Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch

Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch

Clinton R. Upchurch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 11, 2006.
Cindy Upchurch had just put the care package full of cookies and candy in the mail when she heard the terrible news _ her soldier son would never be able to open it. Clinton R. Upchurch, 31, of Garden City, Kansas, was killed Jan. 7 in Samarra by a roadside bomb. He was assigned to Fort Campbell. The Army told Cindy Upchurch that Clinton "died a hero, that he saved his guys," she said. "Knowing Clint, I''m not surprised he died defending them." Upchurch played football in high school and earned an associate''s degree at Garden City Community College while working for the Finney County Sheriff''s Office. She had tried to talk him out of joining the military but couldn''t, maybe because it was in his blood. His father, Greg, served in Vietnam; his grandfather and great-grandfather were veterans, too. "It''s been something he and I have been fighting about since he was 17," she said. "But I knew he would enlist and I knew he was doing something he wanted to do. He loved the service and defending his country." He also is survived by his wife, Kari, and stepsons, Earl and Ryan. ___ A Fort Campbell soldier was killed in Iraq when a roadside bomb detonated near his Humvee and enemy forces fired on him, the Army said Tuesday. Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch, 31, of Garden City, Kan., died Saturday as he was patrolling in Samarra, the Army said. Upchurch was an infantryman assigned to Headquarters and Headquarters Company, 1st Battalion, 187th Infantry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 101st Airborne Division. Upchurch joined the Army in August 2004 and was assigned to Fort Campbell in March 2005. He is survived by his wife, Kari, a stepson, Earl Stewart, and a foster child, Patrick, of Oak Grove, Ky.; a stepson Ryan Stewart, a member of the U.S. Army; and his parents, Gregory and Cynthia, of Garden City, Kan. Upchurch worked for the Finney County (Kan.) Sheriff''s Office from 1997 to 2004, in the jail, on the Drug Enforcement Agency Taskforce and then as a patrol deputy, Finney County Undersheriff John Andrews said. -- Cindy Upchurch had just put the care package full of cookies and candy in the mail when she heard the terrible news _ her soldier son would never be able to open it. The Army announced Tuesday that Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch, 31, of Garden City, was killed Saturday near the predominantly Sunni Arab town of Samarra, about 60 miles north of Baghdad. He was the gunner on one of three Humvees that were escorting higher-ranked officials. Upchurch was a military policeman assigned to Headquarters and Headquarters Company, 3rd Special Troops Battalion, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, the Army said Wednesday. The Army had listed him with a different unit in its original statement on Tuesday. "(The Army representatives) said he died a hero, that he saved his guys," Cindy Upchurch said. "Knowing Clint, I''m not surprised he died defending them. He did his mission. That''s just the kind of guy he was." It was the end, Upchurch said, of her son''s lifelong dream. She had tried to talk him out of the service but couldn''t, maybe because it was in his blood. His father served in Vietnam; his grandfather and great-grandfather were veterans too. "It''s been something he and I have been fighting about since he was 17," she said. "But I knew he would enlist, and I knew he was doing something he wanted to do. He loved the service and defending his country." The soldier was killed when a roadside bomb detonated near his Humvee and enemy forces fired on him. He joined the Army in August 2004 and was assigned to Fort Campbell, Ky., last March. Before that, he worked for the Finney County Sheriff''s Office. "As a mom, you know there''s danger involved. But to me, he wasn''t in any more danger over there than here," Upchurch said. Now, Upchurch waits for the body to arrive home and for her youngest son _ husband of Kari, stepfather and foster father, high school football player, Christian and fourth-generation Garden City resident _ to be laid to rest. He will be buried at Arlington National Cemetery. There will be memorial services at Fort Campbell and in Garden City. The slain soldier had sent his mother an e-mail at 12:36 p.m. Friday. "Hi. I love you. Are you there?" he asked. She wasn''t. She had gone to lunch. And she would never hear from him again.

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Bradley Brooks

July 15, 2018

Hello, I'm sorry for your loss, he was a man that served his country and gave the ultimate sacrifice.

My name is Brad Brooks and many years ago, my family went on vacation to Washington DC. We were heading to Arlington National Cemetery on the subway when I met a uniformed soldier. I don't remember his face or his name, but he was kind and spoke with me, and what he gave me is why I'm leaving this message. He gave me a small metal bracelet that was inscribed with "SPC Clinton R Upchurch, 3STB MP PLT, 7 Jan 2006, Samarra Iraq". I wore that bracelet every day until one day, it broke. I ended up putting it away and 2 years ago, I found it. Ever since I had been thinking about how to return this bracelet to somebody that has a real connection, to someone that would value it.

Please, if you'd like it back, e-mail me at [email protected]

Angie Fore

December 1, 2015

Hey Clinton, Just stopping by to pay respect. SALUTE HERO

Angie Fore

August 19, 2013

Thinking of you and your family today. I know you continue to keep a watchful eye out for your family. May God Bless them always. Angie

Troy Chambers

August 16, 2013

Saw your grave marker on Arlington:call to honor, and felt the need to look you up. Never knew you but I will always appreciate those that give their lives for country. Thank you and Rest in Peace.

