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for E. Handron
Konnee
October 25, 2008
My beloved EJ; It's been a long year of missing you, your smile, your hugs and the light in your eyes when they look upon your sons. Thank you for blessing my life, for your strength and encouragement, and for helping me save myself and restore my health. I will always love and miss you and cherish the years we had together.
Tara Handron
December 16, 2007
To my cousins Michelle, Margie, Mark, and my aunt Marge:
You have all been in thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and that I was unable to come up to Albany for the wake and service. You were like older siblings, in a sense, for me and Jay when were growing up and EJ was no exception! He was like this cool older brother type with his big German Shepard and his snazzy, "own" room in the basement (if I recall correctly). Whenever I was in his presense he always had a sense of fun about him and he always me feel welcome. He made me feel "cool" when I felt like a dork (okay, this was awhile ago but it made an impact on me :)). I emailed with him only briefly in the last few years but I was so glad he seemed to be in a good place at that time. I will continue to keep all of you in my prayers.
Love,
Tara
Dennis P. O`Connor
December 14, 2007
To the Handron Family,
My deepest sympathies and condolences for the loss of my friend and the best point guard I ever had the honor of playing with.
EJ and I go all the way back to grade school when I first met him at the St.Theresa’s drop in center in a one on one contest sponsored by the great Kenny MacDonald. John was there as well.
The final contest was E.J. v.s. myself. Seemly mismatched, that did not alter Eddy’s intension, which was to win the game. He came to play.
E.J. had no fear. His energetic smile that radiated any room he entered, along with his swaggering confidence made you think Uhmm... What the heck is this guy thinking? And that was his secret.
While you thought about this, he was busy picking your pocket and stealing the ball away from you.
We fought for what seemed like hours. Both of us came away with a great win. That being lifelong friends with mutual respect as hard-court warriors.
Our lives where joyfully intertwined from grade school, to Albany High. I to also worked with him at Sparkles with Arty Wise.
I will cherish the memory of endless days playing ball with E.J. and John either in the Handron drive way, Melrose courts, J.C.C, and of course at the hollowed grounds of Woodlawn and Washington Parks.
At Albany High, E.J., Mike Pastor, and myself would play for hours which in turn made the difference
for our winning team.
We stood has giants. And E.J. stood tallest. He was our leader.
He nicknamed me Conners, which has still stayed with me today.
E.J. had style on and off the court.
Eddy, I apologize for not making your service. I just found out. You got game brother and yes.. you could go to your left.
I know you and John are lacing up your Chuck Tailors as I write this note. So rest well my friend and “I got next” I will miss you.
God Bless...
Terry Bennett
December 14, 2007
To Margie and her family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You have been through alot and you should know that you have lots of friends who are here to support you. We know that EJ is at peace and no longer suffering, and that is a blessing. He lived a full life in a short time. Your family is one of the strongest families I know. Although he will never be forgotten, time will help heal the loss you feel today.
Remember we are here for you!
Tinker Vadney
December 13, 2007
EJ has been a friend for most of my life. I have never met a person with more personality and self-worth. He is an inspiration to anyone who knew him. My thoughts and prayer go to his family and all who knew him. God Bless
amy VanDerzee Wiggins
December 11, 2007
I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. I always smile when I think back of all the great times we had together with our families. I have wonderful memories. Mark, Michelle, Margie,Mrs. Handron I am praying for all of you and thinking of you at this very sad and difficult time. I miss you all....
Bill & Sue Bradley & Family
December 10, 2007
Dear Father, We are forever grateful that You took Your son and servant, EJ, into Your glorious presence. We are thankful for everything You do for him, and for us, dear Lord. Give us the grace, Father, to possess the reality of the christian life, so that we may live and act in a way worthy of Your blessing. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord... Amen...
Jay Handron
December 8, 2007
Even though he's never met any of you my best friend and roommate Russ wanted me to extend his condolences to everyone in your time of need.
Billy Byrne
December 8, 2007
EJ - You always told me I looked just like your brother.
Although, I had never met him, your stories about him, and your ever lasting love for him, remains a staple in my heart. You loved and lived life, a smile for everyone and everything. I will always remember your smile and wit. The world has lost a great one...Be Well...Rest in Peace.
