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for Sheila Keefe-Mai
Mark Tolman
April 23, 2008
To the Keefe and Mai Families,
Please accept my condolences on your loss. I just received my Alumni magazine and I was completely stunned and saddened when I saw Sheila's name on that page.
I met Sheila during my Senior year at New Paltz and she was someone I really enjoyed being around each day. As I look back, I can see her big smile and hear her great laugh which became part of my daily life. She was so full of life and always great to be around. I am truly truly glad that she and I got to know one another.
John Calimano
April 20, 2008
To the Keefe/Mai Families,
Please accept my late condolenses. It wasn't until yesterday that I found out about this sad news, when i received my alumni news letter. I attended the College of New Paltz with Sheila. Though the years have passed, I can vividly remember her warm smile and kind friendship. Though we lost touch, I always thought of her as a good friend. You and your families in my thoughts and prayers
Tim Conroy
January 6, 2008
To Jim and the Keefe/Mai Families,
Please accept my late condolenses. It wasn't until last evening that a former coworker of Sheila's informed me of this sad news. Though the years have passed, I can vividly remember her warm smile and kind friendship. You and your families in my thoughts and prayers.
Danielle Fraim
October 26, 2007
Dearest Family,
The bond that was still remains just in a more spiritual way now. I've never seen a family closer than yours and pray you find peace in knowing that your family is one to look to for inspiration. I pray for your strength as few could understand the pain that must be faced every day. All my love and prayers ~ Danielle Fraim (KK's neice)
Marlene Boland
October 24, 2007
Steve, Debbie, Dianna,
I know this is and will continue to be a difficult time for you. Sheila would be proud of the way you are looking after one another -a true testimony of the love and support you share, and much of what Sheila, no doubt, loved about being part of such a special family. Chuck and I were honored to be a part of her life, and her death. We'll never forget her.
We're thinking of you....
Your neighbors, Marlene & Chuck Boland
Mark Morrissey
October 23, 2007
Steve, Jim, and the entire Keefe-Mai family:
Words cannot begin to express my sympathy for your loss. Although it had been years since we’d talked, Sheila had been my connection to all of the Keveny gossip. My fondest memory of Sheila was her glowing smile, which could almost be seen from the other end of the hall. Sheila’s charismatic personality made her a class favorite, and her friendship made you a better person.
She may be gone, but I’ll bet there are more smiles in heaven! She was truly one of kind!
Geri Hans
October 20, 2007
Harry, Kris and family, my sincerest sympathy is with you during this very sad time. May you find peace and comfort in your wonderful memories of Sheila.
michael powers
October 20, 2007
Its been almost 25 years since Keveny, but I fondly remember Sheila, and will keep her and all her loved ones in my prayers.
Maureen Griffin (Cashin)
October 18, 2007
to Jimmy and all of Sheila's family, MY sincere condolences on her illness and death. I remember her from all the years of school, from the Lyceum to the halls of KMA. WHat a wonderful and inspiring soul. May the love you shared carry you thru this most difficult time. You're in my prayers.
James & Susan McGraw
October 17, 2007
Harry & Family:
It is with sincere regret that we heard of the lost of your daughter. We wish to express our deepest sympathy and the hope that the kind thoughts of your many friends will make your grief a little easier to bear.
Your neighbor from 1 Chestnut St.
40 years ago
Jim & Sue McGraw
Tara Merlino (Decker)
October 17, 2007
To Sheila's family:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember Sheila's smiling face and the happy times at Keveny. Please know that she touched so many people in her short time here and she will not be forgotten!
P Burke Matson
October 17, 2007
I have a lot of warm memories of cheerleading with Sheila "Smurf" at Keveny. She will always be fondly remembered and cherished.
Shannon Thompson
October 17, 2007
I only met Sheila once but she left a lasting impression on me. She was a very sweet person and I'm sure she will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers to her family.
Kym Bond (Decker)
October 17, 2007
To the family of Sheila,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know I am thinking of you as I remember times together at Keveny. Sheila had a smile that will never be forgotten.
Michele (Tremblay) Gazza
October 17, 2007
words can not express the heaviness in my heart when i heard of shelia's passing.my memories of her are of a smiling face and a helping hand. my thoughts and prayers go out to all family and friends who have had the honor of shelia touching our lives.
Geraldine James
October 16, 2007
Harry & Chris:
I did not get to know your daughter but you told me all about her. You were so proud of her and her fight. May God be with all of you. I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. May memories take some of the sadness from your heart. My grand-daughter is fighting the same illness. I hope that one day there will be a cure for it.
