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Carl Miller Obituary

MILLER - Carl D. Jr. Of Lancaster NY. Father of Carl Miller; beloved son of Claire Paladino and the late Carl D. Miller Sr.; brother of Susan (Tony) Zajac, Laurie (Bill) Eschberger, David, Tim, (Debbie), Randy, Brian (Cindy); grandson of Mary Kless, also survived by aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. Family will receive relatives and friends at WENDEL & LOECHER FUNERAL HOME, 27 Aurora St Lancaster, Wed from 4-8PM where services will be held Thursday at 11 AM Flowers gratefully declined.

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Published by Buffalo News on Jul. 29, 2008.

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Jessica 14220

July 30, 2009

I cant believe it has been a year since you passed away. We all planted a tree for you on Tuesday. Gave it some beer and a tissue just for you:) haha hope you liked that.

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awake in the morning's hush I am the soft uplifting rush of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft star that shines at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there. I did not die.

heather lasure

July 29, 2009

It's been a short year since you've passed away. a lot of things have happened. i want to thank you for helping grandma through her tough time. i know you heard our prayers. we all miss and love you very much. tell everyone i said hi. love you.

claire paladino

July 28, 2009

Hi Chuck,
can't beleive it's been a year since you left us.the whole family was here today and we planted a memoral tree for you.loveyou and miss you so much.
Love you MOM

Sue Zajac

July 28, 2009

Hi Chuck,
July 28, 2009

It doesn't seem like 1 year ago today that you left us and went to Heaven.
we are all thinking of you today,we are going over to mom's later,it still don't seem right without you here with us, we all love you and miss you. Big Sis Tell everyone there we miss and love them to And keep a watch over mom for us

Christine Miller

July 14, 2009

Hey Uncle Carl it's Chrissy :) I watched the DVD dedicated to you today and it brings back memories. I dont know the details yet, but I think were going to have a memorial type of thing for you soon. I hope your doing well up there. Love, Chrissy

LynnMarie Miller

May 2, 2009

Hey Uncle Carl, everyones on vacation. Please watch over them and help them to stay safe while they're traveling and down there. I miss you so much and wish you were here to go with them physically and enjoy yourself, but I know you are with them spiritually. I miss and love you very much....tell Gram and everyone else I said hi and I miss and love them too. <3 Love you, Lynn.

Christine Miller

April 14, 2009

Happy Belated Easter Uncle Carl and Gram! Love Chrissy

HEATHER LASURE

April 13, 2009

HELLO AND HAPPY BELATED EASTER. HOPE THE EASTER BUNNY LEFT YOU LOTS OF GOODIES. IT'S ONLY SEVENTEEN DAYS TILL VACATION. I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR HELPING GRANDMA GET STRONGER AND THAT SHE IS HERE TO GO. WE KNEW YOU WOULDN'T TAKE HER. SHE MEANS A LOT TO THIS FAMILY LIKE YOU DO. TELL EVERYONE I SAID HI AND MISS THEM AND I MISS YOU TOO. LOVE YOU ALL.
LOVE
HEATHER

SUE ZAJAC

March 25, 2009

WHAT'S UP, ARE YOU BEHAVING MISS YOU SO MUCH. PLEASE WATCH OVER MOM, TO HELP HER THROUGH THESE HARD TIMES FOR HER, WE ALL MISS YOU ALOT. TAKE CARE LOVE YOU

Heather Lasure

March 23, 2009

I just wanted to drop in to say that I really miss you and Great Gram. Please give Grandma the strength to travel in May so she can wear her hot pink bikini. Watch over us as we travel. I wish you could be there physically. I know you will be there spiritually. We all love you and miss you.

Chrissy Miller

March 22, 2009

Hey, just stopping by to say hi and that everyone loves you.

LynnMarie Miller

March 18, 2009

Hey Uncle Carl, it's been a while. I miss you so much! You're always in my heart. I love you. -Lynn <3

LynnMarie Miller

January 18, 2009

hey uncle carl, my dad goes to surgery tomorrow. please watch over him. & watch over the whole family... we really need it at these times. miss & love you, Lynn <3

LynnMarie Miller

January 7, 2009

Hey Uncle Carl. Just wondering if you could put in a good word for the family with the big guy, haha. But really, my dads not doing too good & neither is grandma. Please help them, we really need it. We don't need to lose either of them, especially after losing you. :( I love you & miss you, keep the family strong & help us. <33

