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Ardel Alexander Obituary
(nee Thompson)
1943-2024
Ardel Alexander (nee Thompson) passed away peacefully with her husband by her side on February 14, 2024, in Calgary, Alberta, at the age of 80. Ardel was born on December 12, 1943, in Calgary Alberta.
Ardel was a remarkable woman known for her humor, warmth, and adventurous spirit. She had a passion for traveling with her loved ones, creating cherished memories along the way. Her husband, Dwayne, was her steadfast companion, always there to support her, even in the smallest of moments. Ardel found joy in exploring different cultures, with trips to Alaska and Rome holding special places in her heart.
In Houston, Texas, Ardel and Dwayne shared a beautiful home that she considered her sanctuary. She had a way with animals, coaxing their two feral cats to visit inside every night. Ardel was a gracious host, delighting in entertaining family and friends with her warm hospitality. When circumstances kept her in Calgary, she found comfort in the company of the Balbi side of the family, life long friends and her high school gang of spirited ladies.
Ardel will be deeply missed by her devoted husband, Dwayne Alexander, her daughters Twila, Tania, and Lendel, her stepson Dwight, and her grandchildren Miriam, Dawson, Abigail, Annika, Davanta, and Seth. She is preceded in death by her mother, Marian Wathen, and her father, Mervin Thompson.
A memorial service to celebrate Ardel's life will be held this spring in Prince George. Details of the service will be announced at a later date.
Ardel Alexander touched the lives of many with her kindness, humor, and love. She leaves behind a legacy of cherished memories and will forever hold a special place in the hearts of those who knew her.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ardel Alexander
62 Entries
Sophie and Bobby Blahun
March 15, 2024
We first met Ardel, in 1977, when we moved in behind their place in Prince George, BC. We were fairly newly married and the new parents of twins. Ardel became my rock, guardian angel and a wonderful friend as she helped me cope with the babies, which I am still grateful to her to this day. We also spent many hours playing hundreds of games of Yahtzee to pass the long evenings. We were transferred out of Prince George late in 1978 and subsequently lost contact of Ardel. Fortunately, in 2021, a mutual friend told us that Ardel was living in Calgary (we live in Bragg Creek) and we were able to reconnect. But no matter how many years had passed Ardel welcomed us back as if those years had never passed. But that was just Ardel and the wonderful person that she was. We were also privileged to have met and spent some time with her loving, soft-spoken, soul mate Dwayne. Even if our reunion was short lived, we will always hold those precious memories of our time together close to our hearts.
Ardel although we will miss you, we know that you are now in a much better place. That place is freeing you of pain, enabling you to breath freely and letting you enjoy that cup of tea with your dear Mother, Marian. Rest in peace, our dear friend.
To Ardel's family we extend our deepest and heartfelt sympathy and sincere condolences. May your many sweet, precious and happy memories of Ardel guide your through this journey of sorrow and know that she is now looking down at you with contentment and awaiting the time when we all can be reunited with her.
Our love to all, Sophie and Bobby
Sophie and Bobby Blahun
March 15, 2024
Sophie and Bobby Blahun
March 15, 2024
Sophie and Bobby Blahun
March 15, 2024
We first met Ardel, in 1977, when we moved in behind their place in Prince George BC. We were a fairly newly married couple and the new parents of twins. Ardel soon became my rock, guardian angel and a wonderful friend as she spent many hours helping me to cope with the new babies. For which I am truly thankful for. We also spent many hours playing hundreds of games of Yahtzee to pass the long evening hours. In 1978 we were transferred out of Prince George and eventually lost contact with Ardel. In 2021, fortunately through a mutual friend, we were notified that Ardel was living in Calgary (we are in Bragg Creek). So that's how we ended up reconnecting. But no matter how much time had passed, we easily fell back into our friendship as if it was only yesterday that we had just last seen each other. But that was just the way it was with Ardel. Once you were Ardel's friend you were her friend for life. That was also when we had the opportunity to meet and spend time with Dwayne, her loving, soft-spoken, soul mate. Even if our time together was short-lived, we will always cherish and hold those precious memories close to our hearts.
Ardel, although we will deeply miss you, we know that you are in a much better place. A place where you are free of pain, breathing freely and sipping tea with your dear Mom, Marian. Rest in peace dear friend.
To Ardel's family, we extend our deepest and heartfelt sympathy and our sincere condolences. May your many sweet and happy memories guide your journey through this time of sorrow.
Much love to all.
