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Cynthia Proctor Obituary

Proctor, Cynthia Gwen (Meacham) HALFMOON, N.Y. Cynthia Gwen Meacham Proctor, of Smith Rd., entered into eternal life on Sunday, November 11, 2007 at her residence, in the loving comfort and care of her family at her side. Born in Palo Alto, Calif. on April 9, 1958, she graduated from Delta High School, Clarksburg, Calif. in 1976 and was the salutatorian of her graduating class. Always an excellent student, Cindy went on to graduate from California State University, Sacramento, with a major in criminal justice. Shortly after graduation, Cindy was hired by the State of California, Franchise Tax Board, as a supervisor in the "Receiving Department," responsible for initial processing of all California state tax returns. Cindy's primary interest was with the criminal justice system, so she transferred to the California Department of Justice, first working in the Fingerprinting Division, and then as the supervisor of the California Missing and Exploited Children Clearing House. One of her many talents was in computer graphics and she designed missing children posters for the state. In addition, Cindy had extensive national and international involvement with other agencies associated with missing children location and recovery. Later she accepted a promotion to field representative in the Firearms Registration Division and did firearms dealer inspection and compliance audits throughout the state of California. She also served as a volunteer with the Sacramento County Sheriff's Department, assisting them with their investigations related to missing and exploited children in the county. While attending a Missing Children Conference in Washington, DC, she met Diane Vigars, the New York state representative for missing children. They became close friends and travel buddies. On one of her trips to New York, Diane introduced Cindy to Tim Proctor. They became friends and partners and were married on July 5, 1997. Cindy sold her home in California and transferred to New York to be with Tim. After her marriage she became a loving step mom to Tim's children, Jeff and Lindsay Proctor. After arriving in New York, Cindy was employed by the New York State Division of Criminal Justice Services. She worked in the Bureau of Justice Funding as a program representative II, where she assisted law enforcement and not for profit agencies in and around New York City with grant funding and monitoring. While working at DCJS, she acquired many friends. Cindy was always a person to think of everyone else first and make sure they were happy and comfortable. She had an exemplary work ethic and her co-workers often referred to her as "Cindy.com". Whether you were fixing plumbing, chopping wood or needed help with a letter, Cindy was always there to help. If she didn't know how to do something, she would figure it out. She also volunteered to assist in the DCJS Needy Fund with fundraising events and their annual Christmas shopping expeditions for needy families in the area. Cindy and Tim enjoyed traveling to different parts of the country and quiet weekends visiting the Adirondacks. She loved hiking, animals (especially her two cats Missy and Emma) and spending time with her family, whether they were on the East or West coast. Springtime was Cindy's favorite season, because she loved to design and plant many beautiful flower gardens around her home. Cindy is survived by her husband, Timothy A. Proctor of Halfmoon; stepson, Jeffrey L. Proctor of Halfmoon; stepdaughter, Lindsay C. Proctor and fianc? Jonathan Wagoner of Bethlehem; parents, Glenn and Maralyn Meacham of Myrtle Creek, Ore.; brother, Michael and Janet Meacham of Fort Bragg, Calif.; sister, Gina and Emerson Schenck of Herald, Calif.; special loving aunt, Dana Patton of Thornton, Colo. Her loving nieces and nephews are Erin Swete, Shana Meacham, Wesley Meacham, Sheridan and Nichole Schenck, Kayla Schenck and Shelby Schenck. Relatives and friends are invited to a memorial service on Thursday at 11:00 a.m. at Our Savior's Lutheran Church, 63 Mountain View Ave, Colonie. There are no calling hours. Private committal service will be held at the Gerald B.H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery, Schuylerville. Memorial contributions may be made to the Mohawk & Hudson River Humane Society, 3 Oakland Avenue, Menands, NY 12204. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted by the family to the Gordon C. Emerick Funeral Home, 1550 Route 9, Clifton Park, NY 12065, 518-371-5454.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Nov. 13, 2007.

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Sandra Burruss

December 9, 2021

Cindy's family just learned that Cindy passed away today. Sorry for your loss. She was a very special person great personality. I lost her number going through old letters and found one from Cindy with her phone numbers again text her and Tim got Back to me. Boy talk about surprised. My husband and I will miss you. Love Mike & Sandra from FTB in California

February 26, 2016

I still can't believe that Cindy is gone. She was my best friend from the first week we moved next door in Clarksburg. We played "horses" until we both thought we were the awesome beasts we pretended! Her barbies were enviable. For those few years, at least from my perspective, we were inseparable. Guess I'll have to wait for Heaven to see her again.

