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Joe DeBolske Obituary
Memories and Condolences
for Joe DeBolske
451 Entries
Michael Murrietta
January 30, 2025
Thinking about you Joey. You were such a good cousin to me and I miss you a lot. Seeing your pictures brings up a lot of emotion for me because you had the biggest heart of anyone I ever met and wish we could celebrate your birthday and hangout. We had so many great memories together as kids, getting into trouble, skateboarding, trampolining, running around Uncle Kevin and Aunt Peggys big yard playing hide and seek. Playing Halo. Listening to Offspring and Nirvana. You gave me my first explicit CD, you were the one I always looked up to Joey a risk taker, thrill seeker, always pushing the limits. You are my guardian angel and I have been thinking a lot today about memories I had with you and what a good childhood we had. Seems like a long time ago now but for me the pain of losing you still feels like it was yesterday. Love you very much Joey. Rest In Peace.
Cameron Murray
December 29, 2024
Rest in peace joey I dont think anyone would know or remember me im Cameron Brennans younger brother joey was my brother's best friend high school buddy and hockey teammate and Steven joeys brother was my best friend I pray peace and blessings for your family bro rest in peace
Cameron Murray
December 29, 2024
I want to share my condolences joey popped up in my mind at the time I couldn't say anything cause I was too little I'll keep him and his family in my prayers steven debowske was my best friend at the time and joey was my brother's best friend and hockey team mate I pray peace and protection for his family and love in Jesus name Amen R.I.P my friend i know your in paradise now.
Anthony Tucker
January 7, 2021
Thinking about you and missing you Joey. I come back every year and read the amazing memories people share and see the countless lives you touched, and it never gets easier but reminds me how great of a son, cousin, and friend you were to everybody you met. I always think back to the times I was lucky enough to share with you, and will forever cherish them. Love you and miss you Joey!
Candice C
January 10, 2016
I will never forget the countless years of school we had together and all the times you made me laugh, but the memory that sticks with me the most was when me and jessica M ran into you guys at desert ridge and ended up spending the night sitting on the grass catching up on all the time we had missed from you going to a different school. We talked for hours like we hadnt missed a beat. Your smile shined like it always had from the first time I met you in elementary school. Its amazing what time has done and all the years that have gone on. Now both you and Jess M are gone. They say the good die young. May we meet again one day. RIP Joey you are truly missed by so many
January 5, 2016
Joey, you came to my mind now as I'm watching the news about a bus accident in the snow. Your smiling face and vibrant personality as my student is still in my mind, and my heart goes out to your family for the loss of you in their lives here on earth. I am compelled to write here after realizing that today is your birthday. God works in mysterious ways and gives us the promise that we will see you again. Nancy Wheeler
Beth Freese
January 31, 2015
I just had the most real dream ever about you Joey. I still miss you so much. I am thankful for all the memories I have and our decade of friendship. I love you so much.
April 4, 2013
I love and miss you so much joey!!
jayme
katie libby
November 30, 2011
I miss you Joey. Love you!
July 5, 2011
I miss you my son. ~Mom
April 6, 2011
joey i miss you more than ever lately. its been so long since ive seen your smiling face. thinking of all our good times gets me through it all. cant wait to see that amazing smile again -jayme
September 8, 2010
I miss you, Joe. Take care of your friend, Payton. He needs you.
Love you,
Aunt Terrie
Michael
July 11, 2010
At the cabin Joey, miss you so much. Think about you constantly. I tell stories about you all the time, and you will never be forgotten. I love you so much..miss you Joe.
Michael
Cory T
May 25, 2010
Hey Cuz,
Just wanted to say hello and let you know your always in my mind. Miss you man. Wish you could meet lil Joey.....He's perfect...Just like you were....I love you!
Old Friend
April 6, 2010
miss you joe :( you will NEVER be forgotten. see you again someday <3
A Friend
December 14, 2009
Joey,
I am so sorry it has been a while since I have written to you, but it doesn't mean you are out of my heart or thoughts. As you know Kate and I had a little girl and she is beyond precious (she's 6 1/2 months old now). Words cannot express how amazing the feeling is and Kate thinks you had something to do with helping us get pregnant. I miss you more now that I am a dad. I want my daughter to have the same values as you. I know you would be amazed to see your old babysitter as a mom now but she is the best. She can probably thank you for helping her out with that or at least knowing what not to do now. As I sit here tears are rolling down my face cause I want to say so much but yet so little. Joe I miss you and I am sorry if I didn't tell you enough how great of a person you are. You have such a positive impact on my life and you are years younger then me. I haven't forgotten anything about you. I still haven't smoked a cigar since the last time and can't. I will talk to you soon, I love you and miss you and your smile and those earrings.
Cory
December 8, 2009
Whats up Joe. I miss you man. Always thinkin about you. Love you
Katie Miller
November 30, 2009
Let me set the scene: Mrs. Beene's kindergarten class at the round blue middle table in the back row. Joey sat across from me with your back to Mrs. Beene.
