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Anthony Joseph Boneca
Anthony Joseph Boneca
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Anthony Boneca Obituary
Boneca, a reservist with the 1 Princess Patricia's Canadian Light Infantry battle group, was killed as troops were pushing through an area near the village of Pashmol that has been a hotbed of Taliban activity over the past few months.
An infantry soldier, Boneca came to Afghanistan with the battle group early last winter. He was to return to Canada next month.
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2013
For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013
Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more
May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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November 10, 2013
Dear Anthony
It's been many years since you have been gone. I miss you so much . I know I will see you up in heaven. Anthony, to this day
2013 you gave me something that I still can hang on to. You gave me your touch. The ice fishing rod belongs to (Chris) which to this day "Frodo" plays with. It's still all attached to that toy you had put on. Frodo goes up and down the stairs with it .He actuly
carries it when he's lonely or wants attentions. I belevie you are with us. Always , we love you and miss you.Love Always
Dear to My
Heart ...Auntie Barbie XX00
November 10, 2013
We miss yo so so much Anthony
We will alway love you , Your angel is looking after you . Your at peace . You know Anthony , we will be with you one day love always Auntie Barb
I miss you so much
God Bless You
I pray you are at peace...
Love your forever...
Roger Borchert
November 8, 2013
We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013
For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today
We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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July 9, 2013
You are still missed Tony.
Roger Borchert
March 30, 2013
My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.
Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2012
For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012
Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you
Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 11, 2012
For Remembrance Day 2012
Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day
We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2011
For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011
The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Roger Borchert
December 24, 2010
For the Families, loved ones, friends of or Fallen This Christmas 2010
Looking back, on childhood’s days
When wonder set the sails
And all imagined could come to life
Within thoughts, dreams as they played
When Santa rode a sleigh one eve
In every coming year
And magic taught sweet dreams to fly
To rooftops every where
Now sitting wishing Christmas Eve
Looking off into the night
Pleading for a shooting star
Enhance this wish with all their might
A wish for just a Christmas hug
From a soldier no longer here
No longer in our earthly world
Held close now, within near
The hearts of those who’ve felt such pain
At the loss of a hero’s life
A hero who stepped forth for all
Bring this hero close this night
As tears once more roll down a cheek
Another endless, sleepless night
Let our Lord brush close a warming hug
Of your loved one, bring them near
A gentle breeze, fond memories’ bring
To hold them ever dear
Wishing the magic of Christmas could bring the smiles, the hugs and the warmth of your loved one, into your home for Christmas. Ever in our hearts and always remembered. May our Lord bless you this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
Amy DeCorte
November 11, 2010
I miss you Tony. I'm so proud of everything you stood for. Thank you my sweet brother. xoxo
Lest We Forget
Roger Borchert
November 1, 2010
Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.
They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave
By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert
April 3, 2010
As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone
They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice
By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2009
To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas
The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile
By Roger Borchert
We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 7, 2009
In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day
For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live
By Roger Borchert
So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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July 13, 2009
Tony we think of you always, you will never be forgotten
Roger Borchert
April 8, 2009
Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.
We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you
Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.
Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 31, 2008
For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes
May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see
May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.
Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 20, 2008
For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.
I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside
Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you
I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory
I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye
I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near
As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near
May our Lord be near you all.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 5, 2008
In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:
There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.
We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost
Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
September 28, 2008
With a heavy heart stepping forth
Please forgive me when I say
That I let you down in the past
In not a little way
I did not write to let you know
Just how much I cared
For the sacrifice you’ve given
For so many in despair
You stepped forth and joined our forces
Laid your life upon the line
To bring about a safer world
A new world in our time
Fellow soldiers friends and families
And those you held so dear
Still think of you most everyday
For us others it’s not so clear
We must slow down and take the time
Understand how great the cost
For if not placed in front of us
Can we comprehend the loss
Sometimes we’re just so very shy
Or we don’t know what to say
Or do not want to interfere
Or seem superficial in any way
I can no longer withhold my thoughts
I have to pass them on
For it breaks my heart just thinking of
All those left to carry on
Please know that you are in my prayers
Will be there for years to come
Know that you are in my thoughts
For the efforts you have done
Oh yes there is that special day
To remember not to forget
Those who’ve paid the greatest price
We can never repay this debt
Cpl. Anthony Joseph Boneca we knew you not, but our prayers reach out for you, your loved ones, friends, and fellow soldiers. We do, so dearly, thank you and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.
