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Harry Jurjurian Obituary

Of Waltham, November 14, 2007. Beloved husband of Margarite (Patapanian). Devoted father of Cindy Gonzalez and her husband Steven, Joanne Passanisi and her late husband Steven and Diane Miley and her husband John. Also survived by 7 grandchildren. Brother-in-law of Edward and Elaine Patapanian. Uncle of Jay Patapanian. Brother of Virginia McGuire and the late Arthur Jurjurian. Funeral Services at Saint James Armenian Church, 465 Mount Auburn Street, Watertown on Monday, November 19 at 11 AM. Visiting hours at the Aram Bedrosian Funeral Home, 558 Mount Auburn Street, WATERTOWN on Sunday from 3-7 PM. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Memorial gifts may be made to the American Cancer Society, Centralized Memorial Processing Center, 30 Speen Street, Framingham, MA 01701. Interment at Ridgelawn Cemetery, Watertown.

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 16 to Nov. 17, 2007.

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August 2, 2015

Happy birthday dad. I hope you had a great birthday. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you & mom.
Next Sunday we will all be getting together for our 2nd annual Jurjurian get together. Send us a sign that you & mom are there. You would be very proud of how your family is growing.
Love & miss you. Diane

August 2, 2015

Happy Birthday Dad. Miss you so much. You would be so proud of your growing family.
Love you,
Joanne

August 1, 2015

Happy Birthday Dad. Hope you are having a party with everyone up there. Miss you every day.
Cindy

August 2, 2014

Dad,
Happy Belated Birthday. Miss you and mom so much. I am always using your 'dadisms". You are always in my thoughts. Love you.
Joanne

Cindy

August 1, 2014

Happy Birthday Dad. You would have been 93 today. Miss you & Mom so much. We're all getting together on Sunday - wish you both could be with us. Love you. Hope you celebrate with Mom.

Diane

June 15, 2014

Happy Father's day Dad. I miss you so much. I think of you each and everyday. I wish you were here to see how big the family is getting. You would be so proud of all your grand children & great grand children. I hope you are enjoying your day with all al other dads our family has lost.

Miss & love you
Diane

Cindy

November 15, 2013

Miss you so much Dad. It's hard to believe it's been 6 years. Love you. You were the best Dad a girl could have.

November 15, 2013

Dad,
I can't believe it has been 6 years. I think about you every day and wish you were here to see your expanding family. I was so lucky to have you and mom as parents. Miss you and Mom. Love you.
Joanne

Diane Miley

November 14, 2013

Hi dad,
Well it's been 6 years since you left us. I will never forget that day. I think about you everyday and still ask for your help with decisions and you always come through for me. Please watch over all of us as we still need to feel your presence. Tell mom I miss & love her.

Love,
Diane

Cindy

August 1, 2013

Hi Dad,
I wanted you a happy birthday today. Hope you have been enjoying it with Ma and all your friends and relatives. I miss you so much and wish you and Ma were here to see home your family is growing.
Love you!
Cindy

August 1, 2013

Hi Dad,
Happy Birthday. Wanted to let you know I am thinking about you on your birthday and hope you are celebrating with mom. Miss you and love you.
Love,
Joanne

Diane

July 31, 2013

Hi Dad,

I thought I'd be early in wishing you a happy birthday instead of always being late!! I know you must be surprised.

I hope you have a great day and spend it with mom and all your family and friedns that are there with you.
As I always tell you and mom, there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you two. You were the best parents in the world and I can only hope that I am 1/2 the parent to my kids as you were to me. Each of your grandchild have become awesome adults and parents. You and mom would be so proud of them and would love your great grandkids.

Again I hope you have a great birthday and continue to keep an eye on us all.

Love you,
Diane

Cindy Gonzalez

June 18, 2013

Sorry this is late Dad. Hope you had a great Father's Day. We were thinking of you that day - and everyday. Miss you and Mom so much. Miss our little talks.
Love you!
Cindy

Diane

June 18, 2013

Hi Dad,
I know I'm late but it doesn't mean I wasn't thinking of you on Father's day. There isn't a day that does by that I don't think of you and mom and how lucky I was to have parents like you & mom. You have taught me what a good parent is like & I only hope that I can be half the great parent to my kids as you were to me.

I miss and love you and mom so much.
Love,
Diane

Joanne Passanisi

June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day. Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today and every day. I miss your sense of humor and your honesty and kindness to everyone- well mostly everyone. I'm so lucky to have had you for my dad. Love you and miss you.
Love,
Joanne

Diane

November 14, 2012

Hi Dad,
Kind of weird to say that knowing 5 years ago I was saying good bye to you. I will never forget that day.
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you & mom & how lucky we all were to have you in our lives. like Cindy said I wish you & mom were here to see all your "Great" grandchildre. Talk about the "League of Nations"!!
I want to thank you & mom for being there with our bowling team on Thursdays. Ever since I asked for you & mom's help our team has won 6 weeks in a row losing only 1 game by 1 pin.
i love knowing that you & mom are there with me. I hope you come ever week.
Tell mom and everyone who is up there with you I miss & love them all.
I hope you & mom can join me & Johnny tomorrow for bowling.
Love & miss you,
Diane

November 14, 2012

Dad,
Hard to believe it has 5 years since you left us. Miss you and mom so much. Love you,
Joanne

November 13, 2012

Dad,
I can't believe it will be five years tomorrow that you left us. I think about you and Mom every day. We were so lucky to have the two of you for parents. I only wish you were here to see your great grandchildren. They would have loved you and Mom.
Love you so much and miss you.
Love,
Cindy

August 2, 2012

Happy belated birthday dad. I hope you had a great day. I miss you & mom so much. Like Cindy said we wish you could see all your great grand children. They are all so beautiful & unique in their own little ways.

