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Jason and Chris Ingalls
September 16, 2008
Lori,
I am so very sorry about Stefen, I couldnt believe it when I heard. It is a mother's worst nightmare. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mystie Willmarth
September 16, 2008
Lori,
I am So sorry for your loss. Stefen played a great deal in my life as well as my sisters and brothers. We all were neighbors and when you guys moved we were crushed. Now that stefen is not here it makes us all relize that someday your friends just might be the ones you miss the most. Stefen has proven this on so many occasions. Lori I am so so so sorry this happened to him but i believe he is happy healty and very well taken care of in heaven and he is smiling down upon us wishing we are well and that he guides us through our troubles...he was always good for that...I Love you lori and i love and miss my best friend ...STEFEN YOU ALWAYS KNEEW WHAT TO SAY ......Love Always Mystie Willmarth and my daughter Autym
P.S
I wish she could have met him she would have loved him
Kristine Pellizzari
September 10, 2008
Lori,
You must be so honored and proud to have raised such a wonderful son. He was loved and is missed by so many but take comfort in knowing that he made a great impact on so many peoples lives, including Jonathans. You are always going to be a part of Stefen's life through his many friends. Through them, he will always live on.
Mary Ellen (cousin) Schoenhofer
September 8, 2008
Barb ,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your Grandson.I know we havent even seen each other in many years , But I still have a heavy heart for you and your family during this time.
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Rochelle White
September 7, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
marc titta
September 7, 2008
i didnt know him very good but when i seen stefen i always seen a smile on his face so rest in peace stefen and i will see u in the heavens above
carrie brittson
September 6, 2008
i didnt no alot of stefen but i had lunch with him and would talk in the halls at school.... he is one of the nicest people someone could ever meet and we will miss him alot
Dani Clarke
September 5, 2008
My Thoughts and Prayers go out to Stefens Family. I didnt know Stefen but my Children knew him very well. (Billy And Zelina Sweeney) God bless you Stefen and God's Speed.
Bridgett Rys
September 5, 2008
Stefen was the first person at Waite High School who befriended my daughter. She is a deaf student and Stefen was very sweet to her. Stefen sat with us at the orientation at School and my daughter was thrilled to see him. I just wanted to say thank you for raising such a fine young man. You have my deepest sympathy.
Diana Klempner
September 5, 2008
I did not know Stefen personally nor his parents, but my daughter (Maggie Klempner) was a friend of his from Jr. High into Waite.
I know there is nothing that I can say that will ease your pain but I would like you to know that my thoughts & prayers have been and will continue to be with his parents, family & friends.
Remember wherever you go and whatever you do, he'll be there.
Mike Skutt
September 5, 2008
To Michael Night and Family: I'm really saddened by your loss and wish I knew what to say or do in order to help ease your burden. I can only hope that your close network of friends and family are helping you be strong. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask...
Chris & Christine Blom
September 5, 2008
Lori,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Rachels
September 5, 2008
MIKE & LORI: My deepest sympanthies and lots of prayers go out to you. I did not know your son but I know Sue. I am Johns sister.
September 5, 2008
Lori & Salo family,
We are so sorry for your loss our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family, Stefen will be in our thoughts and prayers. From the Sanchez, Rodriguez, Pecina, Hernandez, Martinez and Fonseca families
Michelle Bloomer
September 5, 2008
Lori and Andrew, Mike and family,
You both know I am here for you anytime you need me. All I can say is that no one should have to go through the loss of a child. Stefen was a great kid even if he did always call me "tall and scary."
Rose Gerken
September 5, 2008
Lori and Andy, words cannot express to you the sadness I feel for both of you and for Joanie. Life can be so cruel sometimes and this is surely one of those times. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom Lopez
September 5, 2008
Lori,
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family in this tough time, Stefen will always be in our thoughts and prayers. We will love him always. Love all your Uncles & Aunts from the Lopez family.
