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Lillian Finlay Obituary

FINLAY, Lillian E. (Tassinary) 83, resident and business owner in Whitman since 1953 died October 27th after a lengthy illness. Mrs. Finlay was the wife of the late Robert W. Finlay, Sr. and the loving mother of Robert W. Finlay, Jr. of Westcliffe, CO, Mary (Finlay) Porter and Stuart Finlay, of Whitman, MA and the late David P. Finlay of Fort Lauderdale, FL. In addition to her children, Lillian leaves behind two grandchildren Theresa Menice, Jeffrey Porter and the late Jonathan Finlay and also four great grandchildren, David Menice, Ryan Menice, Devin Porter and Hayleigh Porter all of Taunton, MA. She was the sister of the late Beatrice Bregoli of Abington, the late Edward Tassinary of Lakeville, MA, the late Harold Tassinary of Naples, FL, and the sister of Robert Tassinary of Braintree, MA. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews. Lillian, was the daughter of Amedeo and Clara Tassinary and was born and raised in Braintree, MA. She graduated from Braintree High School in the class of 1943. During her adult life Lillian was very active in Community Theatre. Lillian was also a member of the Whitman Eastern Star. Lillian and her husband owned and operated Finlay's Shoe Center in downtown Whitman for many years. Lillian also operated "The Jolly Barnyard Day Nursery" from her Washington Street home. In the 70's Lillian and her husband began a new career that would continue for the next 25 years with the opening of Finlay Realty at their Washington Street home. Lillian was always very active and enjoyed bowling, playing cribbage, horseshoes, and was the pitcher for the Whitman Women's Softball League from 1982-1988. Lillian loved to travel and visited her many relatives in Italy over a dozen times. In her later years she became known as the "Eggplant Lady" as she loved to cook. Calling hours in the MacKinnon Funeral Home, 760 Washington St., WHITMAN on Thursday, October 30, from 4-8 p.m. Family and friends are respectfully invited to attend. Funeral Service on Friday, Oct. 31 at 11 am. in the Funeral Home. Interment private. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Whitman Fire-Rescue Gift Fund, P.O. Box 168, Whitman, MA 02382, in appreciation of the departments tender care and support during her times of need. For directions or to sign the guest bookvisit www.mackinnonfuneral.com MacKinnon Funeral Home, Whitman

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Published by Boston Globe on Oct. 29, 2008.

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anne haynes

November 4, 2008

Bob, Stu and Mary- My sympathies are with you during this time of loss.

Jim & Pat Stone

October 30, 2008

Mary,Stuart and Robert
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paula Pearson

October 29, 2008

Lillian, I will miss you,thank you for being so good to us and for being such a good friend and listener.God bless you . Love,Paula

Frank E Hayes

October 29, 2008

Stuart
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.I wish to extend my deepest sympatthy at this time

David Smith Sr.

October 29, 2008

To the Finlay family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. It has been a good many years since I have seen the Finlay name . MY name is Dave Smith, we lived across the street from your family in the 60's and 70's. I live in Florida with my family now for 20 years. Growing up on Walnut st back in that day brings back a lot of good memories, all I can say to the Finlay family is to keep strong during this tough time, My Mom passed away a year and half ago and my dad " Smitty" passed away twelve years ago, I know what you are all going through, God Bless you all and may God Bless your Mom. David w. Smith Sr.

michele post (daggett)

October 29, 2008

To lillian's family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of lillian. She was a real nice lady and I am very glad I finally got the chance to meet her when I came back home for a visit. She sure made me smile and brought my spirits up. My heartfelt sympathies go to you all. She surely will be missed and I will never forget how she fought for me and my son. I am sorry I can't make it there for the funeral but you will all be in my prayers.

Hope (Spooner) King

October 29, 2008

Stu,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. it's been along time but I remember your mother like it was yesterday. Mostly for the making the BEST Pasta Fagoli soup! She would always send you into work at the bank with a big container for me when she made it. She was a sweetheart. You are in my thoughts.

Maryellen

October 29, 2008

My Lil,
I will miss you so terribly. You were a wonderful lady, who always made me laugh. I will never forget the Eggplant lady!! Love your "Witchy-poo"

MICHELLE H. RN

October 29, 2008

DEAR LILLIAN'S FAMILY
I HAD THE HONOR AND PRIVLEDGE TO MEET AND TAKE CARE OF LILLIAN DURING SEVERAL OF HER HOSPITAL STAYS. SHE WAS AN EXCEPTIONAL WOMAN. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER WITH A SMILE ON MY FACE. I HOPE YOUR MEMORIES OF HER WILL HELP YOU GET THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL.

Cathie Regan

October 29, 2008

Stuart, Bob, and Mary,

I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She was quite a character, wasn't she? I still have great memories of her from the Whitman Premier Players.

Janice Adams

October 29, 2008

Mary & Family
My heartfelt sympathy to you on the loss of your dear mother. My memories of her is being such a hard working woman. My own mother always said what a wonderful woman she was and such a hard worker when ever she went to the cobbler shop. God bless her.

Julie Turner (Cobis)

October 29, 2008

Mary, Stuart & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mothers passing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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