condon

November 6, 2008

The leaves are falling, the gentle breeze and cool air has come-but still we are numb. They say that time heals, but it has not yet. In every passing day we think we hear your voice or at least the bell. We miss you so much, and God knows we don't know what to do. I hope that life there is as wonderful as we all hoped for you-and I hope that your reunion was a joyous one. I have kept my promise to you and will continue, we miss you much and love you much. Watch over all and someday when your not so busy give me the sign.

MaryAnn R. Stillman

October 30, 2008

Well Mom here I am again. I needed to tell you just how much I miss you.I know in my heart that you were ready to go and be with Dad and Patty but my selfishness wants you here with me. My days seem so empty without you. Sometimes I forget your gone and say to myself I need to call Mom, of course than it hits me that your not here to call.
Say hello and I love you to everyone there for me. Continue to look down on all of us and give us your guidance any way that you can.

Love and Miss you,
MaryAnn

Tiffany Santore

October 25, 2008

well let me start by saying how i miss u terribly! Its so hard to go to ur house and me go down the hallway expecting to see u laying in ur bed in ur pjs and saying hi dolly! and me sitting on ur bed telling u all the new gossip i heard!lol u were actually the only person who didnt tell anyone or how we would have long talks and u would give me ur advice well god how i need ur advice now cause no matter what u said i always seemed to feel better.halloween is coming up and it is so hard cause u wont be there to see the kids and cook us stew and searching threw our candy.it will never be the same! ya know how they say it gets easier as time passes well thats a bunch of bull cause i think it only gets harder. well i know ur up there having fun so i will talk to u soon! I love you! Until we meet again@->--

Carmela Santore

October 23, 2008

Words can not express the loss that we are all facing. Speaking for my self I am lost without her guidence. Gram I am still waiting for Paris. I can't wait to meet you at the tower.

JP McMahan

September 10, 2008

To the Robilotti Family:
My life will be forever changed by the wonderful woman you called Mom or Grandma. It has taken me some time to think of how or what to say and still have yet to figure out how to say it. "Crazy Lady" was my nick name for her and I will never forget the time I was able to spend with her. From the 2 hour grocery trips, to the runs to the Christmas Tree Store that were only for a couple of things that turned into an all afternoon event, Ma was always a character. As she watches down on all of you, know that she will be missed by all of the lives she touched.
God Bless

cathy mclaughlin

August 27, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived
okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here
is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up
and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were
gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.

There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for
me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's
chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life
on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not
be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.


I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But
one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.


There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a
time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will
give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day
was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the
way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick
him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in
your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember
you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Stacie Sawyer - Robilotti

August 14, 2008

Gram i granted your last request and Amelia was born and from that came your passing and lots of guilt to me.I will always have lots of memories and great comfort knowing that now my son will have the pleasure of being with nannie just like we did.I will always love and miss you please watch over my babies they need it right now so until we meet again you will always be in my heart and my memories .I LOVE YOU

Jacque Benoit (Robilotti)

August 13, 2008

Well I quess it's time for me to say my goodbyes cause all day the smell of roses have been hanging around me.
Gram,
You will be greatly missed not only by me but by so many others that you had touched their lives. You would have been honored at all the people. You always thought there would be no one left to come to your wake and quess what there was barley any room. It was wonderful to see how many people loved and admired such an outstanding woman, mother and wife.
You would have been proud at how all your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren came together and represented the job you did and did well!
Mom is afraid you are rolling over at the price of your casket but you were so beautiful and peaceful looking in it.
You had a great life and I am so proud that I am able to call you "My Grandmother". I will continue to make you proud.
Love always and forever,
Jacque

Tammy Yale

August 12, 2008

Joey and Family
Tina and I were sad to hear about the loss of your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love Tina and Tammy

Jim & Brittani Bissonette

August 8, 2008

John, Chris & Family

Sorry to hear about the lost of your mother and grandmother. Out deepest sympathy to your family.

