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Vaughn Ingram Obituary
The three Canadian soldiers were killed as the result of a rocket-propelled grenade attack in Afghanistan on Aug. 4.
In a statement released the day of the tragedy, Gov. Gen. Michaelle Jean expressed her sorrow for the fallen soldiers and said she shared "the grief of a nation."
Jean added: "We must salute the sense of duty and the determination of our soldiers as they face dangers in the name of rebuilding Afghanistan."
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Sean Wilson
July 13, 2025
In Honour and Remembrance, a piece titled,
'A RARE AND SPECIAL BREED'
It takes a rare and special person to willingly sacrifice for the sake of doing what’s right.
It takes a noble heart to brave conditions that others would refuse to face.
It takes an extraordinary soul to be willing to make differences that the world so needs to see.
To do all these things it takes a hero of great spirit.
Sergeant Vaughan Ingram – Forevermore our Hero
Lanette Desjardine
March 9, 2015
Hi Vaughn it sure has been a long time since I saw you last but i think of you often. I was watching We Will Remember Them and seen your pic. It made me think of the good times we had when we lived on the north side of E town. RIP my friend You are forever in my heart
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2013
For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013
Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more
May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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Lucky Soldier
November 11, 2013
I worked for Vaughn during our tour of Bosnia in 1997. He was exceptional by all standards. Small, strong, determined, fierce and calm. A natural leader respected by all.
I remember a vehicle OP where one of the other Newfies pulled out some salt squid during a stop. Vaughn was so happy for a taste of home. We sat in the hot morning sun for an hour - overwatching a highway and eating squid. He couldn't stop smiling for the rest of the day.
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Roger Borchert
November 6, 2013
We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013
For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today
We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Brent Weaving
June 11, 2013
Vaughn,
I am not sure why but as i was surfing the net tonight I ended up thinking about you and ended up here.
Funny how that happens when we spend even a little time with another person training like we did. I will not EVER forget your sacrifice or those before and after you.
As a kid being a Patricia made me feel like a hero, but only know do I realize that I felt like a hero because i was training next to one.
Carry one brother, you have earned it.
See you at the MadDog.
Brent - 1 VP / A-Coy
Roger Borchert
March 30, 2013
My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.
Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2012
For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012
Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you
Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
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Lanette DesJardine
November 12, 2012
I was thinking about you again today. Rest easy Iggy.
John O'Dell
November 11, 2012
Hey brother
Think you today and everyday, still miss you like hell.
Remembering all the good times we had together, you were one hell of a good friend, thanks for being my best man.
Airborne!!!
Roger Borchert
November 11, 2012
For Remembrance Day 2012
Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day
We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2011
For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011
The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Roger Borchert
December 24, 2010
For the Families, loved ones, friends of or Fallen This Christmas 2010
Looking back, on childhood’s days
When wonder set the sails
And all imagined could come to life
Within thoughts, dreams as they played
When Santa rode a sleigh one eve
In every coming year
And magic taught sweet dreams to fly
To rooftops every where
Now sitting wishing Christmas Eve
Looking off into the night
Pleading for a shooting star
Enhance this wish with all their might
A wish for just a Christmas hug
From a soldier no longer here
No longer in our earthly world
Held close now, within near
The hearts of those who’ve felt such pain
At the loss of a hero’s life
A hero who stepped forth for all
Bring this hero close this night
As tears once more roll down a cheek
Another endless, sleepless night
Let our Lord brush close a warming hug
Of your loved one, bring them near
A gentle breeze, fond memories’ bring
To hold them ever dear
Wishing the magic of Christmas could bring the smiles, the hugs and the warmth of your loved one, into your home for Christmas. Ever in our hearts and always remembered. May our Lord bless you this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Hank McDonald
November 29, 2010
I served with Vaughan at Spin Buldak in the Kandahar province of Afghanistan. Shortly before those missions up into Panjwai we all sat and watched the movie about the hockey game between the Rangers and the hockey team from "Surprise" Alaska. What a great time we had. We then constructed a hockey field in the dirt, and played broom hockey between us yanks and the canuks. I remember it like it was yesterday. Vaughan was the driving force behind this. He was a great team player, had a wonderful sense of humor and could hang with the best! I think of you often Vaughan, and I miss you and the time we spent, even if it was in a bad place.
Charlene
November 11, 2010
Thanks for all you sacrificed. Me and my kids are forever grateful. R.I.P.
Erin Conroy
November 11, 2010
I miss you everyday. RIP.
Shirley Windross
November 11, 2010
RIP our friend. We love and miss you.
Shirley Windross
November 11, 2010
Vaughan, you are never far from our thoughts. Shannon and I miss you so much and we cherish the good memmories that we have with you and Ann Marie. We miss Brooke too and we hope that she is doing well. Forever love Shirley and Shannon
coady bastow
November 8, 2010
R.I.P you will NEVER be forgotten you were very honorible and brave you are missed by many i will never forget the feeling that day i dont think anybody will forget it. R.I.P
Amy Bastow
November 8, 2010
Vaughn I never knew you but i still feel really bad about your passing and it hurts me every year thinking about it i see you daughter just about every week and it makes me feel so bad looking at her knowing what happened i will never forget you Vaughn Rest In Peace you will never be forgotten.
Andy Ross
November 5, 2010
Remembering Vaughn Ingram. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten. May you rest in peace, and strength to your family. We all live with the memory of you as a hero.
