Heather Crowe

Heather Crowe

Heather Crowe Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 23, 2006.
CanWest News Service - Canadian anti-smoking activist Heather Crowe has died of lung cancer at the age of 61.

You probably never met Ms. Crowe, but you probably saw her on Health Canada's anti-smoking ad.

"My doctor told me I had a smoker's tumour - and therefore I'm dying,- she says, explaining that she'd been a waitress for 40 years. "And I never smoked .... But the air was blue where I worked."

And then she closes her eyes and you hear the kicker voiceover: "And I'm dying of lung cancer from second-hand smoke."

On Feb. 24, days after admission to palliative care, she made a final plea to journalists for a nationwide ban on cigarette smoking in public places. She had often said she wanted to be the last Canadian to die of secondhand smoke.

In that valedictory press conference, she acknowledged that that unobtainable goal had not been achieved.

People with lungs damaged from years of exposure to tobacco will continue to die for some time. "But at least I will have made a difference," Ms. Crowe said. With one voice, those closest to the issue affirm her words.

"What Heather did was allow us to put a face on the hundreds of Canadians who die every year from exposure to secondhand smoke," Dawn Hachey, the former acting director general of Health Canada's tobacco control program, said recently.

"She made a connection with people that made a real difference. To me, and I'm choosing my words carefully, she was not just a wonderful person - but really a hero."

Neil Collishaw, a spokesman for Physicians for a Smoke-Free Canada, said Heather Crowe had the respect of everyone who worked in the antismoking movement in Canada. "She had the honesty and simplicity to speak directly from her own heart to other people's hearts. Those qualities, and the selflessness she showed in desperate circumstances, are what made her so effective an advocate."

Ms. Crowe spent much of her final four years speaking to premiers, ministers of health, provincial legislatures, mayors, city councils, community groups, students, reporters, and ordinary people.

At the outset, not a single jurisdiction had what Physicians for a Smoke-Free Canada considered a desirable policy on public smoking.

Now, most have one, or soon will. "And perhaps in a strict sense, this wasn't just one person's achievement," Mr. Collishaw said. "But Heather's role was huge.

"As a person devastated by second-hand tobacco, she could put the message across without anyone's eyes glazing over."

Heather Crowe first came to notice in October 2002 when the Ontario Workplace Safety and Insurance Board granted her workman's compensation for the lung tumour that physicians had diagnosed earlier that year.

Across Canada, only one or two such previous decisions had been made, none of them involving a hospitality industry worker.

This groundbreaking decision was logical. Her tumour was non-small cell lung cancer, the most common found in smokers. And she had never smoked herself nor lived with a smoker. Her only significant exposure had been in the workplace.

In some ways, it almost seemed like the universe was maneuvering to make her the public face of the anti-smoking movement. In the first place, having never smoked, she would not be blamed for her predicament.

Beyond that, two coincidences sent her on her way.

The day after her first biopsy, back in 2002, she went to work at the Newport Restaurant on Richmond Road. As she was serving a regular customer, a man who worked in the government, he asked her if she were alright, and her story popped out. This bureaucrat was an assistant deputy minister for Health Canada, and the point man in the government's antismoking programs. On the spot, he asked her if she would appear in a television ad, and she quickly agreed.

Another night, when she was still searching for medical studies to support her compensation claim, she saw a woman on television who was obviously affiliated with the antismoking forces. She learned this was Cynthia Callard, the executive director of the Physicians For a Smoke-Free Canada - and on a Sunday night she phoned the association, expecting only to leave a telephone message. As chance had it, she found Ms. Collard at work and eager to talk. From that conversation, Ms. Crowe learned that many studies showed a link between second-hand smoke and lung cancer.

"I showed those studies to my lawyer, and that's how it all started," she once said. Her claim, when it was sent into the Workplace Safety and Insurance Board, was buttrussed by letters from Mayor Bob Chiarelli and former mayor Elizabeth Holtzman, both customers in the Newport, and by Medical Officer of Health Robert Cushman and councilor Alex Munter.

Ms. Holtzman felt the case was reasonable. One often left restaurants smelling of smoke, she told The Citizen. And for Ms. Crowe herself, she felt particular sympathy: "It didn't matter if you were mayor or just a person walking in off the street - Heather Crowe welcomed you and made you feel at home."

Mr. Munter came to know her during the public debates on the city's antismoking bylaw. Then chair of city council's community services committee, he went to many meetings with her. "And I always felt her quiet dignity and resolve was the best way of countering the loudmouth yelling that was going on.

