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Sgt. Maj. Bob Girouard
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Bob Girouard Obituary
Girouard, a father of three from Bathurst, N.B., was 46 years old.
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2013
For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013
Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more
May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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Roger Borchert
November 6, 2013
We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013
For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today
We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Roger Borchert
March 30, 2013
My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.
Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2012
For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012
Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you
Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 11, 2012
For Remembrance Day 2012
Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day
We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2011
For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011
The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Roger Borchert
December 24, 2010
For the Families, loved ones, friends of or Fallen This Christmas 2010
Looking back, on childhood’s days
When wonder set the sails
And all imagined could come to life
Within thoughts, dreams as they played
When Santa rode a sleigh one eve
In every coming year
And magic taught sweet dreams to fly
To rooftops every where
Now sitting wishing Christmas Eve
Looking off into the night
Pleading for a shooting star
Enhance this wish with all their might
A wish for just a Christmas hug
From a soldier no longer here
No longer in our earthly world
Held close now, within near
The hearts of those who’ve felt such pain
At the loss of a hero’s life
A hero who stepped forth for all
Bring this hero close this night
As tears once more roll down a cheek
Another endless, sleepless night
Let our Lord brush close a warming hug
Of your loved one, bring them near
A gentle breeze, fond memories’ bring
To hold them ever dear
Wishing the magic of Christmas could bring the smiles, the hugs and the warmth of your loved one, into your home for Christmas. Ever in our hearts and always remembered. May our Lord bless you this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Maryann lavigne
December 12, 2010
Miss you daily and think of you always there;s no-one to keep me in line like you did..I swear when Jasmine is in her room alone and laughing for no apparent reason she is laughing with you...Love your sister Maryann
Jocelyn Ranger
December 11, 2010
We see much of you in the faces of your grandchildren who never got to meet you. They are your legacy. We will strive to make you proud for the rest of our lives. You can rest in peace knowing that we will forever remember your sacrifice and continue to live with love, respect, and integrity; in your honor. Miss you. Love you.
Daddy's little girl forever.
Ben Walsh
December 11, 2010
Thank You Bob for your fine work as a Canadian Soldier. Yes, you will be a shining star beside my son "JEFF" Guide our Troops to Safety. Peace be with you and your Family. God Bless.
Ben and Margie Walsh
Jacqueline Girouard
December 11, 2010
Dear Bob,
I am laying here trying to figure why I am still so sad....you have been gone for four years now and we will be spending another Xmas without you maybe that is it or maybe I am just really sad now because I still don't know how to move on. You would be so proud of your children, they are doing very well but still miss you some thing awful! You would also be so proud of your military family...they have so been there for us and the Canadian people have so honored the fallen. I must go now, just wanted to say how much we love you and miss you still!
Roger Borchert
November 1, 2010
Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.
They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave
By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert
April 3, 2010
As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone
They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice
By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2009
To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas
The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile
By Roger Borchert
We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 27, 2009
Thank You Chief Warrant Officer Robert Girouard for all your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place. Thinking of you today on this the third anniversary of your loss to your family, friends, and fellow soldiers. May you R.I.P.
jacqueline Girouard
November 25, 2009
Dear Bob, today would be your 29th birthday and we miss you so much!
Life will never be the same but we are trying really hard to move forward.
Love You and Miss You!
Roger Borchert
November 6, 2009
In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day
For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live
By Roger Borchert
So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
Roger Borchert
April 8, 2009
Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.
We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you
Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.
Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 31, 2008
For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes
May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see
May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.
Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 20, 2008
For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.
I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside
Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you
I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory
I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye
I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near
As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near
May our Lord be near you all.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 6, 2008
In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:
There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.
We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost
Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
October 4, 2008
With a heavy heart stepping forth
Please forgive me when I say
That I let you down in the past
In not a little way
I did not write to let you know
Just how much I cared
For the sacrifice you’ve given
For so many in despair
You stepped forth and joined our forces
Laid your life upon the line
To bring about a safer world
A new world in our time
Fellow soldiers friends and families
And those you held so dear
Still think of you most everyday
For us others it’s not so clear
We must slow down and take the time
Understand how great the cost
For if not placed in front of us
Can we comprehend the loss
Sometimes we’re just so very shy
Or we don’t know what to say
Or do not want to interfere
Or seem superficial in any way
I can no longer withhold my thoughts
I have to pass them on
For it breaks my heart just thinking of
All those left to carry on
Please know that you are in my prayers
Will be there for years to come
Know that you are in my thoughts
For the efforts you have done
Oh yes there is that special day
To remember not to forget
Those who’ve paid the greatest price
We can never repay this debt
Sgt. Maj. Bob Girouard we knew you not, but our prayers reach out for you, your loved ones, friends, and fellow soldiers. We do, so dearly, thank you and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.