Now let me tell the story: I've told this one a thousand and one times as I remember it like it was yesterday, about 17 years ago actually. Mrs. Beene was at the front of the class speaking while Joey and I were paying little to no attention. From across the table Joey whispered to me, "Hey Katie. Show me your butt." I couldn't deny his charm, and so I turned around under the table while Joey took a peak. "No, Katie. SHOW ME YOUR BUTT!" So I turned around again, and Joey took a second peak. "NO KATIE! I SAID SHOW ME YOUR BUTT!" Third time, same routine. Still, not good enough. "NO KATIE! YOUR REAL BUTT!" I was about to do it but my three year old nerves got in the way and so I told little Joey he'd just have to wait until recess. Recess came and I'd hoped he'd forget, but oh no, the second I stepped foot at the sandbox, Joey came running. "Okay, Katie. Now show me your butt." I told him it would have to be behind the little yellow plastic playhouse. Now we're standing behind the little plastic playhouse, and Joey screams, "OKAY IT'S TIME." Instead, I told him to wait until after school. Later, school was out and we found ourselves back behind the little plastic playhouse. "KATIE! IT'S TIME!" I couldn't do it. There were just too many teachers wandering around trying to catch little kids like us behaving in such fashions. I told Joey if he wanted to see my butt, we had to go to the bathroom. Of course, he agreed. Interesting thing about those bathrooms, there is one toilet and one sink for one person at a time, but hey, what do rules really mean when you're three? And so alas, I hiked down my shorts and showed Joey Debolske my butt. "Okay Katie, we can go now." Not so fast, we returned to the sandbox with an angry faced teacher waiting for us. When asked why both of us went to the same bathroom, we knew only one rule appled; lie. "Nuh-uh. I went to the bathroom while he was getting a drink." That didn't work. "I was getting a drink while he was in the bathroom." Nope, that didn't work either. "I was going to the bathroom while he was washing his hands?" These lies began sounding like questions. Nope. "I was washing my hands while he was going to the bathroom?" Nope. "OKAY! I SHOWED HIM MY BUTT!" We were immediately marched into Mrs. M's office. I think Joey got his scolding first if I remember correctly. Then, my turn. Mrs. M emphasized the importance of not showing my butt to people a few or more times before letting me go. I was terrified she'd call my parents and I'd find myself in an extended time out, but to my surprise she didn't. It was years later before I told my parents the story, and you know they got a kick out of it.
I can't tell you how many laughs this story has gotten, and how many more it will. As a matter of fact, it's my best one to date.
Zach Fratella
November 13, 2009
hey dude i played hockey for the first time in like 5 years the other day. It made me think of you and the crushers. You were always watching my back on the rink out there thanks for that. Miss you man.
Love, Zuke
Marcus Esparza
September 24, 2009
hey, man its so weird how you keep coming back into my life. I had a dream about you the other night. we were both playing hockey in cali and you said some mindblowing things to me.
it seemed so real! I cant wait to see you again on the otherside watch my back BRO!!!!!
LOVE, your bro MARC
Aunt Terrie
September 1, 2009
God, Joey, I miss you so much. Cory is naming his second son after his two closest brothers - Aaron and you. Joseph Aaron Talbert. Joseph will know your strength, your compassion and most of all, how much you are loved. Watch over him for us. I love you, Joey.
kate Weintraub
January 23, 2009
i miss you big brother. i love you!
Jenn Godfrey
January 5, 2009
I remember when we had that concert in your honor. I remember thinking how proud you would be of all of us. And i remember how much you touched everyone of us. I cant describe to you how much i miss u. today is your birthday and im so sad you couldnt b here to celebrate it. but i know u are probably living it up somewhere better than here. Even to this day you influence me and i love u so incredibly much. To your parents I just wanted to say thank you. for allowing him to be a part of our lives. keep strong guys you are in our prayers
Jennifer Godfrey
January 5, 2009
Happy Birthday Joey. i love u. and miss u
miss you joey...
January 5, 2009
January 5, 2009
Happy Birthday Little Bro!!
January 4, 2009
Happy Birthday Eve, Joey! You are in
our daily thoughts. We keep memories
of you alive in our hearts. Please continue
to help your family & friends discover and enhance their strengths. You are loved!
December 31, 2008
I miss you Joey
November 26, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving Joey!!!
Josh Darden
November 10, 2008
Not a day goes by where you don't cross our minds, miss ya man.
Sean
October 23, 2008
joey, you were a great hockey player, and a great person. everyone misses you, even if they didnt really know you. only the good die young.
October 1, 2008
Hey Joe,
I just wanted to write a note to you and your family. We miss you so much and talk about you all the time. Many times I wish you were still around for 1 last hug. I still can't understand why you were taken away but just know you are missed and your family is being taken care of.
Chelsey
August 23, 2008
Although I never really got the chance to know you, what happened to you was a tragidy and you'll be well remembered always. <3
Wronski Family
August 15, 2008
As spoken by Mathew Wronski at the memorial service for Joey held at Our Lady of Perpetual Help...
Today we are here to remember, and honor Joseph Cruz DeBolske. I grew up with Joey. The relationship we developed is eternal, and the memories are countless. When I think back on the time I spent with Joey, it is hard to believe he is gone, but all I can feel is nothing but gratitude. Gratitude for being able to spend the time with Joey that I did. Gratitude for having him as a friend.