"I could cite statistics on second-hand smoking and lung cancer, but Heather made those stats into a real human story.

"Before she stepped in, the debate revolved around patrons - the patrons who didn't want smoke in the air against the patrons who wanted to smoke. By bringing the focus onto the hospitality workers, Heather changed the dynamics of the issue forever.

"Her intervention, I think, was the pivotal moment in consolidating support for the bylaw."

The remarkable thing was how effective she could be in addressing audiences far from the city she lived in. Accompanied often by Mr. Collishaw of Physicians for a Smoke-Free Canada, she spoke to politicians across the country. She went to every province except Prince Edward Island, and to every territory except Yukon. Often exhausted by her radiation treatments and by chemotherapy, she nonetheless found energy to make her direct and human case. In March 2003, on one of her first trips, she and Mr. Collishaw went to Iqaluit, the capital of Nunavut.

Ms. Crowe, quite ill from her treatments, was particularly frail at this point. In the legislative assembly, she addressed the MLAs and the Circle of Elders. As she spoke, there was simultaneous translation into Inuktitut, for those whose English was shaky. When she finished, one of the elders addressed the assembly in Inuktitut.

"I believe this white woman," the elder said. "I believe she speaks the truth. And I believe we should show a good example to our children and not smoke in front of them, and teach them not to smoke."

This was a powerful statement, Mr. Collishaw said, because three-quarters of the adult population in Nunavut smoke. Obviously, no one recognized that Ms. Crowe, raised by a Mikmaq mother, was herself native.

"So Heather told them - told them that she was raised in the way of the Mikmaq, that she considered herself an elder, and that it was very important that we teach our children in every way we can.

"And when Heather finished, you could hear a pin drop in that room."

After their visit, the legislature, which had virtually no smoking policy, brought in one of the toughest antismoking laws in the country. In her own way, Heather Crowe could be funny. A consignment to relatively early death is no springboard to comedy, but she could make light even of the urn that will hold her ashes.

"I was standing there holding my new urn and thought to myself, this is Freedom 55 for an unprotected worker," she told audiences. Ashes seemed to get her going. She once said, "I'm looking forward to seeing a 'No Smoking' sign in the crematorium as they push me in, so that I know it's a safe place for their workers."

But she was essentially a serious person, allergic to dramatics, her gaze direct, and her voice clear but not especially modulated, a speaking style she said came from her mother. You would listen to this human being, because she was sincere and had no personal agenda.

"I've been in this business for 17 years and after a while you develop a thick skin," said Les Hagen, director of the Alberta chapter of Action on Smoking and Health. "But when someone leaves a death bed to champion a cause when it would be far easier to fade away in silence - well, I recognize the commitment. We all did."

In January 2003, provincial labour ministers from across the country were meeting in Banff. Ms. Crowe wrote to ask if she could have time on the agenda to address them about tobacco risks in the workplace, but was refused.

"Well, Heather showed up anyway," Mr. Hagen said, laughing. "And she got into their meeting - in fact, they invited her for lunch."

Ms. Crowe also had meetings with municipal officials in Banff, who shortly after decided to ban smoking in all workplaces and public establishments. Alberta eventually brought in antismoking legislation, but it was weak, only forbidding smoking where children are present, a narrow factor that caused some fear that children might be banned from doughnut shops.

Apart from her manner, which won immediate confidence, Ms. Crowe, in Mr. Hagen's view, could reach people because her personal situation was so universal. "If Heather had been an actress, the whole thing would have been different. But she was a single mother, a grandmother, a woman who worked incredibly hard, a very humble person - someone we all know, someone every Canadian can relate to.

"What was extraordinary was not who she was, but what she did."

Heather Crowe was born on April 23, 1945 in Yarmouth, N.S. She was the third oldest of seven children. Her Mikmaq mother, a homemaker, had married a white man because she didn't want to lose her children to the residential schools.

Her father was a carpenter by trade, but also worked as a stevedore and heavy equipment operator. Both parents were highly principled; her mother stressed kindness and truth to oneself, and her father was a proponent of hard work and doing things well.

With so many children and only one income, money was tight. In particular, there was never any money for alcohol or tobacco. When she was 17, she moved to Toronto and quickly found work as a waitress at Fran's Restaurant at Yonge and Eglinton. She had only finished Grade Nine and was surprised at how easy it was to earn good money waiting tables.