The Byrne Family
P.S.Tell my Dad... drinks are on him!
Fred Daniels
December 8, 2007
I would like to express my deepest sympathy To the Handron family. I’m very sorry I could not be there with you at this time of sorrow. I wish I had a chance to tell EJ how much his friendship met to me. He was one of the best teammates I ever had; I learned a great from EJ and your family about life and friendship. I wish I had a chance to thank EJ and your family for taking me into your lives as a youngster and helping to keep me on the right path. I will miss EJ but I will never forget that Handron Smile that you all share.
God Bless you all and my love and is with you. Fd
anonymous
December 7, 2007
RIP, EJ thanks for being you
anonymous
December 7, 2007
save a seat for me in that big meeting in the sky.love ya brother
scp
December 7, 2007
i miss seeing your smile in the morning @ the Y.. it's been some time since i left there.. it amazing how time flies by and you realize that its "been that long.."
my prayers are with your family and do me a favor.. tell God i said hi, ok?
John Cordi
December 7, 2007
Marge, Michelle and Families,
A brilliant and charasmatic young man that was once my friend has, from what I hear, realized his fullest potential as a wonderful son, brother, Dad, companion and friend to so many. That is the very definition of having lived. EJ's mark upon this world and all that had the privilege to know him is indelible. I know his rewards in this life were great and am sure his reward in heaven even greater.
My fond memories of your family, and present thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Neil Mitchell
December 7, 2007
EJ,
May your family take comfort in knowing you're at peace. While your time on this earth has come to an end,you'll remain a cherished friend always. RIP.
Joe & Theresa Conley
December 6, 2007
Handron Family,
With sadness, we would like to express our sympathy. It has been many years but some happy memories when our families were young.
Our prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Joe and Theresa Conley and Family
December 6, 2007
To the Handron Family,
E.J was a good friend of our family's. I remember when we would get together and we'd take the kids trick or treating. We always looked forward to getting together as families. It was a guaranteed good time because of EJ's fun loving nature. May he rest now, and our condolences go out tO you. You will all continue to be in our thoughts, and may each of you comfort one another during this difficult time. -The Assis Family
Connie Catalano
December 6, 2007
EJ I know that ur home with God now may u rest in peace.
December 6, 2007
Mark, Vikki and the Handron Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. May you find comfort in your memories of E.J.
Friends at Mark's office at
Great Oaks.
Peg Fisher
December 6, 2007
To my best friend Margie, Michelle, Mark, Marge, Paul, Vicki, and all the little ones. I don't have to tell you what a wonderful family you have...you already know that. So losing a member of one of the greatest families I have ever ever ever known hurts me because it hurts you. I know you all believe EJ's no longer suffering and perhaps that gives you some comfort. What it does for me is renew my feeling of love for all of you. Please know that I have been thinking of you all constantly. Margie, I know how much you love your family and that you will miss EJ greatly. Bring all the great memories to the forefront and keep them there forever. I love you all. Be strong and know that so many people cared for EJ. When someone touches others in special ways that's what makes them great... It is clear from reading all the expressions of sympathy that he touched many many people so he was definitely a great individual. I guess that's the best we can hope for in this life. May God Bless you all and keep you strong. Love Peg
John Ringelmann
December 6, 2007
To the Handron Family,
My deepest sympathies!!! EJ and I go all the way back to when we used to play on the floor together when we were about 4 years old. We later reconnected as young adults and all I can say is that he transformed every room he entered with his smile and vivacious energy.
EJ – continue on your journey and give our regards to those loved ones we all miss. You, my friend, will also be missed.
John Mastrianni
December 6, 2007
To the Handron Family,
My wife, Marybeth and I are so sorry for your loss. Though we had lost touch through the years, I am very happy that we were able to rekindle our friendship recently. Spending time with EJ, Mark and Michelle and our group of life long friends brought back so many memories of our times from Grade school through High School and beyond. What struck me most was the dignity that EJ displayed while he was fighting to overcome his disease. My two boys, Matt and Jack that met him for the first time just a few weeks ago knew he was sick...But said he seemed happpy...and that he had alot of friends. He did!! And we will miss him.