Phyllis Cheney

May 28, 2013

I think of you often. Thanks again for your ultimate sacrifise.

Credo Amouzouvik

May 27, 2013

I miss you body

Credo Amouzouvik

May 27, 2013

Clint, years are going by, things are changing all around, but you are still in our hearts.
You're gone too soon according to us, but God has Gis plan for you also. Thank you for your sacrifice.
I love you my brother.
Kari, thank you also for sharing Clint with us all.
God bless you and your children.

Air Assault.

Jana Richardson

January 19, 2013

Clint,
You are never forgotten.

Julie Wyte

January 16, 2013

Never Forgotten! To all of the Upchurch family and friends...we NEVER forget the sacrifice...love to you all!!

Kari Upchurch

January 15, 2013

My heart goes out to all who even view Clint's page. Those who are thoughtful enough to reach out to others are truly great people who make a difference on the toughest days. Thank you.
In addition to family, fellow soldiers whose lives will be forever changed from the loss of their Brother. Big hug to those who will never forget that sad day. Please feel free to post openly on Clint's Facebook page.

Angie Fore

January 14, 2013

For Kari, Thinking of you today and letting you know that your Clint is remembered for his service to our country. God Bless, Always Angie

Peggy Childers

January 8, 2013

To the family and friends of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch:
It has truly been my honor to sign Clinton's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Clinton will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

Angie

March 14, 2012

You rest beside a fine Marine and I know you must keep each other company now. Job well done son, job well done. Semper Fi,

S. ALlen

January 9, 2012

Never to be Forgotten SPC Upchurch a HERO always.

Peggy Childers

January 7, 2012

To the family and friends of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch:
Always remembering Clinton. "Some gave all."

Phyllis Cheney

January 9, 2011

You are truly missed. Thank you for all you did. You will be in our hearts forever. I know you are smiling down at us having a good laugh, see you again someday!

Peggy Childers

January 7, 2011

To the family and friends of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch:
Please accept my remembrance of Clinton on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

S Allen

June 1, 2010

Forever Remembered an American Hero.

High School picture

January 22, 2010

Clint shooting 50 cal.

January 22, 2010

Ready for mission

January 22, 2010

Kari Upchurch

January 22, 2010

Just another day without you and your smile. I miss you everyday and know that we will see each other again. I will love you forever. I thank all those who take time to stop by and say kind words they are a blessing to us. We love you Clint.
Your wife

Peggy Childers

January 7, 2010

To the family and friends of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch:
Remembering Clinton on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

January 7, 2010

My regards and you are NEVER FORGOTTEN.
S. Allen

In Memory of Clinton ~ (Debra Estep)

January 8, 2009

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Clinton, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Peggy Childers

January 7, 2009

To the family of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch:
Clinton gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

May 18, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Upchurch!

Susan Ketterling

October 20, 2007

Greg & Cindy,
It is easy to see how Clint became such a wonderful man...he had wonderful, loving parents as role models. God Bless you!

August 19, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 25, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Upchurch and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Randall Gilliam

July 12, 2007

Dear Ms. Cindy UpChurch,

I went through basic training with Specialist Upchurch and, as said in earlier posts, was a great, professional Soldier - even in basic training. Upchurch and I were in the same platoon. He bunked across from me. I'll never forget that he was a man of integrity. I know this is over a year after his death, but I couldn't pass up the opporitunity to sign this guest book. May God bless you and your family!

Specialist Randall Gilliam

Carol Richane

May 27, 2007

Dear Upchurch family,
I live in Florida. Today, our church, First Baptist Orlando, held a special service to honor our war heroes. After the service, we were given a small flag with the name of a fallen soldier. We each prayed for that soldier's family, and placed the flags in a memorial garden on the church campus. There's a big sign that says, "We Remember" and all the cars passing by can see it. I placed a flag with Clinton's name on it in the memorial, while bagpipes played patriotic music and I prayed for your family. I was hoping to learn that Clinton was saved and I see the Lord answered that prayer and I am comforted in knowing he is with the Lord. I pray for the Lord to comfort and bless you during this time. Clinton served the Lord and our country in a special way and he will be remembered.

Garnet Jenkins

January 7, 2007

I am Deeply Saddened to learn of the loss of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch, one year ago today.
The price this Fine Young Hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Clinton rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of the Lord be with the Upchurch family.
There will never be enough ways to humbly thank these heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~

May the Peace of God and your memories of Clinton,
remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days.
You are in my thoughts and prayers and I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

January 6, 2007

Clinton tomorrow will be one year since you were taken. You are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I know one day we will meet. To the Upchurch family; I continue to frequently visit ANC and each time there I visit/honor Clinton.
Gug

ROBYN GARSIDE

May 7, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.