Tell Jack & Eleanor I said hi & that I miss them too.
Love & miss you both.
Diane

August 1, 2012

Happy Birthday Dad. Hope you and mom are doing something fun- maybe making your famous shish kebob and pilaf. Love you and mom and miss you so much. You were the best!!!!
Love,
Joanne

August 1, 2012

Happy Birthday Dad. I miss you and Mom so much. I wish you could be here to see your great grandchildren. They are all so beautiful. Give Mom a hug for me. The two of you were the best parents any one could ask for.
Love, Cindy

Diane

June 17, 2012

Happy Father's Day Dad. I've been thinking about you & mom a lot lately. There is so much going on with the family you two created. I wish you both were here to see your 4 great grandchildren and how beautiful and unique each one is.Its funny but in each one I can see a little of you & ma.
I miss you two so much.
Love you,
Diane

June 17, 2012

Happy Father's Day Dad. Thought of you a lot today and everyday. I catch myself saying things that you used to say and it brings back a lot of great memories. You and mom were the best. Miss you and love you.
Love,
Joanne

June 16, 2012

Happy Father's Day Dad. I miss you & Mom so much. I was thinking of you tonight. Tyler is cutting his first tooth and I told Linda to use grandpa's whiskey on the gums trick.Really wish you were here.
Love, Cindy

Diane

May 13, 2012

Hey dad,

I haven't written to you in a while. I hope you and mom are doing something special for Mother's Day. Make her a nice breakfast & dinner ..make her feel like a queen!!!

Love & miss you both,
Diane

Diane Miley

November 14, 2011

Hi Dad,

I can't beleive that it's been 4 years since you've been gone. I can remember that day like it was yesterday.

There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you & ma, and ask for your guidance.

You have gorgeous great grandchildren that will need you & ma to watch over. I mean look how great we turned out!!

Love & miss you everyday. Tell ma I said hi & I miss & love her too!

Love, Diane

November 14, 2011

Dad,
It's hard to believe it's been 4 years. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. We all have a lot of good memories that we keep with us of you and Ma. We had the greatest parents.
You have a new great grandson - Tyler Steven Wu. He's so cute and I wish every day that you and Ma could see him.
Love you.
Cindy

November 13, 2011

Dad,
Tomorrow will be the 4 year anniversary of your passing. In some ways it seems like it was yesterday but I can remember everything that happened that day. I miss you a lot and am so lucky to have had you for a father.
Love you,
Joanne

Diane Miley

August 1, 2011

Hi Dad,

I wanted to wish you a Happy 90th Birthday. That's quite a milestone! I hope you and mom are going to do something special. I wish you two could be here so we could all celebrate this special day.

I miss you & ma so much. Tell her I said "HI".

Love you both,
Diane

August 1, 2011

Hi Dad
Happy Birthday. You would have been 90 today. I miss you so much every day. It's not the same without you and Ma.

Enjoy celebrating with Ma.

Love you.
Cindy

August 1, 2011

Happy Birthday Dad. Hope you and mom are celebrating together. We had 65 people over yesterday for Lynne's college graduation party. Wish you could have joined us. Your great grandson Patrick is getting big and is just soooo handsome. I can see a little bit of you in him- not sure if it's because he has no hair or not. Love you and miss you!!!
Love,
Joanne

Cindy

June 19, 2011

Happy Father's Day Dad. I so wish you were here. I think about you all the time and what a great Dad you were.

Linda and Ken are having a baby boy. I wish you and Ma were here. to see this. Please watch over them.

As Diane said we are heading to Disney World. The first time just the three of us have gone on a vacation together. We'll be sure to say hi to Mickey for you and Ma. Please get us there and back safely.

Miss you.
Cindy

Diane

June 19, 2011

Happy Father's Day Dad. I miss you so much especially on days like this.
I hope you & ma are enjoying forever with each other.

Cindy , Joanne & I are going to Disneyworld on Wednesday to celebrate Cindy's 60th birthday. Image that! We are all so looking forward to going as we all need it badly.

Well I hope you enjoy your day. Tell Ma I said hi and that I miss her.