The Borchert Family Slave Lake Alberta
Warrant Officer Ron Gallant
September 24, 2008
Tony was a true soldier a friend and a brother, who is missed on a daily basis. He was a young man robbed of life...life that he so cherished...with his ready welcoming smile...his laughter and sense of humour...everyone who had the priviledge to meet Tony felt immediately drawn to him because of his friendly genuine disposition. Tony...truly missed...RIP brother and all the best with your journey.
Crazy Eight's forever.
Eileen Tay
September 20, 2008
~{Rest In Peace}~
MCpl Renay Groves & Family
December 13, 2007
I have just returned from Afghanistan and although I was there for a very short time I want you to know you were in my prayers. The sacrifice each and every family of our fallen has paid the ultimate sacrifice. This is something the living soldier of the past, today & future will never forget. These soldiers are the bravest of brave and for that I will remain forever respectful as will my children and their children. "I will know and will share your Soldiers story"
Cpl Anthony Joseph Boneca will never be forgotten, I promise.
God Bless Your Family
Sandy Mellish
December 8, 2007
To the family of Anthony (Tony) Boneca, our most sincere condolences. We know your pain and we know you lost a great and brave son. We too lost our beloved son, Frank Robert Mellish, Warrant Officer with 1RCR on 03 September 2006.
To Anthony's parent's there are no words that can ease the pain nor change what has happened. We are faced every day with the nightmare of that day, the day we learned of our sons passing. this we will carry in our hearts forever.
To Megan, who had his heart, his love and his promise to be her everything forever, remember forever and cherish every kiss every hug and all the promises you shared together. Grow from the love you shared and from that love, become the person that you could only become because you knew such a man. There are some things in life we cannot change, and some things, that only we can! Take what you have from the love that you shared and build from it a future for yourself that Tony would be proud of and know that he will look upon you with love and pride in all you do and become in this world until you are together again in the next.
May the entire Boneca family know the gift and blessings of love. And may God bless each and everyone of you. Lest We Forget
Sincerely,
Sandy and Barry Mellish
Proud Parents of A Canadian Hero
matthew Vansickle
November 8, 2007
hello my name is Matthew VanSickle and we are supporting the troops that have died in war during our rememberance day service. Also we are doing a slide show of the troops and when Anthony Joseph Boneca's name comes up i will stand in his honour untill the slide show is over. I would like to say thanks and sorry to his family and his friends and thanks again for your bravery. all the soilders are all in our prays and we appeciate every thing thanks!
sashauna wilkins
November 7, 2007
Anthony Joseph Boneca will b loved ans always will b R.I.P Anthony Joseph Boneca. My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends." Love 4 all all shall love!!!
MCpl Jon O'Connor
April 1, 2007
Tony we had some times together didn't we. Sometimes I look around the building, and just rememember. The troops I train now have a whole new standard to meet now buddy. And don't worry I still don't cut them any slack. Lake Sups in life and death brother.
Nathan Hare
February 23, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Cadet Sergeant Richard Gratto
December 10, 2006
We thank you for what you have done and you will never be forgoten and I am joining the army in 2 months and i hope to to be just like you, Brave and stong and i want to go over to the middle east and help out in anyway so even if i die i will know i died doing somthing for my country!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Andrew
November 30, 2006
Although i am from the Australian Army, we hold our cause the same. Another soldier goes to heaven,
His life was not in vain.
Rob De lisi
November 28, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kate DeCorte
November 13, 2006
Toe Toe, We will never forget you. The time and memories we have had will always and forever be cherished. Thank you for being so brave for us, and leaving memorable and precious foot steps in our hearts. I love you Toe. Keep watch over us all.
Amy DeCorte
November 9, 2006
On the anniversary of this tradgedy, I look back at all that has happened since you left this world. Nothing will ever be the same without you in our lives.
It makes me so sad that because you are not here with us, things are so much harder to get through. I know that had you been with her, Megan would be able to do anything she wanted without reservation or struggle, because your support and love would have carried her through.
As for your family, the so very kind and caring Boneca's and all your friends, I am so sorry now more than ever. Time doesn't heal, it only lessens the pain.
