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Troy Marcotte
March 16, 2007
Wow it's a year later and I still think about you all the time.We are having a party in your name tomorrow and we will party like we know you would!!!!HARD!!!
Henry Hormann
March 25, 2006
Wow, yesterday was quite a day. We really sent Ray off in style, thanks to Heather & her family, Salem Church, and to all of Ray's friends & family. Ray would have enjoyed everyone's speaking and the musical performances, everyone's words were incredible and poignant. Our hearts are still broken and it still feels like time has stood still since March 17th, but the last couple of days have helped immensely.
Molli S
March 25, 2006
“I speak Spanish to God, Italian to women, French to men and German to my horse.” Charles V
Ray was a perfect fit in any crowd. The friends who gathered at his service were a testament to that.
Thank you Heather, for putting on such a fitting farewell.
This is so surreal. Wake me when it's over.
Mike Turnure
March 23, 2006
Our thoughts and sympathy are with Ray's memory and family.
Mike, Leena and Tess
Lisa Wagner
March 23, 2006
Whenever someone said "Ray's here!" it usually meant the party was about to be called to (dis)order and the fun would ratchet up a notch or three. I always had a great time when Ray was around, and his presence loomed as large as the hole left by his passing.
I know this: Ray was enormously proud of "his girls," and there's no doubt his last thought could only have been about how much he loved Heather and Amelia. With you both, we will all miss Ray. We was robbed. Ray was one of a kind. He'll always live large in the hearts of his friends.
Sue & Tom Ryan
March 22, 2006
Heather,
We are so sorry to learn about your loss. We enjoyed Ray's playful spirit at family gatherings where we could see how much he loved you and Amelia.
We love you.
Tom and Sue
Mackenzie, Thomas, Joseph, Maggie
petrona Mejia
March 22, 2006
I remember ray and I miss him he was a great friend.Everyday that we saw each other at work he would always say "Hey hows it going?" He was a the type of friend you can truly trust.You were a great man ray and I will miss you always.
To rays family, sorry for your loss you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne & Jerry Koh
March 22, 2006
Heather and Amelia,
We're so sad to think of Ray gone, and we're just glad to say that we knew him and considered him a friend. We have so many memories of Ray over the years, but none quite as poignant as seeing the three of you as a family. Help Amelia remember her Momma-Daddy, and keep these rememberances of Ray so she will know just how much he was loved, and how much he loved you. Our love to you both, and our prayers are with you.
joe ruiz
March 22, 2006
RAY-MONDO!!
You will deeply be missed by many.
I've always known Ray to be a pretty hillarious guy and have always thought of him as that until I saw him with his daughter.
I thought "what a big softy!"
Not only was he hillarious, he was a proud father and husband.
We'll miss you Raymondo
Heather Miner (Hotchkiss)
March 22, 2006
The most wasted of days is one without laughter....
Thank you Ray for never wasting a day. Let the light continue to watch over you as you move forward in your journey.
Heather - it has been a while, but know that every day my heart aches for you and sends you light and energy to guide you through this time.
Amelia - Your father shared so much with so many, as evidenced by the messages here, cherish these words and carry him with you - he will always watch over you.
To the rest of Ray's friends an family, thank you for sharing such a wonderful person with the rest of us. May peace find you and guide you through these times.
God bless.
Dori Ullman
March 22, 2006
Dear Heather, Amelia, Linda and Ray's Siblings:
It's so hard to lose someone you've loved. But-you remember his love for you and the aura of fun and laughter he brought with him. This next year will be so hard. But I know you will be there for each other, with love.
To Ray's friends: you and Ray have had such a great bond, I know that you also are hurting. I know you all treasure that bond and your great friendships, will show love for each other and know that Ray's love and humor will always be around you all.
My prayers go for all of you.
Love, Dori Ullman
(Jon Sweeney's Mom)
Jimmy Turnure
March 22, 2006
Ray stands tall in the minds of anyone he touched. Very few can have character and be a character at the same time. Ray had it down to a science.
To his family--there are a huge number of people with you right now. My wife and I and our families wish you all the best.
One thing's for sure--Ray will clear us some room on the other side! Peace.
Tad Wagner
March 22, 2006
Dear Heather, Amelia, Stephanie and David, Season, Jason and family,
I am still in shock and very sad to hear of this tragedy. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in this time of great sadness.
Heather, I am honored that I got the opportunity to get to know you and Ray a little bit better this past year. I feel that I came away from it a better human being for it, and I know that despite the tough times ahead, the wonderful family and friends you surround yourself with will help you through.
Please don't hesitate to call on me for ANYTHING you need in any capacity.
Tad
Dad
March 22, 2006
May your Spirits and Guides, bless you, Heahter and Amelia. . . As always, I am just a phone call away. .
Love, Dad
Jeannie Farrell
March 21, 2006
Unfortunatley, I did not have the opportunity to know Ray very well, but I do know the some of the people he was closest to. Knowing them, I can tell he was a person I wished I could have gotten to know better. My thoughts go out to all of his friends and family, you are an amazing group, he was lucky to have you all and you all are blessed to have each other. My thoughts are with all of you and especially Heather and little Amelia.
Jan Johnson
March 21, 2006
Heather and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jan (Honeywell)
Matt Dodge
March 21, 2006
Well Ray, twenty seven years was not long enough my friend. I will carry your memory with me for the rest of my life. You were the best of friends. I will miss you terribly.