John Mastrianni
Christina Merrill
December 6, 2007
Michelle & E.J's family
I am deeply sorry for your loss !
E.J will be missed !
Melissa Olcott
December 6, 2007
Mrs. Handron, Michelle and family:
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to you at this sad time. EJ introduced me toyou guys in the admitting office at St. Pete's November 2nd. I have known EJ for a long time and he will be remembered by me and countless others for his kind smile and friendly words. He is a great person and I am truly sorry for your loss.
a forever friend
December 6, 2007
Although i never knew your family EJ, i want to send my prayers and my most deepest condolences to your family. I have known you for only a short few years and yet when we saw each other it was like we knew each a lifetime. I will miss you being around, it is so selfish of me to wish you were still here because i know you are in a much better and happier place. I will miss you EJ, i know you gave a strong fight.
Kime Baxter
December 6, 2007
To Mich H. and Handron family. I've known E. (gimppy) since 9th grade. I will truly miss him. Friday night dice and cards will never be the same. Stay strong.
Kime (gummy)
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
FRIENDS FOREVER
Gerard Rhatigan
December 6, 2007
EJ,
I will always treasure the fond memories of our youth. The good times we had over the years together with our friends were numerous. What I will remember the most about you, EJ, and what I'm sure your family and friends are very proud of, was the courageous and dignified way you handled the misfortune of having cancer. Not once did I hear you say "Why me?" Your concern was for your boys, Ryan and Jason. The fighting spirit you displayed through this ordeal was truly an inspiration to all who witnessed you deal with this dreaded disease.
May you rest in peace.
Your pal,
Gerard Rhatigan
Amanda Jones
December 6, 2007
My condolences to all those who loved EJ. Though I know none of his family, EJ rests in a special place in my heart, as he was a tremendous friend to me, and also to my daughter, Heaven, who at the age of 8 had developed the warmest love and affection for this kind and loving man who embraced her always. He was our special friend and we always looked forward to the nights we knew he would be at a doorway to greet us in fellowship and sincere friendship. I have never seen my daughter gravitate so genuinely and completely to anyone and I credit that to the love and honesty that emanated from EJ to all who got the privelege of crossing his path. He was so dear to me and I have missed him in the past year. Our prayers are with you all and now I suppose we will continue to talk to him, only in more spiritual ways.
with deepest sympahty and warmest regards,
Amanda
Phyllis Townsend
December 6, 2007
Dear Michele and family, May the grace of God which passes all understanding comfort you in this time of sorrow. Sincerely, Phyllis
Joseph Grady
December 6, 2007
My condolences to the entire family. I remember meeting E.J. at my parents house in Glenmont N.Y. and thinking, what a vibrant person! E.J. was fun to be around back in the 1970's. And well liked by my family, and friends. Until we meet again...
Margaret Burke
December 6, 2007
Dear Michelle, Handron family, and numerous friends,
I was very sorry to learn of EJ's death. Though our paths crossed just briefly during his illness, the vastness of his personality and beautiful smile made an unforgetable impression. He did not let illness define him, and fought to live fully in every moment.
I will keep you all in my thoughts at this sad time.
Margaret Tenney Burke
(RN, Hospice Inn)
Kristine Gould
December 5, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I was at St Peters Hospital with EJ and if it wasnt for him I wouldnt have kept my sobriety for 2 years. He was a wonderful man who reached out to everyone unfortunately I lost contact with him . If I had only known. I will always remember his SMILE!!! What a wonderful person he will truly be missed!!!!!!!
Lois Barrie
December 5, 2007
Marge--How I wish I could be there in person to give you a big hug and try to share some of your sorrow so as to lesson the load a bit from your heart. You were a great mom, and EJ certainly knew you loved him and will miss him. He will live on in his children, but especially in the wonderful memories you have of your years with him. God Bless you and Paul. Know you are both in my prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Lois Barrie
Millie Strickland
December 5, 2007
Dear Marge and family. Our friendship goes back many years. Our lives were filled with family so we saw each other less but always remembering the past. We send you our sincere sympathy. I know you will find the strength because memories are so powerful. We must believe that God has a plan for all of us. We can only do our best to understand. Our love and prayers as you face the next few days. We are with you in spirit. Sincerely, Bob and Millie
Kimberlee Peabody
December 5, 2007
Michele and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to all of you. God bless.
