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We will never forget
Barb Wolosen
January 30, 2007
Robin - I was asking Frannie about you this morning and she shared the devastating news about Dereks death. I cannot find the words to say how heartbroke I am for you, Mike & Lia. It made me look back in time to our "chats" here at DEC and the many stories we shared. Thinking of you...
January 22, 2007
Michael and Robin
Words can't express how deeply sorry we are for both of you. Just know that we are praying and lighting candles for you every day. Lia and Brittany, we pray for you also and remember, love your parents, they love you so much and that love was passed onto Derek and showed by all your wonderful family visits to St. Thomas. We love you.
Rita and Lofton Holden
Tara Allegro
January 21, 2007
Derek,
I only met you twice, but in those two times I had the pleasure of speaking with you, we clicked. I'm ripped apart knowing a new friend was taken from me so quickly. I hope where ever you are, you are happy. That's all you ever deserved. I'll see you again someday.
Lisa Mickle
January 21, 2007
Dear Pam and Dan,
I can't begin to imagine the deep sorrow and emptiness you must be feeling with the loss of seeing Derek's smile in your daily lives. Take solace in the fact that you were ALWAYS there for Derek--supportive, listening, and loving. Cherish the wonderful, warm memories you shared and they will help you get through your sorrow. I am always here for you.
To Brittany, Daniel, Carolyn, and Lauren--Always remember how precious life is and how Derek would want you to live life to its fullest in his memory.
My thoughts and prayers to all of you and may Derek enjoy eternal peace.
Nicole Runyon
January 18, 2007
Derek;
You were an amazing person and will forever posess a very special place in all of our hearts. My deepest condolences go out to your family and all of our closest friends. Someday, we will all cross paths again. I love and miss you.
Friends at Little Switzerland/Tiffany & Co.
January 15, 2007
Michael, Robin, Britt and Lia - We all want to say how deeply sorry we were to hear of Derek's passing. We remember him coming into the store on the Island and Robin introducing him to everyone as her "son" in the truest form. The love she and he shared was truly a mother and son relationship. We feel for you and Michael and your daughters. We love you all and miss you terribly. Stay strong my friends, God be with you at this time of sorrow. Your loving friends, brothers and sisters on the Island.
Rachael Murray
January 10, 2007
Michael & Britt,
I'm so sorry to hear about Derek. My mom told me the news and I wanted to let you both know how upset and truly sorry iam. I feel like i lost my brother. I miss you both very much as well as Derek. He was so caring and sweet and always knew how to make me laugh and smile. I will alway think of you as my family. I wish the best to both of you. I will always be here if you need me.Love always.
-Rachael
Clare McKenna
January 10, 2007
Derek,
I remember when being humiliated as a 13 year old when your dad would make me sit next to you at the dinner table because the whole family knew I had a monster crush on you. :o) Thank you for the many long talks we had, you never failed to make me feel understood. I will always cherish the frienship we had. My conch shell sits in my bedroom where I can see it all times.
My love and condolences go out to Britt, Lia, Robin, Michael, Daniel, and the twins
Theresa Casal
January 9, 2007
Mike,
I just heard of your son's sudden passing from a co-worker here at United States District Court in Albany. I just wanted to pass along to you and your family my sincerest sympathy. Having lost a family member (brother) myself at such a young age, I certainly can relate to the grief and emptiness that comes with such a sudden passing. May your memories sustain you and comfort you. Theresa Casal (Berical) Court Reporter
Marcia Murray
January 9, 2007
Michael & Brit, I am so deeply sorry. Derek was beyond special, his smile could light up any room he entered and he captured my heart with his goodness and passion for life. You will be missed Derek, never never forgotten and always truely loved. God Bless you.
V RocKs
January 8, 2007
Sorry you had to go so soon. The business world will miss your kindness and intellect.
You will be in our hearts for eternity.
Kyle Neuhaus
January 8, 2007
Derek, even though you were only a brief part of my life, you were a good man. You treated Caitlin so well and you always had a smile on your face. At Passover everything you tried tasted like tuna fish lol. I'll never forget you. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Stay strong.
