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Gordon S. "Dusty" Stilwell Jr.

Gordon Stilwell Obituary

STILWELL, Gordon S. "Dusty" Jr. 69, of Saugus, formerly of Everett, November 19, 2008, husband of Margaret (McGrath) Stilwell of Everett, died Wednesday evening surrounded by his family following a short illness. He was the long time companion of Diane Dunn of Saugus for the past 13 years. Born in Malden, he was the son of the late Basil and Louise (Vogel) Stilwell and step son of the late Florence Stilwell. He was raised and educated in Malden and was a graduate of Malden High School, Class of 1956. After high school, Dusty worked for the Marchese Construction Company for over thirty years and served in many capacities, including truck driver and foreman. After his retirement, he worked additional years as a landscaper at both the Bellevue Country Club in Melrose and the Everett/Saugus Elks Club, Post #642, where he has been a member for the last 25 years and received the Elk of the Year award in 2006. Dusty was also an avid guitar player who enjoyed playing at clubs and different venues throughout the Boston Area. He also was instrumental in organizing various jamborees for many charities, but what was of most importance to him, was the initiation of the Stilwell Family Reunions. He is survived by his children, Gordon S. Stilwell, Jr. and his wife Nancy of Everett, Mary Ann Benedetto of Peabody, Kelley Anne and her husband William Thompson Jr. of Medford,Julianne Stilwell of Malden and James Stilwell and his loving companion, Patricia Scolly of Everett, his brothers, Robert Stilwell Sr. of Pottstown, PA, Bruce Stilwell of Huntsville, AL, and Basil Stilwell Jr., of Malden, his three grandchildren, Timothy R. Benedetto Jr., Gordon S. Stilwell III, and Jenna A. Thompson. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews and his extended family in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. He was the father of the late Michael Stilwell and brother of the late William Stilwell Sr. His Funeral Service will be held on Monday at 10:00 AM at the Conway, Cahill-Brodeur Funeral Home, 82 Lynn St., PEABODY to which relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday from 4:00 until 8:00 PM. Burial in Puritan Lawn Memorial Park, Peabody. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701 or The Hallmark Health Visiting Nurse Assoc. and Hospice Inc., 178 Savin St, Suite 300, Malden, MA 02148. For directions and on-line obituary, visit www.ccbfuneral.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 21 to Nov. 22, 2008.

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Jayne Falzone

November 28, 2008

To the Entire Stilwell Family,

Please accept our sincere sympathy. May your memories provide some comfort during this difficult time. The Sheehan Family

Ann Wallace

November 23, 2008

The Stillwell Family:

May the blessings of love be upon you
May its peace abide with you
May its essence illuminate your heart
Now and forever more . .

I remember Dusty and Peggy going back to the early sixties, we would go to all of the joints that he played from the Combat Zone to Lynn.

My prays are with you all.

Patrick Manolian

November 23, 2008

I worked with Dusty at Bellevue Golf Club. He was a great guy; friendly, great sense of humor, and loyal. Last year I had a daughter and brought her up, every time he saw me after that he would ask "how's the little girl." He will be missed and often thought of. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Rest in Peace Dusty.

Ed Dwyer

November 23, 2008

Hello Gordon... my condolences on the loss of your father..

Norman Winsor

November 22, 2008

Gordon so sorry for the loss of your Dad it must be tough , all or Dads are getting to that age but 69 is very young, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kerry Coughlin

November 21, 2008

To Kelley & Family:
I am truly sorry for the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with your and your family during this most difficult time. May all the memories that each of you have of your dad, sustain you with profound joy, love, contentment and peace. Above all, may your father dance in glory with the angels and may his soul rest in eternal peace.

I didn't know your father personally, but through my conversations with Kelley I came to understand what a special and strong man he must have been. I wished I'd had the chance to meet him.

Kelley...I'm glad we've had each other to talk to during these past several months. You offered me so much comfort and so many kind words during my mother's final days just six short weeks ago. I am here for you as well...whatever you need, please do not hesitate to call on me. I am so sorry that you and your family have to endure the pain that the loss of a parent brings. No words can describe how much it hurts. Know in your heart that you have a new angel in heaven to watch over . In love and friendship....

suzanne payne

November 21, 2008

God took one of the great ones to be with him. Dusty was an amazing and caring man who would do anything for you. We will always think of him and Diane on the two lawn chairs hanging out!!! Dusty you will be missed greatly....Much love Suzanne & Mike Payne

david ravanesi

November 21, 2008

i am awfully sorry to hear of dusty s passing. we go back a long way to the days of the hillbilly ranch. i used to visit him while he played there. he will be missed by many of his old friends at the old jack o lantern cafe in everett. my deepest condolances dave ravanesi

Frank Parker

November 21, 2008

And who could ever forget the 4th of July in the Projects with Dusty and his band playing in the back yard. Sometimes he got a larger crowd than Rex Trailer! On behalf of the Parker/Accardi Family please accept our most sincere and deepest sympathies.

Joanne (Trevisani) Nichols

November 21, 2008

Dear Peggy,

I am sorry to hear of the death of Gordon. Please accept my condolences. Think of you often.

Joanne (Trevisani) Nichols

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