"All you had to do was give me a clientele, and I could write my own paycheque," she told The Citizen. "I always conveyed good service and respect - and I never thought directly of money. I only wanted to finish a shift with more money than I had when I came in."

She was married to a man in Toronto, but divorced him when she turned 27. It was a relationship that she did not wish to discuss. However, it did give her a daughter, Patricia, and a granddaughter, Jodi-Ann. In 1972, she moved with her then four-year-old daughter to Ottawa to live with a sister.

A few years later, she bought a house in the Glebe. She found work easy to find. At various times, she waited at the Holiday Inn on Kent Street, the old Carleton Towers at O'Connor and Albert, the Gausthause Zum Dorfkrug and Chuck and Harold's, on Innes Road, and finally the Newport on Richmond Road.

In the late 1980s, facing some expensive home renovations, she worked at three restaurants, on three shifts, at once, starting at 6 a.m. and working through almost to midnight. "These were all smoking places," she said. "The air in everyone of them was always blue."

Her favorite place was the Newport Restaurant. Owner Moe Atallah was a dream to work for, she said. "I never had a boss like him. If they walk on me, nearly everyone eventually sees my porcupine side, but not Moe. There was only respect from him."

Despite the extraordinary workload, her health was so good that she almost never missed work. And then four years ago, she found a few lumps on her neck and on a collarbone. She suspected a simple infection, but her doctor, assuming something worse, sent her for a chest X-ray. The next day, the doctor called with the diagnosis.

"It was like having a mirror shatter into a million pieces. You see the shards on the floor, but you can't put them back together. It changes your life forever."

What amazed people was the value that Heather Crowe got out of the four years that remained to her - the trips made, often in a state of exhaustion; the speeches given; the people, many ill, whom she encountered along the way.

She received a number of awards. Among them were an award from the World Health Organization for public service, an award that only six people in the Western Hemisphere receive each year, and a Meritorious Service Decoration from former Governor General Adrienne Clarkson for activities that brought honour to the community. In a recent interview, Ms. Crowe expressed appreciation for these honours, but refused to discuss them at length.

"The only thing that's important is that the right legislation comes in to protect people who might get sick the same way I did.

"You wouldn't put your dog in the garage, turn the car on, and walk away. And neither should governments allow people to work in what pretty much amounts to gas chambers.

"It's too late for me, but it's the next generation I've been doing this for. That's why I've been pounding on the drum."

Looking at all the legislation of the last four years, it looks like Heather Crowe's pounding was wonderfully effective. Of course, long before she became well-known, this quiet woman had a way of touching people.

A few weeks ago, at the Newport Restaurant, Moe Atallah spoke fervently of his memories of Ms. Crowe, as he anticipated the prospect of not seeing her again. "We are still waiting for Heather, I think," Mr. Atallah.

"It's something you naturally expect - she will be back. "And when you realize she won't be, you still feel grateful. "With every drop of my blood, I believe it was grace that brought her to us."

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Peter Holt

June 23, 2006

The beauty, strength and kindness of Heather's spirit has touched me though I never met her. Heather helped save and improve so many people's lives by using her each and every day to do things for others.



We Canadians are so lucky to have had Heather to help us fight against the poison of manufactured tobacco. I hope Canada spreads her message to the rest of the world.



My heart goes out to Heather's family and closest friends for their loss. I am grateful for their part in Heather's life.



Sincerely,

Gloria LeBlanc

June 21, 2006

I met Heather when she was in New Brunswick to celebrate with us the victory of becoming a smoke free province on October 1st, 2004. She touched many of us that night by her presence, her courage to travel in order to help others understand the importance of a smoke-free legislation. Thank You Heather, for your dedication to this cause. I will always cherish our talk and will remember forever your warmth and your smile. Deepest sympathy to Heather's family.

Nancy Skinner

June 7, 2006

It was inspiring to meet Heather when she was in Nova Scotia a few years ago. She helped people realize that second hand smoke is harmful. Heather was a remarkable woman. My deepest sympathy to all the family.

Kew and Vanessa

June 6, 2006

You ROCK!! you are a insparation to us all!

Kathy Kilburn

June 6, 2006

What a courageous and valiant woman, and how much she has given us all.

Rea

June 6, 2006

Heather was, and will continue to be, an inspiration to us all. I would like to thank her friends at smoke-free.ca for allowing me to reprint her eulogy at the Dear Tobacco blog; it was a touching piece that really spoke to how Heather was at times an uncomfortable hero, but a hero nonetheless. May her family find peace in her accomplishments.