Diana (LeSage) Dyer
January 7, 2007
I was deeply saddened to learn of Derek's passing. Although it had been a while since I had seen Derek, we still kept in touch every now and then and were always able to pick up right where we left off. He had always been a great friend to me and I consider myself lucky to have spent the time with him that I did. They say you never forget the first boy you kissed and this is true, as I smile back on all the memories that we shared. How sad that such a great person had to leave us so soon.
To Derek's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope that all the great memories of the times you had with him will help you through such a difficult time.
Jon B
January 7, 2007
Although we never had a chance to meet in person, Derek was someone who I communicated ideas with regularly. His business skills and potential were outstanding and he will be sorely missed by us all here at the Inxio team.
Jon
Alex L.
January 7, 2007
RIP, my feelings go out to your family... :`(
Jess Fitch
January 7, 2007
Britt, Lia, & Family
My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. I can't even express how sorry I am for your loss. Remember the memories & the good times with Derek, it will help you through this. I love you britt & lia and if you ever need anything I'm here.
Zampino Family
January 7, 2007
Brittany and Family,
our heart aches for you all.We are so sorry for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers every step of the way.
Katie Deitz
January 7, 2007
Carolyn,Lauren, and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there. I'm here for you if you ever need me. I love you.
January 7, 2007
Brittany and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We can't even imagine how you feel. Keep your memories of Derek in your heart and he will always be with you.
Our Deepest sympathy,
Leigh and Matt Montgomery
Dan Drislane
January 7, 2007
My Brother Derek,
Words can not even start to express the feelings I had for you as my big brother. I always wanted one, and there you were. You became the best friend I saw every day and I will miss you like no other. You're forever in my heart Derek and I love you....your brother Daniel
Amber Smith
January 6, 2007
Derek was a great kid. Full of life and energy always wearing a smile as he walked the halls at Shen. We are all saddened at the sudden loss but must keep in our hearts the good times we had shred with him. My deepest sypathy's to his family and friends.
john rice
January 6, 2007
So terribly sorry, my friend. JR.
Kimberly Smith
January 6, 2007
Derek ~ you were such a wonderful friend. I could not have possibly asked for a better person to have spent so much of my time with. We grew up together, and shared so many memories. I will miss you for the rest of my life. I was truly blessed to have had you as a best friend, and will be forever blessed to have you in my heart. Sleep Soundly my darling. I love you. My prayers and love are with you. Much love and sympathy to the Lawrence/Drislane family. XOXOXO
"Celebrate we will, 'Cause life is short but sweet for certain, We climb on Two-by-two, To be sure these days continue, Things we cannot change...." ~Two Step (our song)
Derek Devenpeck
January 5, 2007
Derek, you were a great buddy; we shared some great memories together that will not be forgotten. Many respects to you and your family, as you'll be in my prayers and thoughts.
RACHEL AND LESLIE AMELL
January 5, 2007
CAROLYN AND LAUREN
WITH OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY, MAY GOD COMFORT YOU IN THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS. LOVE,
RACHEL AND LESLIE AMELL
Paula Ginsburg
January 5, 2007
Pam,
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I wish I could be there for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michael, Paula & Aliza Ginsburg
Tim Moriarty
January 5, 2007
Brittany, I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. Derek was a great guy.
Gabby Kennedy
January 5, 2007
Carolyn,Lauren & Family
your in my thoughts and prayers i love you both so much hang in there.im here for you and if you need anything im right here,just ask
love,Gab
Gardiner Family
January 5, 2007
We are so truly sorry to hear about Derek. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Lauren Cioffi
January 5, 2007
Brittany- I'am so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers. I love you and im here if you need anything.
Jim Christman
January 5, 2007
Carolyn/Lauren - I love you girls and I'm so sorry that this has happened.. my deepest condolences
Krystina Reale
January 5, 2007
Anyone who knew Derek knew he was was a great person and an even greater friend. He touched my life in so many ways, I can't even begin to explain them. We are all really at a loss right now. He was a true friend and I will never forget him.
I am deeply sorry to his entire family. Please stay strong. Your son brought smiles and kindness to so many, including myself, and I am grateful for the time I had with him. I loved Derek and he will live on in my memory forever. Rest in peace angel, I love and miss you so much already.