Love & miss you so much,
Diane

June 19, 2011

Dad,
Happy Father's Day. Hope you and Ma are doing something together today to celebrate.I wish you could be here with us so you could see your great-grandson Patrick. He's a sweetie pie. Cindy, Diane and I will be invading Disney World this week to celebrate Cindy's 60th birthday. I will be thinking about you and Ma and all the fun you had on your trips.Wish you were here.
Love you and miss you
Joanne

June 11, 2011

Dad,
I spent the other day with Andrea, Eric and your great grandson Patrick. He is so precious and you would love him. I miss you and ma so much and wish you could be with us. I hope I can be as good a grandparent as you both were. Love you and miss you.
Joanne

Jill

April 4, 2011

Hi Grandpa & Grandma,
I just wanted to say Hi and make sure that you and Grandma look down on us now that you are together. I don't like it now that you grandma, dad and grandpa p aren't around but I know that with that many more angels up there we always having someone watching over us.
Take good care of each other now that you are together again.
We all love you and miss you!
P.S. I'd like to know how to say I love you in armenian if you and grandma could work your magic that'd be great : )

April 3, 2011

Hi Dad,
To say the last couple of weeks have been crazy is an understatement. Mom is a fighter as you know and hung on as long as she could. I'm so glad you two are together again. She missed you a lot. We were so lucky to have parents like you. Keep an eye on us all. Miss you both!!!!
Love,
Joanne

Cindy Gonzalez

April 2, 2011

Hi Dad,
I'm sure you and Ma are having a wonderful reunion. It's not going to be the same without the two of you. Please watch over all of us and know that we all love you both very much.
Love,
Cindy

Diane Miley

March 31, 2011

Hi Dad,
I'm sure you are happy to have "your Maggie" with you now. That's where she belongs. Don't yell at her if she askes the same questions a few times as she has been through a lot the past few weeks and may still be a little confused.
I miss you and ma so much but knowing that you are now reunited makes it a lttle easier.

Keep an eye on us all at this tough time and give mom a hug & kiss from me.

Love & miss you,
Diane

December 28, 2010

Hi Dad,
It's almost a new year. Christmas has come and gone. It was a quiet one this year. Jeff and I spent it with Steve. Jeff has been such a big help to me. He loves watching Dr. Who like you did. And of course the Moxie. I miss Linda and Ken being here for the holidays. And of course I miss you being here. It's not the same.
Please watch over all of us, especially Mom.
Love you.
Cindy

December 28, 2010

Dad,
Missed you again at Christmas and everyday. I was telling a friend about our Christmas' at Uncle Eddie's and how much fun we had. I miss that. Wanted to let you know Andrea is expecting a baby boy in May, Jill is engaged and Lynne will be graduating from college next year. Busy 2011. Mom is still going strong but like the rest of us misses you. Keep an eye on all of us.
Love you and miss you,
Joanne

Diane Miley

December 27, 2010

Hi Dad,

Sorry I didn't write this sooner but I haven't been feeling good for the past few days. John, Hannah, Farnkie, Chrissy, Cindy, Jeff & I went to see Ma Christmas Eve & it was so nice to see Frankie sitting next to her Great Grandma while she played the piano. She seems to be doing well although I know somewhere inside her she misses you terribly like all of us.

Keep an eye on her when we can't be with her please.

Love & Miss you,
Diane

November 16, 2010

Dad,
3 years ago,Nov.14th you left us and it hasn't been the same since. I know life goes on but I miss you so much.We all still talk about your 'dadisms' and often use them our selves.I think about you all the time and miss you lots!!!!
Love,
Joanne

Diane

November 16, 2010

Dad,

I can't beleive that it has been 3 years.
I miss you so much & wish you could be here to witness all the changes in our family.

Love you,
Diane

November 15, 2010

Dad, it's been three years since you left us and not a day has gone by that I haven't thought of you. I miss you so much. Love you always.
Cindy

August 1, 2010

Happy Birthday Dad. Hope you had a great celebration with eveyone. Ma is doing well- still going strong at 86 years old. I want you to know the geranium at the cemetary is still green despite the lack of rain. I think your green thumb has something to do with it staying so healthy. Love you and miss you so much!!!!
Love,
Joanne

Diane Miley

August 1, 2010

Happy Birthday Dad. Miss and love you so much.

Joanne & I went to see you yesterday and cleaned up the Geranium and the plaque on your grave.

It seems so strange not having you here to call on the phone, but when I do talk to you, you do have a way of answering me.

Cindy, Joanne Jeff & I took Ma out to Friendlys' yesterday and after having breakfast at Waltham Crossing she proceeded to have 2 scrambled eggs, toast & a little home fries. It's good to see that she is eating & builing up her strength.

She seems to really like it there and has been said to be the joker in the crowd.

I miss you so much & I wish you, Eleanor & Jack could be here to see your gorgeous little Great Grand Daughter. She is so darn precious.