Chrissy Miller

January 4, 2009

Hey, its chrissy just wishing you a happy belated holiday. I hope your happy and please keep all of us in your prayers, as you are in ours. Love ya

Susan Zajac

January 3, 2009

Hi Chuck,
Just wanted to say Merry Christmas & Happy New Year miss you. and just wanted to tell you mom is very sick please help her along, we don't want her to go yet? help her get strong again.just give her faith, and hope we are all praying for her,to get well
love ya Sue

heather lasrue

January 2, 2009

just wishing you a belated merry christmas and happy new year. i drank a couple for you. hope you and everyone were havin fun. love you and miss you. give gramps and great gram a hug and kiss from all of us. watch over as we start this new year. may everyone be blessed with good health and happiness. luv you and miss you.
heather (gert)

LynnMarie Miller

December 31, 2008

Hey Uncle Carl, I want to wish you a late Merry Christmas. I hope you enjoyed it with gram & everyone up there. Everyone was crying cuz everyone got gifts about you. I'm getting one of the shirts with your face on it. I'll wear it everyday :) Well todays New Years Eve, I'm hoping this year will be better than the previous. I just wish you were here to celebrate it with us. I miss you so much Uncle Carl, you're always in my thoughts. Love you, LynnMarie <333

heather lasure

November 23, 2008

happy thanksgiving! just dropping in to say hi. i'm always thinking of you. i miss you a lot. hope you, gram and pap have a wonderful feast for turkey day. this thanksgiving i will be giving thanks for letting God have all of you as a part of this family. for your organs helping others. for your wonderful personality. for gram's smiling face. for pap always putting his lip over his nose. for all the wonderful memories. love and miss you all. happy thanksgiving.
love,
gert

Susan Zajac

November 22, 2008

Hi Chuck,
miss you alot thinking about you today HAPPY BIRTHDAY hope your celebrating Love you take care
Love ya Sue

LynnMarie miller

November 22, 2008

Uncle Carl, today's your birthday. You would've been 45. I hope you're celebrating up there with gram & everyone else. & Thanksgivings coming up, It's gonna be so weird without you here :( You're too young though!! It's not fair. I miss you so much, I love you <333 You're always in my thoughts, LynnMarie.

LynnMarie Miller

October 21, 2008

Uncle Carl, it's been almost three months since you were taken from us, I really miss you. These past three months were filled with memories of you in my thoughts, and all the good times I remember sharing with you. Just letting you know I'm thinking of you. Miss you & love you, LynnMarie.

Carl and grandma

Jessica Miller

October 10, 2008

Carl and Grandma I am always thinking of you's...so many great memories.:) I love you!

LynnMarie Miller

October 6, 2008

Hey G, just dropping by to say I'm thinking of you. Everyone really misses you. Wish you were still here with us. Watch over us & take care of gram, i love you so much. LynnMarie. <3

Chrissy Miller

October 6, 2008

Uncle Carl,
I just heard a song on the radio that made me think you. I just wanted to say you are always in our thoughts. A matter of fact me and my dad were talking about how much we miss you and how hard it is that your actually not physically with us. It seems surreal. Well just thought I would say that. Love Ya

Grandma and Chuck

October 2, 2008

Christy, Dominic, Uncle Chuck

October 2, 2008

havin a good time

October 2, 2008

Chuck and Dominic

October 2, 2008

Christine Miller

October 1, 2008

Uncle Carl,
Its still so hard to believe that you are gone, which I know will always be hard for all of us. I hope at least that you and grandma kless are at peace and keeping eachother company. Watch over all of us and you two will always be in our prayers.
Love you and miss yous.

LynnMarie Miller

September 30, 2008

Hey Uncle Carl just me again. Two months since you were taken from us. It's hard to believe. I miss you so much. Great grams up there with you now. Make sure you take care of each other. Don't give her a hard time! Everyone misses the both of you. We love yous. <3 LynnMarie.