Kim Peabody, Troy
JUNE KOZLOWSKI
December 5, 2007
DEAR MARGARET, MICHELE, MARGIE AND MARK. I WRITE THIS WITH TEARS IN MY EYES. I AM SO SADDENED BY THE PASSING OF E.J. I ADORED HIM LIKE A SON. I WILL MISS HEARING FROM HIM.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Kerry Gecewicz
December 5, 2007
My condolences to Michele and the Handron family.
Brandy Robbins
December 5, 2007
To the Handron family:
I had no idea EJ was sick. I haven't seen him in a long while. He definately was a great person. He always had a smile for everyone. EJ was a geniune guy that tried to help everyone that he could. I know he helped my fiance a few times, just with his talks. He will be greatly missed. Rest in peace my dear friend, EJ.
Maureen Pagano
December 5, 2007
From the photo I see EJ did not outgrow the huge smile I remember from his early teens. Everyone was crazy about him. I'm sorry for your loss.
John Audi
December 5, 2007
My sincerest condolences on your loss. I knew EJ for a long time, but lost contact over the years. He was a tremendous guy with a great personality and will be remembered that way.
Peg Fisher
December 5, 2007
Dear Marge - You know I've been trying to find the courage or strength to call you and tell you how sorry I am that you lost your son - but I just didn't have it. So I'm writing this to you especially to tell you how sad I am for you and your family. Marge, I've learned so much from you about how to love your family and how to keep going even when you feel you can't. I don't know how you are holding up but I think the boys together will shoulder you through this if you let them. You know, I was thinking as I looked at the picture here; I bet you couldn't find one single picture of EJ when his pearly whites weren't showing! That's the magic of the Handrons...always laughing, smiling, loving, together. May God bless you during this time and always. Love, Peg
Jay Handron
December 5, 2007
Unfortunately, the last time I saw E.J. was at our Grandmother Handron's funeral almost nine years ago but I will definitely miss him. I have many fond memories of seeing him and my cousins, his siblings, at family gatherings growing up. Of course, my heart and deepest sympathies go out to his mother, sisters, brother, and two sons. I said a prayer for him last night and can take some comfort knowing he is reunited with his father, brother John, and grandparents on both sides. May he rest in peace.
M. Donohue
December 5, 2007
Met EJ years and years ago when he was a bartender. Nicest guy in the world. He was so much fun and so kind. Ran into him again when he was just starting his business. Unfortunately, our paths did not cross after that. My sympathy to his family and friends. May your memories bring you peace.
Arthur Wise
December 5, 2007
I would like to give my deepest sympathy to the Handron family for the lose of my friend E.J..I have such fond memories of him and his brother John that dates back to Camp Nassau when we were kids and continued through school and the J.C.C., he can't be replaced but will live on in my heart and my mind. I still remember giving him his first real job at Sparkles and how excited he was to work there. He was a very caring man who came to my aid when I was diagnosed with life threatening cancer and stood by me when others didn't. I still remember the party he helped my parents give me when I was sick. It was just a small part of his friendship and his ability to care about others that set him apart. I have so many memories and stories that will last a life time. I'm sorry we lost touch with each other. He will never be forgotten to me. Please know that while he may not be amongst us in human form, he will be with us always. I guess now he can play his brother a game of 1 on 1 to see who really was the better ball player, and I know his Dad will be sitting right there to watch who will win. He will forever be my friend. Thank you E.J.
Jamie Slater
December 5, 2007
My condolences to the Handron family. EJ, you have beautiful childern that love you very much. I will never forget the good old days at Hurly's. I wish for you painless peace.
Jamie
Marcia Oliveri
December 5, 2007
To the Handron Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you on the loss of your son/brother. EJ made a difference in many lives for all the years I knew him and I'm sure many more after. I hold many fond memories of him in my heart. His suffering has ended and no doubt he is reunited in heaven with John.
My prayers are with you all.
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