Lindsay D'Aloia

December 21, 2007

Lindsay,

I feel awful that I am just hearing of this terrible news and I am so sorry for your loss. I am going to call you after the Holidays but as for right now I want to let you and your family know that I am thinking of you!

Eva Canaday

November 29, 2007

Dearest Cindy,
I am blessed to have known you, even though I did not get to spend much time with you in person, but, I knew that you were a very special person the few times that we met in person. I thank you for being one of my many nieces, I thank you for getting me all the state quarters that I needed.
To Tim, Jeff, & Lindsay, I am so glad that you all got to be with her these past years, you all made her very happy and proud. Bless you all during this time of sadness.
To my brother, Glenn & sister-in-law Maralyn, I hope that you will be blessed to find the courage to go on and remember all the great times you had with Cindy. I'll bet you will have a tough time not going to see her,like you were so use to doing, it will take time I'm sure. From all the people that wrote in this guest book, I know she will be greatly missed, and she was loved by so many!! She touched so many lives and everyone is a better person because of it.
Love you Cindy and I will see in eternity.
Your Wyoming Aunt Eva Mae

Gina Schenck

November 20, 2007

Cindy will forever be in my heart. She was not only the best sister in the world she was one of my best friends. I found myself driving home last night and picking up the phone to call her as I did regularly over the last several months. Then it hit me, she wouldn't be there to answer. I know she is in a better place and not in pain and it will just take time to adjust. Say hello to our special friend Georgia for me! I know you are with people who love you in heaven just as you where here on earth.

Love,
Gina

April R. Evans

November 20, 2007

Dearest Cindy was one of the few genuine spirits, I will never get used to loosing friends/co-workers prematurely. She is in a better place, and my prayers are with her family and friends for their loss.

Walter & Janet Haymon

November 19, 2007

We are so very sad about Cindy's passing and our hearts go out to all her family. She was a wonderful person and so loving to everyone. She will be missed terribly but will be in our hearts forever.
Walter & Janet Haymon (Dothan, AL)

Jeffrey Proctor

November 16, 2007

Sma,
The time has come to say my final goodbye. When I first met you I knew that you and my father would grow into something so beautiful that words couldn't express. The ten years that we spent toghether were amazing. I wouldnt change it for anything in the world. You were always there for me when I needed anything. You will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Please make sure that you take care of Taylor the way that you took care of me. I will take care of dad. I love you with all my heart, always and forever. I will see you in eternity.

Love,
Jeff <3

Debbie, Dana, & JoAn

November 15, 2007

Tim, Marilyn, Glenn, and family:Our hearts go out to you as you grieve the loss of a very special woman. We will remember Cindy's gentle ways, her happy spirit, and her sweetness that spread to everyone.
She made a difference in our lives, touching our hearts, and making us smile. She will certainly be missed.

LUCIELLE CANARY

November 15, 2007

TIM, JEFF AND LINDSAY, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT CYNTHIA...I DIDN'T KNOW HER, BUT SHE SOUNDED LIKE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON...I DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT HER PASSING UNTIL TODAY...YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS...LUCIELLE CANARY

Marianne Walsh

November 15, 2007

On behalf of the Westchester County District Attorney's Office, may we offer our deepest sympathies to Tim, Lindsay, Jeff and all of Cindy's family. Cindy was always so giving and helpful. She was my go to person on every grant not only the ones she managed. If I had any questions, I would call Cindy and nine times out of ten she would get back to me before the end of the day with whatever I requested. Cindy was the ultimate professional! Both our daughters got engaged at the same time, so you should know, Lindsay, she was so excited about the wedding! We would often talk about the wedding plans and how marvelous our girls were in planning everything.
We have lost a wonderful lady but I feel Cindy will always be with us and around us. Her spirit will always be invincible!
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Cindy's family, friends and co-workers. May we all be comforted by just having known her.

JoAn Story

November 15, 2007

I am so grateful that you allowed me to be a part of your life. I will always cherish the wonderful times we had together and know that I now have a Guardian Angel to guide me.
My deepest sympathy is sent to Glenn, Marilyn, Gina, Mike, Dana, Tim, and all the other friends and family of Cindy.

Bob Pagini

November 14, 2007

To Tim, Lindsay & Jeff Proctor: I have the sweetest memorires of your wife and step-mom and I know she is in a much better place with no more pain and suffering. My heart goes out to all of you at this time of sorrow in your lives. Cindy was one of those truly remarkable people that only come around once in one's lifetime. She was always filled with happiness and quick to laughter and always had a kind word for everyone. She always treated me great when I was around and I know I will miss her very very much. My heart goes out to all of you and her family from out west. She is the brightest star in the night...and she will shine brightly throughout all of our lives for we were lucky enough to know her and are better for the meeting. My deepest condolences to you all!!!

