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Edith Ingraham Howe

Edith Howe Obituary

A wonderful mother, sister, friend and inspiration to many, passed away peacefully on Sunday, July 6th, 2008 at her home in Cambridge, MA from breast cancer. She was 61 years old. Edie received her B.A. at Simmons College, her Ed.M. at Boston University and her J.D. from Northeastern University School of Law in 1983. She served as General Counsel in the Executive Office of Human Services in the Dukakis administration, and was a trust and estate attorney at Palmer & Dodge LLP. After many years as a lawyer, Edie enrolled in theological studies where her passion for interfaith dialogue helped spark joint initiatives between seminary and rabbinical students at Andover Newton Theological School and Hebrew College. After the events of 9/11 Edie felt called to do something to mitigate the misunderstanding and fear between Jews, Christians, and Muslims. This prompted her to form a woman's interfaith book group called the Daughters of Abraham, which has now become a national movement with groups all over the country. Edie was also a trustee of the American University in Cairo, and a board member and former co-chair for Massachusetts Advocate for Children. Edie is survived and greatly missed by her father, Miner D. Crary, Jr. of Northport, NY; her husband, Edward H. Howe, from whom she was separated; her brothers, James G. Crary of Phoenix, AZ, and Miner A. Crary of Sudbury, MA and her sisters, Laura M. Crary of Newton, MA and Harriet S. Crary of Cambridge, MA; her children, Christopher H. Howe of Somerville, MA, Jamen Howe Jones of San Francisco, CA, Joel Peace Howe of Cambridge, MA; her sisters-in-law, Helen H. Crary and Janelle Rossignol Crary; brother-in-law Douglas T. Hall; her daughter-in-law, Jennifer Howe Peace and son-in-law, Roderick B. Jones; her nieces, Anna C. Crary, Elissa H. Crary, Emma C. Crary, Mary Lauran C. Hall, and nephew, Cameron Crary; and the six grandchildren who brought such joy to her life, Alex, Jim, Ezra, Elijah, Harriet and Huxley. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to: the Daughters of Abraham through the First Church in Cambridge, Congregational, 11 Garden St., Cambridge 02138, memo line: Daughters of Abraham; or to the Andover Newton Interfaith Fund at the Andover Newton Theological School, Attention Priscilla Deck, 210 Herrick Road, Newton, MA 02459. Plans are being made for a service at Andover Newton Theological School in the fall, to honor her life and work.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jul. 9, 2008.

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Frances Wills

July 4, 2025

Tom and I remember and are inspired by Edie. We look at the maple tree at our Maine home and remember when she and Ed helped us plant the tree near our front porch. I think of Edie now as the world turns upside down and how she worked for humanity, kindness and peace. We send blessings to her family today.

Frances and Tom Wills

July 3, 2021

As a dear friend, Edie Howe, remains in our hearts. She is still alive to us in memories of the school she founded and her unique perspective on how to live and be. The little octagonal studio space where Joey was born exists as a symbol of eightfold path and our spiritual aspirations. The "Daughters of Abraham" remains a monument to Edie's hope for a culturally inclusive American dream, needed now more than ever. Always, Fran and Tom

Helena Jo Goldstein

May 3, 2009

Just hearing the news of her death- she was an always cheerful member of my first year law school study group. I have many fond memories of her during those law school years.

September 1, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Howe and Crary family...

Diane Stanley

August 12, 2008

I'll never forget her beautiful smile and lovely long blond hair.

I did not know Edie well in high school, but I remember her in English class. Our teacher would call on her when the rest of us could not answer her questions. Edie would always have an insightful answer!

Carole Belgrade

July 22, 2008

My prayers are with you
Edie was a friend and a mentor

Shalom

Frances Wills

July 19, 2008

Edee has been on our minds and in my hearts always. This month we felt her presence every day; when an e-mail was not returned, we feared to call. We loved Edee very much and are proud to have known her. Love Fran and Tom Wills

Kim Murdock

July 14, 2008

I worked with Edie when she was the general counsel of EOHS. I moved to New York City in 1998 and was shocked to read of her death in the Times. She was a gentle person and I was not surprised to read of the wonderful directions her life had taken since those times. Her life truly made a difference to this world.

Susie Neubauer

July 14, 2008

Edie was my dear friend, and a joy in my life. I loved her gentleness and good humor, and the strength beneath it. The Daughters of Abraham group she founded has changed my life forever, and many other lives. Every blessing to all the family.

Edie wanted a picture with a train for her grandsons. 2005

Rona Fischman

July 13, 2008

Edie was my friend, my mentor and my inspiration.
Farewell.
Her work with Daughters of Abraham has borne fruit beyond our expectations. May her name be a blessing for a peaceful world. May she sing with the angels.

Patty Burrows

July 13, 2008

The most beautiful and lovely girl in our high school, Friends Academy. A true role model.
I admired her always!
My deepest condolences to her family.
Patty Burrows

Michael Wendelin

July 12, 2008

May Her light shine eternal.

July 9, 2008

Bunny Mygatt

July 9, 2008

To Miner Crary,
Our prayers continue with you and our love. Our children are not to preceed us this way. Our hearts go out to you all. O God Our Help In Ages Past and today. With love,
Mary E. Mygatt

Peggy McLoughlin

July 9, 2008

Edie was the most gentle, loving, and genial person. She was my beloved, long-time neighbor. I find it too hard to think of the world without her kind presence and wonderful smile. I am thinking of the whole Howe family with much love, and I share your sorrow at Edie's passing.

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