The Borchert Family Slave Lake Albera
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Janet Maxwell
January 2, 2008
Jackie and family
I just completed FIFTEEN DAYS by Christie Blanchford and I became far more acquainted with Bobs story through the book. The little details of the life Bob shared with Jackie and his family were all there as well as his steady and professional conduct in theatre. A fitting tribute to a fine man and his fine family. I am sorry for your loss.
Jackie Girouard
December 2, 2007
Hi, to everyone who wrote on Bobs quest book "thank you". I can not believe a year is up and I have not come close to dealing with Bobs loss, I am doing all kinds of things too keep busy but I know I need to face it all soon and that will be so hard. I have been spinning quite a bit and that speeding ticket I got yesterday did slow me down a bit . The real test will be when I move in the new house I bought in Pet and actually stay put and use it. I have not cooked or rested in a year,and will need you guys to help me. Kelly you promised to lock me in if need be and sleep over because I don't want to be alone. Life sucks because nothing I do in my life can make this OK.I am havind a bad day as you can see but thanks for the letters they do help. My trip to Afghanistan was really good for me,I had no feelings in my body till I got there, my body was more shut down than I knew and I am not sure I like not being numb but like my good friends say life does go on. I have a feeling for me the second year will be worst , I have a son and son in law going over and not having Bob at my side to help calm my fears will be hard , I will need you guys even more. Thanks again for all the love sent our way,it means the world. Also we have two grand babies on the way, congrats Jocelyn and Eric and also congrats to Robert and Jen. Bob would have been a great grandfather so it is bitter sweet.Every one says it will help me,it does make me happy thinking of thier arrival,have a good day everyone,with love Jackie.
Tony & Andrea Bernier
November 27, 2007
Jackie, Robert, Jocelyn and Michel,
Just a note to let you know we think of all of you and Bob often. You are all in our thoughts today.
Kathy & Brent Crellin
November 27, 2007
Jackie and family:
Just a quick note to let you know that Brent and I are thinking of you today. Bob was a wonderful man, RSM and soldier. He is dearly missed by all.
Mary ann Lavigne
November 25, 2007
I can't believe it's allready a year, we still miss you as much and love you as much. I also want to wish you a happy birthday for on the 25th..Love your family Maryann (sister in law) kevin,samantha(goddaughter)and Jasmine.
Paulette Tedford
November 17, 2007
Hi Jackie,
You have been on our minds lately and we want you to know we will never forget you or Bob.We got through our first year and Remembrace Day and have found the strength to go on.Time does not lessen the pain just makes it more bearable.Take care of yourself and your family.We hope to see you next spring/summer.
God bless
Robin & Paulette Tedford
Krist Thomson
November 12, 2007
hi this is krist thomson i think it is really coool that you went to that place you will be missed
Claudette Boucher-McKee
November 11, 2007
Dear Jackie and Family,
It is on this very important day that we remember the fallen soldiers who have given so much for our country. I wanted to let you know that my thoughts of you and Bobby were not far from my mind today.
I saw a photo of you on the internet getting ready to place a wreath. It has been too long to since I have seen you in person, and seeing your photo made me more aware of that than ever.
Our thoughts and prayers are sent to you and your family on this difficult day.
I will call you soon,
All of our love,
Claudette Boucher-McKee, Justin Bernier, Roy McKee and Adam McKee
Nikita Kendall
October 10, 2007
Dear Reader,
I wanted to inform you that our school Father J.A. Turcotte is having a school celebration for Remembrance Day. We decided to do a little project and I was assigned Sgt. Maj. Bob Girouard. I just wanted to say that we remember him, and his time served.
Thank you, Nikita.
Rest in peace.
Bob DePape
October 2, 2007
Living a life style of a military family you see friends come and go from base to base and sometimes it is hard to stay in touch. Year ago when we met, we shared some good times and had some fun. You and Bobby have influenced my life in the best of ways and I regret no keeping the lines of communications open. Jackie, I feel your pain and greive with you and your family. God Bless
Peter
August 26, 2007
Dear Jackie
I deeply regret your loss of both your husband and friend Bob, he was a very strong and courageous man and was respected by all that met or knew him.
