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Peter Barretto Obituary

Of Medford and North Carolina. Loving Sons of Joan Kirk and the late Carl J. Barretto. Peter was a loving Father of Rene' Barretto of Everett. Peter was a devoted Uncle of Michael McLeod, and Mark was Michael's loving Father. Peter and Mark are also survived by many friends. Funeral Services will be held in the Gaffey Funeral Home, 43 High St., Medford Sq., MEDFORD on Wednesday at 10:00 a.m. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours Wednesday 9-10 a.m. Interment Oak Grove Cemetery, Medford.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jul. 8, 2008.

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Laurie

July 2, 2009

Dear Mary,Mark & Peter, This may be the last entrie I am putting on this site. It will be closed as of July 11, 2009....Michael is doing good still in Colorado Springs,CO. Training & working in The ARMY....... Just wanted to wish all of you A HAPPY 4th of July..At least all of you are together. ...I love & miss you All. I'll never forget all the happy memories through the years; Especially as you watched Michael grow from a baby to a man..It's so hard for me to think he'll be 22 in October.-..l Will Never forget any of You ..Always be In my heart.~ xoxox Laurie "Please keep watch over Michael.."thanks . ~ peace ~

Laureen

June 24, 2009

Dear Mark,"HAPPY FATHERS DAY" It took me a few days, I can't believe its was a year on June 22,2009 your brother Peter passed away. Michael & I were talking the other day about Pete., & gramma Mary. If you all were still around you would all be very proud of him and all he's accomplished in the last year. Michael is in Colorado Springs,CO. still working & training very hard. I'm so PROUD of him. I May go out to Colorado to see him in July. take care......Please watch over Michael for me. miss you.xoxoxo Lau

Laurie

June 24, 2009

Dear Peter, I can't believe it has been a year,since you passed away. June 22,2008...You were such a nice father & uncle to Michael. HAPPY FATHERS DAY, Miss you too. Lau

Laurie McLeod

June 11, 2009

Dear Mark, Just wanted to share with you.,update about Michael..He is in Colorado Springs,Co still doing some training & school...Do you believe he's been in the ARMY a year already on June 9,2008...I am so proud of him & all he's accomplished this past year.Even though he's been through alot He made it. I wish You, Peter,& your grandmother Mary would have been here to see him come back home...You all would be so proud of him. Please watch over him for me. I miss you all very much.Never forget you. xoxoxo Lau

Laurie

May 22, 2009

Dear Pete, I can't believe its been almost a year next month you left us all. Michael is doing so good you would have been so proud of him. He is still in Colorado He got so many promotions, and will be going to another base soon for Airburne school,so he isn't being deployed..yet... again! I wish he could just stay in training. He was mentioning you the other day,and how he always beat you @ basketball and Renee would laugh at you both,which was having me thinking of you, your brother & grandmother, Please watch over Michael for me. I miss you all so much.

Laurie

May 5, 2009

Dear Mark, I know you remember my Aunt Marion,remember everyone called her the warden as she was always chasing me around Tufts park or Morton Ave in South Meffa. Well she passed away she's a nice women your grandmother Mary will get along with her. Please watch over all of us. take care

Laurie

April 12, 2009

Mary,Mark,& Peter, Today was another day without you all around. "EASTER"'I just got off the phone with Michael ,he just called. I miss him too, not being in Boston. All of you are forever in my thoughts. xoxo

M

April 7, 2009

MARY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, <3 :) NEVER BE FORGOTTEN LOVED BY MANY. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN

Cheryl McLeod

April 7, 2009

Mary, Mark and Peter, you are all gone but not forgotten, I know becuase my sister Laurie forever has you in her thoughts, I thank you Mark for without you I would not have my nephew Michael who I am so dearly proud of. God bless you all, rest in peace.

Laurie

April 6, 2009

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY" I was thinking of you today,as you always liked going to Mt. Vernon, or The Continental for your Birthday. hope you John,Mark & Peter are celebrating together. Miss you all xoxox. ps. Please keep watch over Michael for me.He's doing so good he's back in USA @ Fort Carson,Colorado springs,CO.

Laurie

March 26, 2009

Hello Mary,Mark & Peter. Today was a very hard day for me as Michael went back to his Army base @ Fort Carson Colorado Springs,CO. It was a short 12 days he was here I enjoyed every moment with him while he visited.Michael never sat still was jogging everyday, running out at night with his friends, Nikki & I had a nice Irish day for Michael I made so much food on St.Patricks day he loves his Irish bread too.Well I'll keep you posted, as he should be back tonight in Colorado.I hugged him so much and told him I'll see him soon,I didn't want to let him go.I'm so proud of him. I miss you all....