Miss you lots & love you,

Diane ( your little moog)

August 1, 2010

Hi Dad. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You must be having a party with everyone. We took Ma out yesterday to Friendly's. She finished before we all did. Please watch over her.
I miss you so much every day and I thank you so much for making me the person I am today. I've got that German streak in me just like you did. I think we all do.
Love you and miss you.
Love,
CIndy

July 19, 2010

Dad,
This past Saturday Andrea got married to Eric. We had a great time in celebrating the beginning of their lives together. My only regret is that her own dad, her two grandpas, Steve G & Ma couldn't be there with us. I'm sure you watched her ... heck you all had the best seats. Please guide her to having the same love that you & ma shared in all your years of marriage.

Love you and miss you so much,
Diane

July 18, 2010

Hi Dad,
Yesterday your grand daughter Andrea got married. She was a beautiful bride and Eric is such a nice guy. I wish you could have been there as well as Ma. And of course Steve and Tom. I know you were watching us though.
Love you and miss you every single day.
Love,
Cindy

July 17, 2010

Dad,
Today is a very special day for me. Andrea is getting married. I wish that you could be here to help celebrate with us. I know you will be watching down on all of us.
Love you and miss you.
Love,
Joanne

June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day Dad. I miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't talk to you and still ask for your advice. Like Joanne said Ma is doing well but still misses "Her Harry". She is having a great time at Waltham Crossing.

Wish you were still here with us.

Love,
Diane

June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day Dad. Wanted to let you know Mom is doing well although she misses "her Harry" so much. She is quite the speed demon with her walker and is happy where she is. I wish you were here- miss you so much.
Love,
Joanne

Cindy

February 15, 2010

Hi Dad,
Just want to let you know Auntie Anne is with you now. We aren't going to tell Mom about it - we don't want to upset her.
Miss you so much.
Cindy

jill Passanisi

February 4, 2010

Hi Grandpa,
to long since last time I wrote.
We had christmas at our house this year and Grandma was there. You should have seen her she was a speed demon with her walker. I'm telling you she's on a mission- where to not sure yet but she'll get there : )
we all miss you tons... and with this summers events coming we really wish you dad and grandpa p were here to celebrate. even if you guys just send us a little sign it would be really great. : )
I love you and miss you tons
Love
Jill

December 28, 2009

Dad,
Merry late Christmas. I am writing from Disney World because I thought it would be nice to be here on Christmas with the girls. Don't think I will be doing this again. I was talking to a friend recently about spending Christmas on Doty Street and really miss those times. Life seemed so much simpler then.
Like Diane and Cindy said Ma is still doing great since her operation and could probably win a walker race with no problem. Her memory is getting worse but she is happy and healthy though she misses you a lot.
Keep an eye on her as well as your harem. Love you and miss you.
Love, Joanne

December 27, 2009

Hi Dad,


Merry Christmas. Sorry I didn't get to write to you, but we we've been down at Cambridge since Christmas Eve. I did say it to you though so I hope you heard me.

I just read Cindy's letter to you. She's right, it's not the same without you and Steve, and having Steve in the nursing home and Linda & Ken in MD. I miss the good old days. I hope you, Jack & Eleanor got to see your great granddaughter when she was at Cambridge. She is such a little love.

Ma seems to be doing well. She is walking like she never had hip surgery. I actually think she is walking better since she had it. She's definately proven to me that if she needs to, she can be a strong person.

Please keep watching over her when we can't be there.

I miss you so much and think of you everyday.

Love,
Diane

December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas Dad! This was a very strange one since we're not celebrating until January. Jeff and I went to see Steve and spent some time with him then headed over to see Ma where we met Diane. Boy is Ma a speed demon with her walker.

It's still so strange not having you here at this time and not celebrating Christmas on Doty Street. I really miss that.

Love you Dad. I think of you all the time!

Love,
Cindy

November 14, 2009

Hi Dad,
Joanne and Diane have said it all. I know you were watching over Ma while she was in the hospital and rehab. She's definitely a tough little cookie and an amazing one.

It's so hard to believe it's been two years since you left us. Not a day has gone by when I haven't thought of you. You were always there for us Dad and I know you are still watching over us and giving us advice in your own way. I often think about when we worked together and I miss that time.

Miss you and love you Dad. You're the greatest!

Love,
#1 daughter

November 13, 2009

Hi Dad,

Tomorrow will be the 2 year anniversary of when you passed away. I will always remember that day as though it was yesterday.

As Joanne has told you Ma fell and fractured her hip but within a month she was back home. I think she surprised us all in how quickly she recuperated. She is one strong willed 88 lb. 86 year old.

I started a new job on November 2nd and will be traveling to North Andover now. All the people are so nice.

I hope you have been noticing how quickly your little Great Granddaughter "Frankie" is growing. Johnny & I are going to go see her on Sunday. She is such a little love. I just wish you, Jack & Eleanor were here so she could meet all of you.

I miss you so much Dad, but I know that you're still there when I need you.

Love you,
Diane

November 13, 2009

Dad,
Tomorrow is the 2 year anniversary of when you left us. It seems like it was yesterday. Mom is doing well. She fell and fractured her hip, got it operated on, went to rehab and is back "home" all in a month. She has shown us just how stong she really is. She is one tough 86 year old!!!
Miss you and think about you everyday.
Love,
Joanne

August 24, 2009

Hi Dad,

I just want to let you know that you, Eleanor & Jack are Great Grand Parents to a beatuiful baby girl name Frances May. She was born on 8/20.

