Fred N. Tolley

Fred N. Tolley

Fred Tolley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 1 to Nov. 8, 2008.
Fred Neil Tolley, 79, of Wytheville lost his bout with heart and kidney failure on Wednesday, Oct., 29, 2008. Funeral service will be held Saturday, Nov. 1, at 1 p.m. at St. Paul United Methodist Church. Interment will be in the family cemetery in the Freemont community of Carroll County. He was born Jan. 29, 1929, in Havaco, W.Va., son of the late Dallas and Marie Tolley of Bartley, W.Va. He served in the U.S. Navy during the Korean War before graduating from West Virginia University. He was an electrical engineer with Western Electric and AT&T for 27 years in High Point, N.C., and Richmond before "retiring" to farming for the last 18 years of his life. He was a Worthy Patron of the Eastern Star of High Point, N.C., 106 and a Past Master of Acacia (Hiram) Lodge. Survivors include his wife of 57 years, Guida W. Tolley; two sons and daughters-in-law, Gary and Denise Tolley of Durham, N.C., Dan and Diane Tolley of Purcellville; five perfect grandchildren, Neil, Katie, Joseph, David and Patrick; two sisters, Hazel Murensky and Ann Whitaker; four brothers, Sam Tolley, Bob Tolley, Dave Tolley and Pete Tolley; and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other loving relatives, close friends and neighbors. The family will receive friends Saturday, Nov. 1, at 1 p.m. at St. Paul United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial donations be made to the American Heart Assoc., Wytheville, VA 24382; or the National Kidney Foundation, 30 E. 33rd St., New York, NY 10016. Barnett Funeral Home in Wytheville is in charge of the arrangements.

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November 19, 2008

Mark Tolley posted to the memorial.

November 18, 2008

John Elliott posted to the memorial.

November 6, 2008

Jean Chappell posted to the memorial.

Mark Tolley

November 19, 2008

Dear Aunt Guida, Gary, and Dan,

I have many fond memories of Uncle Fred visiting when I was younger. I remeber how happy he and my Dad were as they prepared to sneak off and go fishing for a day. My brother and I spent some great times in the mountains fishing and skiing with him too. Our prayers are with you.

Love, Mark, Dinah, Alex, and Alan

John Elliott

November 18, 2008

To the Tolleys:
Knowing Dan, I recognize what a fine father Fred was. Our family will be praying that each of you is comforted with fond memories, and healed of the ache of his loss quickly. Blessings!

Jean Chappell

November 6, 2008

Dear Guida,
Jim and I are so sorry to hear of Fred's passing. We will keep you and the family in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Jim and Jean Chappell
Surreywood
1632 Elmart Lane
Richmond, VA 23235

Kay Reaser

November 1, 2008

To all the Tolley family,
Our sympathy is with each of you in the passing of Fred. Take comfort in knowing he is now well and healthy again. I remember all of you fondly from years ago in Bartley.
With love,
Kay (Barnette) & Buddy

Shirley Tolley-Hancock

October 31, 2008

Uncle Fred was always there when we needed him and if we had a second father it was him. He treated us, Shirley, Donny and Judy the same way he treated Gary and Danny when he said he had enough we knew to get of the way God is holding him in his arms and we will all meet again one day. Love and sympathy to Aunt Guida, Gary, Danny and all the rest of the family.

Matt McCarty

October 31, 2008

We offer our deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jane Bennett

October 30, 2008

To Guida and sons, I am so very sorry to hear about Fred. My thoughts are with you, wish I were there also.

Love you very much.

Jane

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