Heidi McKean

June 5, 2006

Heather will always be remembered. Her kindness and strength was an inspiration to us all. We will continue to 'carry her message of hope' for a smoke-free Canada and World. Thank you Heather for helping to make Ontario safer for my children's lungs and life.

Barbara Gowitzke

June 4, 2006

We would like Heather's family to know just how much we appreciated her efforts to inform everyone about the horrible side-effects of second-hand smoke. David Waddell (my husband) and I have worked on this problem since the mid-80's and it has been a very difficult task until fairly recently. Our condolences to Heather's family.

Pearl Jutzi

June 3, 2006

Heather's life is remembered here in the Czech Republic.

She is an inspiration to those working towards a smoke free environment here. Thank you Heather.

Pearl Jutzi

Anette Ziegler-Legault

June 2, 2006

Sincere sympathy to the Crowe family at this time of profound sorrow. Heather Crowe is an extraordinary courageous and inspirational human being. Heather changed attitudes from coast-to-coast. Heather's meaningful work will save many lives. Patsy, your Mother's life made a huge difference and touched so many Canadian hearts.

Rob Fragoso

June 1, 2006

Heather showed the rare and amazing courage needed to turn a private tragedy into a public triumph.

Many Canadians will be able to breathe easier beacause of her efforts. My condolences go out to her family and friends.

Marg Budd

June 1, 2006

Your mother's courageous efforts have created a legacy that will not be forgotten. May your memories and the knowledge that others are thinking of you, bring your comfort at this sad time.

Erika Ellacott

June 1, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to Heather's family. She showed much courage through her illness, and what she has accomplished will be remembered for generations to come. My children and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts

Laura Burgart

May 31, 2006

I was deeply saddened to hear of Heather's passing, especially so close to Ontario going smoke free. My deepest sympathy goes to her family and friends. I had the honor of meeting Heather when Moose Jaw held a referendum to go smoke free and she spoke at my school. She truly inspired my students and as a result, we now have a smoke free school grounds, which includes the city street that runs along our main student entrance. Students now must sign a contract to abide by the smoke free zone as a condition of attendance. In my opinion, she is now the greatest Canadian! One will never know how many lives she has saved with her advocacy, but I am grateful for her courage in standing up for what is right. She is an inspiration, a hero, and one of the greatest people I ever met. I, along with my students, will gather to say a prayer for her!

Laura Burgart

May 31, 2006

I was deeply saddened to hear of Heather's passing, especially so close to Ontario going smoke free. I had the honor of meeting Heather when Moose Jaw held a referendum to go smoke free and she spoke at my school. She truly inspired my students and as a result, we now have a smoke free school grounds, which includes the city street that runs along our main student entrance. Students now must sign a contract to abide by the smoke free zone as a condition of attendance. In my opinion, she is now the greatest Canadian! One will never know how many lives she has saved with her advocacy, but I am grateful for her courage in standing up for what is right. She is an inspiration, a hero, and one of the greatest people I ever met. I, along with my students, will gather to say a prayer for her!

Jennifer E

May 31, 2006

Heather's mission did not go un-noticed. My thought's are with the family at this time. She set the bar for a smoke free environment.

Shauna Graham

May 31, 2006

My sincere sympathy to Heather's family. Heather was a mentor to many youth and adults alike throughout our community, country and beyond. She is an inspiration and will be missed.

Cynthia Smith

May 31, 2006

I had the pleasure of having dinner with Heather in 2004 when she came to Alberta to promote smoke free workplaces and support those moving forward smoke free bylaws in communities. I was impressed with her courage, committment, energy and single mindedness towards the cause. In her unassuming, matter of fact way she was a determined lady. She remains one of my heros.

Colleen Kearns

May 31, 2006

Thinking of you on this very special day..

Elaine B.C.

May 31, 2006

Because of your legacy, my child and future grandchildren will be able to live smoke free. Thank you!

Helen Ghent

May 30, 2006

Heather's life was not in vain. She accomplished what nobody was able to do.She captured the children's attention and they became advocates for her.On behalf of all the young people who will be spared smoke filled environments and avoid early and unnecessary illness I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Norma McAuliff

May 30, 2006

What an inspiration Heather was to me. As an asthma sufferer, I am quite touched by the efforts she made to educate the world on the effects of second hand smoke. To let us see and feel her suffering was a very personal choice.