Sophie and Bobby Blahun
Virgil King
March 6, 2024
Virgil King
Dwayne, you and the family are in our heart and prayers during this time of breavement. All good and perfect gifts come down from above and God blessed you and Ardel with each other. I know the precious memories you shared can never be forgotten. Praying God's richest blessing to you and the presence, peace and comfort of the Holy Spirit sustain you. Grateful for you brother-in-law and available to you anytime...love you
Alexis King
March 3, 2024
Rest in peace, Aunt ArdelSuch a kind, sweet soul! Thank you for making me feel loved and welcome whenever I came around. You always had a smile and conversation to share. Sending prayers and healing to all of Ardel's friends and family. I can tell from all of the pictures below that she was truly loved. To Uncle Dwyane... sending lots of hugs and kisses your way. I'm glad that you two found each other.
Love,
Niece Alexis
Cynthia (Alexander) King
March 2, 2024
Cynthia (Alexander) King
On behalf of the Alexander & King Family,
To our Brother & the Family of Ardel (Daughters & Grands..) - - We´re deeply sorry for the loss of Your Love One. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. May You find Peace, Strength & Comfort in the memories You´ve shared.
"ARDEL", You´re Gone but definitely not Forgotten. Your presence shall rest in our hearts! {Everlasting Joy shall Crown your Head. Pain & Sorrow shall be no more. Peacefully Rest in Paradise}.
My dear Sister-in-Law, I´m thankful for your friendship, your encouragement, your kindness & your warm embrace. Ardel & I enjoyed each other company. There were times when our trips to Texas would overlap, this would afford us the opportunity to have our in-person visits.
She loved her family, often spoke of her Mother, Daughters & Grandchildren. We had a spiritual connection & found joy in sharing our experiences.
To Dwayne, my (Brother), such a Kind Heart & Loving Spirit! I´m reminded of a gospel song, sung by Rev. James Cleveland, "Give Me My Flowers while I yet Live", so I can see the beauty that they bring. Speak kind words to me, while I can hear the comfort that they bring. Brother, I truly thank God for You! Thank you for being such a loving & devoted companion/husband. I too saw the love that You and Ardel "Sweetie" shared.
To the Bereaved: May God Love be a Light to illuminate your path.
"ARDEL", I bid You Farewell, until we meet again.. Cynthia (BD)
Maura and Mickey Cowie
March 2, 2024
Mickey wanted me to share this photo. Ardel, his late Dad and Mickey as a baby. His first babysitter.
Sandra Whitcomb
March 2, 2024
Sandra Whitcomb
March 2, 2024
Sandra Whitcomb
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Sandra Whitcomb
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Sandra Whitcomb
March 2, 2024
Our deepest condolences to Dwayne, her devoted husband and soul mate, her beloved daughters Twila, Tania and Lendel and her adored grandchildren. Miriam, Abby, Annika, Dawson, Davanta and little charmer Seth. Her love knew no bounds when it came to her family and friends.
Ardel was a wonderful, caring friend. We shared many indepth conversations from family triumphs to tragedies, many with laughter, others with tears.
We were fortunate enough to have made many trips together and anyone traveling with Ardel knew that was an experience in itself lol.
I will miss you my friend even though I know you're in better hands. Our love and condolences to all the family.
Sandra and Donnie whitcomb
Ron and Louise Hawkins
March 1, 2024
Our deepest sympathies Dwayne. It was getting to meet and know you some. We very much enjoyed our Panama Canal Cruise with the two of you. We know that you and your families will deeply miss her, as well as so many friends and acquaintances. She´s in really good hands now and until we meet again! God bless!
Ron and Louise Hawkins
DWAYNE C ALEXANDER
March 1, 2024
Sweetie (Ardel)
The twenty two year journey we enjoyed together was the best a husband could ask for .They were full of happiness, joy and plenty great memories.. Many people could only dream about the love , support and devotion we had for each other. We were each other best friend, rock and sounding board. We were a great team .
You really open my eyes to many different cultures, experiences , adventures during travel and gatherings with your great family and friends. You brought many smiles to my entire family. Your smartness, kindness ,smile, love, devotion and beauty will be missed dearly.
I'm sure you are sharing great stories with your mother, while having a cup of tea.
Rest in peace my love, until we meet again. I will always love you !
Your husband
Dwayne
Betty (Rhodes) Broderick
March 1, 2024
My first memory of Ardel was when we moved next door to her in Bowness, Alberta. It was 1954 and we were just kids and hit it off right away except for our tastes in music (lol). Ardel was a great person and wonderful friend - I shall miss her forever. Condolences to all her family.
Dwayne A.
February 29, 2024
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Linda Defoort
February 27, 2024
Linda Defoort
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Linda Defoort
February 27, 2024
My first memory of Ardel was meeting her on the way home from school. She was 12, I was 11. For 68 years, she was my heart sister and no matter how much time passed, the first thing I saw was that beautiful smile and next felt that warm enveloping hug. So many memories in between but the next great one was being invited to her haven, her home in Houston and meeting her lovely Dwayne.
So much laughter and joy and silliness which became the mantra of many lunches over the years with the high school quartet.