Love, Geri
Tracy Rooney
October 16, 2007
I'll always remember Sheila as my best friend in grade school, St. Marie's and part of St. Agnes. Seems like forever ago but when I think back I always remember her smiling and laughing. We would often get in to trouble for laughing too much during class. :) It was worth it. I wish God would make more people like her!! I'll miss her, always.
Tracy (Moryl) Rooney
Liya Mikhaylova
October 16, 2007
Dear Steve,
I am so sorry to hear about Sheila. You and she were two of the nicest and optimistic people that I had met. The two of you always made D4E a little brighter. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
G-d Bless.
Cheryl Boyko
October 16, 2007
To the family of Sheila:
Although I never met Sheila I feel that I knew her from the love of her friend Mike Geppi. He spoke of her often and always with a smile. My sincere sympathy to all those who loved her.
Scott and Robin Burgan
October 16, 2007
Dear Steve and Keefe Family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Shiela's passing. Scott and I remember her and the summer we spent in Washington DC. We had a great time that summer! We have kept Shiela in our prayers over the last several months and are comforted to know she is now at peace. We pray for you all, that you too may find peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Our love,
Scott and Robin (Maloney) Burgan
Maria DeCore
October 16, 2007
Dear Jim and family,
I was so sorry to hear about Sheila. I still remember her from St. Agnes when we had basketball practices in the lyceum-she was a few years older and was on the Junior A team with Kara and my cousin Annemarie and I were on the B team coached by Mr. Maloney. Sheila was the nicest, sweetest, funniest girl back then and sounds like she grew into a tremendous, loving, beautiful woman. My heart goes out to you all.
God Bless,
Maria Grego DeCore
Rachel Carey
October 16, 2007
Kris and Harry,
Although I've never had the pleasure of meeting Sheila, I've heard so many wonderful things about her. She was loved by so many people. It's obvious she touched the hearts of everyone she came in contact with. I am so very sorry for your loss, but know that she is now in a better place in the hands of God. May your fond memories and the love of friends and family carry you through your time of grief. I love you both.
Shannon Maloney
October 16, 2007
Steven and family, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I have great memories of her spending time with my family in Washington DC. Becoming friends instead of just long-distance cousins who would only see each other once or twice a decade. During my time in NY (1984-85), when we would carpool to college, were some of the best memories I have of her. I will miss her.
Elaine & John Quell
October 16, 2007
To the Keefe and Mai families:
Words can not express our sadness over the loss of Sheila.
Our thoughts and prayer go out to you all in your time of mourning.
Cherish the memories you all have of Sheila, she will live on in your hearts forever.
kelly shaughnessy
October 16, 2007
Kris,Harry, and keefe and mia family I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I love you guys if you need anything im here for you...
beth girard, R.N.
October 16, 2007
i am sorry to hear about sheila's passing. i did not know her well , but attended school with maryann for many years. my prayers are with the entire family.
Peter Rock
October 16, 2007
To the Keefe family,
All of us in our family want to extend our thoughts and prayers to your family at this time.
Shelley Dame
October 16, 2007
Although I have only met Shelia a few times I feel like I knew her very well through her family. I have never met a family who was so close and loved so many..
My heart and prayers go out to Steve and the entire family.
With our Love the Rick Shelley and Zachary.
Anna Cox
October 16, 2007
Dear Steve, We just heard the news of your loss. We are so sorry and our prayers are with you. We all send our love. Anna Maria, Jim and John Jr. Durham, NC
Donna Partyka
October 16, 2007
To Sheila's Family:
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most solemn time. May your fond memories help you in moving on. Know that she is in God's place.
Donna Partyka
Susan and Paul Mayo
October 16, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Johanna Quinn
October 16, 2007
To the Keefe Family,
There are never the right words to express the sadness we feel for such a loss. Just know that friends are thinking of you all and wishing you peace.
With Love,
Johanna and Family
Kristin (Maloney) Peterson
October 16, 2007
To the entire Keefe family,
When I heard of Sheila's passing I felt like I lost a sister. Sheila, Kaykay, Maryann,Jimmy & Louie were always a part of our extended family. She made me laugh! when I think back on all the things we all did together growing up I can't help but smile and giggle. What a wonderful contribution to all of our lives she had! sheila will be dearly missed by everyone who's live she has touched! She is at peace and when I think of her I will always smile.