It is hard to describe what kind of individual he was. All I can say is simply, he was truly a good man. He could make friends out of anyone, and was as compassionate and caring as anyone can be. Joey displayed more responsibility, and more maturity at the age of 17 then most people do at 40. Most who knew him can agree that the past few years had been very tough on him, and it is fair to say that what he's been through is something no teenager should have to deal with. Nevertheless, Joey manned up. He maintined his grades, worked as hard as any teenager could, and at times took care of his brother and sisters as if they were his own children. He manned up to his situation, and I never once heard him complain. It is easy to say that what Joey displayed in his actions describes who he was better than anyone of us can say with words.
Joey's death was unexpected, and is a shock to all of us. Even though it has been hard to accept, I believe it has made all of us stronger. It has taught me how fragile and short life really is. It has taught me how foolish it is to dwell on the small things, the drama, and grudges we may have with others. Maybe the purpose of life is simply to live life happy, to live life with love, compassion and gratitude towards others. There will always be conflice, and obviously tragedy, but that is how we grow, and hopefully we can all grow, and heal from this experience.
In closing, Joey was a great individual, and was a friend many would envy to have. I will always miss him, and I will always remember him and the time we spent together. But I will no longer shed tears for him, because death is not the end. Death is simply going from one room to another, and in time, when we make that journey ourselves, we will see him again.
Mathew Wronski-1/7/08 RIP Joey
Your Friend
July 31, 2008
I thought time would make this easier, but it hasn't. I think about you and your family all the time. Missing you has not gone away. I wish I could see you one last time and give you a hug. I will never forget the last time we hung out at your dads house.
Josh Darden
July 21, 2008
I went to Ozzie Ice today with Thomas and Tyler. Couldn't get you off my mind that whole time. All the good times we had at tourneys and then hanging out and all. Miss ya bud.
Claire Zimmerman
July 9, 2008
Joey,
We still haven't forgotten.
Kristen
June 11, 2008
It is comforting to me that when I close my eyes I can see you. I see you as the little boy at my front door with those big eyes looking up at me and I see you as the amazing man you had became. Although your passing will never make sense to me I know that you are still with us all and that is comforting. I miss you Joey and there isn't a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. I'll see you one day when I go into the next room. I will never forget you. You were an amazing person.
May 21, 2008
this tradgidy will stay with us forever.
we will always love and miss you joe
Nikki Price, Jennifer Godfrey, Anna Ingham, Nate Greenberg Saguaro High School
April 30, 2008
Joe was the type of person who was always there when you were in need. He always had the biggest smile and an even bigger hug. He organized our money, to keep it just right. He was a rebellious kid, but respectful in the same sense. One day, we had a substitute teacher and they had gotten in an argument. He went up to her and apologized for seeming disrespectful: but that was just the person he was. Joe changed our lives in more ways than one. He was inspirational, smart, sweet, funny, but most of all...caring.
As you spend the next few years thinking about what type of person Joe was, remember that he was a good kid. He had many friends who will miss him, and are constantly thinking of how blessed they were to have met him.
If there is anything we can ever do for you, please let us know.
April 29, 2008
Only 1 word can describe Joey, Beautiful. He has a heart of gold that made him amazing to know. His soul was that of a very mature man who has wisdom beyond his years. He had a smile that could light up a room and make you feel special all at once. He is the most Beautiful man both inside and out! We miss you, little Joey
Joshua Libby
April 2, 2008
Some things in life I will never understand. Joey's passing is something I still can't understand or believe. Katie and I talk daily about his warm smile, large spirit and even bigger heart. To Joey's family, I am more amazed ever time I see you guys and how loving you all are and how much you accept me into your hearts. You guys have been incredible thru this whole process and I am glad I have his family to lean on.
Zach Fratella
March 28, 2008
Dear DeBolske family,
I was a teammate of joeys on the crushers and also a friend. Although I have stopped playing hockey after I moved back east, I now play lacrosse. In memory of joey I have written his initials on my helmet so he is with me for every game helping me all the way. Joey was such an inspiration for me and also a role model. I'll never forget you Joey
Joey on ski lift in Telluride on January 6, 2008
Your Family DeBolske
March 23, 2008
obituary:
Joseph Cruz DeBolske (18) born January 5, 1990, an inspiring brother and a loving, committed son unexpectedly passed on January 6, 2008. Joey leaves behind his mother and father, Peggy and Kevin, and younger siblings, Samantha, Natalie and Steven, as well as his grandparents Rita and Ozzie Murrietta and Jack and Arlene DeBolske. He also leaves behind 19 aunts and uncles, numerous cousins and countless dear friends. In his short time with us, Joe lived an admirable life of loyalty and promise. The most important aspect of his life was his commitment to his family, and his desire to be a devoted oldest brother and honorable son. Joey was trustworthy, dedicated and dependable. He remains a constant inspiration to his siblings. Samme will miss the late night talks with him. Natalie will miss his amazing hugs, good advice and constant encouragement. Stevo will miss everything about his big brother, his very best friend. Joey was looking forward to graduating Saguaro High School this year and had plans to attend college in Boulder, Colorado, where he was going to continue to pursue his passions for snowboarding and ice hockey, which he played for over ten years. Joey’s dream was to be an entrepreneur, as he was always a hard working employee and enjoyed his most recent job at Fox Sports Grill. Joey was a genuinely kind, loyal and passionate person whose smile was contagious and his hugs the warmest and most sincere. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered with love when we gather together at family events, vacations and holidays. The funeral service will be at 1pm on Friday, March 7, 2008 at St. Patrick’s Catholic Community at 10815 North 84th Street in Scottsdale with a reception immediately following at The McDowell Center at 16116 North McDowell Mountain Ranch Road.