I was and am so proud to call you a brother. My sister was incerdibly lucky to have your unwavering love and support.
You will always hold a place in my heart. I hope you knew how proud of you we are and how much we loved you. I love you. Bruce loves you. We will never, never forget you.
On this day I am reminded of just how much we have lost just four long months ago.
Kevin Koehler
November 6, 2006
My deepest sypathies, I'm so sorry.
Cheryl Grant
October 30, 2006
To the memory of Anthony and to his family I offer my deepest condolences and respect for the ultimate sacrifice that has been made in the name of serving others. Please know that hearts are breaking for our sons and daughters who are giving selflessly so that others may live and enjoy the freedoms that we take for granted. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Karen Fukushima
October 21, 2006
I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Please find comfort in knowing that so many people are grieving with you and will always remember Anthony as a truly brave young man who loved what he did and chose to so bravely serve his country. My daughter's spouse Dan's brother Pte. Josh Klukie died in Afghanistan on September 29 while on foot patrol and I have seen first hand the shock, disbelief and pain. Yet we feel the pride in knowing our Thunder Bay boys will forever be our heroes.
We will never stop grieving with you and we will never forget Anthony and the sacrifice he made.
Anthony and your family will forever be in our hearts and thoughts.
Luke
October 20, 2006
Dear Sir
I say sir as a mark of respect for the great sacrifice you made. Thank you and know that we all appreciate everything you gave in heart, mind and soul. God Bless
Brian Mollison
October 14, 2006
Tony,
I've been home for 2 months now, and I think of you everyday. I miss you. To your family, I couldn't find the courage to sign this until now, I am so sorry, Tony will never be forgotten.
Katie Girvin
October 6, 2006
I want to give my condolences to Anthony and his family. His bravery and courage will not go unforgotten to anyone. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Childhood Friend
October 4, 2006
I miss you Tony.
Andrew Cameron
October 3, 2006
My sympathies to the family and close friends. I won't forget the good memories I have of high school, football and the LSSR with you, even though they aren't many. Rest in peace...
Cpl Charles B. Thornhill (Ret)
September 4, 2006
Canada owes you the greatest debt of appreciation it can give, thank you for reaching out to do what you thought was right. You will be remembered.
Sue Pogue
August 28, 2006
To the family of Anthony Boneca my deepest condolences for the loss of your loved one. May your memories help you through this difficult tragedy.
From a cousin of fallen soldier, Cpl. Randy Payne, April 22, 2006.
MCpl & Cpl (Retd) Verrall
August 3, 2006
Your beloved Anthony has left a mark of freedom on our hearts and we will remember him always and keep you in our prayers.
Krysta Warren
August 3, 2006
Dear Boneca Family,
My condolences on the tragic loss of your young loved one.
Kevin, Rachel & Mathew Lambert
August 3, 2006
Our deepest sympathies to the family and friends of our fallen soldier. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerest regards,
Chris Payne
July 29, 2006
My deepest sympathies go out to your family and friends. As the brother of Cpl. Randy Payne who died in Afghanistan on 22 April 2006, I understand all to well what you are going through right now.
May your fond memories bring you comfort in the trying times ahead.
Hugh Leveille
July 29, 2006
We will remember them.....
We will remember him.....
I will remeber him.
Jennifer Cavezza
July 25, 2006
Although i did not know Anthoney i am very fond of him. He put his life on the line to save another. He is a true canadian hero. To the Boneca family: although he is not with you anymore he will always be in your hearts and he will always be with you. He will be sharing every moment with you. Remember he is always with you. To Jessica: i know that you miss him dearly, but remeber he will share all your new memories with you. He will always be there for you watching over you. God bless
Scott Hobbs
July 25, 2006
I'll never forget what you gave up for Canadians, T-Bone. It was great to know you. And I was honoured to have you as a friend
Krystal Cordeiro
July 22, 2006
A hero is defined as an individual admired for their bravery, great deeds, and noble qualities. Despite his short time with us, Anthony certainly posessed all of these traits, a feat most consider unattainable at his age. He will be forever remembered in our hearts and his efforts to protect us will never be forgotten. God Bless.