Heather Lasure

September 26, 2008

Hey Uncle Carl,
Looks like you have someone else to take care of up there. Great-Grandma came to see you. Take care of her as we all know you will. She will be missed as you are missed. She is loved as you are loved. God took two members of this family and made them Angels. We love and miss you both.
Love,
Gert

Heather Lasure

September 26, 2008

Hi Uncle Carl,
I can't believe that it will be two months since you left us. It doesn't seem like it. I watched an episode of E.R. tonight and they lost a close friend on there. I sat here and cried because I thought of you. It just goes to show you that life is precious and don't let it pass you by. Well you are one person that never let it pass you by. And you are precious to all of us. Keep watching over us, as we go through the rest of our days. Hope you and pap are living it up. Be good. Love you and miss you.
Love,
Gert

LynnMarie Miller

September 13, 2008

Hey Uncle Carl, just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you & that I miss you so much. I still really haven't gotten over the fact that you're gone, probably because I know you're still here with us some how. I love you so much and not a day goes by where i don't miss ya. I love you so much - LynnMarie (Sis)

Sue Zajac

September 9, 2008

Hey Chuck,
Just thinking of you,and wondering how you are doing. We miss you alot. I know Mom does. She still cries ever time your name is mentioned. You know I bought your truck and I am taken good care of it.washed it the other day and cleaned the windows. Miss your calls. Love you always ,Sis

Heather Lasure

September 4, 2008

Uncle Chuck,
I had a dream about you the other night. I think you were trying to tell me that you were with us at the funeral and at the dinner. Trying to cheer everyone up like you would've done. Then you looked so sad and said you were sorry. You have nothing to be sorry for. We know you are sorry for leaving us, but pap was getting bored and he needed you. Then you left. That's when I knew you went home. You went to be happy, be at peace and to drink some beer. I know you came to check on us one last time. Your memory will live on in all of us. We know you'll always be with us forever. We all love you and miss you.
Love you,
Gert

Richie Borowczyk

September 1, 2008

Carl,
You will be remembered as a good man also someone who was there for others. You made me feel welcome which I appreciated, we all miss you RIP.

Jessica Miller

September 1, 2008

Carl,

I just wanted to let you know I miss you and love you So much! I was thinking of you tonight..and I am thinking of you always

Jess

Christine Miller

August 28, 2008

Uncle Carl,
There has not been a day since you passed away, that we haven't thought about you. You will always be in our memories and we all hope that your at peace. Love ya,
Chrissy :)

We Love and miss you to dad

August 27, 2008

August 27, 2008

Merry Christmas Chuck

August 27, 2008

August 27, 2008

August 27, 2008

Tim and Deb Miller

August 27, 2008

Homie,
Miss you alot, Having a beer together, and talking miss you not being at the campsite with us.and saying "where's the beer" and "have them cold" or "Ma and Dad I'm coming home".
Love you
Tim & Sis

Tim & Deb's Wedding

August 25, 2008

Sue, Tony & Mike at mom's house

August 25, 2008

Love you Carl

August 25, 2008

Bill Deb Chuck & Laurie

August 25, 2008

Chuck & Tim

August 25, 2008

Chuck, Randy & Mom

August 25, 2008

Mom Richard, Mary Lou,Linda,Grandma, Al, & Barb

August 25, 2008

Devlin in Kindergarten

August 25, 2008

Carl being happy at Tim & Deb house

August 25, 2008

Five Generations

August 25, 2008

Michele Frie & Linda Kless

August 25, 2008

Mike, Uncle Chuck and Gert

August 25, 2008

Ron & Melissa Frie with Mom

August 25, 2008

Hanging out at Sue's house.

August 25, 2008

Mike in the ARMY

August 25, 2008

Carl waiting for a beer

August 25, 2008

Chuck and Mike

August 25, 2008

Sandy &Ernie Snyder

August 25, 2008

Mom

August 25, 2008

Sue,Lora,Deb, Amber,Mom,Deb,Chrissy,Lynn,Laurie

August 25, 2008

Tim, Randy jr.Carl,Dave, Bill, Brian Mike

August 25, 2008

Brian, Cindy & family

August 25, 2008

Grandma

August 25, 2008

(G) Mom & Aunt Mary Lou

August 25, 2008

Carl

August 25, 2008

Pappy

August 25, 2008

Family gathering

August 25, 2008

Uncle Don & Uncle Richard

August 25, 2008

Devlin

August 25, 2008

Mom

August 24, 2008

Hey Carl,

You were taken from us so suddenly, But still live on in our hearts, I miss you so much, your calls, your jokes, and your smile, and for always being there for me. We will one day meet again

Love you
Mom

Heather Lasure

August 22, 2008

HI HOMIE. I REALLY MISS YOU. I HAVE YOU ON MY SUNVISOR ALWAYS WATCHING DOWN ON ME. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED BY ALL WHO LOVE YOU. SAY HI TO PAP FOR ME, AND BEHAVE UP THERE. LOVE YOU ALWAYS.
LOVE, GERT

Susan Zajac

August 22, 2008

Hey Chuck,

You are missed so much by everyone here. we love you, you are in my thoughts all the time. As I know you are with the angels,and dad. Miss you always Love Sis (Sue)

Laurie and Bill Eschberger

August 21, 2008

Still having a hard time accepting your gone, it just aint the same without you here, we both miss you alot .We were looking at alot of pictures tonight ... , and it's just not fare we cant take your picture anymore ... we feel an emptiness now that your gone, you are greatly missed , and loved by everyone who knew you, love ya, Carl

The 3 Stooges, Christmas 2007

August 21, 2008

I need a cold one ... GOT ANY ?