We all miss you so much Joey.
unknown
March 16, 2008
Only the good die young.
I miss you. I love you Joey
Samme DeBolske
March 11, 2008
As spoken by Samantha on March 7, 2008 at Joey's funeral...
It has been 62 days.
62 days since we last spoke and I wished you a happy 18th birthday.
You sounded so happy. Like you and Dad were having the best time together.
So many people have said, that over time, this tragedy will become easier for our family to cope with. The fact is, that it hasn’t become any easier. Everyday that passes makes the realization of your death harder. It makes my heart sink more and more.
I now know the harsh, aching feeling to have a piece of your heart taken away forever.
What sticks with me the most is how very important it was for you to have a special relationship with Stevo, Natalie and I.
The three of us were all so close to you. It’s hard to think of our future without you. The graduations, weddings. Our children growing up together. Unimaginable without you.
You were the picture perfect brother, son, and friend.
Last year when I broke my back, you were the pillar of support that we all came to expect. I want to thank you for coming to see me at the hospital everyday and bringing me exactly what I asked you for. An Iceee.
This past Christmas, you took so much time in picking out the perfect gifts for the 5 of us. The satisfaction on your face when you saw our smiles when we opened our gift from you I know is what made your Christmas.
One of the things I will miss the most is our talks. Your always made a point to make sure everything was going okay during our difficult past year. We talked about everything. School, friends, parties, and Stevo, Natalie, Mom, and Dad.
These are just a few of the memories I will cherish forever. There are so many more. Because now those memories are all I have.
I miss you. I love you Joey.
Denise Murrietta
March 8, 2008
Joey,
I don’t understand what’s going on around here. Everyone around me is sad and crying. They keep saying they miss you. I know in my heart I miss you to. I do know that you are in heaven and that is very wonderful place to be. I know one day I will go there to. I love you. I will see you in heaven.
Your cousin Denise
Mark Murrietta
March 8, 2008
Joey’s Eulogy – March 7, 2008
My name is Mark Murrietta, I am Joey’s Uncle, one of 19 Aunts and Uncles
and along with my sister and Joey’s Godmother Terrie a proud godfather.
Where do you begin, how do you begin to express the sadness of this terrible loss. The loss of someone so special, someone who had a genuineness that anyone would admire. Joey lived his life to his fullest. He brought joy to everyone he touched. You can see by the presence of so many people at this service that this is a true testament to what a wonderful man he was. We probably all know the circumstances of the tragic day when Joey lost his life. He was just coming back from an activity he loved; with the one man he loved the most his father, Kevin. I remember so clearly over Christmas, Joey telling me how much he was looking forward to spending his 18th birthday with his dad on the slopes of Telluride. Snowboarding the days away and of course spending the evenings with his dad, having dinner, sneaking into bars and stealing a sip of Corona. Imagine a young man bonding with his father talking about his future and treasuring these moments together. There is no question that Joey’s life was cut tragically short and it makes us all wonder what could have been. However, we must reflect on all the good things we have known and loved about Joey.
As you know Joey had a very loving and extended family from both the Debolske and Murrietta sides. We would constantly be together on holidays and enjoy each others company, conversations and love we had for each other. Joey was such a big part of these celebrations his warmth and charm and beautiful manner were amazing to watch. As many of you might know we always seemed to congregate at Joey’s grandparents home of Rita and Ozzie Murrietta. We would join for holiday celebrations and share good times with each other we would sit outside and drink are favorite libations, you get the picture. Joey was a very active, popular young man, he did not always show up to these events on time, but when he did arrive you knew he was there. Joey was never shy; he had a warmth and way about him that was easy to appreciate. Whenever Joey walked into a room, whether it was to stay for the entire evening or if it was just to pick up a brother, sister or cousin he would always find the time to go around the room to show his love and appreciation to all of those in his life. It was easy to recognize Joey coming into a room you would easily step up from your chair, extend a hand and would get the most incredible, warm, loving hug that any man could possibly give to one another. He was genuine and very respectful to everyone he met. We should all be proud to have known him. There are so many positive things we could say about Joey, but I think most importantly we have to appreciate what a wonderful older brother he was to Samantha, Natalie and Stevie. To think that these beautiful children have lost a true confidant, a person that they relied on and looked up to is hard to imagine. I look at them and I can see the pain and incredible suffering that they must feel, but all I ask of them is to treasure the time you had with your big brother. Remember the joy he brought you. Remember the many times you spent together learning from his maturity and helping you get through difficult times in your life. Remember the wonderful times you spent with Joey in Mexico, on family cruises cherish these beautiful memories you have of him. How he watched you, took care of you and made sure you were safe. I wish as his godfather that I spent more time with Joey, I wish there was more time to get closer to him. I have no doubt the memories I have of him will always be with me. Look around see how many people’s lives he has touched. I think about him everyday. I pray for him, my sister Peggy, my brother-in-law Kevin, Kevin’s parent’s Arlene and Jack Debolske and all of their families and it is heartbreaking. I think about what could have been. I look at where Joey was and where he was going. . Joey was always independent. Peggy told me a story about how Joey was getting ready for Pre-School, not Kindergarten it was Preschool and Joey wanted to go to school on his own. Of course, Peggy and Kevin did not allow this to happen but it was their first indication of how he would live his life. A life of independence and strength of character. You saw this attribute in young Joey and we now see this same attribute in Stevo. He is his own little man, taking risks and following in his big brothers footsteps. Again, Joey was independent kind and loving and looking forward to that next chapter in his life. It was no secret that Joey did not like high school, but, he did love life and all his friends and family. He spent the last year buckling down and focusing on his grades with the intent of going to a good college. Back in Mid December, Joey and his dad took a trip to look at colleges in Colorado. His dream was to go to Colorado, live in the high country and attend the University of Colorado at Boulder. There is no doubt in my mind that with his drive and passion he would have made that dream a reality. Then of course way beyond that I’m sure Joey was thinking at some level about his future and what it would be like. I’m sure it would include a loving family, children and being a huge success in life.