PATRICIA MATTICE
July 22, 2006
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY THANK YOU FOR CHEERING YOUR SON TO KEEP OUR COUNTRY FREE
dallas pedri
July 22, 2006
On x's I was always motivaded with your postive spirit and drive to move forward at any angle. Your passion for the army im sure was noticed by anyone who has ever come into contact with you, your a trooper a grunt a machine and a soldier forever...........
July 22, 2006
To Antonio and Shirley Boneca, words can not express the pain and sadness that I feel for you. Tony was a great man. You have done a perfect job in raising this fine mature and outstanding gentleman.
Tony was wise beyond his years and was respected by all who knew him.Tony did what he loved and for that he is a true hero and will be remembered forever.
To Megan, remember all the memories you had together and never let them go. In the short time you were together, you were able to do more things then most people do in their entire lives. Your special trip to Italy for 3 weeks is only a dream for most people. Any girl could only dream to be given a promise ring while on a gondola in Venice.
You lived that dream with Tony. It is these types of actions that made Tony a gentleman.Remember those times and know that Tony is with you and watching over you.
Tony Boneca, Riposa In Pace
Corey O'Neill
July 19, 2006
It was a privilege to know Tony as a classmate, friend and neighbour. It is hard to find words to comfort in such a sudden circumstance, all that can be said is that you can find consolation in knowing that Anthony died for something he believed in. I had the opportunity to speak with Tony days before his second departure and I will always remember the way he conducted himself with such honour and proudness when discussing his involvement. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Boneca family, it was an honour to have known a Canadian hero. May Anthony rest in peace.
C Demers
July 19, 2006
To the Boneca Family....
Im very sorry about the loss of your son, i could not imagine the pain your going through, but take comfort in knowing that your son is a "hero" serving his country proud, God bless you Anthony and Thankyou from a mother and Canadian!!!!
Kyle Poluyko
July 19, 2006
To Tony's Family: I was on the WestJet flight that brought you back to Thunder Bay from Toronto following Tony's repatriation. I am the proud cousin of two current military servicemen who knew Tony, the grandson of a late veteran, and a friend of Tony's cousin Jeff Hadgu. I sat in complete devastation that I could not bring myself to offer any form of comfort. I could not and cannot convey in simple words how terribly sorry I am for your loss. Yet I stood in amazement of your strength and courage. I stand with my fellow citzens of Thunder Bay, resolved to never allow Tony or his heroic efforts to be forgotten for a single moment. It is a vow. Thank you for giving us Tony.
To Tony: I thank you for sacrificing so much to ensure not only the safety and freedom of all Canadians, but for men and women less fortunate a world away. Thank you for championing, conquering, advocating, guarding, protecting, upholding, vindicating, and defending. You did your job well. May you rest eternally in peace in the shadow of that mighty mountain that watches over all of Thunder Bay. You have not fallen. You have risen to glory. In your honour we carry on, and with us we carry you... forever. Never forgotten. Never.
Michelle Gallant
July 18, 2006
Tony truly was a great person. He was born a hero and left as a hero. Megan, i want you to know that i am here for you forever and I know how much Tony loved you. Tony will be forever in our hearts and will be remembered. My deepest sympathy goes out to Shirley, Antonio, Megan and to the rest of the Boneca family. R.I.P Tony.
M. PIMENTEL
July 18, 2006
TO THE BONECA FAMILY,
I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. THE SPIRIT AND THE COURAGE OF ANTHONY BONECA TOUCHED ALL OUR LIVES AND HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.
Krystine Janiec
July 18, 2006
After attending the funeral and prayers for our dear friend Tony, reality has hit that he is really gone. However, I'm glad that I had the opportunity to see him again for one last time, to bid him farewell, and to offer my condolences to his family and girlfriend Meagan. Rememberance Day will have a whole new meaning to me, to know that I knew true Canadian hero. Tony will always hold a special place in my heart and will never be forgotten. May he rest in peace.
Roger and Mary Garthside
July 18, 2006
Anthony's death is a loss for all Canadians. We carry your pain in our thoughts and prayers.
Darlene Moore
July 18, 2006
I am so sorry for the loss of your family member and friend. It was incredibly generous of him to give so much of himself to others.