She is as cute as can be and she already has her daddy wrapped around her tiny finger.

My only regret is that all of you are not here to share in this great moment.

On the same day Frances was born, Chrissy had back surgery. She had a disc removed in her lower back. She is doing awesome. She was up & walking 3 1/12 - 4 hours after surgery and is getting better every day.

I miss you so much.

Love,
your Moog.

August 1, 2009

Good Morning Dad,
Just wanted to say Happy Birthday. Wow- you would have been 88 years old!!! Diane and I saw Mom yesterday and she is still doing well but misses you so much as we all do especially today. Thinking of you every day and miss you lots.
Love you,
Joanne

August 1, 2009

Hi Dad,

Happy Birthday Dad. I miss saying that to you in person. It's not the same doing it this way.

Joanne & I took Ma to the cemetery on Monday to see you. She still doesn't understand why you left us. We try to explain it to her but she just wants her "Harry" back. We all want you back but we can at least understand why you left us, not that it makes it any easier.

Ma is doing great at her place and she seems to be enjoying herself. She's become a little "Social Butterfly".

Please keep an eye on her when we can not be there with her.

I miss you so much.

Love you,
Diane ( your little moog)

August 1, 2009

Happy Birthday Dad. I still find it hard to think that you're not here with us. Think about you every day.

Ma is doing OK. It's like she's in her own little world. She is getting out to activities though. And joking a lot with the people at Waltham Crossings.

Miss you!

Love, Cindy

Diane

June 21, 2009

Hi Dad,

Happy Father's Day. I miss you so much. It still seems so unreal that I can't call you up and just talk with you.

Joanne & I brought a plant to you yesterday from all of us for Fathr's Day. I hope you like it.

As you can see for yourself Ma is doing OK. It's so tough to see her in the state she is in. But she is having a great time in her own little world. Please keep an eye on her for us.

Love you miss you,
Diane

Joanne

June 21, 2009

Dad,
Happy Father's Day. Miss you so much!!!
Love,
Joanne

Jill

June 21, 2009

Happy Father's day Grandpa- miss you bunches

Cindy

June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day Dad! It still seems so strange not to have you here to say it to. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you so much.

Just got back from vacation. Jeff and the dogs went. Yes Molly and Bailey went on vacation. They're still as crazy as they were when they visited Doty Street.

Steve is doing OK. Still in the nursing home, but getting more treatment. He asks about you all the time.

Please watch over all of us and help us. I miss all your good advice, even if I didn't always agree with you. You were usually right.

Miss you and love you.
Cindy

Diane

February 8, 2009

Hi Dad,

I haven't written to you in a while so I thought I would update you on what's going on.

Well, John told me a few weeks ago that him & Hannha's wedding plans were put on hold. He than went to inform me that they are going to have a baby. Dad I am so excited and happy for them. Of course I cried when he told me, but I am a very emotional person anyway. She is due around August 24th. Wouldn't that be nice if she had it on you & mom's anniversary? I hope you are as excited and happy for them as I am.

Joanne & I went to visit Ma yesterday & she looked good, (except her hair was a little crazy). We took her out to Friendly's and Cindy & Jeff met us there.

She's been getting out of her room doing a lot of things at Waltham Crossing and she seems to be enjoying herself, even though she doesn't remember much of what she does.

We took her to Dr. Shushan because we were a little concerned about a couple of things but the doctor said she is doing fine. (Hey just to let you know she did need her ears cleaned out).

Dad we all miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't ask for you to guide me in the right direction.

I wish you were here to see your first Great Grand child, but I know you'll be there in spirit.

Miss you soo much.

Love,

Your little Moog

Cindy Gonzalez

December 30, 2008

Hi Dad,
Well the house is sold. It's sad, but I want you to know a young couple with two young children bought it. I hope they have the memories that we do growing up there.

As Diane said, we had our sleepover and it was great seeing Libby, Ginny and Debbie - like we never left the neighborhood. And Jay joined us for dinner. Lots of laughing and reminiscing. We were all so lucky to grow up there and have the great parents we did.

Steve goes to see a doctor tomorrow about his leg. I am so hoping she has good news and can help him. Watch over him Dad.
Love you and miss you so much.
Love, Cindy

Diane

December 28, 2008

Dad,

Sorry I didn't wish you a Merry Christmas I wasn't near a computer until today. But I did say it to you Christmas morning. As Joanne told you we were all over her house for lunch. It's always a great time getting together with our family, but it just isn't the same without you and Steve P, and with Steve G in the nursing home it sucks.

Well we had our sleep over at Doty Street and we had a great time. It was great seeing Ginny & Libby again and seeing Debbie after so many years.

I'm sure you had a great Christmas with everyone there. It must have been a real feast with all the great cooks up there.

I miss you so much. There's not a day that goes by that I don't find myself taking to you and asking you for some guidance or advice.

I love you and miss you so much.