Lily & Jr. Lopez
September 5, 2008
Lori and Family,
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family in this sadden time. Stefen even though we didn't have much contact with you, you were always in our thoughts, we will always love and cherish the times we had with you and you will never be forgotten. We love you grandma & grampa Lopez
Mac Stevens
September 5, 2008
I'm an SHC member and just got the word. I am sorry for your loss and wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Angela Mohanty
September 4, 2008
Lori, Andy, Mike and family- My heart aches for you all. As I read all of these entries it is wonderful to see how so many people have special memories and love Stefen. All I can say is I'm sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you everyday.
Jen`i
September 4, 2008
Strange thing happened to me today I don't usually look through the paper but today I was in a waiting room and passed through the obits. I never read them, it always makes me cry knowing someone has lost a love one. But I saw his and read it. I came home and now I know why I did. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Many blessings and prayers.
Rick & Sharon Allen
September 4, 2008
We are so sorry to get the news of your loss. I was just thinking of you the other day Michael. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Lois Ricica
September 4, 2008
Lori and Andrew - we are so very sorry for your loss. Words are empty, but things like this just shouldn't happen. Michelle and Andrew both remember talking to Stefen last Christmas and were excited to have another "cousin" in the gang. Our hearts break for you and we will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Dan, Lois, Michelle and Andrew Ricica
alisha stahl
September 4, 2008
Lori, and mike, im really sorry for your loss. i cant imagine what your going though. stefen was a very important person in everyones lives. including mine. and he was a well loved child. and i will miss him deeply.
stefen, you were not only my best friend. but you were a part of me...we did everything together, stay up all night talking on the phone about nothing.lol...having mt.dew drinking contests..you always won. =] and i remember our freshman year homecomming dance. that was the most important thing to me. the way you laughed and smiled was breathtaking. and i remember when we went to the mud hens game with your mom. it was fun! we just had this talk like a week ago.lol...you said you loved it because i said we acted like a married couple, and you miss it. you wanted us to be together again.well one day sweetie. one day. i will always cherish all the things youve said and done, and all the memories we shared. and just like you said..."you just dont forget love and if you really loved me, you will never forget." i will never forget stefen. i promise. and i promise i will always love you. and you will forever be in my heart! i miss you more than you could imagine! ---alisha
MARSHA THOMAS
September 3, 2008
I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON, BUT MY DAUGHTER WENT TO SCHOOL WITH HIM. WE ARE SAYING A PRAYER FOR YOU TONIGHT THAT YOUR FAMILY STAYS TIGHT THROUGH THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME. MY FAMILY WILL KEEP STEFEN IN OUR HEARTS AND YOU IN OUR PRAYERS
Katie Jordan
September 3, 2008
To Uncle Mike, an lori
I just want you to know that i feel your pain.
Stefen, is my cuz,but we grew up together, became more than just cuzins. he was my big brother.
When i needed to talk, or if i needed to get something off my chest, he was there!!
When i needed a good laugh he was the one to go to!!
Stefen and mike were two pee's in a pod!!
Where ever Mike was you saw stefen !!
Stefen will be missed very,very much!!
WE all love him so much, and that will never change!!EVER
I can still picture him, standing next to me,fighting of who's taller, of corse i always was!!
Well that was untill he sprouted up there!Stefen will be in my thoughts, and always in my dreams.
I LOVE YOU!
Uncle mike, iam so very sorry! This is just something everyone has to deal, with!
And i know that you may think why him, so young, so full of life, had everything going for him!!
I gess will never know, but some day, will be right there with him!
Listening to his jokes and watching him goff off!
Just know that he loved you very much, and was very thankful, he had a great, careing loveing,father figure in his life!!
P.S.Stefen now your up in heven, tell mom-mom that i love her so so so much!
Kathy (Gypsy) Estep
September 3, 2008
Your entire family is in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.
Teasha Hoffman (Fox)
September 3, 2008
Hi Lori,
I want to tell you how deeply sorry i was to hear about Stefen. I know it's been a very long time since we have seen each other but i have never forgotten you and will, from this day forward, keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care, miss you.