Another attribute that was always prevalent was Joey’s amazing strength. He used this strength to be a truly competitive athlete that made his parents proud. He always excelled athletically, whether playing roller or ice hockey, he always loved to mix it up with the older kids. I remember going to numerous ice hockey games at the ice den and watching Joey play. He was intense focused and full of energy. He went to Saguaro high school. The same high school that his Uncle Vince, Uncle John and I attended. It made us all very proud.
It is difficult for me to do this, but I am so honored. I loved Joey Debolske; I love my sister Peggy, Kevin, Samantha, Natalie and Stevie. I know that everyone here is suffering from Joey’s loss and has a fond memory of Joey and his life and that is what this service is all about, remembering an incredible young man just starting his life, trying to appreciate his many attributes and accomplishments and the fact that he was such a special person.
We all look at our children and could not imagine such a terrible loss. But we have to cherish the time spent and the memory of, an incredible person. A man whose life was cut short, A man who could and probably was going to accomplish anything he put his mind to. We all loved Joey and will remember the beautiful person that he was. A loving caring respectful son, an honest mature leader to his brother and sisters and an independent strong warm human being who will be dearly missed.
I love you Joey, please Rest in Peace and I will see you soon.
Shannon Pencille
March 7, 2008
Peggy, I am at a loss for words. Today is joey's memorial and my whole is family coming...what I feel for you and your family is overwhelming. You are a courageous inspirational loving beautiful warm hearted mother and women. You have been blessed to have a family like yours. One thing I do know is there is the almighty God above and one day you will embrace Joey again without pain without tears, but joy! God bless you Peggy and to Samantha Natalie being younger sisters I know what joey meant to them. Keeping Samantha in line thinking about choices in life you know how our kids have those late night private talks that are held close to the girls heart holding onto every word the big brother says and mentoring Natalie who will perserverance who reminds me so much of Joe and our dear sweet Stevo whom we love so much!! I will continue to pray for you and your family as I am sure there is not a day that goes by without thoughts and smiles about Joe!
Always, Shannon
Michael Murrietta
March 6, 2008
Hi I am Joey's cousin Michael. The moment I want to remember with Joey, was staying up all night when we were young, talking about girls, sleeping in his bunk bed. We would try to see who could stay up the longest and we would usually not end up sleeping at all. I think about my cousin Joey all the time now. I was sitting in mass the other day with my entire family, my grandma, My Uncle John and Aunt Lorraine., and at this specific moment at mass, I realized how much I missed him. My Uncle John asked me if I was thinking about Joe, because I think all of us were. I turned to him and said, “I just miss Joey.” and I started crying. You never realize what an amazing person someone is, or what impact they had on your life until you actually lose them. Joey and I were such good friends. We grew up together and he taught me so much. I loved spending time with him Steve O, Sammy and Natalie. They all four mean the world to me, and I know Joey misses you guys so much. He would treat my little sister Denise better than any other cousin he had. Denise tells me everyday how much she misses Joey. The way he treated her meant so much to me. He loved her so much and it meant a lot to my family to see Joe give her so much love. I think everyone here knows what Joey was capable of accomplishing. He wanted to go to Colorado Boulder and later start a business, and be successful. I have no doubt in my mind, that if Joey was still here with us. He would have fulfilled his dream. He was an amazing person to everyone he met. He could always make you smile and his personality was so unique. He will be remembered as a great friend to everyone that he knew. I am proud to say I loved my cousin Joey, he was a great friend of mine and he will always share a piece of my heart. I miss you Joe….
Aaron Talbert
March 6, 2008
ay dawg. im find to miss you like hell bro. if me and you where any closer we would've had the same mother. there isnt a soul that doesnt miss you. you where my best friend joe.. you still are. i feel blessed that the last time that i saw you was at my house. 2 or 3 days before you passed. little did i know that it would be the last time that i would see you. if i had known i would've told you that i couldnt have been blessed with a better cousin. whether it be teaching me how to ride a bike or how to be an example for my family. all the talks, everywhere we went, all the people that you introduced to me will never leave my memory.. nor will the smile that i see every night. thank you for it all J.. thankfully, your little brother.
Phyllis Mizak
March 5, 2008
Joey touched my heart the first day that he walked through the doors at Rancho Solano! My prayers and love to all of his family.
Mrs "M"
Frankie Mae Richards
March 5, 2008
Joey touched our family especially Elliot, our special needs son. Joey was one of his first friends in kindergarten. He had a place in his heart for Elliot and treated him like one of the guys. We will miss you, Joey
March 4, 2008
To Joey's Family,
We have never met you, but our family knows the pain you are going through firsthand as our son/brother Jeff Rivera was part of this ski group and lost his life in the accident. Please take comfort in knowing our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time, some how we will get through this.