Laurie

March 15, 2009

Hello Mary, Mark, & Peter, Today Michael came home safely to Boston. I went to Saint Patricks day parade. MICHAEL met us @ Castle Island. after the parade. We all came back home ,. He's gone out with friends tonight being 21 he can now offically drink in Boston.He looks so great. you all would be so proud. xoxox & miss you all

Laurie

March 14, 2009

Mark , Hello I still can't believe its been a year., 3-13-08 yesterday was a very hard day for me & sad as the same day your grandmother's funeral was. I talked to your mom last night. Also We talked about you. & Peter too.Please watch over Michael, you would have been so proud of him the last 6 months:, he is coming back to Boston tomorrow March 15,2009 till March 26th. I going to try to spend as much time with him while he's home. miss you.... love always

Laurie

March 4, 2009

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY" -MARK -today you would have been 45yrs old. MISS YOU xoxox

laurie

February 19, 2009

Dear Mark & Peter, Hard to believe your grandma Mary's anniversary was the other day. 1 year 2-16-has passed so quickly..........I Talked to Michael the other day he's back in Colorado thank god I miss you all so much! I wish you were all still here to welcome Michael home in March.......I hope you are as proud as I am. peace

Laurie

February 14, 2009

Mark, "Happy Valentines Day'' -- always thinking of you :) xoxo

laurie

February 10, 2009

Dear Mark, Michael called yesterday he's home from bein over seas for awhile in Iraq....finally is back in USA . He Left baghdad by helicopter to Kuwaiton sat.1 am & got on several airplanes many stopovers @ Germany, Ireland, Maine, Newyork, Arizona, Then back to FT. Carson, Colorado Springs CO. You would be so proud,As I AM...I.MISSED HIM SO MUCH.Now I can relax. Miss you & your grandmother & Peter too. always in my thoughts.

January 30, 2009

HAPPY 40th BIRTHDAY PETE

January 29, 2009

"'HAPPY BIRTHDAY PETER", I was just thinking about you, Mark & your Grandmother the other day.As last year was such a hard year for everyone, I still think I'm going to pick up the phone & chat with grandma Mary.,or you and tell you how well Michael is doing, You all would be very proud of him right now.Last week I talked to Michael,its always so nice to just hear his voice,I send him care packages which he loves anything from home "BOSTON". Michael misses everyone and will be back soon from IRAQ in March 2009....THANK GOD this war will be over, he'll come home for about 30 days then head back out to Ft.Carson in Colorado Springs ,Co. He still has 3 more yrs to go. as he's in 4 yrs. I miss him so much he is so brave I'm so proud of all his done in last 6 months & since you've all left him I can't imagine how he feels, as he holds everthing in, but I know he loved you,your brother & grandmother dearly ................ I talked to your mother the other day, its still so hard for her, especially the last few "holidays'" just passed by. . I will be calling Rene too as I have a picture of Michael to send her,it was 1 of him on his graduation day back in Oct.2008....Just recieved them. they came out nice of him in his full Uniform. you guys are always in my heart. peace xoxox Laurie

Laurie

January 1, 2009

Mark & Peter, "2009" "HAPPY NEW YEAR" I heard from Michael the other day,thank god for computers,thats how we stay in touch. He says he's fine,he's still in Iraq. Outside he's always on watch patrol.......walking and stuff for miles with no sleep.I 'm so proud of him I don't know how he does it.,Please watch over him & Pray for his safe return home(March 16,2009).Please make this a better year. Watch over Michael and bring him home soon. xoxox Peace,

Laurie

December 24, 2008

Dear Mark, Michael is doing fine you would be so proud of him hope your looking over him from up above. He & I emailed for a short time it was dec.23, here almost midnight, and 8 am there in Iraq. it was such a nice xmas gift to chat with him. he returns in March 2009, It doesn't feel like Christmas this year. I talked to your mother the other day, we all miss you,Peter & your grandmother. MERRY CHRISTMAS .peace

December 22, 2008

Dear Peter, We all miss you so much, hard to believe today is six 6 months you have left us. always in our thoughts.You would have been very proud of Michael as he is in Iraq now! Please watch over him. he'll be home sometime end of March.2009

Lau

November 29, 2008

Hello Mark, I missed your grandmother & brother this year for Thanksgiving I wish you were here to see Michael when he came home in Oct. He's still in Ft. Carson, Colorado springs,CO. He just got promoted again. Got a call from him today, Im so scared, Michael will be deployed to Kuwait in a few days.ON DEC. 2,2008.PLEASE WATCH OVER HIM & KEEP HIM SAFE. Say HELLO TO peter too. I talked to your mother & Renee yesterday. miss & love you all .peace

