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Shirley Whalen Obituary

Of Westwood and Falmouth, died Sept. 30th. Beloved wife of the late James P. Whalen. Loving mother of Gail L. Morrison and her late husband John of Westwood. Devoted grandmother of Jonathan Morrison and his wife Christine of Rochester, MA and Robin E. Wenham and her husband Scott of Leesburg, VA. Great grandmother of Jonathan, Haley, Bradley, Mallory and Paige. Sister of Phyllis Luke of Falmouth, Joyce McCarthy of Norwood and Arlene Moni of TX. Also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. Dear friend of Eileen Dargan and Betty Vitelli. Relatives and friends are invited to attend Visiting Hours in the Holden, Dunn and Lawler Funeral Home, 55 High Rock St. (off Route 109) WESTWOOD on Thursday, October 4th from 4-7pm. Funeral from the Funeral Home on Friday morning, October 5th at 9am followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Margaret Mary's Church at 10am. Interment at New Westwood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Shirley's name to the American Heart Association, 20 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701 or to the charity of your choice. Holden-Dunn-Lawler 781-326-0074

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 3 to Oct. 4, 2007.

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Patricia Reilly

October 5, 2007

Gail,
I am very sorry for your loss. Shirley was such a great ficture in our lives growing up. It was wonderful for all of us to have had the opportunity to grow up in a neighborhood where people enjoyed each other. I can still see her standing at the back door yelling to Pat to go do something.
With sympathy, Pat Reilly

Mike O'Toole

October 4, 2007

Gail,
Diane and I are very sorry for your loss. When we visited with you and Shirley a few weeks ago on our trip to Boston she was in great spirits despite her failing health and that is how we will remember her. Pat and Shirley were always great to the O'Toole family, whether they were overpaying us kids for shoveling snow or cutting the grass to sharing the cottage in Falmouth with Dot and Terry. We will all miss her and the old neighborhood will not be the same without her.

Love,
Mike and Diane

Rita Morrison

October 3, 2007

Gail, I am so sorry to hear about Shirley's death tho I imagine it's somewhat of a relief for you to know that she's finally at peace --not struggling in anything she had to do as she became weaker. I'm sure she had had no quality of life recent years which must have been difficult for you to watch. You were so good to her to do all you did so that she could stay at home. You gave her the only thing she really wanted at that stage in her life. I'll always remember her generosity when the kids were little and we would see her. often. To look at it from another vantage point, Pat, look out, Shirley's coming to rule the roost. No more peace in heaven. Between Shirley and Mary Kelley both Pat and my father are in for it! Please call if I can do anything. I'll see you on Thursday.
Love,
Rita

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