I am so sorry for this late entry; I just became aware of this book.
I first met both you and Bob in 1989, Bob was a Sgt. in RECCE PL with me, I was new to the military, and was about to be married. I have never forgotten the time you both stopping by and spoke with us. It was very thoughtful, and to this day I still value the advice you gave us. Yes, Bob was a very strong and courageous man; but I always felt he got that strength from you. You both changed the lives of others, just from what you said, how you both enjoyed life and how you both loved each other.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Kelly Dove
August 21, 2007
Jackie, my love goes out to you. We have become so close over this past year through such a tragic cause, but I am glad that we are together helping each other through. I am uplifted by our friendship and I think that I would'nt be able to do it without you. You are such a beautiful woman in body and soul.
I remember seeing you and Bob at a mess dinner. The way you both looked into each others eyes, you can see them twinkle in the light and it showed how much Bob loved you and how much you loved Bob, just with that one glance. I still see that twinkle when we sit and talk about him.
I love you Jackie and I am always here for you.
Bob, You have an amazing wife and just by this I know that you are an amazing man as well. I wish that I would have known you better. I thank you for protecting me the day that I brought Rick home, I never got a chance to say that to you before I left. When I saw you on Rememberance day, I didnt want to interrupt your day with your family. It was nice to see you laugh and enjoy everyone around you. That was the last time I saw you and a wonderful way to keep you in my memory.
Thank-You
Jackie Girouard
August 3, 2007
Hi M Osmond and Tamer Khadr, thank you for writing your kind words. All of the guys from Y101 has made this journey bearable. Every one has been so respectful and good to us, I know part of it is because you cared for Bob and that makes me feel so good.I know this has been real hard foreveryone, not just Bobs death but all the troops we have loss. Most of you have gone through so much right along with the families. We have all become different people in the last two years. I see allot of good and I am so proud to know you, you give me strength. I am doing my best too stay stong for Bob, his children,for the families of the fallen and for his extended military family that he so believed in. I love going into Y101 because it feels like home. I feel the warmth from everyone that works in the building.I will miss Bob forever it will take a long time to heal but your kindness does help. Take care everyone and thank you so much for writing in. For the people that write in that we don't even know "thank you" it is very much appreciated. I would also like to give a big thanks to Robert, Jocelyn and Michel for their support, they are my biggest inspiration, you have so much of your dad in you it warms my heart to just be in your presence. To Eric and Jen your support to all of us has been great,with love too all of you, Jackie Girouard.
M Osmond
August 1, 2007
Dear Mrs Girouard, First, thank you for coming in today and telling us about this website - I am sure I will visit it often and pass it on to those who know me. I am not through the first page and already I am in tears - I had the opportunity to meet you at our memorial and it was truly my honour. Your husband, as many have stated before me, was a truly admirable man ... he was "all that and a bag of chips"! I have never met a leader, so personable and so willing to take the time to talk to every soldier that passed him by. I always said that I can't imagine never seeing him at the bottom of the 1 RCR staircase ever again and I think it so fitting that his portrait now hangs on the wall, (although I would move it to a different wall so you can see it everytime you mount those steps).. that is where he stood and my God he was a person to be admired .... I am so sorry for your loss - I know how much we all miss him and you are feeling that a thousand times over ... I do not know you well but please always know that you and your kids are always in my heart and prayers and if you ever, ever need anything at all ... I am here.
Please do take care ...
TAMER KHADR
August 1, 2007
Dear Jackie
I deeply regret your loss of your husband,he was a very strong and courageous man and was respected by all of his men.He gave me great advice when I really needed it and directed me to the right path and that's the path i'm following.So I wish you and your family the best and again I am deeply sorry for your loss and I hope you can put this all behind you.
sincerly
Cpl Khadr
Sandra Martin
July 10, 2007
I am so sorry for this late entry, we were just alerted to this book.
Words cannot express our saddness for your loss. With deepest sympathy for your family, extended family and friends.
Corporal Taylor Kilmartin's Mother and Stepfather, Sandra Martin and Paul Weir.
Paulette Tedford
July 4, 2007
Hi Jackie,
I've been thinking of you today and wondering how you are doing? i enjoyed our Florida trip and miss my Petawawa friends.
It's hard to believe it's July already as time stands still for me.Darcy's bithday is next month; he would have been 33.
I hope you & your family are finding comfort in each other as we are doing.We lost another 6 today & I've been heartsick ever since.May they rest in peace.Stay strong.