Jon Saling
September 3, 2008
For knowing enough of the family, my heart goes out to everyone who has known, seen, spoken with Stefen... I know this is difficult, and you all know I'll do anything to help out. Just say the word.
leslie szych
September 3, 2008
Stefen, I havent gotten the chance to hang out with u lately. But you were always a good friend. You will most definately be missed. Love you Buddy!love you'r good friend Leslie me n carrie brittson miss u like crazey :[ waite high school is not the same with out you aneymore!my thoughts n prayers are with ur family n other friends i mis su like crazey :[
heather pawlak
September 3, 2008
stefen we will miss you so much! we love you forever lil homie! lori and mike i am so sorry for your loss!
heather(racheal and robbies cousin)
larry/linda Debagio
September 3, 2008
Lori, Andy, & Family
We're so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Our prayers are with you & your family,if there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to let us know
Jennifer Bucher
September 3, 2008
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Amber Parker
September 3, 2008
You will be missed by a whole bunch of people!! You always made someone laugh for no reason!! You were the best even though you did not know me very well!! No matter what you will never be forgotten!! We are going to miss you a lot!!
leslie szych
September 3, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss. I remeber Stefen very well. I still smile when I think of when when he said he was gonna be a rapper!He was a great kid and will be remembered forever. Stefen, I havent gotten the chance to hang out with you at all lately besides in school.Waite high school is not gonna be the same lunch was the best with yew cuz you were always had funny jokes and somehting nice 2 always say. carrie brittson misses yew n never gonna 4 get yewBut you were always a good friend. You will most definately be missed.Hugs to Stefen's family! I MISS U Stefen already :(
Christie Cairns
September 3, 2008
Words cannot describe how sorry I am for your loss. My family went through this very thing just a year ago. The only advice I can give to your and your family would be that it is ok to cry. We are all only so strong.
I pray that you find peace one day - as crazy as that may sound.
I did not know Stefen personally, but Michael I have no doubt he was a tremendous young man because of the father that you are.
In my prayers always.
Dan Armstrong
September 3, 2008
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
tiffany krueger
September 3, 2008
stefen was the sweetiest boy that i new at waite high school and he always made his friends laugh...and i am sorry to his family and his others friends and we will always miss you and we will always keep you in our heart...i miss you stefen..and sorry to his mother and father
Eva Stundon
September 3, 2008
So sorry for your loss. You both have a new guardian angel to look over you. If there is anything I can do for you please dont hesitate to call. Hugs N kisses to all love, Eva,Tris, Jimmy,Justin& Anastasia
Andy Dolph (from the SHC)
September 3, 2008
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robert Hammons
September 3, 2008
Stefen u r like a brother to me and u always will be a brother to me because u became my best friend before anything then u came my brother and all i want to say is that i thank u for being there and that i will miss u like crazy man and i want to say that i am so sorry to his family
Bam Bam & Deann Katinsky
September 3, 2008
We are sorry to hear of your loss. God Bless Stefen and The Night Family, you all will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Geoff Ronning
September 3, 2008
To the entire Night Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Geoff Ronning
Brannon Dreibrodt
September 3, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear about your tragedy. Though I do not have children, and couldn't know about the loss you're experiencing, I can tell you that he's in a better place now, and he's watching over you.
Julia Lake
September 3, 2008
My family and I send our prayers to you and your family. It's hard to understand why things like this happen. Just know that you have your angel watching over you now and forever!
Amanda Coulter
September 3, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Brian Hickling
September 3, 2008
Oh man, it's still hard to believe this happened. This is hard for me, but I can't imagine how Lori and everyone else is feeling. You were one of the most important people in my life, and I'm going to miss you.
Katie Hunt
September 3, 2008
Lori, Andrew, and Mike,
I am very sorry for your loss. I remeber Stefen very well. I still smile when I think of his dreams to be a rapper like Eminem. What was his stage name going to be? Stefinem??? He was a great kid and will be remembered forever.
