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Peter Palermo Obituary

PALERMO PETER MICHAEL PALERMO Peter Michael Palermo, 80, a devoted husband, father, and grandfather passed away on May 20, 2009 at Manor Care in Alexandria from coronary artery disease. He is survived by his bride of 45 years Martha; six children, Andrea Palermo of Alexandria, Patricia Palermo (Joe Re) of Manassas, Monica Blank (Rich) of Tampa, Florida, Peter Palermo (Stephanie) of Midlothian, Anne O''Malley (Kevin) of Centreville, and Michael Palermo of Alexandria, and twenty two grandchildren. Peter was born in Brooklyn, New York and graduated from Manhattan College with a Bachelor of Science degree in civil engineering in 1953. He proudly served his country with honor during the Korean War in the U.S. Marine Corps. Following his service, Peter had a distinguished 35-year career with the U.S. Department of Navy. Specializing in structures and ship design, he culminated his career as the Assistant Deputy Commander and Technical Director for Ship Design at Naval Sea Systems Command, responsible for all ship and submarine designs. A devout Washington Redskin fan even during the losing years, Mr. Palermo loved his family, God, his country, his beer, and his dogs - not always in that order! Friends will be received on Tuesday, May 26, 2009 from 6 to 8 p.m., at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Alexandria. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, May 27 at 10:30 a.m. at the church. His internment will take place at 2 p.m. at Fairfax Memorial Park. Services are under the direction of the Demaine Funeral Home, Alexandria. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to Food for the Poor, Inc., 6401 Lyons Road, Coconut Creek, FL 33073, (954-427-2222) and include S/C 67184 on the memo line of your check or Catholic Charities, 200 N. Glebe Rd, Suite 506 Arlington, VA 22203, (703-549-1390) and include "in memory of Pete Palermo" on the memo line of your check.

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Published by The Washington Post on May 25, 2009.

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Barbara Buder

June 1, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Stefan, when we did the lesson in CCD class on intercessions, and you made one for your grandfather, I was very touched. I recognized his name in the paper because of that lesson. God bless you and your family.

Charles Zanis

May 29, 2009

My deepest sympathies to the Palermo Family.

James David McWhite

May 29, 2009

Peter, was SEA 05B as I joined the Navy in 1981 as a Engineer in Training. Peter took pride in our young Engineers and I admired his firm but honest mannor to running the command. I looked up to him, as someone I wanted to be like. He was a good man, a great Engineer and Leader. I know you will miss his presence, as I do. God bless you in your hour of sorrow. But know we are all better off that Peter Palermo graced our lives. Sincerely, Dave McWhite - DDG 1000 Ship Systems Integration Manager

David Bonnett

May 28, 2009

It was an honor to work under the guidance of Pete, the finest Engineer, I ever met. He unequivocally saved countless live by insuring that submarine hulls were built safely. I know I speak for the Romeo C Egypt Team and the Octosub Group in expressing our profound sadness at his passing
Dave Bonnett

Mike and Jean Lenderking

May 28, 2009

Dear Martha and Family,

I have very fond memories of “Uncle Peter” from my many years at the Model Basin. He was a real leader, teacher and role model for me. I always appreciated his willingness to make decisions whenever they were needed and to take full responsibility for them. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

May 27, 2009

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself … any man’s death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

Archie & Charlotte Wiggs

May 26, 2009

Dear Martha and Family,
We send a hug and heartfelt condolences. Uncle Peter as we knew him at David Taylor was a role model for a generation of Naval research engineers. He was a true leader, teacher, and a genuine friend. May you fine comfort in his and your strong faith.
Love,

Rebecca & Bert Oldham

May 26, 2009

Mr P was my boss back in the late 80's @ CASDE Corp and through friends I've just learned the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Earl Warrington

May 26, 2009

God bless you all.. Mr. Palermo left a huge whole in our hearts, and I will miss him.

Art Spero

May 25, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

S.D.

May 25, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Reading Psalms 121 is a very comforting scriptural passage. There you will find assurance of God’s support as well. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Mike Michalowicz

May 25, 2009

Dear Palermo Family,

I'm so sorry for your loss. What a legacy your Dad leaves. I know how much Pete adored his Dad and it has to be tough. Love, Mike and Stephanie Michalowicz

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