Barbara SANFORD
July 18, 2006
I want to say thank you for contributing to a great County...it is indeed people like you that make this world a safer and friendlier place to want to live. Thank you Anthony for giving your life, In my heart is my family, my country, and my god...and you shall not be forgotten in the hearts of many that you have touched. from someone that you didn't know...and from someone whom at the same time you have touched her heart.
May God keep you in all his eternal glory.
Andrew and Jan Jones
July 18, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Anthony Boneca as they grieve his death.
Gordon Russell
July 18, 2006
When he gets to Heaven's pearly gates to St Peter he will tell "Just another soldier reporting for duty Sir, I've served my time in Hell"
from an article in Time Life Magazine 2003?
For your short time on Earth you will be remembered as friend and inspiration to those that knew you personnally
Lisa mcann
July 17, 2006
NO WORDS I CAN SAY WILL TAKE THE PAIN AWAY, I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON, BROTHER , FRIEND. IM SURE ANTHONY BONECA
STOOD PROUD FOR OUR COUNTRY.WE NOW STAND PROUD OF ANTHONY . GOD BLESS AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR COURAGE
Ted Benninghaus
July 17, 2006
Shirley, Antonio and Megan
As a neighbour a few doors up the street I saw Anthony grow up from the young kid on the bike who used to ride to the house to visit our cat Mowzer who he affectionately named "Umbrella Tail", and develop into a fine young man..
He always had a wave when I drove by the house , and was ready at any moment to lend a hand if someone needed a lift to the plaza..
My wife and I and our three
children send our deepest sympathy..
Rest in Peace Tony and God speed!!
D. Demianiuk
July 17, 2006
He is a hero, and brave man. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child.Our deepest sympathy is with you and your families during this time of loss.
Bruce and Debbie Knight
July 17, 2006
To the entire Boneca family and friends
As the parents of a Canadian Airforce Pilot we want to send our deepest regrets about the loss of your son, brother and friend. As Canadians we can only guess at the conditions and sacrifices that Anthony made and we send our gratitude. May God Bless all of you.
M B
July 17, 2006
Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family at this time of extreme loss. Your son's effort and dedication will never be forgotten. RIP Anthony... RIP...
Jose/Jo-Ann Vargas
July 17, 2006
Our deepest sympathy of the loss of your son and and a fallen hero.
Katherine Bristol
July 17, 2006
Dear Boneca Family - my heart cannot comprehend what you must feel. Your Son fought for my freedom and for the wonderful country that we call Canada. Please be proud in your tears. My son has just started his career with the Air Force and I am very proud of him for the same reasons as your are of your son.
Peace be with you - Remember with a smile.
The Amyotte Family
July 17, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief, we can not comprehend your loss but we grieve with you as does all of Canda at the loss of a Hero
Tom & Paige Tarabawka
July 17, 2006
Our daughter, Ashlee, attended high school with Tony. We saw that she was deeply saddened upon hearing of the loss of her school friend, who she spoke warmly of.
Tony's commitment to the values of Duty, Valour and Sacrifice of Self is obvious. He will always be remembered with respect and gratitude.
Roy Findlay
July 17, 2006
Nothing can compensate you for your loss. Nothing can re-pay Anthony for his giving of his future so that we may have one. The bill for freedom arrives in our hands every day. We can thank Anthony for paying more than his fair share by paying our fair share every day in the way we cherish and build upon what we are so fortunater to have. Thank you, Anthony. I don't believe in God but God bless you anyway.
Mandy Green
July 17, 2006
May Tony rest in peace. He will remain in our hearts and memories forever. May we all find strength knowing he rests with the Lord.
Kayla Kannegiesser
July 17, 2006
Very sorry for your devastating loss. We are all proud to say that we knew Tony.
B Doll
July 17, 2006
Dear Boneca family, my prayers are with you today and always. Rest Peacefully soldier you fought hard for Our Country and we should all be proud..Thank you Anthony Joesph may you rest peacefully and give your family the strength in the difficult days ahead.
Domenica Ward
July 16, 2006
Sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with u in this time of sorrow. RIP Tony
Kristen Ibey
July 16, 2006
Family and Friends of Anthony Boneca,
May you find the courage to face tomorrow in the love that surrounds you today.
Rest in peace Tony your courage will always be remembered.