Lorraine LaBelle
January 5, 2007
Daniel, Carolyn and Lauren,
May your memories of Derek comfort you in the days to come. I love you. Mom
Erin Marzilli
January 5, 2007
Micheal, Pam, Britt
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you three loved Derrick. When I think of Derrick all I can see is his amazing smile and thats how I will always remember him. I will always remember how much you three gave nothing but love to him from the day I met your family. My condolences to you all. Hugs & Kisses your in my thoughts*
Madeline and Dennis LaPierre
January 5, 2007
Pam and family- there are no words that express how sorry we are to hear about Derek. Such a tragic loss. Our deepest sympathy and support....

*Love you Derek*
January 4, 2007

Rest In Peace
Caitlin Neuhaus
January 4, 2007
Derek, you were loved more than you will ever know and you will truly be missed. Thank you for all you brought to my life, your Love, compassion, and strength you gave to me is immeasurable. Words cannot describe how amazing of a person you were. To all of your family I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with every single one of you. If you ever need me for anything I will always be here. I will treasure my memories and moments spent with him and never forget his smile and the way he touched my life.
Jude DiGiandomenico
January 4, 2007
Britt and Family, you'd never think that something so awful could happen to someone so special. I'm deeply sorry for your lose. your in my thoughts and prayers.
Jayne C
January 4, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jennifer Valls de los Reyes
January 4, 2007
Brittany + Family - i am so sorry for your loss, keep your head up and if you need anything, do not hesitate to ask... love you<3
Stacey Ranagan
January 4, 2007
Britt, I am so sorry for your loss. I am here if you need anything. youre in my thoughts all the time.
Jessica Jacques
January 4, 2007
Brittany and family, I am so sorry for your loss, Derek was a wonderful person. He will be missed by many. I am here for all of you, as I always was. Kisses and Hugs to you all- Jessica
Becca Ehrlich
January 4, 2007
Derek sat in front of me in Biology class sophomore year at Shen, and we always had a good time. My condolences to his family, and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessica Bagley
January 4, 2007
Carolyn Lauren and family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I love you guys and if there is anything you need let me know !
Karen Siciliano
January 4, 2007
Pam and family,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I never knew Derek, but I know how much love that you have for your children Pam. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. I will never forget you being there for my mom and myself when my grandmother passed, and I hope my mother and I can be there for you now. My mom loves you so much. My prayers are with you all.
Carly A. Lawrence
January 4, 2007
Derek was a profound part of so many lives, and for this I will miss him greatly. He will always be in my heart. I also want to send my deepest sympathies to Michael Lawrence, Brittany, and family. My thoughts and love are with you always.
Morgan Ropitky
January 4, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Derek was a wonderful person and a good friend of mine in Junior High School, he was caring, kind and very smart. He will be missed by many. My deepest sympathy to his family and close friends.
Jeanette Anglin
January 4, 2007
I knew Derek when he was a young teenager. He spent a lot of time at my home. I have not seen him in a while, but over the years I always thought of him and wondered how and what he was doing. I am terribly upset to hear of his untimely passing. He will always have a very special place in my heart.
Jessica Ward
January 4, 2007
Brittany, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Meagan Miller
January 4, 2007
I graduated with Derek from Shen, unfortunately didn't get to know him as well as I should have. My deepest condolences to the family.
To Caryoln and Lauren...I love you girls, keep smiling.
Joan & Irwin Sidman
January 4, 2007
Please accept ouir deepest sympathy on the sudden passing of Derek. We will always remember him as that youngster we knew in his earlier years.
Ann DiStefano
January 4, 2007
Michael, Robin & family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Derek. I know how close he was to all of you and such a bright kid. I also know you will always have his memories in your hearts and remember all the fun times you had with him. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan & Jack Moyer
January 4, 2007
We are so terribly sorry for your enormous loss. You have been in our thoughts and prayers ever since Melissa and Robert called us.
Susan and Jack Moyer
(Melissa Drislane's Sister & Brother-In-Law)
debbie and dave grosjean
January 4, 2007
We are here for anything you need.Our hearts are broken for you.Derek will be remembered with love by us always.
Tara Davis
January 4, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Fran Minissale
January 4, 2007
To our dearest friends, Michael and Robin, Words cannot express the feelings we have this morning as we read about your beloved Derek. Our shock and sadness is overwhelming. We send our most sincere sympathies and we are here for you for whatever you need. Love, Fran and Les
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