Thank you Heather and may God bless you!

Garfield Mahood

May 30, 2006

On behalf of members and staff of the Non-Smokers’ Rights Association, I wish to express our sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Heather Crowe. She was a truly wonderful lady who contributed greatly to the well-being of Canadians. She will be missed by all those who are dedicated to tobacco control.



Heather received our Association’s greatest honour, our Non-Smoker of the Year Award. This recognition had a tragic irony. Although Heather had decided not to smoke, it was tobacco smoke that ultimately led to her illness and death.



Heather’s contribution would not have been as great had she not been blessed with many admirable qualities: intelligence, compassion, warmth, determination, doggedness, courage, unselfishness and a commitment to justice. These qualities combined to create an enormous contribution to public health. It was an honour to have known her.

Pat Kemp

May 30, 2006

You have changed the way our society views smoking and my grandchildren will have the privilege of growing up "smoke free" because of you! Thank You!

Michael Perley

May 30, 2006

A great lady, full of dignity, courage and determination. We would not have made the progress we have in Ontario without her, and our work will continue to be inspired by her example.

El Taylor

May 30, 2006

"We must be the change we wish to see in the world today". Mahatma Ghandi. Heather's personal and heartfelt work has contributed to making our world a better place!

Karen Chalmers

May 30, 2006

Your story and your continued efforts to bring about changes in tobacco control will not be forgotten.

Michelle

May 30, 2006

Thankyou Heather, you are my inspiration and you have changed the world.

Nancy Wentzell

May 30, 2006

It is because of your legacy that my children will be able to grow up in a tobacco free environment.



Thank you

Isabella Santini

May 29, 2006

Thank you Heather for your courage and committment. It is thanks to people like you that our society will improve. We will continue your legacy in our community.

Lynn Koehler

May 29, 2006

What a tremendous legacy Heather left. To accomplish so much in the face of such challenges is truly remarkable. Please accept my condolences, thoughts and prayers.

Joanne Grier

May 29, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Bonnie Kriz

May 29, 2006

I was lucky enough to meet Heather in Windsor about a year and a half ago. She has been an inspiration to so many and reminds us that we can each make a difference in our world. Thank you Heather for making a difference in my life and that of all Ontarians.

Andrew Pipe

May 29, 2006

All of us owe you a deep debt of gratitude. Your graciousness and determination serve as an example to us all, and your unique contributions to public health are an ongoing source of inspiration. You will be deeply missed, but never forgotten. Thank you for all that you have taught us and for your thoughtful, exemplary leadership.

Toby Green (tobacco free sports)

May 29, 2006

It is your legacy that my children and everyone elses' will grow up in a tobacco free environment. Thank you!

Paulo Senra

May 29, 2006

Your efforts are finally being heard.

Laura Johnston

May 29, 2006

Thank you Heather for your passion and courage. I had the opportunity to meet Heather when she came to Prince George in 2003 to encourage our City Council to pass a smoke-free bylaw. What an incredible woman! We are still working on our City Council and I'm positive one day it will happen. Thank you for all your hard work. You are my inspiration. It's your time to rest and let us continue the work. Bless you!

Cheri Langhofer

May 29, 2006

I too had the pleasure of spending time with Heather when she visited Lethbridge. Her courage and commitment will not be forgotten. She taught so many so much about passion for a cause and she made the world a better place. Sincere sympathy to her family and friends.

Heidi Rathjen

May 29, 2006

Heather Crowe came to Montreal in June 2004 to talk to reporters and meet the Health minister. After the press conference, she joined a bunch of us for lunch. I was on maternity leave and brought my 4-month old daughter. After facing 20 cameras and microphones to talk about her lung cancer, Heather offered to take my little one and spent half the lunch giving her a baby-massage. Not only did Heather have the magic touch with the media, she had it with my baby. What a sweet wonderful woman.

Adrienne Wood

May 29, 2006

Thank you Heather, you are a true inspiration to all. May you rest in peace.

Robin Jaffe-Hopkins

May 28, 2006

Margaret Mead once said:

"A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has".



Thank you to Heather Crowe who proved that Margaret Mead was right. Rest in Peace

Derek Spurdens

May 28, 2006

I was very sad to hear of the passing of Heather,but she will not be forgotten and we should all continue her fight,her pain is gone but not her memory

Lisa Smith

May 28, 2006

Thank you Heather for your crusade.