I shall miss you forever but always remember with you with a smile.
Denise
February 27, 2024
In my haste to honour Ardel, I neglected to acknowledge and send condolences to those she loved: Dwayne, Twyla, Tanya, Lendel, and their families. May your grief be replaced by happy memories.
Angie Mendoza
February 26, 2024
Ardel, thanks to Seth we had the pleasure of meeting and getting to know one another. Our visits were always over sporting events or birthday parties, but you always had nothing but kind words. We will forever cherish the moments we shared, and I will always remember your beautiful smile and how graciously you lived your life. Thank you for always making us feel loved, welcomed, and know that you will be dearly missed. To Mr. Alexander, daughters, stepson, and grandchildren please accept my sincere condolences and may your happy memories give you peace and comfort.
Donna Ross
February 26, 2024
Donna Ross
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Donna Ross
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Donna Ross
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Donna Ross
February 26, 2024
Pic #1 Donna/Ardel, Linda/Ardel 1961. Then Galveston with Ardel´s Sweetie 2008. Then my place, Calgary 2010 (if I´ve done this correctly)
Ardel was one of those special, old friends. Our different paths could keep us apart for years at times. Then we´d get together and pick up right where we´d left off as though we´d just seen each other the day before.
She had such a gift for pulling people together and for making friends feel special and we will truly miss her.
To you Dwayne, the love of her life, and to her girls and their families, I send my heartfelt sympathies.
Hugs to all, Donna
Angie Mendoza
February 26, 2024
Angie Mendoza
February 26, 2024
Angie Mendoza
February 26, 2024
Ardel, thanks to Seth we had the pleasure of meeting and getting to know one another. Our visits were always over some sporting event or birthday parties, but you always had nothing but kind words. We will forever cherish the moments we shared, and I will always remember your beautiful smile and how graciously you lived your life. Thank you for always making us feel loved, welcomed, and know that you will be dearly missed. To Mr. Alexander, daughters, stepson, and grandchildren please accept my sincere condolences and may your happy memories give you peace and comfort.
Denise Goodkey
February 26, 2024
Ardel and I worked together in Continuing Ed for eight years. She was my aide, my side-kick, my rock. Her sense of humour, her empathy and her work ethic saw us through some long hours. She dealt with some pretty weird characters in a non-judgemental manner and I am sure she is remembered fondly by some who may have never known her name. We stayed friends to the end. She remained cheery and hopeful through some very tough health issues. I will miss her.
Maura and Mickey Cowie
February 25, 2024
When we would visit in Texas, it was all about the food! Great restaurants, cooking together and having late night ice cream! And of course Popeyes! Oh I will miss those times! Love you Ardel!
Janet
February 25, 2024
I will forever remember your smile, soft kind voice. You will be missed from our family you were present to all the events in Texas you were able to attend. Thank you!
Spiller family!
D.M
February 25, 2024
D.M
February 25, 2024
Ardel, It was a blessing having you be part of my family. Thank you for doing your best at being present, You are forever my son´s Grandma! You will forever stay alive in our memories. Thank you for the many visits, laughs, advices and hugs. May you now be resting in peace. And may God be with all your family and friends during this time of grief.
Roslyn and Luther Harrell
February 24, 2024
Dwayne and Family,
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved Ardel. We will remember Ardel's kindness, warmth and the joy she brought to our neighborhood community. May you find comfort in the memories and love you shared.
Maura Dias
February 24, 2024
Celebrating our birthdays together! We shared the same birthday.
Maura Dias
February 24, 2024
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary Rung
February 24, 2024
I'll miss seeing you and our lunches together with the girls. Your strength, humor, wisdom and adventurous spirit will always stay with me. Goodbye dear friend. Rest in peace.
Anita Nelson
February 24, 2024
My first memory of Ardel was seeing her walk down the driveway to go to lunch. I looked at her for the first time and saw this sparkling woman walking as if she was also ready to take on the world. It was the start of enjoying many a lunch with her and this group of delightful women all with the same attitude. It was a company of gals all with different lives, challenges, loves, and dislikes sharing the joy of companionship. Miss you Ardel!!!!
Anna Bustos
February 24, 2024
Really sorry to hear about the family lost. You was gratefully loved and appreciated .Dwayne and you really made a beautiful couple. Great time sent with you guys.
Your Texas Friend
R.
D.M
February 23, 2024
D.M
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D.M
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D.M
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D.M
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D.M
February 23, 2024
Ardel, It was a blessing having you be part of my family. Thank you for doing your best at being present, You are forever my son´s Grandma! You will forever stay alive in our memories. Thank you for the many visits, laughs, advices and hugs. May you now be resting in peace. And may God be present with all your family and friends who loved you during this grieving period. Love your Houston Family!
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