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Deborah Curtin Obituary

CURTIN - Deborah J. August 11, 2008; beloved wife of Daniel Curtin; devoted mother of Lauren (David) Gruszka and Travis (Emily) Curtin; loving grandmother of Jennasea Gruszka, Tosh and Tyler Curtin; daughter of Dorothy (late Hyman) Jay; brother of David (Tina) Jay and Danny Jay. Funeral Services will be held from AMHERST MEMORIAL CHAPEL, INC., 281 Dodge Rd., Friday at 11:00 AM. No prior visitations. In lieu of flowers those wishing may make donations in Debbies memory to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by Buffalo News on Aug. 13, 2008.

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Francine

August 7, 2023

Wonderful fond memories of Debbie, Mrs Jay..and the entire Jay family. Debbie was indeed my best friend in childhood and those memories are with me still. We had many adventures, and much joy. May her soul rest in peace.

Francine

Francine Pokracki

September 3, 2008

Debbie was my closest childhood friend..back fence neighbors..for better and for worse (her broken arm from scaling the fence!). My life was so enriched, being part of the Jay family! Such fond memories!Those early Buffalo roots keep calling me home!

I was honored to meet Danny and Lauren when Debbie came to Denver for the Day of Caring 6 years ago. My daughter Allegra and I got to visit Debbie and Dan..and so the circle lives on.

Mt heart and prayers go out to the Curtin/Jay family. Debbie embodied loveliness and grace. You/she will always be remembered, close in my heart.

Much love,
Francine

Mary Torres

August 21, 2008

I knew Debbie as my boss and friend of 10 years. She taught me so much thru her inner strength and compassion for everyone. She was a remarkable woman, who always looked at the bright side of every situation. I will always miss her. My thoughts and prayers go to Dan and her children (family)

Dianne & Sandy Mielke

August 19, 2008

We knew Debbie as a woman of incredible strength, dignity, and grace. Even in the last several months, she always offered a warm greeting over the backyard fence – without a hint of complaint about her illness. Our life is richer for having known her. We’ll miss her…and we’ll remember her.

Kim Miller

August 15, 2008

Debbie was one of those rare people who really makes the world a better place. She took her illness as a chance to help others. I know that she was a great friend to me when both my mother and I went through Cancer and served as an inspiration to me through it all. Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. The world lost one of the good ones.

Cheri Morton

August 14, 2008

Debbie was my sister in law and very special friend. I have known her since she was 14 years old and she was always an amazing person. She was so beautiful, fun loving and kind.The courage she has shown fighting her breast cancer was unparalleled. She is truly my hero. You, Debbie, will live in my heart forever. I love you. My condolences are with your family and friends. Cheri Morton

Sharon Dranow

August 14, 2008

Dan, Lauren & family,
I've known Debbie for over 24 years and have shared laughter, hope, wisdom, books and life with her. Her spirit and her friendship will always remain with me. My world and the world of so many others will be smaller without her in it. My very sincerest condolences to you at this difficult time.

Patti Draper

August 14, 2008

Dear Curtin and Jay families,
I just want you all to know how lucky I feel to have known Deb. As I told some of our fellow classmates, Debbie and I spent many double dates together in High School - so much fun so long ago. And then we renewed and reconnected our friendship over the past few years with "ladies" lunches and dinners.
She was gracious, beautiful, and courageous in her battle against breast cancer, as she was with whatever she believed in. I am proud to have known her and proud that she called me her friend. My life has been made so much richer for knowing Deb.
Patti

Leslie Gerstman

August 14, 2008

Her strength, courage, wisdom, humor and love inspired us all and continues to do so. She will be lovingly remembered always. My condolences to the family.

Patty Nicola

August 14, 2008

Lauren, Dan & Family,

Deb was an admirable inspiration which influenced my own life and I was glad to have known her. Her love for her family was always evident and the fact that she was an advocate for others with a disease that was her constant companion was a noble accomplishment. Keep your memories of her close and you will always feel her near.

ariane jay

August 13, 2008

Aunt Debbie is one of the strongest, bravest women that I have ever known, and I wish I had known her better. She was inspiring, beautiful, and kind, and touched the lives of so many. My thoughts are with you all during these difficult times.
Love always,
Ari

Sandra Lynch

August 13, 2008

Lauren and Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you.
Lauren,I know your Mom will be in every act,thought and decision you make. I think her courage and example will continue to enrich your live's daily.Be strong for each other and share all the wonderful memories you have to get you through these trying times.
God Bless,

Renee Giacomazza

August 13, 2008

Lauren and family...
Love you guys so much. My thoughts are with you at this time. She was a fighter and a great woman you should be proud to be called her family. <3 Renee

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