November 11, 2008

Hello Mark, Today is Veterans Day, I talked to Michael this morning.He said he's doing great. I'm so proud of him. he's 21 yrs old now.He will probably be going to California Dec. 6th for a few weeks of training, then be back to Ft. Carson @ Colorado Springs,Co. Anyway i came by the grave today to say a pray for you, your brother,& grandmother.& left a flag & picture of Michael in his army gear. watch over him & keep him safe. ok.love & miss you all ................Laurie

October 20, 2008

Dear Mark, Michael & I came by your grave the 1st day he came home.He was sad as he remembered last time he was there it was for granny Mary...I think know he has some closure,he said a pray. its still hard on him. He was very strong. been through so much intense training last 16 wks. Michael was only here for a short 7 days,.he talked to Gramama Joan.He was so busy running all around while he was back. Peter you would have been so proud to see him ,he called Rene too. Yesterday was a very had day for me as I drove him to airport, and now he's going to be stationed in Ft. Carson,Colorado Springs,CO. We had a long talk at airport & lunch, we did not say goodbye but see you soon to each other..of course I balled my eyes out after, then lefted the airport, headed straight to my favorite spot & walked around Castle Island in Southie to clear my head.It was so cold. Was up half the night waiting for Michael to call. of course got no call ,today though Michael did call me around 4:30pm. our time here in Boston... was about 2:30pm Colorado time/ he had a couple of classes in day was briefed..says he was fine.... there all mountains surrounding him. he says its so beautiful there. a few buddies.of his were there from his boot camp. Do you beleive tomorrow Oct. 21. he'll be celebrating his 21st birthday. Miss you all ....xoxoxo Laurie

laura f

October 19, 2008

pete,still trying to wrap my head around this,i miss you soooooooooo much,thinking of all the good times we had and going through all my pictures of when we were younger.i can't believe your not here,my heart is broken. watch over renee ,she needs her daddy's prayers.till we meet again my friend. i love and miss you,laura

October 12, 2008

Hello Mark, Michael came home from Ft. Benning, GA. Friday ,Oct. 10,2008. He was happy to be home a few days now.REST. also yesterday we went by to visit You Pete,& grandmother Mary.. We both said a prayer for all of you. Michael called your mother Joan last night. he's going to get together with her & Rene during this week.......Michael leaves on OCT.18,2008 to go to Ft. Carson Colorado Springs,Co. he looks so good i'm so proud of him.watch over him please. miss you all Lau & xoxox from Pvt. Michael

September 27, 2008

Mark, Michael is doing so good, he'll be back home in less than 2 weeks at logan airport in Boston on Oct. 10,2008. I just got some pictures he sent me of himself.,You wouldn't believe how grown up he looks, I am so proud of him, hope you are too.Wish you could have been here along with your brother,& grandmother to see him come home..We will come & visit you at grave.then I'll take him to see your mother also. Please watch over us. I'll never forget you...miss you.. xoxoox Lau

September 22, 2008

RN 332 McLeod,Michael B CO 2-58th IN ITB 9375 Conway Dr. Fort Benning,Ga.

Laurie

September 22, 2008

Dear Pete, Its been 3 months today, you passed away. Michael called yesterday, we were talking about you.& all the memories he's shared with his favorite uncle (you) through the years. He misses all the basketball games in driveway even though the neighbors would have to listen to that ball bounce all day & night.Peter you would be proud now to see him come home He made it through basic training.12 wks now.Michael graduates on Oct.10,2008 from US ARMY. miss you xoxox

September 21, 2008

Dear Mark, Hello I hope your with your brother & grandmother watching over everyone. .Just wanted to let you know Michael, has passed boot camp and got alot of rewards,metals pins etc.he's an official US ARMY Soldier now. his final step is October 10,& he will be home for 5 days.He will leave again,to go to Colorado. {Fort Carson}I know you are very proud of him as I am.,I'll let you know any more updates. xoxoxo love & miss you all.....Laurie

August 16, 2008

Hello, Mark & Pete, Today is your moms 1st Birthday without you guys & Grandma Mary here to celebrate her special day.I hope you're all together thinking about last years Birthday. I talked to her last night, She went out to dinner the other day with her friends to celebrate.I always remembered Mary & her could never decide on where to go as Joan liked Jimmys Steak House, & Mary loves that Mt. Vernon Restaraunt.They'd probably argue the whole way, then go shopping on saturdays.your mother misses those times... I miss those funny stories i got from both of them after. Miss you guys........ god bless xoxox Laurie