I know many people who thank you too. Deepest sympathy for your family and friends.

Louise Walker

May 28, 2006

I remember meeting Heather in 2005 at McMaster University. What a lovely, quiet, sweet woman who re-defined the meaning of courage. Thank you for your contribution to the saving of many lives.

Roy Cameron

May 27, 2006

Heather had a reamarkable effect in advancing tobacco control and protecting the health of all Canadians. Since Canada is a world leader in tobacco control, the advances she enabled will benefit people around the world.

Joanne Bédard

May 27, 2006

I was very moved by Heather's ad that was posted in an OC Transpo bus shelter a few years ago. I very much hope that a memorial site with her image and message will be set up in her honour. How selfless and courageous she was to give what she had left of her time on earth to help others the way she did. To me, she is already a Saint. My condolences to her family and friends.

Lorelee Marin

May 27, 2006

I had the priviledge of spending a day with Heather and learned so much from her! She had a passion to make a difference and her personal journey was powerful. To her family, thank you for supporting Heather in her passion, our thoughts and prayers remain with you.

Sera

May 26, 2006

Heather, thank you so much for fighting so hard and for changing so many attitudes. May you have the peace you so richly deserve. We'll keep on fighting.

Joe & Connie Abrook

May 26, 2006

Our sympathy to Heather's family...

we were honored to meet her on her

trip to Saskatchewan several years

ago. She has left a wonderful legacy for all of Canada!!

Jeannie Lea

May 26, 2006

Heather was a wonderful advocate for the fight against tobaccco here in Canada.Her poster has been used in a presentation that is given to every grade six child in our province. These presentations are done by volunteer physicians and they all talk about her story. Thank you to her family for letting Heather do this as she really make a difference for so many Canadians. She will have saved countless lives in losing hers to Lung Cancer caused by second hand smoke.

David Cohen

May 26, 2006

Thanks.

Lorne Korol Canadian Cancer Society

May 26, 2006

God bless your heart Heather. You are an inspiration to us all. Your courage and determination to win the battle against second hand smoke and Big Tobacco will go down in history. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Crowe family.

Murray Gibson

May 26, 2006

Heather's life was our inspiration...knowing her was our privilege.

Lynn Greaves

May 26, 2006

To the family and friends of Heather Crowe - Please accept my deepest sympathies. I met Heather in 2003 when she visited five Saskatchewan communities who were considering passing smoking bylaws. Five bylaws were eventually passed and then provincial legislation. There is no doubt in my mind that your mother's courageous voice was an important factor in mobilizing public support for this important issue. Personally she taught me to listen, speak the truth and never give up. She was a wonderful courageous woman. I miss her.

Mike Amies

May 26, 2006

Heather has set an incredibly fine example - one person can truely make such a huge difference.

Gina Miller

May 26, 2006

My deepest sympathy to Heather's family and friends. She was a true hero in her fight to be heard and a soldier to her cause. Her efforts dug a path for all of us who still fight to make a difference.

She will always be remembered..

Linda Rix

May 26, 2006

Heather Crowe was in inspiration and her legacy will always live on.

Pat Eakins

May 26, 2006

Heather…

Thank you so much for the courage and determination you had to create a healthier environment. We are all indebted to you, as are the generations to come. My thoughts are with your whole family including those you touched so much…the youth

Ken Kyle

May 26, 2006

Condolences to Heather's family members. What a courage was shown in such a great cause! Heather greatly assisted in revolutionizing the prevention of chronic disease in our country.

marilyn heintz

May 26, 2006

heather.

You are wonderful. i think this government should called the smoke free ontario act after you.

marilyn heintz

burlington

Andrew Loughead

May 26, 2006

Out of tragedy has come a wonderful legacy. Rest in peace Heather.

Brad Corbett

May 26, 2006

I only met Heather on one occasion. She was quiet and unassuming but she did not go quietly from this life. Thanks for sharing your story, Heather. We will never know how many lives you saved through your gift.

Hélène Goulet

May 26, 2006

To Heather's family in this time of sorrow:



May the knowledge of everything your mother and grandmother has done to advance the non-smoking cause in this country and around the world give you some comfort in this time of loss and grief. Every time I have been in Heather's presence, I have felt a sense of purpose and calm, an aura of wisdom and spirituality that will be with me for the rest of my life. May God grant you strength and peace!

Susan Shea

May 26, 2006

Rest assured, we'll keep on fighting the fight!!!