Celia & Russ Edwards
Natalie Geise & Lisa Berteaux
March 4, 2008
Love and prayers to Joe's family from the players, coaches and families of the Horizon Huskies Hockey Club.
Christine Brown
March 4, 2008
Joey, although we never met I know you were an amazing young man after having read the words of your "celebration" of life, and speaking with your family. I know you are safe and you will be missed VERY much. Keep the angels dancing and visit your family as they knew you in all the ways that each of them will know you ARE still and always WILL be with them. Your pictures will always Smile & your Laughter will always be heard, and your Warm Special Hugs will comfort those who were special enough to have you in their lives.
Katie Libby
February 27, 2008
Joey,
I still cannot believe you are gone. I keep thinking that you will walk through the door. The last time I saw you keeps running through my head. You took the night off from work just to see Josh and I. I was so happy to hear that you were going to be with us for dinner. During dinner I kept thinking how I couldn't believe how much of a man you were and no longer a little boy. You filled a plate and gave it to me, you were such a gentleman. I am so happy that I got to see you one last time during Christmas and that I got to talk to you on your birthday. I wish we had more time but I know I will see you again someday. I love you Joey and always will.
Dawn Meyer
February 19, 2008
Dear Kevin, Peggy, Samantha, Natalie,Stevie,
I've not been able to find the words to express how sad and deeply affected I've been by the loss of Joey. I do know that he is in heaven and someday you will be able to hug him once again. I pray that time will heal your grief and lessen the sorrow you are feeling right now. Love and prayers. Dawn
Jackie Murrietta
February 15, 2008
Joey, I think of you everyday. I feel so sad that you left us so young and so suddenly. You were a wonderful nephew who was very loving and caring. I will forever remember your smiling face and the powerful love you had for your family. I know you will forever be watching over and protecting your family; your mom, dad, Sammy, Natalie and Stevie and the rest of us. I've learned so much about you from your many friends and I have so much respect for the wonderful young man that you were. I will miss you always. Love you. Aunt Jackie
Joshua Libby
February 7, 2008
Hey Joey,
It has been over a month and i still don't think it is true. Katie and I are waiting for you to walk right in and give us all big hugs and smile at us. The pain of missing you is not going away. I would give anything to have you back for a day. I love you and we will do our best to take care of your siblings.
February 5, 2008
It's still hard knowing that Joe isn't with us anymore.
There will be a remembrance concert on february 24th at the rhythm room for joey and the other eight people who passed away. all proceeds go to their families.
Donna Sheffey
February 4, 2008
To The DeBolske Family,
I don't know you but my daughter Erica Sheffey was on that bus with Joe. I imagine both are in Heaven now. This tragedy has brought us all enormous pain in our hearts. Erica was a link in our family chain as was Joe to yours. Now that chain is broken. We will never forget what joys and blessings they gave us here on Earth, and I pray that there will be more blessings to come until that time when the links unite again.
Angela and Nicole from Sports Cutters
January 28, 2008
To the Debolske Family
The girls at sports cutters loved seeing Joe walk through that door to get his hair cut with Stevie. He always made us laugh and put a smile on our face.He always was possitive and had a great attitude.You new he was loved. We are so sorry for your loss. He will be missed!
January 28, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Carol (Dick) Helzer
January 23, 2008
To the entire DeBolske Family,
In 1965 my late husband Carlton and our four children (Nancy, Randal, Sherolyn and Rodney) moved to Phoenix and we lived next door to the DeBolske's on 5th Place in Phoenix. Our children were the ages of some of the DeBolske's kids and they had fun playing together. We sorta lost track of them when we moved, but they were a wonderful and happy family to lived next door to. When I heard the news and the names of those who died my heart was saddened at your great loss. Our family have been praying for you all during this time of great loss. May you feel the peace that only our Lord and Saviour can give. I pray that Kevin is improving daily and will heal completly from his injuries. Don't know if the family remembers us or not, but we shall continue to pray for you. Carol Dick Helzer
John 14:1-6, 27.
Jesica Pawlak
January 21, 2008
Joey..
I have been avoiding writing to you on here because words can not express how I feel. But I need to. I feel so blessed to have the friendship we had and for the times we spent together. I will never forget you sleeping over on my couch pretty much every night throughout this last summer, complaining that your house was too far to drive home, you were just being lazy! :) The times we spent together will be in my memories and my heart forever. I will see you in heaven Joey, I can't wait. I love you.
Jesica
To the DeBolske Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know Joey was very special to your family and I hope you will all stay strong and pull together to make it through this rough time. Joey was so loved by all his friends and will never be forgotten. I pray for Kevin everyday. You are all in my prayers. Stay strong.
Lindsey Clinkingbeard
January 21, 2008
Dear Samantha and the DeBolske Family,
Samantha, I'm so sorry that the next time I get to talk to you, it would be like this. I'm not even sure if you remember me, but we were pretty much the best of friends in like, 5th grade. My fondest memory if of the two of us watching Batman&Robin in the little "play" room of your house, scared as heck, and Joe and Eric Griffith sneaking up on us and scaring us so badly we screamed!