Paulette Tedford
Isabelle Couture
June 11, 2007
Jackie, It was a real pleasure to finally meet you in person in Ottawa, your husband was and will be in my thought for the rest of my life, he was a great leader and a good men. He was an inspiration to all who served with him in Afghanistan. I will not forget.
Lorie Leduc (Hollahan)
May 19, 2007
Jackie,
I don't even know how to express my sorrow to you. I am sorry I could not be there for you as you and Bob were for me. I know that he is watching over you and will always be there for you.
You will be in my prayers.
Jim Buffett
May 11, 2007
Even though I only met you once, I am glad that you enjoyed the ride on the bike in Tweed. I am sorry for your loss and I hope your two sons enjoy their bikes as much as I enjoy mine.
Sean Kerr
April 25, 2007
Jackie, I knew Sgt Maj Girouard in Meaford, one of the nicest men I ever met. He went before his time. You have my deepest sympathy.
Laura and Brian Gracie
April 10, 2007
Dear Jackie and Family
Brian and I were shocked and saddened to hear of Bobs passing. Though we have lost contact all these years you have forever been in our thoughts. I can still remember looking across the driveway and waving at you or Bob from your balconey in Germany. I remember watching Bobs hockey games during our stint in Germany with 3 RCR. I remember his smile and his laugh even after all this time. I can only imagine the pain you have all gone through. But know that you are not alone and that many people are here to help you. Should you ever travel to BC, please come and say hello to an old friend.
Judi Hills
March 22, 2007
Hi Jocelyn, At last, I finally found your website (well actually your mom showed me where it was). Its so hard to find the words to write. As each day passes, I still can't manage to get through a day where I don't tear up, or outright cry. I see your dad's face of hear his voice constantly, and even though it makes me so incredibly sad, I never want to lose that...I never want those precious memories of such a wonderful and great man to ever leave my mind. Your dad was and will be for as long as any of us are still here: a true inspiration. He was an admired and respected leader and a very good friend to so many. And he did so with such amazing grace and flair. And anyone who ever knew your dad: whether it be through the military, or on a hockey rink, or sitting by a camp fire, was truly blessed to have known him. I know I feel blessed to have known him, and even though the pain of his loss is so incredibly deep, and seems to renew itself daily, I will carry that pain with me forever if it means keeping his memory alive. I know your dad is keeping an eye out for you guys, and when you feel sad, talk to him, because he is listening.
Judi Hills
p.s. This poem makes me smile...and it is so true.
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Jeff Crawford
February 24, 2007
Jackie was right, Bob is what a man should be! What an amazing leader for all of us (military & civilian) I have always had the highest respect for Bob, and i still hold vivid memories of Bob, Jackie, Jocelyn, Robert & Michel. One word that comes to mind the numerous times i think about Bob and his Family, is PRIDE. What courage the man always displayed. His traits are very much being carried through his family. He will never be forgotten.
Chris Armstrong
February 17, 2007
Sgt maj Girourd was the best boss I ever had. He scared the crap out of me. But every now and then he would just talk to us. It was rare for a sgt major to talk to us, but he did. He was a great man. He will be missed. I am sorry for your loss.
Samantha Bernier
January 30, 2007
You were a great uncle and godfather. I'll never forget all the memories that were created with you aunt jackie robert mike and jocelyn. I'll miss you terribly and love you a lot. I'm proud to be able to call you my uncle and godfather <3
Love & Miss You
Shani Frenette
January 29, 2007
I was shoked to hear the news, never thought it would happen. I had a great time over there last summer with Samantha. It was really a privilege to know you. Your a great person in which I have a lot of respect for. You will be surely missed by all of us. My deepest sympathy for Jackie and the famely, take care.
Rose Marie Couture
January 29, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Scott, Robin, Ethan Paul
January 26, 2007
Hello, I never met Sgt. Maj. Girouard but with reading the other entries he sounds like a kind and trustworthy man, husband and father. Our family would like to pay our respects to a man that lost his life honoring his country.
