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Diane Frates Obituary

FRATES, Diane (Velten) Age 65, of Stoneham, November 23, 2008. Wife of Robert P. Frates. Daughter of Alice (Bacon) Velten of Stoneham and the late Clifford A. Velten. Mother of the late John C. Brown, III. Also survived by her son Michael R. Frates and his wife Donna of Lynnfield; daughter Deborah Walker and her husband Christopher of Oakham; a brother, Wayne Velton and his wife Ann of Peabody; sisters, Joyce Turner of Wilmington and Janet McLaughlin and her husband Leonard of Billerica; 3 beloved grandchildren, Madison and Nathan Frates and Ava Walker; six nieces and three nephews. Funeral services will be Wed. at 11:00 AM in the First Baptist Church, 457 Main St., Stoneham, followed by burial in Lindenwood Cemetery. Visitation: Tues., 4:00-8:00 PM at Anderson-Bryant Funeral Home, 4 Common St., Stoneham. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Diane's memory may be made to Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place West, Floor 6, Brookline, MA 02445.

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Published by Boston Globe on Nov. 24, 2008.

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Rita

November 18, 2022

Think of you often. Now I share memories of you with your sister Joy. Till we meet again....

Tom Poirier

November 18, 2020

Diane's legacy, rightfully, lives on here and within the many lives that she has touched. May the God that touched her life so deeply touch the lives of many others.

G Thomas Poirier

November 21, 2019

On this upcoming anniversary of our sister-in-Christ, Diane, we are reminded of her warmth, her humor and her steadfast faith that continues to inspire all whose lives she touched. Joyce and I miss you but we are immersed in very fond memories of the Bible studies that we enjoyed in your home in Stoneham.

Karen Black

December 9, 2008

Her wonderful sparkle will continue to inspire the rest of us.

Eleanor Brazil

December 1, 2008

Dear Bob, accept our since condolences. Diane was a lovely person. Our thoughts and prayers are with all her family. Ellie and Don

Steve Luxa

November 29, 2008

Please accept my sympathies and know that my prayers are with you and your family.

Bob & Norma Silva

November 29, 2008

Diane....one of the sweetest ladies we have ever met. We were very fortunate to have both Diane and Bob in our circle of square and round dance friends. We will miss her dearly.

jamie maga

November 29, 2008

Just a note of thanks for 2 very giving people. You still find a way to lift others up through all your tough times. Thanks. J-

Ruann Warford

November 29, 2008

My Christmas tree is soon to be put up with many ornaments painted by Diane. How I cherish these and will miss having more.
I'm sure the Lord will use her talent to help paint flowers and rainbows so the whole world can enjoy her work.

Frieda Palazzo

November 29, 2008

My memories of Diane surround me in every room of my home. I will cherish her friendship and love forever, I have many many memories, of our love and friendship together. I will miss her dearly, Knowing she is with our heavenly father, and that someday I will see her again, gives me a little peace. May the heavenly father surround her family and love ones with love and peace.

Kate Frates

November 29, 2008

Robert & Family, Sending my heartfelt condolences at this sad time. She suffered so much and was so courageous and strong--and is at last home and at peace. Love to all, Kate Schwartz-Frates

Stacia Nordin

November 29, 2008

Big hugs from Malawi!

Tom Poirier

November 29, 2008

As we all struggle and grief at the earthly loss of one so truly given by our Lord and Saviour above, we also have to rejoice that she is finally with her lifelong companion and at His side.
Superlatives that attempt to describe the exemplary life that Diane lived and the excellent witness that she was are all well-deserved and will continue to add to her legacy. Our loss is His gain. All who loved and came to appreciate the kind, loving spirit that is Diane knew that we could not keep such a treasured gift and that she should be reunited with her Lord and Saviour.
So, as we reflect upon the full and serving life that was Diane's, let us not grieve too much but take as sage advice as given by Diane herself "to grieve-but let me go". This will be exceedingly difficult for most of us but heap further glory upon Jesus her Lord as Diane would prefer. Diane thought of others first even in her darkest hours of pain and despair. Does this remind us of Anyone we may know or for others still, Anyone that we should know better?

Bob Frates

November 29, 2008

My blessings to you all that have responded to Diane's guest book.
She has touched many hearts and will continue to do so for many years to come. Her testimony and her life was to put Jesus Christ first in all that came before her.
I will miss her always.
Your loving husband. Bob

November 26, 2008

Dear Wayne and Ann So sorry to hear of your sister's passing, all our sympathy to you and your family. Warm regards Barbara & Eddie Murrin

Carolyn & Phil Bouley

November 26, 2008

I was so sad when I heard the news today about Aunt Diane's passing. My thoughts, prayers and heart go out to all of you in your time of sorrow. Stay strong and I know you realize she is in a much better place now.

Lisa and Kenny OBrien

November 24, 2008

Dear Debbie and Family
We are very sorry to hear about Diane.I will always remember her as a loving,caring person with a big smile.May you find comfort during this difficult time.

Rita Meuse

November 24, 2008

My mother is so happy to see you Diane. Love, Rita

Mary Canavan

November 24, 2008

Dear Wayne & Ann,
We were so sorry to hear of your sister's passing. Our heartfelt sympathy.
Paul & Mary (Hamill) Canavan

Roger and Polly McKinnon

November 24, 2008

We cherish our square dance memories. You will always live in our
hearts and prayers
Love Roger and Polly

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