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Drayton Collins Obituary

COLLINS - Drayton D. July 6, 2008. Wake services will be held Friday at 11 AM followed by a 12 noon funeral service at Elim Christian Fellowship, 70 Chalmers Ave. Interment Forest Lawn. Arrangements by UNITED MEMORIAL FUNERAL HOME, 3272 Bailey.

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Published by Buffalo News on Jul. 9, 2008.

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Mom

November 7, 2008

Drayton
A special name for a special person
How was I to know on that winter day, the child I bore would help me along the way and affect the person that I'd come to be, how could I know, how could I see, that Drayton Collins a special boy, would live to spread so much joy. He questioned things of how they are, why people hated, what gave them scar. He looked at the world as his choice to pick, to learn of things, what made them tick. He loved for family to be together amid the love and even the anger. His greatest pride was Elijah, his only son, he loved to watch him walk and run. As his dad he expressed the wish that he'd never feel alone, to be confident of the love that he was shown.
If love never dies, then my love for you my baby boy is eternal.

Anissa H.

September 5, 2008

Deborah, I just recently found out about your son - I'm so sorry. We are praying for you. He was such a a respectable young man who didn't deserve this. We love you.

Petia Johnson

August 22, 2008

I want to say to you Deborah that although no words in this world can take ur pain away I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS. Drayton always made me laugh when we talked and inspired me to be a forgiving person.
I have a message from him...HE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!

Anthony Alessi

August 7, 2008

Drayton was a great cousin and friend. He always knew what to say and when to. He never really the violent type. He was someone who enjoyed seeing and learning new things. And he was always there for me when and need him. he made a big impact on my lifeand this will not be easy to get over

matthew daniels

July 22, 2008

Drayton was a great cousin ,friend and person to me he was the type of peson that would help[ you if you needed anything he never hurt anyone and he was so kind to everyone i and my entire family will surely miss him i feel sad that he is gone but happy that he is with the lord i pray that i will see him again goodbye drayton bu just for now

Wendy Day Robinson

July 19, 2008

To Deborah, Yvette, Yvonne, Richard and Reggie...I was saddened to learn of your lost. May you all find strength and courage in the Lord during this difficult time.

Craig Donhauser

July 12, 2008

I worked with Drayton at Fedex. He was a good friend and worker. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Andre Boyd

July 12, 2008

Debbie it is with a heavy heart I leave this post. My memories of Drayton often bring a smile to my face, I remember the last time I saw him and he reminded me of the nick name I gave him. This is said so often, but if you or your family need anything, my e-mail address is included.

July 11, 2008

May the memories of Drayton's bright smile
warm the hearts of all of us who mourn his tragic death.

Royal,Diane, Valerie & The Entire Lynch Family Lynch

July 11, 2008

Our Prayers are with you Deborah in your time of sorrow. May God continue to bless you and your family.

Thomas Hunt

Thomas Hunt

July 11, 2008

Drayton was a good kind hearted man. I will truely miss him and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. I worked with Drayton and would always help him out any way possible. I will miss Drayton dearly.

Tyra Elliott

July 11, 2008

Drayton and his SMILE, will truely be missed. I had the great pleasure of working with him as a teacher aide and then in his adult life he would stop in to see me weekly just to say "Hi" as my office was near his bus route. My nephew's life also ended over the weekend, so the Elliott family knows your pain and WE KNOW GOD! Your family will continue to be in our prayers..............

Patricia Murphy

July 10, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone trying to cope with such a tragic loss of such a special young man. Take comfort in knowing that he is once again in the loving embrace of his grandmother, Helen. God will hold them both close to his side.

Chanda Brown

July 10, 2008

I'll never forget what a handsome, sweet, gentle young man Drayton was, although i am saddened to hear of his untimely death, I am so proud to hear about all that he has accomplished over the past few years. I was his Teacher's Aide in '99. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY

Memories with Drayton

Nicole Daniels

July 10, 2008

My cousin Drayton will always have a special place in my heart. I have so many wonderful memories playing with him in our pool and at Aunt Deborah's home before heading off to school at E.C.C. #78. My deepest sympathy extends to Deborah, David, and everyone who is blessed to have been touched by Drayton.

Love, Nicole

NTTS

July 10, 2008

Our deepest sympathy goes out to your family.

Carolyn White-Shelton

July 10, 2008

DEBBIE, I'M HAVING A HARD TIME COMING UP WITH WORDS TO EXPRESS THE SADNESS I AM FEELING AT THIS TIME IN THE LOSS OF YOUR SON. YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY ON THE PASSING OF YOUR SON DRAYTON. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I PRAY THAT GOD GIVES YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY PEACE AND COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT DRAYTON IS NOW WALKING HAND IN HAND WITH THE LORD. REMEMBER GOD FIRST DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME AND BEYOND. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY.

"Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning" Psalm 30:5

Angela Foster

July 10, 2008

Uncle David & Deborah,

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May God bless you and keep you in his arms.

yvette daniels

July 10, 2008

There is such a deep sense of lost in everyones heart who knew Drayton. He was such a loving and kindhearted person to everyone he seemed to meet. I will miss Drayton, his smile, seeing him drive his mother's truck, playing with his cousins who he loved, and his always warm hugs when he greeted me. With tears, I say I will always love you Drayton. The Lord and your grandmother Helen, I know, has welcomed you home with open loving arms. May now the grace of God be with Deborah and David and give them both strength during this time of sadness.
My loving nephew...

Loretta Raspberry

July 10, 2008

Deborah & David,
I can remember meeting Dray @ Linda & Mark's house. I remember he was so shy, and me telling him to let that "beautiful smile" come out. So, everytime I would see him he would flash me this big smile! Keep on smiling Drayton!! May your soul rest in peace!!

Amy Chase

July 9, 2008

The very first time I met Drayton I knew he was someone special. He was the funniest, sweetest student I have ever worked with and this world will not be the same without him. He is missed by all the staff and his friends from Buffalo State. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you who loved him.

Chuck Koeppel

July 9, 2008

I had the pleasure of briefly knowing Drayton and wish to extend my condolences to the family during this most sorrowful time.

Chris Evans

July 9, 2008

To the family of drayton my sympathy goes out to all of you wishing you the best

MICHELLE BAKER

July 9, 2008

COUSIN YOU WILL BE MISSED, WITH SYMPATHY TO THE COLLINS AND DANIELS FAMILY.

EDNA MCCLINTON

July 9, 2008

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY ON THE LOSS OF MY COUSIN.

Claudia (Elaine) Lindsay

July 9, 2008

So, very, very, very sorry.

clarence hayes

July 9, 2008

you have my deepest sympathy to dave and family

clarence hayes

July 9, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Yolanda Kerr

July 9, 2008

Debbie, if you are reading this, this is Lonnie...I heard about what happened and needless to say, I am heartbroken. You and I both know that Drayton was like a brother to me when we were younger, and even though I have not spoken to you guys since my mom died, I still think about you.

Leah Brown

July 9, 2008

I was a coworker of Drayton at FedEx. There are many coworkers including myself that are greatly sorry for the loss of such a young man. My prayers go out to you and your family, and God Bless.

Drayton @ Buffalo State College

Renee Ratliff

July 9, 2008

Drayton will be missed by everyone here at Buff State. This picture will always remind us of what a GREAT friend Drayton was to us.

Darlene Johnson

July 9, 2008

Me and my children have known you and Dray for a few years, but it seems like we have known you all our lives."Give all your cares to the lord, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7." Keep your trust and faith in God for he will see you through. Dray will always be in our heart.

God Bless you and your family

Jen Zoeller

July 9, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Drayton's family and friends at this extremely difficult time. Drayton was a wonderful young man. I had the honor of being Drayton's teacher during the 1999-2000 school year and I have very special memories of him. He will be greatly missed.

Jim Sitek

July 9, 2008

Deb.,
So sorry for your loss. God has another special angel watching over us all. God Bless.

Ambrosine Lythcott

July 9, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

DJ Jones

July 9, 2008

To The Parents of Drayton:
My heart and prayers go out to you.
I pray that the Lord will give you strength to endure this process of laying your son to rest. May God keep you in perfect peace.
Just a Parent

Susan Jaworski

July 9, 2008

Drayton was so very special to us at the library, his shy smile and respectful demeanor will always be remembered. His speech at graduation was inspiring. He was inspiring. I only knew him for a few years but he will remain in my heart forever.
My very deepest sympathy to his family, thank you for allowing us the opportunity to know this kind and wonderful young man.

Viola Palmer

July 9, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

cynthia livingston

July 9, 2008

Deepest and heartfelt sympathy to the family of Drayton. I did not know him but just wanted to say, "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal"

Beth & Mike Murphy

July 9, 2008

Dear Richard,

There are no words to express how profoundly saddened we are for you and your family. You will be in our hearts and prayers, along with our memories of Drayton. We remember him so vividly playing and swimming in Patty's backyard with Lionel.

In time, may you find comfort in your memories. For now, know you are thought of.

With sympathy,
Beth, Mike, John & Katie Murphy

July 9, 2008

My prayers are with the family during this time.

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