A MARINE MOM

Moriah Mitchell (Smith)

April 2, 2006

I was recently back in Garden City to visit family when my Mom showed me an article in the paper about Clint's death. I can't tell you how saddened I was (and am) about this tragic news. My sincerest condolences go to Clint's family, he was a fine young man as I remember him. In my interactions with him from high school, he was always a great guy, friendly and charming. I am truly sorry to hear about his death. Peace be with you.

Betsey Ehrenfelt

March 29, 2006

I went to College with Clint and also worked with him at the Sheriff's Office. I miss him terribly. He was an awesome guy and was very fun to work with. I know Clint left this life doing what he always wanted to do. I remember trying to talk him out of going to the Army but he insisted that he wanted to do it. He was a hero, both in the Army and as a Sheriff's Deputy. Greg and Cindy, thank you for blessing us with Clint and the time we did get to spend with him. God Bless!

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 20, 2006

While I was at Arlington National Cemetery visiting several fallen heroes I stopped by and prayed for Clinton, your family, and friends. Clinton, you are a hero and you will never be forgotten.

My heart to heart hugs to each of you.

Tom

Gwen Ballinger

February 9, 2006

Cindy,

I'm so sorry.

Gwen

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 2, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Upchurch family in the loss of Clinton. I did not know Clinton, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a fine young man and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Cindy Upchurch

January 22, 2006

I would like to thank all of the wonderful people that have sent their love, prayers, and support through this hard time in our lives of lossing Clint. He was a hero to his family and friends before losing his live for his country and freedom for all but even more now for his sacrifice for us all. Clint will be greatly missed by all but all of you are helping us with your love and prayers. Clint knew Jesus as his Lord and Savior so we have the hope that we will be with him again. Thank you so much

Clinton Robert Upchurch's Mom

Clinton and Elwood at Boot camp

January 20, 2006

Clinton the day of Deployment

January 20, 2006

Clinton in his Class A uniform

January 20, 2006

Ryan and Clinton

January 20, 2006

Honor Guard uniform with Finney Co. Sheriff's office

January 20, 2006

Clinton and Kari the day of Deployment

January 20, 2006

Credo & Theresa Amouzouvik

January 20, 2006

My wife and I can't say how good Clint and his wife Kari were to us, they were very good neighbors. We've moved in right after them, we have so much in commun,He was my only freind. We've deployed together to the middle east and every where they move us,we didn't know if that was by chance but we were always close to each other,and think this deployment has brought us closer.

You are my Brother, my Neighbor,and my best Freind CLINT;I

will never forget you.

I LOVE YOU BROTHER.

7th Grade Louisburg Middle School

January 19, 2006

We care and share your sorrow.

Steve & Liz Carter

January 18, 2006

To the family of SPC Clinton Upchurch,



We just wanted you to know we were thinking and praying for you and your family during this time of need. As the Battalion XO for SPC Upchuch's unit here in Iraq. I wanted you to personally know how much Clinton meant to this unit and his fellow soldiers. He was a class act, a professional soldier and a true hero in the sense of the word. He will be missed by many of his fellow comrades, soldiers, friends and family members but his cause will not be forgotten or go unjust. He is a Rakkasan forever. With deepest condolences.



MAJ Steve Carter

Battalion XO, 3STB, 3BCT, 101st

Iraq

Christine Lohman

January 17, 2006

I met Clint in third grade and when you know someone for twenty-two years of your life, you can’t help but feel they have always been a part of your life. From the moment I met him, I could see his charming personality shine through. Clint was always a perfect gentleman. Clint had a big heart and was kind and caring. Clint was strong and always brave. Clint made all of us laugh with his overwhelming sense of humor. Clint liked to have fun and live life to the fullest. Most of all Clint was genuine. Clint believed in protecting people, in making a difference, and in being proud of who he was. Clint made the ultimate sacrifice for his country. He was a brave man who will always remain a hero. He has made his parents, family, classmates, friends, hometown, and state very proud. We are all honored to have known him. He will always remain a great man, a brave hero, and one of my best friends.



My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

margie daugherty

January 17, 2006

to the family of clinton upchurch i offer u my deepest sympathy for your loss and you will be in my prayers

clinton may you rest in peace

Robin Bateman

January 16, 2006

As a parent of a Screaming Eagle

I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. Clinton was a hero and will never be forgotten.

God Bless

Soldier Angel Robin

Brian McCormick

January 13, 2006

You may not know me, but I knew your son very well from our basic and ait training. Clinton was a great man, which goes without saying of course, and my deepest sympathies are with you all. Clinton will be looking out for us all, including all of the soldiers in which he helped pushed to become better and will be remembered for all that he has done. God bless you all.

Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford

January 12, 2006

Psalm 23



1

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.

2

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,

3

He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

5

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.



This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!



My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!



If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!



Wife & Daughter of the Late

Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford

KIA May 23, 2005

January 11, 2006

To the family of Spc. Clinton R. Upchurch:

We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in our grief. Having just lost our son I know firsthand there aren't any words - I don't have them yet myself - just know you are not alone. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this. These courageous HEROS will not be forgotten. May you get to the point where memories once again bring a smile rather than the tears that flow so easily now. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away. God Bless this young man.

Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams KIA 12/1/05)

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