Amanda Grasse
January 24, 2007
Hey Jackie, JoJo, Robert, and Michael
Wow its been years that i haven't seen ya's. I miss you. When I found out about Bob i was very upset. He was such a Great friend to my family and I. I remeber the good times being with your family and how we were always together. Bob will always be in our hearts and he will be missed! Take care and I hope to see ya's in the future! RIP Bob
Richard Pichler
January 24, 2007
Jocelyn and Jacki,
As you know Myself and my mother had an an amazing experience in Canada. It was made up of lots of little experiences such as sharing good food with good people(yes, that's you guys), and some big ones i.e. going into mock battle on the base with Bob and Omer. Our time spent with yourselves and Bob won't be forgotten and will be looked back upon fondly. It goes with out saying that yourselves and your family and friends have a spot to stay, and good people to share time with if ever you venture across the Pacific.
Sincerely Richard and Lucia Pichler.
Eric Ranger
January 22, 2007
Dear Family: I just wanted to say how proud I am to have the chance to work with CWO Girouard. At work and on the weekends down at the camp, I am very proud of your family to see how strong each and everyone of you are. I wish that I could have gotten to CWO Girouard a lot more before this summers wedding. I look forward to being the best for Jocelyn and to try to live up to his standard not only as a soldier but a father and a family man. I will see you all soon God Bless
Melanie Quirion
January 19, 2007
Dear Jackie, Robert, Jocelyn, Michael, and the ones who share your lives.
As much as I am tempted to say that I am sorry for your loss, I feel that you do not need sorrows, but rather an happiness, at this time. So I will say I'm happy for you that you saw him one last time, I'm happy that you have such fond memories of your loved one, and I'm happy that you can learn and grow from such a tragic moment. As many have said, it is the hardest moment you will probably have to live, but do remember, that it will only make you stronger.
You are all great people, and can all say you have lived a proud and loving journey, and only let this moment make you love even more, and make you more proud.
I know that you support each other in outstanding ways, and it's amazing to watch you all together. It warms my heart everytime I see you, even when I think of you from way over here.
I would love to say that I knew Bob very well, unfortunately, I cannot, but I can say that what I did know of him, way back when, and this past summer, is that he is a loving and caring man, and every person he crossed paths with, he made a special spot for in his heart. You all share this quality, and it is an amazing feeling that you pass on to others. We (Andrew and I) very strongly felt this feeling last summer, and I am greatful to have had the chance to see him once again, even if only for a brief moment.
My love and support to all of you, and know that I am here for you, anytime, anywhere!
Laurie Misener
January 18, 2007
Dear Jackie, Robert, Joccelyn and Michael
I am sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you all. Nothing anyone says, or does will bring him back. I know its hard for you to go on with your lives. But you will, cause he is right there with you every step you take. He is also in your hearts. You also have great memories of him, they will live on forever.
Bob was an awsome,honest, devoted and funny man. He loved what he did. He was like a father to me. Someone I could turn to when times were tuff. He taught me many things and I learned alot from him. He was a caring man, always cared for me, wanted to know what I was up to, or how I was doing. Always joking around with me or bugging me about something. (like having a dirty car). I know it came from his heart.
Jackie, Robert, Jocelyn and Michael, Bob loved all you so much for who you are, he was proud of you all.
May God be with you and help you through the ruff, sad and good times of yourlives.
Cheri Catcher and Family
January 15, 2007
Jocelyn,
I'm very sorry to hear about you losing your Dad. I hope you, your Mom, and bothers are hanging in. I know you were never really ready for this day, but I also know you're a very strong family.
I didn't know your Dad the best, but respected him still, he was hard to not respect, even when your 16 and don't want to listen to anyone.
I hope you all know that there are many people out there who may not be able to be pyhsically by your side during this time, but are still with you very much.
Just know that if you need to talk, cry or anything else, you can always call.
Jeff Crawford
January 13, 2007
Bob was certainly one of my greatest role models, from day 1 as a softball coach... all the way through hockey.
I still hear his coaching advice over my shoulder. He had a way of bringing the best out of people. He has passed that skill on very much through Jackie, Robert, Jocelyn & Michel. I will see you all again soon. The distance between our families has been forever shortened. We will always be here for you.
I consider the Girouards a extention of my own family, I always have, and forever will.
Kalen Reif
January 13, 2007
Jocelyn and family...
I am a friend of Jocelyn's from high school. Hearing the tragic loss of your father just broke my heart. You are a wonderful friend, Jocelyn. I know we have not seen each other since high school... I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts, warmth and love are being sent to you and your family. May you shine down in your father's glory, smile for each and every day and always keep the memories close to the heart. With every heart that beats, always remember every precious memory and may you all be forever protected. A Guardian Angel that will now protect your souls. I am forever thinking of you all, I am so sorry for your loss. Let this make you grow by understanding all what life has to offer and the challenges that come along to. I give you all my love.