Diane

Joanne Passanisi

December 25, 2008

Dad,
It's Christmas night. Everyone came here for dinner today including ma. I think she did okay but she kind of seems to be in her own little world. It is very hard to see her like that and wish you were here to help. I know she misses you a lot as we all do. Saturday we are having a sleep over at Doty street with Libby, Ginny and Debbie before we sell the house on Monday. It's going to be weird to leave a place that has been a part of your life for 50 years but boy do we have great memories of Doty Street.
We'll play a game of hopscotch for you. Miss you so much!!!!
Love,
Joanne

Cindy Gonzalez

December 18, 2008

Hi Dad,
We're supposed to have a big snow storm tomorrow. Remember how you always called us to make sure everyone got home OK? I missed that last year.
Christmas is next week and it's not the same without you, Steve Pass or my Steve around. Christmas at the nursing home with Steve just isn't the same. We'll all be at Joanne's - hopefully the weather will cooperate.
The house is being sold. It's almost all cleaned out. We found a lot of old pictures and letters you wrote to Ma. You really saved everything. They were nice memories seeing them though and it told us alot about you and Ma - how much you loved each other and your family. We're having one last sleepover at the house with Libby, Ginny and Debbie. Watch over us while we're there, but don't listen too closely. We still have some secrets from our parents.
Miss talking to you every day.
Love,
Cindy

Leslie Jurjurian Allen

November 14, 2008

I'm sorry you guys lost your dad, my uncle, last year. It does my heart good to hear the love he left behind. Aunt Margurite is also very strong. I wish I could have spent more time with you guys. Just know the little time I was allowed to have was a blessing. Please get in touch if you want to. I would like that very much. Leslie Jurjurian Allen

Joanne Passanisi

November 14, 2008

Dad,
Today is the anniversary of when you left us. It feels like it was just yesterday. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. You were so strong right up to the end. (I think that's where I get my strength and stubborness from.)
We have some news at our house. Andrea and Eric are engaged. No date set yet. He is a great guy and I know he will take good care of her.Mom is doing well- getting out to activities more. It seems she likes Bingo, horse racing and gambling.
I have some medical issues that I am dealing with and hopefully they will all turn out okay. Put in a good word for me with the man upstairs.
Still cleaning out Doty Street and want to get that sold ASAP. Boy were you a pack rat.
We'll take care of mom for you. Love you and miss you!!!
Love,
Joanne

Diane Miley

November 13, 2008

Hi Dad,

It's been a while since I wrote to you. Lot's have been going on. John asked Hannah to marry him and she said yes ! They plan on getting married Sept. 12, 2009. Hannah and John asked if they could use your topping from your wedding cake for their's. They feel that this will be a part of you at their wedding.

It's been a year since you passed away and it hurts as much now as it did on that day. I will never forget that day as long as I live. I miss you so much. I miss calling you for your words of wisdom.

Ma is doing good. She's been doing a lot of activities at Waltham Crossing (although she dosen't remember) she goes to exercise, the music activites and she's winning at Bingo & horse racing. Did you know she was a gambler?

She misses you so much. When we take her to the cemetary to see you she cries and tells us how much she misses you. We all do Dad. It's not the same.

Well you have a great Thanks giving with Steve, Mr. Passanisi, Jack, Eleanor, the Gonzalez's and everyone else up there. Make sure Steve doesn't fall alseep in the chair. :)

I love you and miss you,
Diane (your little moog)

Cindy Gonzalez

November 13, 2008

Hi Dad,
It's hard to believe it will be a year tomorrow that you left us. I miss you so much. The past year has been so hard without you or Steve to talk to. Steve misses you too. He's doing better but still can't walk. I really wonder if he'll ever be home.
We're trying to take care of Ma as best we can. Her memory isn't good. Auntie Elaine helps with Ma's appointments.
Please watch over us all. I may be looking for a part time job on the weekends. Please give me a sign for something good.
Love you Dad.
Cindy

Debbie Kirkcaldy

September 18, 2008

Cindi, Diane & Joanne:
I was so sorry to hear about your dad's passing, which I only learned of in July when Cindi wrote in my dad's guest book. He suffered a long and difficult battle with pancreatic cancer and I understand the void you guys share because I know it too well. There is so much for us to catch up on and I would love it if you would call when you are at your mom's - even a coffee some day.
How sad at the way things have changed in our lives, I have had my own battles which I'll tell you about hopefully in person someday, but it has given me a desire to reconnect with people that were such an important part of our childhoood
Your dad was a wonderful person, and I have many, many fond memories of him. He is in my prayers as is your mom; I know how hard it is for them. My parents too have been married for 58 years this year. Please be in touch.

Love, Debbie

Joanne Passanisi

August 23, 2008

Dad,
Today would have been your 58th wedding anniversary. Happy Anniversary and thanks for showing us what true love really is. Love you and miss you.