Cindy Marcotte
March 21, 2006
Ray,
It is now 4:39, and I am expecting you to show up any minute to pick up Amelia....To hear your "WHAS UP" as you walk in the door.......to make me smile- no matter what you say. You were truly the humor and smile in my day - every day. I will be telling Amelia in the years to come how she would get so excited to see you coming that she would let out a huge happy scream. And there you would be - just as happy to see her too. Giving her hugs and kisses, instantly changing you from "Cool Ray" to "Daddy Ray". It still makes me smile. I will miss you so much.
Wayne Lundgren
March 21, 2006
It was good to know you Ray.
We had a few laughs together.
I'm going to miss you Ray
Wayne Lundgren
Victoria England
March 21, 2006
My heart goes out to Heather and Amelia and all of us who have lost Ray. Ray could always bring the house down with his humor and wit. There is a hole in our life now. I miss you Ray.
Kel Jopy VonSkratchmann
March 21, 2006
Ray was a unique personality who made this world a much better place. For those of us lucky enough to have known Ray his memory will never fade. The stories, the humor, the joy, the mischeivous sparkle in his eye, and good times he brought to our lives will not be forgotten. Your memory will be cherished, thanks Ray!
Greg Leierwood
March 21, 2006
Friends and Family,
Ray will always be remembered for his larger than life personality. He was always able to get me to break into a smile in the best and worst situations. I'm certain everyone has a "Ray story", and over the past few days I've heard and told a few.
Ray, cheers to you for touching us all. You have left a hole in our hearts where you used to be.
Deb Sack
March 21, 2006
Oh Raymundo - Where do we begin to tell you how much we miss you at work, I have no one to harrass (except Andy), Your smile, your joking around, you have left a huge hole here, you are a great guy and we know you are still here with us - I have your badge picture at my desk and I am still yelling at you. Thanks for the memories and sharing the pictures of your daughter. Miss you!!! Deb
Kelly McLarty
March 21, 2006
Heather and Amelia my thoughts and prayers go out to you. Please let me know if you need anything at all, I will always be here for you sweetie.
Laurie Rathbun
March 21, 2006
Heather and Amelia our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Henry Hormann
March 20, 2006
No doubt the biggest gift Ray gave to us along with his constant unwavering friendship was all the laughs & I do mean laughin' till you were cryin' in many cases. Everyone who knew him probably has had his phrases & snappy one-liners ringing in their heads all week long. We're lucky to have all those memories, there are so many of 'em I can't stop counting. You were the Man, Raymondo!
Suzie & Ray Engen
March 20, 2006
Heather and Amelia, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending up prayers for you and all of Ray's family and friends. You know if you need anything, just give a shout, I'll be there.
Ilene Holm
March 20, 2006
Heather,
My heart goes out to you........
You're such a special person, Ray must have been a shining star to capture your heart. Please know that I'm here for anything, anything what-so-ever.
Tiffany L. & Justin S.
March 20, 2006
Heather, when I heard the news that Raymond was gone I just broke down. All I could think about was you and Amelia. I can't believe this happened your lives were just beginning to start. I love all you guys so very very much and I am truly heartbroken from the loss of my uncle Ray. Please stay strong, Our prayers are with you...
Marsha Quasnick
March 20, 2006
Heather, Amelia, and extended family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
THUAN TRINH
March 20, 2006
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out you. Let me know if you need anything. Stay strong.
Thuan
Renee Lee
March 20, 2006
Ray,
You will be missed more then words can say. My love to your beautiful wife and daughter.
Laurie Rathbun
March 20, 2006
you will be missed by all your neighbors and all who were around you you are in good hands now ray hope you are looking down on us
Jerry and Shelly Budach
March 20, 2006
Heather and Amelia,
We are so sorry for your loss, you will be in our thoughts and prayers. If at anytime that you need us just call.
Pam Bratsch
March 20, 2006
My heart goes out to Heather & Amelia in this great loss. Please know that you are im my thoughts and prayers.
Emily Bauer
March 20, 2006
Ray Ray,
You will be missed. You always made sure you came in and said Hi to me everyday! (don't know if it was to say Hi or if I had any food for you!) I will miss your smiling face everyday. Thanks for being a great Friend.
Heather and Amelia my thoughts and prayers go out to you!!
Laurie Rathbun
March 20, 2006
Ray was a good friend and neighbor he will be missed by us all.
Ray hope you are watching from above to see your preious daughter grow into a beautiful woman she will become.
Thelma Lupu
March 20, 2006
Heather & Amelia, my thoughts and prayera are with you both. If there's anything I can do help just let me know. You take care. God bless...
Thelma
Troy Marcotte
March 20, 2006
Ray,
Drinking coffee and reflecting on all great times and memories.Thanks for them and all the people you touched and made laugh so damn hard!!!
You are loved and missed!!
Milkman!!
Debbie & Mark cullinan
March 20, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss an prayer will be said for your family.
Troy Marcotte
March 20, 2006
Ray,
I loved you like my own brother man.
Thanks for all the adventures and laughs!!!
You will not be forgotten!
Troy
Paul & Michelle Kok
March 20, 2006
Ray was a pleasent and joyful person to work with at Wells Fargo.
You will be missed!
Dave Strombeck
March 20, 2006
Heather and Amelia my thoughts are with you. If you need anything, ride babysitting or an ear let me know. I am there for you.Take care
Dan Miggler
March 20, 2006
"Wasup" Ray would always yell when he came into the room. Then we would laugh. Ray always made me laugh. I will miss him very much.
Steven Dosch
March 20, 2006
To All of Rays extended family;
I have had the pleasure of working with Ray for the past three years. His smile and energy will be truly missed here at Wells Fargo.
God Bless you all in this very difficult time.
Steve Dosch
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