Laurie

August 13, 2008

Hello Mark, Hard to believe its been 5 months since you passed away,.Michael has been writing alot in boot camp now going on 6 weeks you would be so proud of him. Wish you were here with your Grandmother & Peter to see him graduate., October 10,2008 in Fort Benning, Georgia...................... I miss you all so much. This week was hard your mom Joan's Birthday, without all of you, she misses you too,its hard. you are all together though. watch over Michael PLEASE......GOD BLESS......xoxox

Lau

July 21, 2008

Dear Mary, Mark & Pete, Hello, just got off the phone with Joan,its still hard for Joan right now.,as she misses you all so much., but she had Rene over the other day,to keep her busy. Michael also will write to Joan too..... I got another letter from Michael today very short,he say's not to worry he's fine.just sore & tired from all the training. He said he actually likes boot camp ,can't beleive he's been there in GA. 4 weeks already.You all would be so proud of him. Mary I went to Castle Island the other day & thought of you......Please watch over all of us. ok ........TAKE CARE xoxoxo

Patty Fitzmaurice

July 18, 2008

Dear Michael, I am so sorry for all you have lost. You have lost alot, I always knew you were a good kid, and always respectful, and you have been going through some really rough and tough times, but I knew you would pull thru. Your great-grandmother Mary, your grandmother Joan, and your uncle Peter, and your father Mark, and the rest of your family, and mine, are so very proud of you. You going in the Military shows all of us you are ready to become a man. Hold your head up high, and I salute you on becoming a gentlemen and and hopefully an officer. Good Luck and May GOD Bless You now and forever. Your in my thoughts and my prayers daily. GOD SPEED. Love Always and Forever.

Patty and Fitzy, and Kelly and Kevin Fitzmaurice..... We all want to THANK YOU for serving OUR COUNTRY and keeping all of us in the good old USA safe, Michale take a bow.............................

MICHELE M

July 18, 2008

I THANK GOD EVERY DAY THAT I WAS FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE PETER AND RENEE IN MY HEART AND ARMS FOR THE LAST 2 YEARS AND I WILL KEEP THEM IN MY PRAYERS TIL THE END OF TIME I LOVE AND MISS YOU BOTH VERY MUCH.

LISA /from Medford heights

July 15, 2008

Dear Tracy,Sorry I could'nt make it to the sevice, just found out the other day... I can't beleive Pete is gone, you guys go way back I remember you guys from school.and Fulton hgts.I'm so sorry for your daughter ,she was to young to lose her father,he was young too.I heard from my brother granny & Mark died recently too.What happeded ?They say god takes the good and the young ones. it is so sad. My heart goes out to all of you at this time. god bless.all Petes relatives & friends. ..r.i.p.

July 14, 2008

YOU ARE ALL IN OUR PRAYERS MAY YOU ALL Rest in Peace....together Mary- 4-6-1919~ Feb-16-2008 /// Mark -3-4-1964 ~ 3-13-2008 /// Peter- 1-29-1969 ~ 6-22-2008

Cheryl McLeod

July 14, 2008

Dear Joan, Michael and Rene,

My heart goes out to all of you, everyone was just trying to move on from Mary's passing and then the family was hit with the tragedy of losing Mark and Peter. There are no words to express the pain that you all are feeling. I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad sad time. Keep them in your hearts and remember the good memories until you shall meet them in Heaven some day. Love Micheal's Aunt Cheryl & Family

July 14, 2008

rest in peace

laura&david tivnan

July 13, 2008

our deepest sympathy to the barretto/kirk family. we knew mary,mark,and our sweet pete well. can't believe they are all gone .it is too sad to even think about.our thoughts and prayers go out to you all especially renee and michael.may you all find strength and comfort in the days ahead.with much love and sympathy,laura&david

laura faretra

July 13, 2008

pete,my heart is broken,so glad we talked before you left us. i miss you terribly . the memorial service was so sad.trying to remember all the good times without crying. my thoughts and prayers are with your family. look after renee she is going to need it. you will always be in my heart,they always say god takes the good ones,i miss you soo much already.go rest with the angels my friend,i love you and miss you,laura

Janeen (Barretto) Sencabaugh

July 11, 2008

Dear Joanie, My deepest sympathies to you. Please know that I am thinking of you. I am Philip (and Norma) Barretto's daughter. May God comfort you and care for you at this most difficult time.