Jocelyn Girouard
January 12, 2007
To all of you who have signed this guest book and have offered your condolances; I thank you on behalf of myself and the girouard family. My father was proud to call you his military family and we are humbled by your friendship and support. My father would be happy to know that we have been taken care of.
I would like to offer my goodbyes to my father and a little piece of him as I saw him for all to know. He will be sorely missed. As much as we miss him, we are so proud of everything he did and cannot begin to express our appreciation of his sacrifice along with all those others who have served and died for their country.
With all my love
Jocelyn
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Hey Daddy,
There are no words I can write that fully express how much I miss you. I am sad and angry that you are gone. I am not angry because I believe you died in vain, you died loving what you did and believeing that what you and your men did made a difference. I whole heartedly believe all of you did make a difference. I am just a little bit angry that God took you away from us when some of us were just starting to get to really know you.
I am eternally grateful that I was able to know you as an adult and I'm glad that you were home to see all of us happy before you left. I just don't know how we will all make decisions without you. We graded every person and gauged every decision we made on your opinion. You saved me on more than one occasion. We may not have always known what exactly you were thinking, especially when you simply shook your head in that way you did, but we all knew we wanted to be just like you. You and mom are our role models.
You probably know how much attention you've been getting, you probably wouldn't have liked it, but you deserve it. If I could do just one thing in my life that could even come close to being compared with everything you have accomplished, I'd be a happy woman. I don't know how I can get married without you in August or how I can create a life for myself without your guidance, I just want you to be proud. I know you had to go for a yet undefined reason and that God is taking care of you, just know that we love you and miss you and are desparately trying to understand your loss so you can rest in peace.
your baby girl forever
Jocelyn
I know you brought my poem with you but I would like you to have it here.
Dear Daddy
I did not believe them,
When they told me you were gone.
It did not feel real.
It felt so, so wrong.
God took you away from us,
Without seeming to care.
Your family needs you Daddy
It does not seem fair.
We are not revengeful,
We are not even cross.
We just feel so sad
Because your presence has been lost
Yes, you will be with us.
Yes, your memories remain.
It just doesn't seem worth it,
Not seeing you march off that plane.
We'll miss you forever,
But you will miss so much.
How can we live without you;
Without your support, your love, your touch?
We need you Daddy.
We are not ready to go on.
Even though you taught us well,
We are not that brave, not that strong.
You were a soldier, lover, father, and friend.
We are so proud of everything you do.
We will try to live just like you,
To your memory we will be true.
It's just so hard to believe that you are gone
You can't be gone for good.
You had been our rock for so long,
That our family has been unglued.
Don't feel bad for leaving us.
Think of us with pride.
We'll be ok without you,
We may just have a really hard time.
Think of us, wherever you may be.
We will think of you with love.
We'll remember that you are free,
And you died for all of us.
Written by Jocelyn Girouard, Daughter of CWO Robert Girouard
Sherry Lynn Rodgers
January 7, 2007
To the Girouard Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Although I did not know your family, I knew your husband well. He was a great man and a wonderful leader who made every soldier feel important no matter what trade. It was an honour to work with him and he will be forever missed.
Sherry Lynn Rodgers
Med Tech, 1 RCR
Kelly Dove
December 30, 2006
Jackie;
There is nothing I can say that you havent already heard. Just know that my prayers are with you and your family. I am here for you always and forever. Remember...any time, any place.
Mary Josey
December 30, 2006
Jackie and family, you are such inspirations. Even though you are suffering you are reaching out to help others who have lost their loved ones. I feel privileged to have you as a friend, Jackie.
Jackie Girouard
December 30, 2006
Thank you so much for all the best wishes. We are still dealing with our loss but because he tought us so well he is still leading the way.Our children have been amazing through this dificult time, he would be so proud. Our hearts are broken but also filled with pride and I am in awe of this man.Our soldiers are very special and our hearts are with them in Afghanistan,I am praying that Bob is in heaven keeping them safe.I have my own special angel and we will meet again,love you Bob. Thank you again to our families and to our Military family.
Maryann Lavigne
December 29, 2006
To a man I truely considered my brother you will be missed now and forever.
Kathy Crellin
December 18, 2006
Jackie, MIchel, Rob Jr and Jocelyn:
First, please accept my apologies for signing this so late. Next, as most have said, keep your memories of Bob close to your heart. They will fill you with joy and pride. He was a wonderful RSM, so respected by all ranks and the spouses that got to know him.
