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Sally Bayer Obituary
Sally was born July 9, 1945 in Tacoma, Washington. She was a registered nurse, and a 1966 graduate of the Cabrini Hospital School of Nursing in Seattle. She died peacefully at home April 11, 2011, after a brave and determined 20 year struggle with primary progressive MS. She was surrounded by loving family her lifelong, and in her final days and hours. She deserved nothing less. She is survived by her husband of 45 years, Charlie, daughters Ann Zbiegien (Jim) and Susan, sons CJ (Jen) and Jim (Amanda), seven grandchildren, Bella, Cathy, Nic, Tom, Gracie, Luc, and Mike, sister-in-law Suzi Cruz, sister Irene Kem of Blythe and brother Jack McMahon of Tampa. Early in their marriage, in addition to caring for her husband, their home, and four young children under the age of nine, she was the primary caregiver for her disabled father-in-law for more than five years. Before being overtaken by MS, Sally was a long-distance runner and mountain and canyon backpacker, as well working as part-time exercise instructor at a neighborhood health club, prior to returning to nursing. Sally is a true precious moment in the hearts, lives and memories of friends and family. Visitation, followed by the Rosary will be from 6:00-8:00pm, Thursday evening, April 14, at Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home, 4800 E. Indian School Road. A Funeral Mass will be at 10:30am, Friday, April 15, at St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church, 2312 E. Campbell. Reception to follow nearby. Any donations to Hospice of the Valley, 1510 E. Flower Street, Phoenix, 85014.
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Jim and Cindy Musselman
April 23, 2011
Charlie and family, We are very sorry for your loss. Sally was a kind and gracious women and is surely resting in peace with Our Father. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Julie Helton
April 20, 2011
Charlie, I am very sad to learn about the loss of your wife, Sally. I'll keep you both in my prayers.
April 19, 2011
Charles, I am so sorry for your loss. Know I am keeping you and your family in my prayers this Easter Season. Please take care. JoAnne Garrett
Randy & Debbie Carlin
April 18, 2011
Charlie
Our deepest condolences on your loss. Your family is in our thoughts. You are an inspiration in how you cared for your wife through her illness.
Marti Clifford
April 18, 2011
Dear Charlie, I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful wife, Sally. I did not know her personally, but it was obvious what a special and loving person she was. May she rest in peace in Heaven.
Esther Kmetty
April 18, 2011
Dear Charles and family,
It was my pleasure to know Sally since CJ and Tony were in kindergarden. I knew her to be a vital and active person and it was so sad and ironic that she contracted such a debilitating disease. But she dealt with it in a valiant manner as did the whole family. Charles, you have had such a heavy cross to bear and have done so admirably. I hope it is of some comfort to you all to know that Sally has gone to God and is no longer suffering.
I am so sorry that we were not able to be at the funeral, but Tony was there to represent us. Geza joins me in sending our prayers to the family. Rest in peace, Sally.
Arlen Julien
April 17, 2011
I am sorry for your loss and may the good Lord comfort you in your loss.
April 15, 2011
Charles,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I enjoyed meeting your wife at our reunion sevveral years ago. I remember her smile and I remember your care and attention.
With deepest sympathy,
Richard Turner
Kay Butler
April 15, 2011
I am so sorry, Charlie. I knew Sally only from our St.Mary's reunions and was always impressed with your tender care and her strength and valiance.
April 14, 2011
Charlie and Family
We have lost a really great person. We are very happy that we got the chance to meet her. She can be an inspiration to all of us and she will be truly missed
Jan and Gary Horton
April 14, 2011
Charlie, Susan, CJ, Ann and Jim
I'm so sorry to hear this news. Your mom was always good to me. Back when I was at your house all the time, I used to think of her as my other mom. And I'll never forget the time i spent with your family. Some of my favorite memories are of the times I ate dinner at your house for her tacos. My prayers are with you. God Bless
The Del Grosso Family
Catherine Spurlin
April 14, 2011
My deepest sympathies to the whole Bayer family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Cathy (Link) Spurlin
Barbi Dull
April 14, 2011
Susan, please accept my sympathy for your loss. Your mother will always be with you in your heart and soul.
Sandy Streiff
April 14, 2011
Charlie and Family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with all of you at this sadden time. May God Bless all of you and keep you in the fold of his hands. Sandy Streiff
Kim Kunasek
April 13, 2011
Your mom's life is a tribute to motherhood. Her example, and your parent's marriage, exemplifies a selfless life of caring for the needs of others. They have obviously passed this down to all the kids, as you all care so beautifully for eachother and those around you. All my love and prayers and my deepest sympathy to you as you grieve the loss of your beloved mom.
April 13, 2011
Charlie, Rodger & I are deeply saddened to hear about your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Nadine & Rodger Uelan
Sara McGoldrick Balder
April 13, 2011
Dear C.J. and Jen,
We are so sorry for the loss of your Mother. May God Bless you during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Sara McGoldrick Balder and Family
April 13, 2011
Ann and Sue,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. You are both such a graceful, loving example of the dedication of both of your parents. Your dad is on my prayer list. He has been such a wonderful dedicated caregiver and an inspiration. Your mom is free of suffering and reunited with our Lord. God Bless you all.
Love,
Teresa Hamra Malkoon
Margaret & Manny Fernandez
April 13, 2011
Susan, our deepest sympathy to you, your dad and family members. I pray that fond memories of your mom comfort you and that our Lord give each one strength for the journey.
Family in Christ,
Karl Reichardt
April 13, 2011
We were very saddened to hear about the loss of your wife Sally.Charlie, I will always be grateful to you for your friendship to my Dad and for your assistance in making my dream of a Notre Dame education a reality. God Bless your family during this difficult time and know that you are in our prayers.
Karl and Veronica Reichardt
April 13, 2011
We are so sorry for your lost Sally was a loving and caring person she will be missed.Charlie you and your family are in our prayers. God Bless always our deepest sympathy Anna and Harry Reichardt
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