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for Joseph Penkaul
Joe and Pat Skokowski
September 25, 2008
Father Penkaul,
Our last time with you was at a 50th wedding anniversary and that will always be a special memory for us. You were taken so unexpectedly, we still expect you to be walking down the aisle at 10:30 Sunday Mass to help with Holy Communion. Still you are in a much better place, in the arms of our Father. Father Penkaul pray for us!
We miss you so much!
Much love!
Christine J. Zylinski
September 24, 2008
My Dear Friend ,Father Penkaul,I am very sad at your passing. you were a best friend and still are, you will always be in my heart, you are now in heaven with God & others priests, I'll missed you, thank you for being there for me. As always HUGS & HUGS Christine
Annette Harding
September 15, 2008
My family and I are very sad to hear of Father Joe's death but we know he is in heaven where he deserves to be. Much love has flowed from him to our family and back to him. We will always remember how he loved to eat and will miss his great sense of humor and great stories! We were honored to have had him for our priest in St. Mary's in Belmont, New York.
Kevin Monroe
September 7, 2008
Father Joe,
You will be missed by the Monroe Family. Our one on one sessions really inspired me. Thank you for all that you did for us.
Kevin & Nancy Monroe
Father Penkaul and Deacon Tom McDonell during the Azzarello-Caffery Wedding on 06/07/08
September 5, 2008
Father Penkaul during the Azzarello-Caffery Wedding on 06/07/08
September 5, 2008
Father Penkaul, Deacon Thomas McDonnell, and Frank Caffery (Azzarello-Caffery Wedding; 06/07/08)
September 5, 2008
Father Penkaul, Frank & Jill Caffery: 06/07/08
Jill Caffery
September 5, 2008
Dear Father Penkaul, Thank you for not only being our priest, but our friend. We are honored to have had you marry us on June 7, 2008. That day, along with you will never be forgotten! We miss you!! Love, Frank and Jill Caffery
Shannon {DOYLE} Vaccaro
September 5, 2008
"Papa Guseppi",
You have been a huge part of our lives ever since Dad brought you home to meet our family back in the mid 1970's when I was just a little girl. You quickly became an Uncle to all six of us Doyle kids. I have so many wonderful and silly memories. Your incessant teasing and rough housing for one, you referred to me as "Miss Piggy" from The Muppet Show{due to my adolescent demeanor}. As we grew older, you were ALWAYS there for us to bend and ear and lend guidance. You performed most of our marriage ceremonies and all of our children grew to know you and love you just as much and are blessed with their own wonderful memories. You graced us with attending many of our family gatherings, holidays and of course the VACATIONS! You were the brother my Dad never had and I know how very much he will miss you too. We are all so saddened by our loss of you in our lives. We take comfort in knowing you are at peace with God now. Much Love, Shannon
Richard & Marian Wischerath
September 5, 2008
Father Penkaul,
You shephered your people with such greatness & now you have been called home. You touched our lives with all that you did, especially for our family these past few months. Beautiful memories will never be forgotten & you will always have a special place in our hearts forever! Until then, Fr. Joe...Peace.
The Kroczynski Family
September 4, 2008
Dear Father Penkaul,
Our family will miss you dearly & our community parish will never be the same without you. We have a lot of good memories of you that will always be with us. You served God for so much of your life, now you can rest comfortably in his care.
Frank and Marlene Todaro
September 4, 2008
Dear Father Penkaul, We missed your masses and friendship when we moved to Fl. You were a inspiration to all who met you. God keep you close.
Ann And Richard Reusch
September 4, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Frederick Morgan
September 4, 2008
Dear Father Penkaul,
I always looked forward to your Mass on Sunday mornings @ 7:30 AM. You will be sadly missed. Having personally met you on a few occasions, you were a fantastic and caring individual. God be will you!
Frederick and Deborah Morgan and Family
Monica & Jenna Headd
September 4, 2008
We agree with the gentleman from Lancaster who congratulated Fr. Joe on his promotion to heaven. He touched the lives of so many parishioners at St. Phillips. Fr. Joe, we will miss you, but hope that your spirit will remain with our parish community.
Ed & Jane Wisnier
September 4, 2008
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Josette & Jim Graham
September 4, 2008
Father Joe, you will be missed. You have touched so many people, with your kindness and encouragement. May you rest in peace.
DOROTHY LAURICELLA
September 4, 2008
DEAR FATHER PENKAUL,, I WAS SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR DEATH~~ ST, PHILLIPS PARISH WILL NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU~~~ YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE TO GREET US~~~ THANK YOU FOR COMING TO MY HOME TO GIVE MY HUSBAND HIS LAST RITES,, I WILL BE FOREVER THANKFUL FOR THAT,,,, REST IN PEACE FATHER~~~~~` TIL WE MEET AGAIN~~~~~
September 4, 2008
Thank Your father Penkaul for leading us in our spiritual journey. Your passion is a true beacon of light. You will be sadly missed. every life you touched will forever be blessed.
may you rest in eternal peace with our king.
Jennifer and brian Smith
Ronald Pikula
September 4, 2008
Father Joe,
We thank you for your life that you dedicated to God and country. The masses we celebrated with you at Attica were encouraging messages for staff and inmates alike. Thank you again for your many years of service to God, country and mankind.
