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Robert Gary Obituary

GARY, Robert Morville Of Bedford, MA & Whitefield, NH, formerly of Lexington, MA, died peacefully on Oct. 10, 2008 after a brief illness. Mr. Gary was born in Boston, MA on July 29, 1922, the son of Howland R. Gary and Isabel (Scott) Gary. He leaves behind his wife of 62 years, Anne (Favinger) Gary; 3 daughters, Susan (Gary) Argetsinger of Burdett, NY and her children, Bree, Beren, and Will Argetsinger; Lizabeth Gary of Fort Wayne, Indiana, and her son, Waylon Gary; Allison (Gary) Gabrielson and her husband Guy of Woodbury, CT and their 3 sons, Jess, Roy, and Dane Gabrielson; a sister Barbara (Gary) Ross of Needham, MA; a brother Thomas S. Gary and his wife Margery of Clearwater, FL; and five nieces. His sister, Janet (Gary) Preston and 3 nephews predeceased him. Mr. Gary was a graduate of Lafayette College and received his MBA from the Wharton School of Finance and Commerce, University of Pennsylvania. His college was interrupted by 18 months service in the U.S. Army, European Theatre from 1943-1945. A resident of Lexington, MA for 40 years, Mr. Gary served as Corporator, Trustee, and then Chairman of Lexington Savings Bank, President of the Lexington Historical Society (1967-1970), Trustee of the Isaac Harris Cary Educational Fund, and was an active participant in town affairs. Mr. Gary enjoyed a long career in the investment counseling business and was a member of the Boston Security Analysts Society. He was an avid hiker in the White Mountains with family and friends; Civil War History was a lifelong interest for him, and later in life he found great pleasure in flower gardening. A memorial service will be held at a later date. Expressions of sympathy may be made to the American Heart Association, 20 Speen St. Framingham, MA 01701. Private interment Newton Cemetery. Douglass Funeral Home Lexington 781-862-1800 www.douglassfh.com

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Published by Boston Globe on Oct. 12, 2008.

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Mike Casey

October 20, 2008

Mr. Gary,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the U.S. Army in Europe during WW II fighting the Germans and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Janet and Leo Lehr

October 14, 2008

We will miss our dear jovial Uncle Bob. Even now we must smile and chuckle whenever we think of him. His absence leaves a tremendous hole in the familly. but his legacy of laughter lives on forever. Love and condolences to Aunt Anne and the cousins. Take care.

October 13, 2008

The Gallagher/Holder/Milchen family want to express our deepest sympathy and share some memories of a wonderful man, husband, friend, and father.

I know it has been a while since I have seen all of you but you are in our heart and prayers. I have the fondest memories of Bob Gary. As a child I can remember Mr. Gary's constant smile and a laugh that was contagious. His kindness was so available and made even the youngest children in the room feel important and listened to. Hiking along side of him and my dad (Charlie Gallagher) was so fun to watch as two great friends exchanged stories, laughed lots, and so enjoyed each new summit. The spectacular panoramic views from the Whitefield home are still etched in my mind and what a wonderful place to raise a beautiful family. Watching Bob and Anne Gary together was a perfect example of a loving and beautiful couple. I loved feeling so close to your family at an important time in my life. I truly hope the memories that you shared together give you peace during this sad time. He will be missed yet remembered by so many as such a wonderful man.

Love,
Laurie Gallagher Holder, Amherst, NH
Jane (Gallagher) Milchen, Amherst, NH
Steve & Sarah Gallagher Fairfax, Va

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