I know this might be completely random, but I just want you to know that I'll always have that hillarious memory with me. I remember how Joe would always make us laugh, and how you admired him unconditionally. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Lindsey
P.S. Samantha, if there is one thing I remember about you from elementary school, it's that you were so outgoing. I know I haven't seen you in a long time, but I know that hasn't changed just like I know that you will get through this.
nancy tanski
January 21, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. my sister lost her 27 year old son three years ago,and the sadness that this has caused our whole family is terrible. my heart goes out to you,your family and friends. may god help all of you. nancy
January 19, 2008
To the Debolske Family,
We have you all in our daily thoughts and prayers.
The Jecmen-Hughes Family
Randy, Amy, Shane, Kelsey, Kieran, David Delaney and Devon
Barbara Evans
January 19, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through this time of grief. Words cannot express the emotions I feel for all of you.
Glenn & Vanessa
January 18, 2008
DeBolske Family:
Our family is blessed to have known Joe through hockey. Rare is it for a person to radiate pure joy in the way that Joe did when he played. I think the only time we ever saw him upset was when he was concerned that a teammate was frustrated or suffering. He was, and I'm sure will continue to be, the light of many lives. Blessed and free are those who are liberated from their earthy worries. We will remember him each time the Outlaws step onto the ice.
I love you Joey
January 18, 2008
My Joey...I will miss you so much.
January 18, 2008
Caity, Alexa, and Makenna Burke, Tassani, and Newkirk
January 17, 2008
Dear DeBolske Family,
I am so sorry about Joe. We are friends of Stevo's. We were in his class last year. Even though we ddnt meet Joe our hearts were broken when we found out. I am so sorry.
Patty Johnson
January 17, 2008
Peggy, Kevin, Sammie, Natalie and Stevie, So many years we spent enjoying life and sharing the lives of our children and I wanted to send you all my deepest sympathies. Words don't seem to be enough in a situation like this but my prays are with all of you.
Lenny
January 17, 2008
With a passing or loss, so many emotions go through each loved one left behind's head. In saying this, and losing several loved ones in my path, I say that God only takes the very best.
Mason Clark
January 17, 2008
Joe and Family,
Joe was a great kid and i loved playing ice hockey with him on the AZ Outlaws. Ill always remember his positive attitude and def his smile. My prayers go out to him, Kevin, and the whole family. Ill always remember you bubby forever. I love you lots!!!!!!!
Kimberly Welch
January 17, 2008
I didn't know Joe, and actually live in a totally different state. My sister was born in Arizona, however, so there are some similitaries there. I do want to say being the mother of three, that God is with your son. May the Lord grant all of you who are suffering, blessings and the strength to heal. I lost two babies, so I understand what it feels like to lose a child. Please remember that "through God all things are possible." Joe will be with you all, forever, watching over you and keeping you in his arms.
Terry Yamanaka
January 17, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
God Bless.
Rest In Peace
Michael iezzi
January 17, 2008
Father we entrust our brother Joe to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Joe in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Grace Gardner
January 16, 2008
There are no words I can offer that will diminish the pain that everyone feels from the loss of Joey. I can, however, recall what we all know; Joey was a great person to be around. We were neighbors for a few years and I had the pleasure of getting to be his friend. Just hanging out in our front yards was a fun time with Joey. He always put a smile on my face. He is deeply missed.
The entire DeBolske family is in my prayers.
Sami Sanders
January 16, 2008
Joey,
I miss you so much and I still cant believe you are gone. I remember first meeting you in spanish you would always come talk to me when you werent supposed to and tell jokes making me laugh. We had such good times and became good friends. I look through my phone all the time and see ur number and thinking I cant text you now to hang out. I miss all the times when we hung out together. When you told me that I was one of your bestfriends and you could trust me, you really made an impact on me and I will always remember you and miss you. My sympathy goes out to your family and I send my condolences and prayers to them. I love you Joey and my memories will remain and i will keep you in my heart. I love you and miss you Joe
Joshua Libby
January 16, 2008
Joe,
I keep going over in my head about how this can't be true. You have touched the lives of so many people. It just goes to show how amazing you are and always have been. Katie and I miss you so much. Please look after your siblings, they still need a hero, as do I.
Dulce Butron
January 16, 2008
DeBolske Family:
My most sincere condolences to all of you. I used to work with Kevin at Associated Asset Management and remember stories about his children. He loves them all very much and I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling. I heard about your loss and Kevin's injuries just recently and I am praying for you Kevin ~ that God may give you strength in this difficult time. I hope you heal soon from your physical pain. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
January 16, 2008
DeBolske Family
It is so hard to cope with the death of a love one.It hurts even more when it's your child. May your memories of Joe along with pray help your through the days ahead. God knows the heartache at time seems unbearable so he tells us:'throw your burden upon him and he will sustain'(Ps 55:22) I hope these words bring the family a measure of comfort in your time of grief.
My Deepest Sympathy
Kayla Murray
January 16, 2008
Family,
Stay strong through this, just like Joe would be. You helped raise a very genuine, caring, kind, smart boy who meant a lot to everyone. You are all in my thoughts and prayers everyday.
Joey,
We all miss you so incredibly much. I'll never forget the good times we had: New Years Eve party frosh year, Friday night hangouts at your house after football games, and TEAM AMERICA with you and Payton! Joe you have the most caring heart, and have provided such loyal friendship. You truly mean so much to all of us and always will. I love you and miss you everyday.
