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BENDER, John E., Sr. Of Easton, October 15, 2008. Companion of Sheila Marder of Easton. Father of Danielle Amero of Somersworth, NH and John E. Bender, Jr. of Carver. Son of Margaret (Lavalette) Bender of CT and the late Alexander Bender. Brother of Thomas Bender and Carol Embacher, both of CT. Grandfather of Joshua, Jacob, Rhiannon, Abigail, and Madelyn. Relatives and friends respectfully invited to attend a celebration of John's life at his late residence in Easton on Saturday from 1-3 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations in John's memory may be sent to Stand Up To Cancer, File #1224, 1801 W. Olympic Blvd., Pasadena, CA91199-1224. (www.standup2cancer.org). Arrangements are by the Kane Funeral Home & Cremation Services, EASTON. For condolences,pleasevisit: www.kanefuneralhome.com.

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Published by Boston Globe on Oct. 17, 2008.

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Beatrice Mull

November 19, 2008

For a time at FM Global, John was my supervisor. I always considered him one of the good guys. My condolences to his family.

Marie Birdsall

October 20, 2008

To the Bender family: John hired me 20 years ago, and I always enjoyed working with him. My deepest sympathies to you at this time.

Marie Birdsall (FM Global)

Martha Skoog

October 20, 2008

The Bender family

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sad time.

John will be missed.

Martha Skoog
FM Global

Donna Rega

October 17, 2008

John, I will miss our daily cheerful exchange as we passed in the halls of FM Global . . . and your trademark cardigan sweaters! We will resume our daily greetings one day . . ."Hi, how are you? "Just SUPER" . . . . chuckle chuckle smile . . . .You will be deeply missed.

Jeanne Heaton

October 17, 2008

I'd like to extend my sincere sympathy to John's family. Our families shared many happy times together and those memories will be cherished.

Kathy Pinelli

October 17, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with John's family. He will be missed so much.

Elise Smith

October 17, 2008

Hi John

Sorry to hear of your passing. Hoping all is "just peachy" where ever you are.

Regards

Elise (FM Global)

Lisa Heaton

October 17, 2008

My deepest and most sincere condolences to John's entire family. Our families shared so many good times in Mansfield over the years, and I'll always have very fond memories of "Mr. B."

Deborah Kazuschyk

October 17, 2008

John, you were a great friend and inspriation for me. You will be greatly missed.

Roberta WILLIAMS

October 17, 2008

Danielle and John, I was so sorry to hear of the death of your father from Jean Heaton. I know he was loved by many. Deepest sympathies. I would love to see you sometime. Roberta

Dianne Spetelunas

October 17, 2008

John; may you find a nice bench in the sun. That is how I will remember you sitting in a nice sunny spot with a smile. My sympathy to your family, especially those beautiful grandchildren that you always talked about. Sincerly Dianne, FM Global receptionist.

Danielle Amero

October 17, 2008

I love you dad.

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