Ryan Cotter

May 26, 2006

My deepest sympathies to Heather's family. Heather's strength is an inspiration to all of us.

Dennis Pare

May 26, 2006

My privledge to escort Heather on one of her trips to Windsor. Her determination was inspiring to me and everyone who met her. The genuine concern for others that she exibited so clearly is very rare in today's society. She is a real Canadian heroine.

Norma Padilla

May 26, 2006

My deepest sympathy to Heather's family.

Thank you Heather for your endless dedication fighting against tobacco and second hand smoke. We have lost a true Canadian Hero.



God bless you Heather!

Gord Smith

May 26, 2006

Some people leave their mark, Heather left us clean air. We all breathe easier for having known, or known of, her. Thank you for your sacrifice in your last years.

Richard Kokovai

May 26, 2006

Pattie and Jodie,

My deepest sympathies in Heather’s loss. Take comfort in knowing that millions of people in Canada and around the world share your sense of loss, for Heather’s quest truly knew no boundaries. Despite knowing this day would come, I know it still wasn’t easy to finally say good bye. But I also know that the strength and courage Heather showed over the last four years also courses through your veins, and will help you through the difficult days ahead. She was very proud of you both.

Linda Bond

May 26, 2006

May your family be comforted by the knowledge that Heather has left the world a better place. Rest in Peace your pain has gone!

Lola Dubé-Quibell

May 26, 2006

Margaret Mead said it best: "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." Heather and her fellow advocates certainly have shown that this is a truism. Do not doubt that the fight will go on....

Pippa Beck

May 26, 2006

Heather was a an extraordinary fighter right until her untimely end. We as Canadians can feel grateful and lucky to have had someone like Heather in our midst, standing up for our rights to a healthy workplace. She may be gone, but she will never be forgotten.

John McMeekin

May 26, 2006

A hero to those who remain

Fran Perkins

May 25, 2006

Heather has been a true inspiration in the ongoing fight for a healthier society. The Smoke Free Ontario Act finally arrives, and Heather's courage to speak out will not be forgotten.

Richard Stanwick

May 25, 2006

A truly great person, a truly great loss.

Tiana Tilli

May 25, 2006

I would like to thank Heather for all the work she did towards making a smoke free Ontario. She was and still is a wonderfull role model to all especially myself and my school's exposé group.

Veda Peters

May 25, 2006

She made a difference - in laws to protect workers from secondhand smoke, in lives of those who quit because of her and in the lives of all who heard her message. Such a legacy will long be remembered as Heather will be. My condolences.

Sarah Ogilvie

May 25, 2006

"He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more presnet than the living man."

-Antoine de Saint Exupery



This cannot be more true for Heather. As a student, I thank her for giving me the chance to grow up in a smoke-free environment. I know what it's like to lose a loved one, so I hope this comes as a comfort.



"It is not all of life to live, nor yet all of death to die. For life and death are one, and only those who will consider the experience as one may come to understand what peace indeed means."

-Edgar Cayce

Patricia Rivest

May 25, 2006

Emily Dickson wrote, "If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; if I can ease one life the aching, or cool one pain, or help one fainting robin unto his nest again, I shall not live in vain"



Well Heather, you did all this --- YOU MADE A BIG DIFFERENCE!! You were and are a blessing in our lives!



Thnk you from my children and grandchildren and the generations to follow.

Ryan Chang

May 25, 2006

As a recent recepient of the Heather Crowe Award, I am honoured and grateful to be recongized by the Ministry of Health Promotion in taking leadership in tobacco control. It is incredible the impact she has left upon youth. Recently our school, Turner Fenton also sold 100 ribbons as part of the Black & White Ribbon Campaign, as a provincial-wide effort in tribute to Heather Crowe. She continues to inspire me, as this week has been surreal for me, having her leave this world and in the same week, I was honoured as a smoke-free advocate, continuing her message of Smoke-Free Ontario. Thank you, Heather!

Dylan Armstrong

May 25, 2006

Hello!!!



my name is dylan and i am 14 years old... i attend st.matthew high school where i am apart of the exposé... I would like to send my full appreciation and gratitude to Heathers Whole family... You don't even have the slightest idea on how much Heather has impacted my life for of course to better... in the last year i have learned soo much and i have learned how much heather has impacted everyones life really and i think its fair to say that Heather is a modern day hero... well i know she is and will always be my hero... i would like to send my best wishes to Heathers family.. i too know what its like to loose a loved one to smoking related illness' but because of Heather i may never have to experience that feeling again.. and for that i would like to say... Thank You ..

you will always be with me... and i think now your message has been sent and its my pleassure to say... rest in peace...