He will be sorely missed by the regimental family as well as you! As Charmaine said, you're not alone. We will be here for you Jackie, as well as your children. Anytime you need a hug, or to talk, don't hesitate to talk to any of us!!
Janet Bishop
December 18, 2006
My sincerest condolences on the death of a True Canadian Hero. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. My family, like yours, is also trying to deal with the loss of my brother, Sgt Craig Gillam on October 3. Cherish the great memories and keep them close at heart.
Janet Bishop & Chris White
Charmaine Tedford
December 16, 2006
Jackie and family,
You know that no words I can say will ever ease your pain. Just know that you do not walk this path alone. Bob's spirit will be with you for as long as you need him. Your memories will bring you comfort. His strength will become your strength. Just remember that you are strong and when you need a hug, you know where to find me. We will make the journey together.
Alexander Quinn
December 10, 2006
A truly good and great man.I know I will always be grateful for what he taught me and with the charity he showed me.
Chris McGraw
December 10, 2006
My condolences to the family. Now it truly has 'hit close to home'. Still can't believe it.
Barry and Sandy mellish
December 10, 2006
To Family of Bob Girouard,
Our hearts are so heavy for you and your family. What a tremendous loss to a family, country, and serving brothers and sisters.
We learned of Bob's death and our hearts sank yet again, for on 3rd September 2006 we lost on this tour of duty our beautiful son, husband and Dad of two beautiful boys - WO Frank Mellish who worked with Bob at 1RCR.
We continue to be so shocked and saddened at the number of casualties that our military is experiencing in Afghanistan. For us, we will always ask the reason why?
Sadly, as you too will learn, every time there is another casualty, one re-lives their own loss and horrors all over again and we grive with the families of those lost. A loss so close to your heart you could almost reach out and touch it.
Frank's wife (widow) Kendra, also a serving member, worked with Bob at HQ and SIGS, Frank at 1RCR. She was telling me what a great guy he was and many good things about him.
Although we did not know him personally, being now grieving Parents, we share with you, the grief and pain that you are, and will continue to experience.
Please know that our entire family sends our most heartfelt sympathy and also know that our thoughts and prayers are with you now and into the future. May the gift of memory keep him forever close. And may the Good Lord Bless and Keep You, Always.
We heard, and were glad to know that you had some time with him while he was home leave. Thank God for such mercies.
God Bless You All,
Sandy and Barry Mellish
Kendra Mellish & Family
December 9, 2006
Dear Jackie & Family,
It is with a heavy heart that I extend this message of condolence. My husband WO Frank Mellish (KIA 03 Sep 2006) had nothing but respect and admiration for your husband. Know that you are not alone. Your in our prays.
Pro Patria
Marg & Jed Gale
December 8, 2006
So sorry for your loss. This is one most difficult times you will ever have to endure. Sgt. Craig Gillam was my nephew and he loss his life too. My hearts are with you all. Be brave and strong.
Cindy Septon and family
December 7, 2006
Nothing anyone will say at this time is going to make this any easier for you. Please keep in mind there are many out there, including my family that have you in our hearts and prayers. We lost my brother, Sgt Craig Gillam in Afghanistan on Oct 3rd. Let your good memories of a brave man help you through this.
Wayne Donovan
December 7, 2006
I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to the Girouard family for there loss I remember Bob as a hockey coach and all around nice guy I would like to say to that he will be missed but never forgotten
Cheryl Daigle
December 7, 2006
Jackie,
I can't find the words to express my deepest sympathy for you and your family. You and Bob helped ease the pain when we (Tedford family) were experiencing our darkest hour. With being in the military, everyone that I talk to have nothing but respect and admiration for your husband. Not only in his regement but throughout the base. He will never be forgotten. His spirit lives within you and your children.
Paulette Tedford
December 7, 2006
Dear Jackie & family,
It seems like only yesterday Robin & I met you and Bobby. Little did we dream we would be returning words of sympathy to your family. We want you to know how much it meant to us for the comfort you gave to Charmaine & our family. Especially the Crystals Bobby brought back for Charmaine. The brief time we spent together showed us a remarkable man.We shall never forget him.He and Darcy are in Heaven smiling down on us and inspecting halos & harps. I can almost hear the coversation! God bless them both and all the other brave soldiers.Till we all meet again.
love & prayers
Robin & Paulette
December 7, 2006
Jackie and family,
There is no words that can describe how deeply saddened my husband and I were to hear the news about the loss of Bobby. Do believe that he will be remembered as a true hero who gave the supreme sacrifice for the sake of our freedom.