Jerrie Wicken
January 15, 2008
To the Debolske's and Murrietta's
My thoughts and prayers are with your families. My two favorite memories of Joey was rocking him to sleep when he was a newborn and watching him smile as he rooted for Jason at the NAU football games. I knew how proud you were of him and your family. Take care and keep him close to your hearts. Love, Jerrie
Mike and Peggy
January 15, 2008
In this time of near unbearable pain: to the kind thoughts of our friends, to the sympathy extended from family, to those who have also experienced overwhelming loss and yet managed to reach out across the empty spaces to touch our hearts and offer condolences, we say thank you...thank you.
January 15, 2008
I DON'T KNOW YOU, HAVE NEVER HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING YOUR BEAUTIFUL SON, BUT WE SHARE THE SAME NIGHTMARE, I TO LOST MY BEAUTIFUL SON, HE WAS 13, HE COLLAPSED WHILE PARTICIPAING IN GYM CLASS AT SCHOOL, THEY WERE UNABLE TO REVIVE HIM, I WASN'T THERE, IT HAUNTS ME IT WILL BE 6 YEARS ON JANUARY 30, MY HEART IS FOREVER BROKEN, MY BEAUTIFL SON GONE, MY SON WOULD NOW BE 19, I LOOKED AT THE PHOTO GALLERY, THERE ARE SO MANY SIMILAR TYPE PHOTOS, YOUR SON HOCKEY, MY SON KARATE, ALTHOUGH WE WILL NEVER MEET, OUR BEAUTIFUL BOYS WILL, TWO FAMILIES TORN APART BY TRAGEDY, HEARTS FOREVER BROKEN, I CAN TRULY SAY I KNOW AND SHARE YOUR PAIN, IT CONSUMES ME, IT IS WHO I HAVE BECOME. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU!
WENDY EGRES
MOTHER OF NICHOLAS RYAN BLASS
Marcus Esparza
January 15, 2008
joey you had the best sense of humor out of anyone on any of my hockey teams. everytime a caseys tournament came around i was always looking forward to hanging out with you and having you play on my line. I remember that time in prescott when you nailed that kid when he was coming after me.... You always had my back and i will always have yours. I love you bro!!!!!!
Paul, Rhonda & Michael LaNue
January 15, 2008
Dear Peggy and Family,
Although we didn't know you that well, you and your family have had a tremendous impact in our lives this past week. You are in our thoughts daily, and in all our hearts and prayers. We are sending our loving thoughts and hopes for your hearts to heal through this. We are all praying for Kevin's healing so he can be there as a father for you. And we know Joey will always and forever be alive through each of you in many ways.
Bill Durrenberger
January 15, 2008
Peggy: I am so sorry to hear the tragic news concerning your son. I cannot begin to think what the loss of one of my children would be like. Please accept my sincerest condolenses
Rice Family
January 14, 2008
Dear Debolske's, you are all such beautiful people.I hope you can soon find the strength to carry on knowing Joey is with you in spirit.
We all send our most sincere condolences. Get well Kevin.
Amy Roberts
January 14, 2008
Dear Kevin, I am praying for your strength and courage to cope with your loss. I am so deeply sorry for what you must be going through. May God give you the strength you need.
Angela & Joe Bertram
January 14, 2008
Peggy & Kevin,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our heart and prayers go out to you and your family. May you find peace knowing he is in a better place and with the Lord.
Eileen Nilson
January 14, 2008
Natalie and Steven,
It was so great to have you join us today at DCMS. Please know that we are all here to give you support through this very difficult time. Let us know how we can help. We all care so much about you.
Christina Murrietta
January 14, 2008
Uncle Kevin, Aunt Peggy, Sammie, Natalie, and Stevie: You and the rest of the DeBolske and Murrietta families are receiving more prayers than we know. How amazing it is during this time of grief to be so surrounded by love. Joey would be proud to be a part of our family today as we are so proud he was a part of ours. I love you all.
Marcia Durrenberger
January 14, 2008
Peggy,
I am so sorry. Your heart must be broken. You and your family are in my prayers. Seems like you and Susan were just 18...and now this. Much too young. Again, I am so sorry. Love, Marcia
Love, Marcia
Susan Durrenberger-Hallam
January 14, 2008
Peggy, Sammy, Natalie, Stevo, Kevin, and Terri,
This is a terrible, terrible, loss that can never be undone, yet...Joe is really still with you and always will be because you will keep him and all your memories close with you in your hearts.
Your dad is strong and will be with you all again.
Love,
Sue,
Chelsea Lynn
January 14, 2008
Joe,
I've tried and tried again to sign the guest book, to write to you, and fact is i simply just cant yet. i stumble over my words. cant find the right ones.. so for now this is just going to have to do.
i wrote this for you the night you died.. here goes.
“you dont know what to say when someone so close goes so far away, you dont know how to feel, when you dont believe this moment can be real, you dont know how to act, when you cant decide fiction from fact. i dont know how to handle, the fact that ill never again see that smile. i dont know how to think when every thought makes me sink. i can only say it in this one way that boy i loved you and will love you until my dieing day. and best believe this is true.. I WILL NEVER FOREGET YOU. rest in peace my baby doll. TO JOE”
until we meet again~all my love
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