Andrew Romaniuk
July 16, 2006
Courage, Bravery, Integrity - we pay tribute to the ongoing sacrifice that these Men and Women make so that we may enjoy our Freedom.
Laverne Hanghofer
July 16, 2006
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Tony Boneca.
Felice Ciccone
July 16, 2006
My deepest sympathies go out to the Boneca family. It takes a special kind of person to leave your home and go to a strange and foreign place to fight for your country and people you have never met, let alone do it twice. Tony, you were braver than many people will ever be in their lifetimes. You are a national hero and a symbol to the rest of the world that there are still people who care about the safety and well being of the innocent. Rest in peace Tony, the courage you have displayed will never be forgotten.
Tim G
July 16, 2006
I would like to send my condolences to the Boneca Family
Eleanor & Brent Madore
July 16, 2006
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Heather Hagel
July 16, 2006
Condolences to the Boneca family. My prayers are with you.
S klack
July 16, 2006
we respect u so much you helped them fight for our country u were takin way to soon noone will ever forget how good of a man u were
Jeanne Spittlehouse
July 15, 2006
The hearts of this city are aching with yours. We are so proud of your son and he really is a hero for all of us. He has given his life in a place where it was not easy but where he surely made a difference. Our deepest sympathy to you in this awful loss.
Jennel McMahon
July 15, 2006
My thought and prayers go out to anyone who was close to this courageous young man, he will be remembered as a hero forever. R.I.P Tony
Tegin Suddaby
July 15, 2006
You will be remembered and honoured always for all your courage and strength. We will never forget the person we all remember passing us by in the halls of St. Ignatius with a huge smile on his face. R.I.P -- my prayers are with you and your family.
Laura Sajna
July 15, 2006
I knew Tony from highschool and shared many classes with him and I don't remember a day that went by when Tony wouldn't greet me with a great big hello and warming smile. I also remember his love and dedication for football which after highschool he traded in for dedication towards the army and our country. Tony touched the lives of many people and his joyful personality and caring attitude will never be forgotten. My deepest sympathies to his close friends and family.
Ryan Cabral
July 14, 2006
Thanks for your hard work for and dedication to our Country.... You are an absolute Hero.....R.I.P..
God bless you and your Family
Constable Ryan Cabral
Herb & Megan Mermans
July 14, 2006
As the parents of two military sons, we have often imagined being in your shoes, but in reality no one could every imagine the scope of your pain. All three of our children knew Tony, and our entire family shares your sorrow. Tony embraced our country, and now we embrace him. Hold him safely in your hearts until you meet again. God bless you all.
marie sorenson
July 14, 2006
Anthony Boneca is one of canada's best, he will live on in our freedom and those he chose to protect my father still with us is proud of that young man, my mother just passed would be also, they served in our second world war to give us that freedom to choose as anthony did .
Thunder Bay is proud and may god protect his family for him now.
jasmine gabrijelcic
July 14, 2006
i've known Tony since the fist day of school, right throught unitl the end of high school. he was always kind and caring, never had a mean comment towards anyone, he will deeply be missed by all who were lucky enough to have met him, i have nothing but happy memories of him
Adam Munshaw
July 14, 2006
Finding the right words of comfort for the friends and family of someone who has been taken from us has got to be one of the hardest things to do. But I find its often best to reflect back upon the great memories of those lost. If there's something positive that we can take away from the death of Tony it is this: those who are survived by him have a Hero they can remember. These days, true heroes are few and far between - but Tony is one of them. That there is such an outpouring of support from not only the city, but from around the globe shows just how much people cared about him. Though it is often a shame that we aren't aware of how much we've touched others in life. But I know that looking down on us, Tony knows that he was put here for a reason, and that all things happen as they are meant to. Tony will live on in the hearts of many as a true hero, and each of us realize how precious those around us really are, along with freedom and a peaceful life. I've said it to many - but November 11th will take on a much bolder and personal meaning than it ever has in the past for a younger generation who has never really been touched by war. Though Tony's physical body was taken from us, his spirit and memory will live on within his family and friends - and that makes me smile.
Tyler Rogala
July 14, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Stephanie Silvestri
July 14, 2006
May the warm memories of Tony bless you and your family at this time. Meg you were the light of tonys life, keep smiling and keep his memory alive in you. I am deeply sorry for your loss..
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