Joanne Passanisi

August 2, 2008

Dad,
Happy Birthday 1 day late. I thought about you a lot yesterday. Miss you! Hope you had a great celebration with everyone there. Keeping our eye on Ma for you. She's becoming quite independent on her own. You would be so proud of her.
Love you and Miss you
Joanne

Diane Miley

August 2, 2008

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!

It doesn't seem right having to write that to you. I always would call you on your birthday. Things will never be the same. There is still the huge hole in my heart that was there the day you left us. I will never forget that and it will always make me cry when I tell people the story. Dad, you were a very special person. Not only as a dad but as a husband, brother, grandpa, uncle and friend. I have not heard one bad word spoken about you from anyone I have talked to about you passing away.

I went to see Ma yesterday and she seems to be being OK. She was lying down when Chrissy and I got there, but she got up and went for a short walk with us. She's doing good with the walker. Please keep an eye on her, especially when we are not there with her. She misses you (as all of us do) so much. She is lost without you.

Well I have to get going. I need to work out. I've been gaining a few pounds since Johnny's been on days. He's a great cook.

Love you and miss you more every day .

Love,
Diane

Cindy Gonzalez

August 1, 2008

Happy Birthday Dad. It doesn't seem right that you're not here. We all miss you so much. I miss just talking with you about how Steve is doing and I miss all your good advice.
Hope you have a great birthday with everyone. MISS YOU.
Love, Cindy

Joanne Passanisi

July 12, 2008

Dad,
We had to bring mom to the hospital last night. She is very unsteady on her feet and has a some shaking in her hands. They are doing some tests to see what is going on. She had to stay overnight and may have to tonight. She is really scared and worried and misses you a lot. Please keep an eye on her so she gets through this. Miss you and love you!!!
Joanne

Cindy Gonzalez

June 15, 2008

Happy Father's Day Dad. It just doesn't feel like Father's Day without you. You were such a wonderful Dad. Always let us make our own decision with your guidance. I'm going to the cemetary today to see you on my way to visit Steve.
Jeff and I took Ma out to Friendly's last night. She misses you so much as we all do. Every time she says she misses "My Harry" it breaks my heart. It also makes me realize how much you two loved each other.
Please watch over Ma and the rest of us. Miss you so much.
Love,
Cindy

Joanne Passanisi

June 14, 2008

Dad,
Tomorrow is the first Father's Day without you. I'm having a real tough time with it and also the fact that Steve is not here for the girls. I guess I just have to remember what an awesome dad you were and how you always put everyone elses needs above yours. What a role model you were - the best dad anyone could have. I miss you so much and love you.
Happy Father's Day Dad.
Love ,
Joanne

Diane Miley

June 14, 2008

Hi Dad,

Tomorrow is Father's Day and I won't be able to get to the cemetary to see you. I do want you to know that I am thinking of you and wish you were still here with us. It still doesn't feel right going to see Ma without seeing you. I am going to see Ma next Friday and will bring her to see you then. Dad, I thought that it may get a little easier with each day that past since you've been gone but it's not. It's been 7 months and it's still hard for me as it was the day you left us. I miss you so much.

Ma is doing OK. She is getting out more and doing things at Waltham Crossing. You would be very proud of her.


Dad, please watch over her and all of us. We still need your guidance and wisdom.

I miss you and love you so much.

Love,
Diane

Leslie Jurjurian Allen

May 18, 2008

What can I say but, Cindy, Joanne, Diane, you have the best of the best for parents. I still remember the summer I came and we had puppet shows and I learned pop was the same as soda. I visited Grandma and we went to the Armenian picnic. I have always cherished those times. If only they were more often and longer. I miss all of you. Uncle Harry was always the responsible son, brother, husband, father. I wish I could have spent more time with him. I think he had a lot to teach and share. I send my love to Aunt Margurite. I would like to stay in touch with you. Every moment with your family has been appreciated and cherished. You have been blessed with your parents. And I have been blessed with my Uncle and Aunt. My love to you all. Leslie

Diane

May 6, 2008

Dad,

As everyone before has said we spent a good majority of Sunday afternoon cleaning the basement out. Now I know where I get it from.
We've been joking as to where you are hiding the treasure , but we did find it on Sunday. Like everyone said it was the letters you wrote to ma. Dad you and ma had so much love for each other. A real special love. I hope that each of your grand children who read those letters took away something about you that they may not have known. I really got emotional when I started reading one so I still haven't read them yet, but I definately will the next time we are there.
Last Friday Joanne, Ma & I went to see you at the cemetary. I am hoping that once the warmer weather comes that I can get to plant some flowers for you.
I miss you so much. I am always thinking about you.

Love you Dad,
Diane

Cindy

May 6, 2008

Hi Dad,
As Joanne and Lynne said, we were cleaning out the house Sunday. I had another commitment first so I came in on the end. I was there when the letters you wrote to Ma were found. They really brought tears to our eyes. You and Ma loved each other so much. It made me appreciate Steve more even though he's not home with me which has been difficult lately.
I miss you so much.
Love,
Cindy

Joanne Passanisi

May 5, 2008

Dad,
Wanted to let you know we (your grandchildren, daughters and son in law ) cleaned out the cellar yesterday. We filled a dumpster in about 4 hours. Boy were you a pack rat. Now I know where I get it from. We found some treasures, including some beautiful letters you wrote to ma right after you got married and you were in the Air Force. Ma is doing well. We are watching her for you. Miss you so much and think about you everyday.
Love,
Joanne

Lynne

May 5, 2008

Grandpa,

Today we did a little (actually, a lot) cleaning out of your house: especially the basement. First off, I'd like to say you and grandma are quite the pack-rats! haha.