August 21, 2008

No fakers aloud

August 21, 2008

Carl feelin good at Tims

August 21, 2008

New Years Eve at Tim's

August 20, 2008

Jessica Miller

August 2, 2008

Uncle Carl,It was nice to see you wed and Thursday.You looked peaceful.I will never forget you.Your such a great person.I love you! Love always (your niece/sis) Jessica

Ron & Apryl Buxton

July 31, 2008

Miller Family,
We're so sorry to hear about your loss. We're also sorry that we couldn't make it to NY to be with the family. We didn't get to see Carl enough but will always remember his sense of humor.

THE TERRY FAMILY

July 31, 2008

TO THE MILLER FAMILY:
OUR THOUGHTS AND SYMPATHIES ARE WITH ALL OF YOU AT THIS SAD TIME. CARL'S SMILE, SPIRIT, AND GOODNESS WILL REMAIN ALIVE IN THE HEARTS OF EVERYONE WHO KNEW HIM. BEST WISHES ALWAYS,

wendy snyder

July 30, 2008

we are all going to miss carl and his crazy ways. family picinics wont be the same without you making everyone laugh. we wish the whole miller family peace and happiness because that is what carl would want, so remember all the good times we have had as one big happy family and i will see you on the other side when i get there homer.(save a seat for me) we love and miss you

Felicia Miller

July 30, 2008

Uncle Carl (Homie),
I can't believe this day had to come so soon. Everyone misses you so much. You will not be forgotten. Nobody will ever forget how you could make us laugh with all your sayings that you had (See you in church, No fakers allowed, Wanna tissue, or calling us nieces girlfriend or sis) haha. You made anyone laugh. I love you homie. R.I.P.

Jessica Miller

July 29, 2008

Uncle Carl,

I miss you and love you so much.You will never be forgotten.You were such a nice and funny person.You liked to make everyone smile.Words can't express how much we all miss you.I will see you tomorrow.I know I will need a tissue.
Love always(your niece),Jessica

July 29, 2008

Young carl

July 29, 2008

Baby Carl

July 29, 2008

Michael Miller

July 29, 2008

Carl was a good uncle to me and my brother and sisters. some of his phrases were need a tissue, what up gee. your a faker, no fakers allowed. funny! I miss him so much :(. rip uncle Carl. You will be loved and missed alot .

carl and his brother dave

July 29, 2008

Christine Miller

July 29, 2008

Uncle Carl,
I still can not believe your not with us physically, but you will always be with us spiritually. You were such a great and funny guy. You will always be remembered as one of a kind. Love always, Chrissy

LynnMarie Miller

July 29, 2008

Uncle Carl,
You were a great person. You were so funny and were the life of every party. I love you so much and you'll always be in my thoughts. I'll be your "sis" forever. When I need a tissue, I'll think of you; anytime I enter a church, I'll think of you, Haha. I miss you so much already, I won't ever forget you homie. Everything'll be ightt.

carl and his brother dave

July 29, 2008

brian miller

July 29, 2008

uncle carl,
Im really gonna miss him.I'm really glad I got to spend a couple of days with him this past month.He was a great uncle and a great guy.I love you carl.Carl jr (BUBBA) GIVE ME A CALL AT MY MOMS SOMETIME.

Michael & Sherry Robinson

July 29, 2008

To Carl's family,
He will be missed by all at Towne BMW his laughter and his gift for making others smile and laugh will be forever in our memories. God Bless you at this most difficult time.

Nancy, Felicia and Jason

July 29, 2008

Bubba,

I cannot even imagine what a tough time this is for you. Dont be sad. Carry on your dad's memory. Carry on his humor and outgoing personality. Remember him as he was. He always loved you from the day you were born, He was so proud of you. Remember all the funny times and all his jokes and sayings. Remember that you have cousins and uncles and aunts who support you and keep in touch with them.

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