John

July 10, 2008

Dear Family of Mary, Mark, & Peter, Yesterday, was unable to make the service my deepest condolences go out to you.I heard Mary' died back in march. Remember hanging out in the hights...north meffa....... i read the newspaper.and saw both there names. I knew pete as a kid long time ago.I can't beleive he's gone. so sorry . god bless them may they all rest in peace.

Laurie

July 9, 2008

TODAY WAS A VERY SAD DAY. MARK & PETER'S MEMORIAL WAS THIS MORNING,EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE WITH THEIR GRANDMOTHER MARY NOW. SAYING ARE FAREWELLS PUTS A CLOSURE ON ALL OUR HEARTS. .PLEASE PRAY FOR JOAN AT THIS TIME. GOD BLESS

Bob

July 9, 2008

JOAN, Losing your beloved children is a great deal to handle, their life and death is part of your hurting heart right now.your whole life was them. Lord help her get through this.my deepest condolences go out to Joanee Kirk & Baretto family.

Laurie McLeod

July 8, 2008

Dear Michael, I'm so sorry about your Uncle Pete,July 9,2008 will be a memorial service for your dad & uncle,they will be buried together.next to Grandma Mary. You been through alot last few months,dealing with all this. plus going into service, hopefully you'll call,write or email us soon.I love & miss you, your sister Nikki does too. I'll keep you in my thoughts & prayers. luv ya mom

joe

July 8, 2008

dear family & friends of Mark & Pete., they were both good kids. keep all those good memories we had of growing up and hanging out in South Medford, rest in peace guys.

friends from harrison st.

July 8, 2008

Joan {Desautels} Kirk, I am so saddened by more bad news,can't believe what your mind is going through. Its doesn't seem possible ,i knew your mom dad, & you when you were a little girl ,remembered the boys when they were babies.and brought them by your moms. I watched them grow up. just hard to believe, I just picture your mother,always driving up and down Harrison st.so slow..wish l can see her or Peter driving now.. The whole Harrison St.Neighborhood is here for you if you wan't to talk. may you find peace.to get through this. Joan again I'm deeply sorry. Peter:your memorial will be wednesday.God will send you with your grandmother and your brother now.We'll all miss you. rest in peace.

Josephine Kiklis

July 8, 2008

Dear Joan:
My deepest sympathy for the loss of Mark and Peter. No greater loss could anyone have than to lose a child but, for you, two sons. I cannot even imagine how difficult this is for you. I have not seen them both in years but I do remember them with you and their father, Carl. Try to have faith. God Bless you and my sympathy to their children.
Cousin, Josie Barretto Kiklis

Marilyn Sullivan

July 8, 2008

Dear Michael,

I've been thinking about you since I heard of your father's death. I am very sorry. It is never easy to lose a parent, no matter the circumstances or age.

I do hope that you are letting your family and friends take good care of you, especially now as you deal with the added loss of your uncle Peter.

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers, Marilyn

Marilyn Sullivan

July 8, 2008

Dear Rene,

I am thinking about you every day. I am so sorry about your daddy. I'll miss having him as my neighbor. He was always ready to help me out.

Please know that you are in my heart and thoughts.

love, Marilyn

Marilyn Sullivan

July 8, 2008

Dear Joan,

Please know that you are being held very specially in my thoughts and heart during your time loss.

I am so saddened by Peter's death. I keep expecting him to come over to mow my lawn. Even though he hated yard work, he felt the mowing was not "woman's work". I did appreciate his thoughtfulness.

Please take good care of yourself, Marilyn

Michele Barretto

July 8, 2008

Dear Rene,Michael and family,

I am sorry for your loss. Both Mark and Peter will be missed. I was proud to have them both as my cousins.There was so much good inside the both of them.

Peter was so soft spoken and sweet with a loving heart and Mark was so full of personality and a love for living life .

Peter and Mark the heights will be different now without the two of you. Both of you left an everlasting impression on the hill and will be remembered by many . Your family and friends will help you both to live on in our stories and memories of you. We love you.



your cousin
Michele M. Barretto

Laureen McLeod

July 8, 2008

Dear Rene, I'm so sorry you lost your father, he was a nice dad and good person.keep him in you memories all the good times you both shared.Michael & you are all gramama Joan has now.keep her in your prayers. I'll call you later. love Laurie & Nikki. Also your cousin Michael.....xoxoxox

July 8, 2008

Dear Joan, I am deeply sorry for your losses ,you been through so much last few months. I am always here for you. talk to you later. see you tomorrow. I wish Michael could be here..I'm sure he'll call or write you soon from US ARMY. xoxox Lau

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July 8, 2008

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