MaryAgnes Lubanski (Orlando)
October 16, 2007
To the families:
I had the opportunity of meeting Sheila through Kara when we attended St. John Fisher. It was like she was going to school with us, she became a part of us at school. She was an amazing person with such a strong outlook on life. May you find comfort in how many lives she has touched so deeply throughout her life and know that there are many thoughts with your families during this time. With deepest sympathy.
Amy Ward
October 15, 2007
Steve and Family,
I am sorry to hear about Shelia. I remember those long nights on D4E when you would bring me coffee. You and Shelia were loved by all of us on D4E. I lost my mother two months ago. I had talked to my mom about you and Shelia when you were on D4E. My mother will look after her!!! Steve, have faith!! There is one thing I have learned...."God only takes the best". XOXO
Rick Potter
October 15, 2007
To Sheila's Family:
I am sorry for your loss. Sheila was a wonderful person who will be greatly missed. I regret not having kept in touch with her over the past many years. I will always remember her fondly.
Kellie Hogan-Fisher
October 15, 2007
To All of Shiela's Family,
It seems like yesterday that we were in high school with Sheila. She was always a great friend! She was full of life, enjoyed all of the people around her and loved having a fun time (laughing and smiling always).
While words can not come close to expressing my sadness, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jennifer Fisher
October 15, 2007
Jim,
I am so sorry to hear of Shielas passing. Your sister was a true inspiration to me and an amazing pillar of strength. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. Im so sorry Jim...
Ann Gallup (Gardner)
October 15, 2007
To all of Sheila's loved ones,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sheila was a wonderful person, with a great sense of humor, and a smile to brighten anyones day. I have a lot of great memories with Sheila that I will cherish. My deepest sympathy to all of you.
Ann (Caruso) Murray
October 15, 2007
To The Keefe and Mai Family - I am so sorry for the loss of Sheila - I was very saddend when I heard the news at the hospital. She will be remembered for her smile and her incredible courage. I have fond memories from KMA and more recently when I had the privilege of caring for her as a patient. She always managed to look on the bright side, something she would want everyone to do. You will all be in our prayers.
MELISSA GORDON
October 15, 2007
MRS.KATHY AND FAMILY;
MY PRAYS GO OUT TOO SHAILA FAMILY.I DIDNT KNOW HER BUT IF SHES ANY THING LIKE MRS.KATHY SHE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON.STAY STRONG,AND YOU ARE IN ARE PRAYS.
LOVE;MISSY,LENNYAND NAUTICA
Mary Potter (Baker)
October 15, 2007
To the Keefe and Mai families,
I was shocked to read of Sheila's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. You and Sheila are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rita Ferris
October 15, 2007
Sheila joined the Northeastern Retail Lumber Association in January of 2000 as Advertising Manager. Within six months she was promoted to the position of Convention Manager where she worked until May of 2004 when she left the NRLA briefly due to illness. She returned to the association in the position of Webmaster/Executive Assistant where she worked until May of 2006.
Sheila was a ball of sunshine to all that knew her. In the retail lumber industry, her eternal optimism, wicked sense of humor and odd attraction to the famous George Bush, Barry Manilow, and Tony Bennet made her especially loveable to us all. I will think of Sheila always, but especially on Halloween which she enthusiastically celebrated. We will miss her dearly.
My prayers go out to Steven and the entire Mai and O’Keefe family. She loved you all dearly and spoke of you often.
Amy (Keefe) Ryan
October 15, 2007
Dear Steve, Rita, Harry, Louie, Maryanne, KayKay, Jimmy and the rest of the family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I will always remember Sheila's genuine sweetness, beautiful smile but most of all I will remember the great strength and courage she had in dealing with her illness.
I know in my heart that Sheila is at peace and is now our angle in heaven.
Kathleen Plowman
October 15, 2007
Harry, Kris and the whole Keefe, Mai family. Sheila will be greatly missed. You and your family are in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. Please call us if you need anything. Love, Kathleen, Ken, Braedon & Liam Plowman (neighbors of Harry & Kris)
Jennifer Demarest
October 15, 2007
Stephen and family: I am extremely sorry to hear about sheila! I never thought it would end like this, Sheila and her family touched my heart! i couldnt beleive it when i heard she had to come back to us at the MICU. I am so so sorry for every1s loss but im just glad she is at peace. I wish the best for you all and im sorry again!
Love, Jennifer
Mary Anne (Clemenzi) McHarg (KMA '84)
October 15, 2007
Jimmy and all of Sheila's Family,
I am sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. Her bright smile and expression of kindness to all will be sorely missed. My condolences to you and the entire family.