Beverly Kodama DDS

November 14, 2007

My staff and I feel very blessed to have known Cindy. She was a happy, wonderful, warm, and generous spirit. She used to bring us delectable dishes and was kind enough to include the recipes. We will always think of her when we make these savoury dishes. She will be greatly missed. How lucky we are to have known such a beautiful person.

Susan Sadd

November 14, 2007

To Cindy's Family,

Words fail me. I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Cindy’s passing. Cindy always went out of her way to help me and my colleagues at the Bronx District Attorney’s Office. Her voice at the other end of the phone was always cheerful, and when we saw her in person, it was even better. I know I will miss her.

Kelly Palmateer

November 14, 2007

I knew Cindy for a very short time but quickly learned that she was a remarkable person. I admire her for her strength and courage...she was an inspiration to all.

Katie Nastars

November 13, 2007

Lindsay and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are all in our prayers. Let us know if you need anything.

Marvin and Janean Meacham

November 13, 2007

Cindy has always been such a special and loving niece. We grieve for the loss of such a beautiful person. Until we meet again Cindy.
We love you forever.
Uncle Gene and Aunt Janean

RONALD SILVERMAN

November 13, 2007

We at the Bronx District Attorney's Office are deeply saddened by this loss. We were very fortunate to have had the honor and privilege of working with Cindy on all the various grants throughout the years. Her help and guidance to our office and in turn the citizens of Bronx County is immeasurable. Our deepest sympathy to the Family and Friends of Cindy.

Karen Schoenberg

November 13, 2007

Like Linda Wancel from Brooklyn, I was privileged to know and work with Cindy for the past several years. She was not only a great colleague -- but more importantly she was a great person. My heart goes out to all her family. She will be sorely missed by all of us who knew her.

Susan Rochow

November 13, 2007

I'm so surprised and sorry to hear, Tim, of your dreadful loss. Cindy worked with me at Turbotechnology Services when she first came to the Capital District. She was funny, helpful, sweet, energetic and wildly happy about her up-coming marriage to you and her new family!
My thoughts are with you all in this sad sad time.

Sean Brannigan

November 13, 2007

Cindy was an ally for our office when it came to grants. But more importantly, she was liked by everyone she came in contact with here for her personality, not just her work. My deepest sympathy for her family.

Dale and Sheri Stuckey

November 13, 2007

All who new Cindy, loved her. With laughter, her big smile and an affectionate hug, that is how Cindy welcomed all. Cindy was truly a beautiful and compassionate lady. It was our pleasure to have known Cindy and to have enjoyed her friendship, wit and wisdom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With sympathy and love.

Denise Crates

November 13, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Cindy during her 9 years at DCJS. From the first day she was here she made an impact. While always a hard worker, her real strength was being a team player. She always helped out when someone was out sick or fell behind in their work. She really enjoyed working with law enforcement and prosecutors' offices; and even though she was not a native New Yorker she learned to love New York City.

She was also a friend to me and always offered to help me and my family when necessary. She was very loyal to those she loved and will be sorely missed.

Jonathan Wagoner

November 13, 2007

Dearest Cindy,
My time of knowing such a loving kind and caring future mother inlaw was too short. You will be missed greatly. You will be in my heart and thoughts forever.

Linda Wancel

November 13, 2007

I had the good fortune and great pleasure to have worked with Cindy on grants. Highly organized and knowledgable, she made the whole DCJS grant process easier to understand, and she always took the time to assist me and answer my many questions and telephone calls. She was always helpful, cheerful, and, above all, so very, very nice. When I finally got to meet her, I was delighted, as her upbeat and sunny personality was infectious. I am grieved by the passing of such a wonderful and lovely person. She will be sorely missed by all who knew her, and I can only imagine the depth of her family's sorrow. They have my deepest sympathy.

November 13, 2007

My Precious Cousin Cindy
Thank you for all the joy you brought into my life and for being such a wonderful friend. You will always have a special place in my heart. God bless your Mom, Dad and Tim.
Love, Susie

Lisa

November 13, 2007

Mr. Proctor and Jeff. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Lindsay Proctor

November 13, 2007

To a loving mother,

There arent enough words to express how much you meant to me and my family. And as you made me promise... I will be the srong ROCK for Dad...just like you were. We will get through it with the help of everyone. It just makes everyone happy to know that you are in a peaceful place with no more struggle. I LOVE YOU my Angel!
Your Daughter Lindsay

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