Anne de Vocht

May 25, 2006

My deepest sympathy to Heather's family.

I had the pleasure of working and know Heather on a personnel base. Heather and I worked together in the early 80's at the Pepper Mill.

We didn't stay in touch as everyone went different ways, but for some reason Heather was one person I always thought of.

I always wondered where she was and how she was doing. I need not wonder anymore.

You will always be remembered.

Tristene Villanyi Bokor

May 25, 2006

Heather was truly an inspiration for all young and old.

A legend was created and one that many people will never forget.

Heather rarley stopped fighting to be the last person to die of second hand smoke, and never stopped educating high school students, or those even younger.

A true Hero and personally a role model.

Thank you Heather for everything you have done, and Rest in Peace.

Kim Hiscott

May 25, 2006

My condolences on the passing of your Mother, I too remember Heather from her days at the Newport, she was always a cheerful, friendly person. How fortunate we are that she fought so hard for a smoke-free Ontario.

Sylvie Diane Alletson

May 25, 2006

My deepest sympathy to Healther's family. Because of Heather, Canada is a better place to live in, to work in. You have left us a legacy never to be forgotten, much more than the fight for smoke-free workplaces; the courage to step up and make a difference to better the lives of others. You have my appreciation and my admiration. Thank you Heather!

Bob D'auray

May 25, 2006

Heather came to Prince George BC to help us in our battle to make our city smoke-free. She was quite ill at the time and her trip took a lot out of her. She has left a lasting memory in our hearts.

Josée Ducharme

May 25, 2006

To Heather’s family:



My sincerest condolence to you all for the lost of your Mother, Grandmother, friend. Upon seeing the first ad several years ago I knew then that it would affect us all, which in turn has. People listened; acted upon it she has made a difference.

Heather was one determined lady in addition of being dedicated to effects of second-hand smoke. Once again I am very sorry for loss.



Josée Ducharme

Linda

May 25, 2006

May your legacy be comfort for your family

Carla Parkinson

May 25, 2006

To Heather's Family,

I had the honour of meeting Heather a couple years back and was encouraged by her humility, motivation, and courage to help others through her difficult circumstances. May her work and dreams come to fruition,

Jill Courtemanche

May 25, 2006

Thousands of youth in this country work in the hospitality sector to put themselves through school. As a parent of 2 daughters who are now safer because of your dying efforts, I and all other Canadian parents, owe you a tremendous debt of gratitude. As a Public Health Nurse I recognize that all the staff and funding in the world could not have had the impact that you chose to have. Thank you.

Anne Meloche

May 25, 2006

Heather has paved the way for those of us working in tobacco control. She has demonstrated how one person can make a big difference. It is up to all of us to continue Heather's work so that her wish comes true....that she's the last person to die from second-hand smoke in Canada. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. She will be missed, but certainly not forgotten.

Stacey Berisavac

May 25, 2006

What we do in life will echo into eternity....

Thank you Heather for your endless dedication, passion and strength.

Emily Mongeau

May 25, 2006

You were and always will be an inspiration to everyone for the work you have done to fight for what you believe in.

Bonnie Polych

May 25, 2006

I hope it is a comfort to family and friends in this time of sorrow to know that Heather has helped so many people through her courageous work and campaign against second hand smoke.

LInda Belton

May 25, 2006

Thank you so much for being a wonderful role model

Carmela Graziani

May 25, 2006

My deepest condolences to Heather's family and friends. I am saddened that we have lost a true Canadian hero. I so admired her strength and courage. Senator Mac Harb has put forward a Smoke-Free Canada motion. Let's carry on with Heather's work and urge the House of Commons and the Senate to unanimously pass a law to protect all Canadians from second-hand smoke. This would be a beautiful tribute to Heather. Let's make her dream come true.

jason cranny

May 25, 2006

A true champion for a haelthier Ontario.

John Garcia

May 25, 2006

Heather's courage and determination will continue to inspire our efforts toward making our shared vision of a smoke-free Canada a reality. Heather will be missed, but never forgotten.

Tracey Keffer-Lyon

May 25, 2006

Thank-you Heather for fighting for a Smoke Free Ontario. You will be sadly missed but your message will carry on forever.

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