Thomas J. Cosgrove

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Thomas Cosgrove Obituary

COSGROVE, Thomas J. 74, a 66-year resident of Brighton, died peacefully on Nov. 6 in his Eastham home. A talented high school athlete and Army Veteran, Mr. Cosgrove graduated from Boston College, and worked at New England Telephone Co. for 32 years. In retirement, he took great pleasure as a school bus driver, and was a familiar, friendly face on the Cape Cod bike trail, where he ran a hot dog stand for six summers. Known for his wit and gentle manner, he leaves his devoted wife of 49 years, Barbara, and was loving father to Catherine Cosgrove of Los Angeles, Jeanne and Aldo Decunto of Melbourne, AU, and Marybeth and Peter Smails of Saratoga, CA. Cherished grandfather of Katherine, Chris and Sarah Smails. He is also survived by his adored sister Virginia and husband Tom McCauley, and sister-in-law Marge and husband Steve Griffin, as well as many nieces, nephews and friends. Visiting hours are 2-5 PM, Nov. 11 at the Hallett Funeral Home, 273 Station Ave. SOUTH YARMOUTH and a Funeral Mass will be held at St. Joan of Arc Church, Orleans at 10:30 AM on Nov. 12. Burial will follow in the Massachusetts National Cemetery, Bourne at 1 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Dr. Amrein's Fund #028557 at Mass. General Hospital, c/o D. Silva, Yawkey 7A, 55 Fruit St. Boston, MA 02114.

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Published by Boston Globe on Nov. 9, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Cosgrove

7 Entries

James Stanfield Jr

November 13, 2008

Dear Mrs. Cosgrove and family'
How sorry I am to hear of the loss of your wonderful husband Tom. I volunteered with him on a number of pancake breakfasts for the Knights of Columbus at St. Joan of Arc church and found him to be so nice and friendly. Tom and I did the cooking on several occasions and he was just a joy to be around. I will miss him. Love and best wishes to you and your family.

brenda cancian

November 13, 2008

Dear Mrs. C. Cathy, Jeanne & Marybeth.
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remeber the times we had together on Anselm Terrace. May Tom rest in peace
Love Brenda (Leonard) Cancian

Scott & Chrissy McDonald

November 9, 2008

Dear Mrs. C, Cathy, Jean, and MaryBeth,

We are so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. Mr. C was a wonderful person and our family was lucky to have known him for so many years. We take comfort knowing he is with God and we will continue to pray for your family. Lots of love,

rob stewart

November 9, 2008

Barb and family,
We are all saddened by Tom's passing but the many ways he touched our lives will be with us always. The kindness ,admiration and love of such a wonderful guy who we all were fortunate to share thoughout the years make us better people. To recollect the Brighton High School years--Tom's wit, sports contributions and many achievements then and throughout the years will not be forgotten. He was part of the helm that guided us through the memorable fiftieth. To Tom -a great guy -and to the family our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
rob stewart and Brighton High class of 1952

JANE GRIFFIN

November 9, 2008

Peace to Tom. It is well deserved. Joy to your family for having had you in their lives for so long. You will be missed.

Jane

J S

November 9, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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