Joyce Ricciardi

August 8, 2008

Nicky and Donna,

We are so sorry to hear about your Mothers passing. Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you and all your family.

Rick and Joyce Ricciardi

marilyn hopper

August 6, 2008

Frank & family I was so sorry to hear about your mom Sorry i wasn't there but my thoughts and prayers were with all of you .

John Sasso

August 6, 2008

Cate & Family,

My deepest condolences for the loss of your mother and grandmother. May God comfort you, and assure you that she is at peace.
--john

Skip Vigars

August 6, 2008

John,

Our deepest condolences on the passing of your mom. We didn't see the notice until today and therefore we missed the wake. If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to ask.

Regards,

Skip Vigars and Carol Edson

beth dematteo

August 5, 2008

amanda&family
im very sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you, just remember she is in a better place now and smiling down on everyone . if u need anything you know where i am , god bless u all, love beth & mike love and kids

keirsty benoit

August 5, 2008

i ment to say but*

keirsty benoit

August 5, 2008

we thought we wouldnt get over aunt pattie bt we did we just have to stick together and pull though it

michael love

August 5, 2008

my thoughts and prayers go out to marys family and friends.
sorry for your loss.she was a nice lady and loved by many.keep her good memories and take care

JUTTA and George Forkel

August 5, 2008

Nicky, Donna and family our deep condolences on the loss of your mother.

Tammy Bargy

August 5, 2008

Stacie, Autumn Luke, and Kate
I am sorry for you loss. My prayers are with you all.

Michael Farinacci

August 5, 2008

John and family,
My sincere condolences for your loss. Cherish the happy memories and times you shared. May God's peace and blessing be with you during this difficult time.

Robert Snay

August 5, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Shane Hendrix

August 5, 2008

I was deeply saddened to hear of your death.

Joe,
I hope that you will accept my most sincere sympathy and condolence. I truly hope that your memories of the happier moments will help ease your pain.

Donna Riccardo-DiBello

August 5, 2008

To Mrs. Robilotti's beautiful brood-No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences and prayers are with you as you grieve.
I have great memories of playing at your house as a young girl and thinking your mom was very cool.

Debra Rivenburg

August 5, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Kate Macchi

August 5, 2008

Dear MaryAnn,

I would like to express sympathy for your loss, and offer my condolences to you and your family at this time…and may you find some comfort in knowing she will be in your memories and hearts forever.

Stephanie

August 5, 2008

I'll miss you Grandma, miss your laugh, smile, old christmas cookies, hidden candy, ha ha ha. Thank you for always being everyone's "Grams" and giving us a home away from home. You kept us in line when everyone else tried. We were only scared of you ya know. I'll miss you, but I know you're smiling now with Vitalo and Patty. Take care of us from above please. Love always Stephanie.

Tiffany Santore

August 5, 2008

Grammy,
what can i say you are my hero! I don't know what we are gonna do with out u, u were always the one we looked for to get advice and u never cared how harsh it would be u always gave us the truth. u were my rock to lean on and i know no matter what u will always be here to talk to all we have to do is say ur name and u will be there. life isn't gonna be the same but i know u and grandpa and aunt pattie are dancing and having a great time! I love u with all of my heart and i will see u again!

pamela w

August 5, 2008

MaryAnn, My deepest condolences to you and your family I don't have to tell you that your mother was a very special and loving person and we all are better people for having known her even if only for a short amount of time.

Marisa Rotondaro

August 5, 2008

The Robitotti Family; I was sadden to her about your mother,grandmother,and friend. She fought a long battle and won at the end. Now she can be with all her loved ones .Patty was waiting right there for her. She will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Marisa ,Tom and Kids

Kim DiTonno

August 5, 2008

The Robilotti Family,
I am sorry for your loss.
My condolences to your family in this time of sorrow.
Your family is in my prayers.

God Bless,
Kim DiTonno
Colonie High School
PTSA President

Zibell/Matan

August 5, 2008

To the Robilotti Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Mary was like a mother to us growing up. She always made us feel welcome and made us feel like we were part of your family. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do.