Ron & Shirley Pikula
Paul Bax
September 4, 2008
To the Family of Father Joe Penkaul:
I met Father Joe on one occasion while I was in the Air Force Reserves and a member of the Niagara Falls Police Department. At that time he was the Chaplain at Attica Prison. There was a group of us having a beer and I didnt know Joe was a priest. After being officially introduced I was embarrassed because of how I was speaking and not knowing I was in the presence of a man of the cloth. Joe was great. He asked me how long had it had been since I had been to church and confession. I told him it had been a long time and that I had issues with the Catholic Church. He listened to my reasons why I hadnt been to mass in years. Over a beer he heard my confession and gave me absolution. After I left Joe that night I went back to the church and have been going to mass ever since that fateful meeting. He took the time to bring a lost sheep back to the flock. I owe my renewed love of God to Father Joe. He was a great person and Priest. I have thought of him every day for the last 25 years. May god bless him and his family.
September 4, 2008
Father Joe was guiding light for me in times of trials and tribulations. He led me to understand peace and love. May his soul rest in the presence of God our father for all eternity. Again thanks, Deacon Mel & Sue Carroll Rock Hill, SC
Jeff Carter
September 3, 2008
Joe and I were Chaplains together at the Attica C. F. He was always an advocate for what was right. He had the unique ability to find out what was right and take a stand. He made a difference. He was a great man.
cindy elliott
September 3, 2008
joe penkaul was a very dear friend of mine, when he lived in attica, and through the years. i remember him always coming to my house and watching tv with my two kids, and having popcorn, at least once or twice a week. i will miss him forever
Susan Griffo
September 3, 2008
Father Joe,
You were such a great friend to me during good times and bad. You gave me strength during Linda's death. We would talk and you would say to me "Did you come here to cry" or are we going to discuss what is going on. And always asked me, "what did you do now". But each and every time you said that, I loved you more. I would ask you questions and you would give me an answer that made no sense and then you would roll your eyes and laugh because I always believed what you said. You encouraged me to become a Chaplin, to join the Associates of the Sister of St. Joseph. And when you would walk by me in church, you would be saying hello to everyone, then look at me and say "Sister". My friend, I will miss you more than you can realize. You had such a spirit about you, loved by all at the parish. Normally I would ask you "what are we going to do" your with God now, you left us, and you would say "Don't get nervous, pray on it, everyone has to die, even me. I'd smile, you would smile, and then you would say, how many more people are out there for confession? I'll miss my friend and I will always have a special place in my heart for you. I'll see you again up in Heaven and I will not be afraid because I know you will be there and you'll say, I told you it's better up here!
Rebecca Wnek
September 3, 2008
Father Penkaul,
Thank you so much for being a wonderful spiritual advisor and wonderful friend. Thank you for all of your wonderful love and support through the years. Most of all thank you for being a special part of my wedding. You are truly missed and I know you will be welcomed with open arms.
Nick Linda and Nick D'Amaro
September 3, 2008
Father Penkaul you will be missed by many. You were a great priest. May you rest in peace with the Lord.
Residents of Woodland Place Apartments
September 3, 2008
Our sincere condolences.
Gwen (Derkovitz) Mysiak
September 3, 2008
Father Penkaul lived an extraordinary life steeped in service to his country, fellow man and the Lord. His gentle, kind, and generous spirit were true gifts to all who knew him. He will be sorely missed.
September 3, 2008
Fr Penkaul, we only knew you for short time, but the time given to us with you will last the rest of our lives. You'll be in our prayers always.
Jim & Judy Dzwigal
Cape Coral, Fl.
September 3, 2008
Father Penkaul,
You will be terribly missed. You were such a kind, caring,and compassionate human being. I am so glad that our lives crossed paths. You made the world a better place.
We will never forget you.
Love Rob, Michele and Matthew Kozak
Barbara Bigos
September 3, 2008
To the family of Father Penkaul:
He will be missed greatly. He was truly an inspirational, sincere, and wonderful man. Know he is in the best place he can be with our Lord.
Darlene Bigos
September 3, 2008
Father Penkaul-
You were a wonderful priest and will be greatly missed by everyone. Thanks for the memories and the laughs over the years.
Debbie Spatz
September 3, 2008
Father Penkaul....May you find comfort & joy with the Lord....Rest in peace...Amen
Angelo & Trudy Sorci
September 3, 2008
To the family of Father Penkaul,
He is now at home with God and
those that went before him.
He is free of pain and discomfort.
May you all be comforted by these thoughts.
Peace be with you,
Frank and Joyce Stachowiak
September 3, 2008
We were so fortunate to have enjoyed your company at dinner a few weeks ago; even more fortunate to have been part of your parish family at St. Philip's. Your service to God and Country is an inspiration to us all.
Darlene Bigos
September 3, 2008
Father Penkal we will all greatly miss you. Thanks for the smiles and the support over the years.
Jennifer & Brian Czarnecki
September 3, 2008
Just last year in September you married us. Thank you for being a part of our special day making us laugh and smile. Now you are with the Lord in Heaven making everyone smile with the special way you have.
Nancy Grzymala
September 3, 2008
Dear Father Penkaul I will miss you so much ...you were a great friend and pastor and of course- my former "boss"..Thanks for all the great memories and milestones you shared with my entire family...we love you and you will remain in our hearts forever and ever.
Dick & Barb Lydo
September 3, 2008
Fr. Penkaul you were loved in life. You will be missed by all our St. Philip's Parish family. Rest in Peace.
mark fahey
September 3, 2008
from an old "turner" reprobate that you sent strait. congrats on your promotion to heaven, and thanks.
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