We will be forever grateful of the day he brought back the crystal for Charmaine and the girls. We will never forget his kind heart and loving soul.
May God wrap His loving arms around you and your family and hope that it will give you strength and comfort you need in the days ahead.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. With deepest sympathy,
Isabelle Meunier and Jody Tedford
Danielle Girouard
December 7, 2006
My most sincere condolences to Bobby’s family and friends.
May God keep touching your hearts with his love and always remember....
From your cousin from Bouctouche New Brunswick
December 6, 2006
Our prayers are with you.
A/SLt Anthea Banks
December 6, 2006
A true Canadian hero. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
J Hirshberg
December 6, 2006
I worked in Meaford for one summer and Mr. Girouard's reputation for his unique style preceded my arrival. His memory will live on in all those who had the honour to serve with him.
Francisco RG
December 6, 2006
Sgt Maj Bob Girouard was very well respected, I did not have the privilege to know the man, however I knew of him and his dedication to the service and to his soldiers
Susan Reid
December 6, 2006
Sgt. Maj. Bob Girouard's death is a devasting loss to his family, his friends, his fellow soldiers, and to all who had the privilage to know him. As a nurse who worked on the same base for a short time, I observed, and I will always remember him as a strong, confident and compassionate leader. My prayers and those of my children, who attend the same school as Sgt.Maj.Girouard's son, are with your family in this time of sorrow.
JP Martin
December 5, 2006
My prayers are with you.
Corporal Ben Montrose
December 5, 2006
Sergeant Major Girouard was a man who was held in high regard by his superiors, peers, and subordinates. He was respected by those that knew him personally, as well as, those who did not. Mister Girouard was someone that was honourable, disciplined, and maintained a life of integrity. He is someone that in my view is the epitome of what a non-commissioned member of his rank should be. In life, he laid forth an example to be emulated. In case you didn’t know it, when he spoke you (his family), it always brought a smile to his face. He will be missed. His legacy will live on through those who’s lives he touched. Deepest sympathy is felt for your family’s loss.
Lisa Janes and Family
December 5, 2006
To the Girouard Family:
We are heartbroken to hear about your loss. It is such a tragedy that these great soldiers have been taken away from us. We understand the difficult time you are going through right now as I have recently lost my brother, Sgt. Craig Gillam, in Afghanistan as well.
They are brave men and fought for what they believed in and will always be remembered as heros. There is not much anyone can say at a time like this to take away the pain, but please know that you are not alone. My heart goes out to your family as we mourn together for our lost loved ones.
C/RSM Stephen Gallard CD
December 5, 2006
A Rgmt Sgt Major is a troop who has risen to the top for being the best of the best.They reflect the truest nature of any Rgmt and are the soldiers soldier and an anchor for Officer and NCO alike. The fact he died out front showed his dedication and loyalty to his troops. His loss to a unit is great. May God be with all who know him, and may his leadership live on in those he has molded with his expertise. RSM you have done your duty over and over,rest in heaven knowing you will continue to be a prescence in those who loved and followed you.
God Guard Thee
CMO Frontiersmen
The Beers Family
December 5, 2006
To Jackie and Family:
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you and yours in your time of grief. May all your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead. Remember Bob will always be with you in your Heart.
Terry & Susan
Veronika Danilenko
December 5, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to the family. He was an awesome person and a leader who will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace
David and Sandy Finamore and Family
December 4, 2006
We would like to extend our deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Sgt Girouard for you great loss. Take care of each other and know that our family and our country grieve with you.
From the family of a new medic stationed at Base Petawawa.
Diane & Michael Simmons
December 3, 2006
Our heartfelt sympathy to the family,friends and commrades of Sgt. Maj. Girouard. As a retired military family and daughter of a soldier killed in Europe in WW2 we are well aware of the sacrifices made by our military family. We proudly display the "Support Our Troops" license plate cover/magnetic Yellow Ribbon on our car. May God keep you in the palm of His hand until you meet again.
Diane & Michael Simmons (Ret'd Army)
Cal & Irene (Gillam) Carter
December 3, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time
Gaetan Dallaire
December 3, 2006
Our hearts and prayers are with you during these sad times. The heroes can never be replaced and they will never be forgotten.
Parents of Pte Kevin Dallaire.
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