Patte Livingston

August 5, 2008

Kate + Maryann, and families, I am so sorry to hear about your Mother,you are all in my thoughts and prayers..

katie Hughes

August 5, 2008

To The Robilotti Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.Your mom was awonderful person and the best mother in law I could ask for.I have so many wonderful memories of things we did together especially garage sales. She will be greatly missed.Bobbys'gonna miss his Gramma Robilyso much. Love katie

Debbie and Skip

August 4, 2008

Donna and Nick,

Sorry about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love,
Aunt Debbie and Uncle Skip

Bobby and Roberta Caswell

August 4, 2008

To the Robilotti Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

nancy palladino

August 4, 2008

I have to smile when I think of Mary, there are so many great memories. Her trips with Frances to St. Augustine, her dinner with my family and the infamous Uncle Fred, (an inside story..), and the many, many great times we had during Happy Hours in Jacksonville. She was so witty and shared so many stories and laugh with all who knew her. I will always cherish her and know she is settled in making the same witty phrases and looking after all from above. Love you all,

Michelle (Forkel) Starkey

August 4, 2008

The Robilotti family.

I am so sad for you all. Mary has a very special place in my heart. Mary took me In and let me find my way in life. She always encouraged me and never judged the mistakes I made. I will forever remember her and hope
that I can influence another as she did me.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kashon and Jashon Holmes

August 4, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

MaryAnn Stillman

August 4, 2008

To My Family.
Although our sadness is deep,always remember that a part of our Mom,Grandma & Greatgrandma is each and everyone of us. Be happy in knowing that she is with her loved ones that went before her,especially
her daughter whom she missed so much. I am sure they had a wonderful reunion. It is never goodbye,it is until we meet again.
I want you all to know she was proud of each and everyone of you.

Love,
MaryAnn

Denise Boncaro (Caswell)

August 4, 2008

To the Robilotti family and Scott:

You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this time of sorrow.

Denise & family

Debbie and Bill Prime

August 4, 2008

Nick and Donna:
We know how special Mary was to you and the ups and downs your family has gone through for quite some time. Family and friends will pull you through this difficult time. You were always there for us. Know that we are here for you. Time is short and precious.

paul

August 4, 2008

Mary always treated me like one of her own sons. I am so grateful and honored to have know her and now to have all those memories!! She taught me so many lessons! Thank you for letting me be a part of this family and to know your mom.....love you!

Kristen Backus

August 4, 2008

Joey and Family - I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Becky Anderson

August 4, 2008

To Joey and the rest of the Robilotti family:
Mary will always be remembered by me. I had my baby shower at her house and I also have a picture of her and Jake when he was days old. She traveled to my house to see the new baby and I am forever touched. Mary took good care of me and my son Jake, who is now 16. I am sure she will still take care of him from heaven. My thoughts are with all of you during this time.

Vickie & Rhonda

August 4, 2008

Joey. Our hearts go out to you for your lose. She will be missed by many.

Kasia Spadaro

August 4, 2008

Dear Joey and the rest of our Robilotti family,

The world was a better place because Mary was in it. We are happy that she is at peace, however, know that doesn't lessen the sadness of losing her. We have so many happy memories of her and our times with all of you at her house. She was truly one of a kind and will be sadly missed.

Our thoughts are with you all,
Love,
Kasia and Vince

Lucy Almendarez

August 4, 2008

Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you and your family are close in every thought and prayer.

Terre & Susan

August 4, 2008

Susan and I were so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was a wonderful woman who brought joy to everyone...

Erin Dannhardt

August 4, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss, she will be very missed.

Gina LaRosa

August 4, 2008

I'd like to share my condolences for your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Riposi In Pace.

Dale Stillman

August 4, 2008

To The Robilotti Family,
So Sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Debbie & Dennis Ward

August 4, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Anita Thomson

August 4, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family, Joe.

Carlene Thusgaard

August 4, 2008

Dear Mary Ann, Frank and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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