But what I loved most about today was the range of emotions we all found. Seeing and hearing mom and Auntie Diane and Auntie Cindy laughing and remembering certain things they found put a smile on my face. It also somehow made me feel closer to you and grandma... you never know how many memories one little thing can really hold.

But I think what everyone loved the most were the letters we found that you wrote to grandma when you were training and such for the air force. You loved her so much and we knew that but the letters really emphasized what an amazing bond you two had. It warmed my heart reading some of those letters and I think it really helped us down here connect a little more to each other as well as to you.

I guess this means we finally found the treasure you were hiding... thanks grandpa. I love you and I miss you so much.

all my love,
your baby granddaughter

D. Wright

April 19, 2008

My Great Uncle Harry,

I only met you once when I was a small child. I remember your kindness still today. My mother always spoke fondly of her memories of you and your family. God Bless.

Joanne Passanisi

April 2, 2008

Dad,
I know it has been a while since I wrote but I think about you every day. Mom is doing okay. I'm taking her to the dentist on Friday. She seems happy and is getting out more and participating in activities even though she doesn't remember doing any of them. We are all keeping an eye on her for you. Miss you so much.
Love,
Joanne

Cindy Gonzalez

March 23, 2008

Hi Dad,
It's Easter today. I missed you coming over. So did the dogs. I had Ma over for dinner-Jeff cooked a ham. I took her to see Steve after that. She did fine. Steve cried at first. He hasn't seen her for so long. He always asks me about you. I still don't know if he really understands you're not here with us.
Linda starts her new job tomorrow. She likes it in Maryland.
I think about you every day and miss you so much. Watch over us, especially Ma. Say hi to Steve's parents, the Miley's and Steve and Tom. Oh yeah, Cupcake, too.
Love, Cindy

Diane Miley

March 21, 2008

Hi Dad,

I just wanted to let you know that not 5 mins. after I sent you my last message, the phone rang with a job opportuinity. I went on the interview that Monday and I started the job this Monday. Thanks for helping me on that. I was getting a little nervous.

Now I just have to get myself into the routine and feel comfortable with it. I'm sure that will take a week or so.

Dad, I miss you so much. It still feels funny going to Waltham and not seeing you.

Love you so much.

Happy Easter,

Love,
Diane

Johnny Miley

March 19, 2008

hey grandpa,
Thought i would stop by to say hi. I'm actually on vacation now on the cape with hannah's family. it's been raining on and off but its still nice to just be sitting around not really worring about anything. we are staying in a house right on the water. my mom grabbed me some cookbooks so now ill be able to make more yummy armenian food! well i just wanted to stop by and say hi. and let you know i miss you very much. oh i almost forgot we went to a army surplus store down here and i tried finding and armenian flag but i couldn't find one. i was very disappointed in their selection! well i'm gonna go. keep an eye on grandma, and say hi to the mileys. love you.
-John

Mary Moranian (Gustavsen)

March 18, 2008

Dear Cindy and Family,
I remember your father way back when we were in Sunday School at St. James. Your Dad was one of the most kind and gentle people I have ever known. He had the best smile. Those sleepovers at your house in Waltham are unforgettable and I remember the best thing about them was how warm your family made me feel. Sitting in your tv room and watching tv until it was time to go to bed. I lost my Dad in April of 06 and it's not the same without them. They are together and watching over us. Cherish our mothers/family everyday. God Bless you and your family!

Diane Miley

March 7, 2008

Hi Dad,

Sorry I haven't talk to you in a while but a lot is going with my job...or should I say lack of job. My company got bought out by another company and they told me on Valentines Day that it was my last day. I am currently working for them as a contractor but that will soon end at the beginning of April. So I have been searching for a new job in hopes that I can say "SEE YA" before they get to.

There's not a day that goes by that I don't talk to you either on my way to or from work, sitting watching TV or anytime of the day. It's so tough now because you are no longer just a phone call away.

We're going down to Doty Street on Saturday to do more cleaning and to see Ma, and we're planning to go to the cemetary to see you also.

Dad please keep your eye on Ma, she seems to be so lonely and lost without you. (like all of us).

I miss you so much.

Love,

Your little moog!

Joanne

February 19, 2008

Dad
Just wanted to let you know how much you are missed. We have been cleaning out the house and we discovered you guys never threw anything out. We have found some treasures there and are still exploring.
I took ma to the doctors just for a check up. She is doing okay but needs to gain some weight. Her memory is getting worse but she misses you so much. We are keeping an eye on her for you. Wish you were here.
Love you and miss you a lot.

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