Scott Styles
September 3, 2008
There are no words that will help make sense of such a tragedy. Know that with time the hurt and pain will lessen. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Scott Styles - SHC Family
Sue Mahoney
September 3, 2008
Andy, Lori and Family,
I wish I could say something to ease your heartache, but please know you are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Love, Sue and Phil Mahoney
Dan Davis
September 3, 2008
We are so saddened by your loss. You know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your families. Dan, Michael, Danielle & Christian Davis.
Teresa Crawford
September 3, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Metha Seymour
September 3, 2008
Stefen you are in my prayers & thoughts I didn't know you well but what I did know of you,, You was a sweet kid you will be missed by everyone.. You are in a beautiful place now & one day we will all be joining you. Lori & Mike I'm really sorry for your lost Stefen is a sweet child.
Metha Seymour (Racheal & Robbies mom)
Linda Witkos
September 3, 2008
Lori, Andrew and family,
Words always seem so inadequate at a time like this, but want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
If there is anything I can do, let me know. I am just around the block.
My heart aches for you,
Kim Jones
September 3, 2008
All my love and hugs to Stefen's family and
Sincerely from Mike's friends
Kim, Doreen and Layla Jones
Sheila Jacops
September 3, 2008
Although we have not yet met, our hearts go out to all the friends and family.
God Bless
The Staff of Connxtions Comedy Club
Paul Burnham
September 3, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Patrick Blair
September 3, 2008
Mike and Lori,
My prayers are for the both of you and that I know that no words printed or said will ease the pain and loss felt at this time. I Love You Both.
Samantha Stahl
September 3, 2008
Stefen,I still can't belive your gone..I remember the times we shared and when you helped me through some problems I was having..I will miss you so much bro.You may of not been my real brother but I will always claim you no matter what..Love ya Stefen..R.I.P Bro
Michael Jordan
September 3, 2008
My deepest and heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family. I do believe that he is in a better place and smiles down on you. God bless you all.
Mike
Jeanne Anderson
September 3, 2008
Mike, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Wendy Ronning
September 3, 2008
Michael,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time. We are so sorry for your loss.
Geoffrey and Wendy Ronning
Racheal Griffin
September 3, 2008
Stefen will be sorely missed....we love you buddy and always will....Lori Andy and Mike we are so sorry for what happened,
Sarah AKA Lunch Box Sager
September 3, 2008
I am so sorry for your lose. My heart and prayers are with you...
Kay Saling
September 3, 2008
My heart goes out to Lori, Michael, and all of Stefen's loved ones. How incredibly devestating and sad this is to have happened to one so young, innocent, full of life, and loved so very, very much. God Bless you all.
Tamara Pahl
September 3, 2008
I was Stefen's English teacher at Waite, and he was always friendly and could always make me smile. He was a sweet kid with a kind heart and will be dearly missed. You are all in my prayers.
Tami Pahl
Brittney Dyer
September 3, 2008
Stefen, I havent gotten the chance to hang out with you at all lately. But you were always a good friend. You will most definately be missed. Love you Buddy! I'll never forget you!
Carolyn Bailey
September 3, 2008
I love you Stefen. Aunt Carolyn
Crystal Blom
September 3, 2008
Lori and family,
My deepest sympathies to you...I hadn't seen Stefen since he was probably about four years old but, he was always in my thoughts. I love you all and am here for you always.
megan smart
September 3, 2008
R.I.P Stefen you were a great person and a wonderful friend. i didnt know you that long but you had an impact in my life.
GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN......
ILOVEU
Linda Monhollen
September 3, 2008
Stephen will be missed by alot of people and i am sorry that he is gone. It was an honor to be his (Aunt) I will miss him.
April Saling
September 3, 2008
Lori and Mike...
My heart is broken for the both of you. I'm so sorry. If you need anything you know where to find me.
Nancy Myers
September 2, 2008
To the Salo family, I work with Barb & Jess at Heartland. My thoughts & prayers go out to everyone at this time of sorrow.
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