Karen (Orlyk) Fowler
October 15, 2007
To the Keefe and Mai families,
My heart is so heavy with the news of Sheila's passing.We shared so many wonderful memories in Keveny.She had the most wonderful spirit. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sam Collins
October 15, 2007
Stephen Keefe family and the Mai family,
I am so sorry for you loss. I feel blessed to be in the lumber business and been able to know Sheila. Sheila's spirit shined on all that had the pleasure of meeting her. My thoughts and prayers are with your families.
Sharon Otty
October 15, 2007
I worked with Sheila while at NRLA and will always remember her glowing smile and positive outlook on life. The happiness she spread to all around her was contagious. She was a ray of sunshine and will be missed by many.
May God's love be felt in your heart and give you comfort.
Sharon Otty
Tom Ridlon
October 15, 2007
Our Thoughts and Prays are with Sheila's Family and Friends.She will be missed greatly her in Boston.
Seaport Boston
Sharon Brennan
October 15, 2007
The Entire Keefe Family -Stephen and Family and Cosmo:
Our hearts are filled with sadness to hear the loss of Shelia. I will always remeber her sweet smile and what a fantastic person that she is, her memory will be with our Family forever. Dan,Lauren,and myself will keep each of you in our prayers.
God Bless all of you and Shelia.
Our love,
The Brennan Family
Jodi Hartman
October 15, 2007
To Steve and the whole family:
I am so sorry to hear about Sheila, she was an amazing woman and had an impact on all of us on D4East. You'll be in my prayers.
October 15, 2007
To The Family Of Sheila,
It was an honor to take care of Sheila and your family....Iam now a better nurse. Thank you
Melissa R.N. AMCH
Kristina (Owens) Oliver
October 15, 2007
To Stephen and all of the Keefe Family
Sheila was such a wonderful person! It is hard to imagine your loss. She was one of those rare individuals who always made those around her happy. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Matt Maron
October 15, 2007
To the Keefe and Mai families:
My deepest sympathies for the passing of Sheila. She was a wonderful woman. I shall keep her and you in my prayers.
Laurie Carey
October 15, 2007
To Stephen and all of the Keefe family:
I am so sorry for the passing of Sheila. What a wonderful person she was, we go way bac to those days at KMA when we were all friends. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Kara Scott
October 15, 2007
To Steve,Rita,Harry, Louie,Maryanne, KayKay,Jimmy and the rest of the family! I already feel the hole in my life without Sheila. Sheila and I have been each others side kicks since we were kids and have always looked out for one another. I have no doubt that Sheila is looking over all of us right now trying to help us all deal with this tremendous loss in any way she can. Look for the beautiful sunrise/sunsets and just that warm comforting feeling that you get...that will be Sheila reaching out to us. Sheila is now at peace and no longering suffering from this nasty illness.We all need to remember that to try and give us some comfort.
I am thankful for all the fantastic memories I have with Sheila. I will use those to try and give myself some peace with this situation.
My heartfelt love goes out to all of you!!
Kara (Maloney) Scott
Carol, Christopher Castle & Irene Quell
October 15, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jill McLaughlin
October 15, 2007
My condoloences to Sheila's family. What a tragic loss! My sister and I went to school with Sheila and she was a fixture at our house during elementary school. We had just, only a few weeks ago, been reminicsing about her and how funny she always was and what a wonderful spirit she had. She is a wonderful person. Your families are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time for all of you.
Kathleen (Wandell) Messier
October 15, 2007
Sheila's family, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart broke as I read this today. Sheila always made me and everyone around her laugh with her wonderful sense of humor. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Cheri Terzian
October 15, 2007
With all our hearts we feel your loss. It's an unimaginable emptiness and we hope you find comfort that she is resting peacefully after such a long struggle. We will always remember Sheila's smile ... it lit up a room! With all our love, Cheri, Jamie and Casey Terzian
Julie Mann
October 15, 2007
Although the Sheila being sister to my sister-in-law Kathy, I didn't know her well. But what I did know is that she had a pure spirit that eminated from her very being every time I saw her. I take comfort, and encourage the family to as well, that Sheila is a precious child of God and is at home in her Heavenly Father's arms today. Her life remains eternal and her spirit more pure than we could have ever known here. She is the apple of God's eye. And to the family, I pray His peace beyond understanding for each of you and that you celebrate her precious life throughout the remainder of your own. May God bless you even in the midst of your sorrow. I love you all!
Michael Berthiaume
October 15, 2007
So Sorry for the loss.
Shelia will be greatly missed.
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