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Carol Cary Obituary

Cary, Carol J. WEST HEBRON, N.Y. Carol J. Cary, 73, died December 5, 2007. Survived by husband, Fred Cary Jr.; children, Chella Bean, Christy (Kenneth) Andrews and James (Deanna) Cary; brother, Robert Abbott; nine grand and seven great-grandchildren. Services, Monday, 1 p.m., West Hebron United Methodist Church, Salem. Calling Sunday, 3-6 p.m., McClellan Funeral Home, Salem.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Dec. 7, 2007.

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Meghan Lourie

December 14, 2007

i have known carol since i was born, and her daughter chella is my moms Best Friend. my mom says she is more like carol then her own mom. i see that. My memories of carol are always happy ones. Molly and I played out in the "glass room" where carol kept her plants very happy. she always had a great big toy chest for us to play with and an amazing backyard where i spent long hours playing on the trees and eating raspberries! she always made me spegettios and meatballs. already i miss her sooo much. life can be a really tough thing to be a part of, but i know that carol loved me and she wouldnt want me be too sad. i love her soo much and i will always miss her.

<3333 Meghan Ruth Lourie


PS. she did make the VERY best music...and PIES!!

Brian Dooley

December 7, 2007

My memory always go back to Jim and I hanging out in the kitchen listening to our new Super Tramp album. They featured great piano solos that Carol loved. We thought we were listening to great new rock while Carol just heard great beautiful music. Format didn't matter. I spent many memorable hours at the Cary home playing with Cathy and Jim while Chela was still crawling around. And later having party's when we were older. Carol had a great laugh to go with her good sense of humor. She will be missed by all who make up the West Hebron "family". While we will miss her, we know she has taken over the piano in haven and is singing (lead of course)with angels. She probably couldn't be happier.

Sandi Trulli-Braymer

December 7, 2007

Christy~
I am so sorry to hear of your mom's sudden passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Heidi ( Waite ) Dillon

December 7, 2007

Sorry to hear of your families loss. Carol was a great neighbor in the West Heborn community and will be missed eminently.

Joann Hackett

December 7, 2007

Christy, Chella and Fred,

I am so sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do please let me know

Sue Evens

December 7, 2007

I was so shocked to hear of your mother's passing! Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know this is a difficult time for you all, but please remember that Carol would want you to help each other celebrate her life rather than mourn her passing.
Chella....please remember that if any of you need ANYTHING just call.

Lianne McMorris

December 7, 2007

I'm so sorry for your loss, she was a great woman, friend,mother, and grandmother.

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