Roger Borchert
November 1, 2010
Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.
They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave
By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
October 4, 2010
Dad i miss youu terriblyy. It is really nice to know that so many people miss youu and care about you.
Lovee, your daughter
September 16, 2010
We did meet once and I thank you for your service and sacrifice. You will not be forgotten.
JASON REID
June 25, 2010
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED/LOVED,REST EASY FRIEND,YOUR WORK IS DONE
Roger Borchert
April 3, 2010
As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone
They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice
By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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dave tobin
February 23, 2010
we never met but i did meet you daughter and some of your family. you are missed dearly. but she is in good hands so you can rest in peace
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2009
To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas
The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile
By Roger Borchert
We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Kyla Nicol
December 10, 2009
I know I never met you but i've heard a lot about you. Thanks for serving our country. RIP
Natasha Dodge
November 11, 2009
On this Rememberance Day we bow our heads and give 2 minutes of silence for the men that have and are fighting for our freedom..
Vaughn today we remember you and all you have sacrificed..
You are truly missed and never forgotten.
Tim
November 10, 2009
SGT,
thanks for taking care of me and giving me a home as a medic wish I was there for you, like the first time.
Roger Borchert
November 6, 2009
In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day
For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live
By Roger Borchert
So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
Edith Belair
May 21, 2009
Thankyou for the sacrifice you made to our beloved country. May you rest in peace knowing that you did make a difference.
Natasha Fyfe (Dodge)
May 6, 2009
Vaughn,
I know I may not have known you long but you were part of my family and you are greatly missed. Your daughter is growing up to be such a beautiful girl and I know she is very proud of her daddy. You were a great man who's legacy will never fade... I hope you and Annie rest in peace and may god be with you both....
It was an honor to have known you....
Mike Rude
April 29, 2009
Hey Buddy,
Its so good to see how people continue to write on this site, how people that didnt even know you are touched by you. So many times I think about you, things we did, jobs we did with boon dog, and your province. I'm here for 5 weeks and I hope to go to Burgeo and see your parents. I think about it everytime I'm here but never get to it. The first time I was ever in Nfld was for your service and fell in love with it. Now i come here whenever I can because of the lady I met and want to retire here. Anyways, I think about you alot. Take care my friend.
Your Brother,
Airborne!
Roger Borchert
April 8, 2009
Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.
We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you
Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.
Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Peter Marques
March 20, 2009
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Thank you for your service to Canada.
Roger Borchert
December 31, 2008
For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes
May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see
May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.
Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
December 20, 2008
For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.
I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside
Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you
I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory
I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye
I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near
As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near
May our Lord be near you all.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Hollett
November 22, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to the family Sgt. V. Ingram.
Patrick Trainor
November 21, 2008
You are a Canadian hero Vaughn. I'm going to tell my 10 year old son about you and what you did and as I have , he will realize how you put your life out there to improve human kind. Brave,..Strong,...Driven,...Patriotic,...Brotherhood...that is what I've read about you. You are at peace in heaven and may you watch over us and influence our daily choices.
Roger Borchert
November 6, 2008
In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:
There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.
We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost
Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
James Miller
October 20, 2008
A true heroe, a true brother.
I did not know you but your story exemplifies the bravery, heroism and brotherhood that every canadian can honour about our young men who give their life in service.
With great respect...
Roger Borchert
October 4, 2008
With a heavy heart stepping forth
Please forgive me when I say
That I let you down in the past
In not a little way
I did not write to let you know
Just how much I cared
For the sacrifice you’ve given
For so many in despair
You stepped forth and joined our forces
Laid your life upon the line
To bring about a safer world
A new world in our time
Fellow soldiers friends and families
And those you held so dear
Still think of you most everyday
For us others it’s not so clear
We must slow down and take the time
Understand how great the cost
For if not placed in front of us
Can we comprehend the loss
Sometimes we’re just so very shy
Or we don’t know what to say
Or do not want to interfere
Or seem superficial in any way
I can no longer withhold my thoughts
I have to pass them on
For it breaks my heart just thinking of
All those left to carry on
Please know that you are in my prayers
Will be there for years to come
Know that you are in my thoughts
For the efforts you have done
Oh yes there is that special day
To remember not to forget
Those who’ve paid the greatest price
We can never repay this debt
Sgt. Vaughn Ingram we knew you not, but our prayers reach out for you, your loved ones, friends, and fellow soldiers. We do, so dearly, thank you and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.
The Borchert Family Slave Lake Albera
[email protected]
Eileen Tay
September 20, 2008
~{Rest In Peace}~
Scott Snow
September 17, 2008
I served with Vaughn when we were young soldiers in 2nd Battalion PPCLI. I was also there in AFGHAN when this tragedy took place. We have lost a good friend, excellent soldier,good father,husband, son, and fellow brother. I don't have the words for you my friend,I know you understand what I mean. It has been a while now so I would just like to tell you to rest easy old friend,you will be missed.
Hans Heiner
June 29, 2008
Greatest respect.
I have no more words.
Retired MCPL Heiner, Denmark
M. Sansome
June 10, 2008
I visited your grave site today and drove on your parents road. I never knew you, but have thought of you and all the others so often. Thank you for what you have done for us. My prayers to your family.
Barb Bajema (nee Hays)
May 13, 2008
Vaughn, always meant to write earlier but it was too hard. You're missed, and will always be remembered - be at peace
April 12, 2008
As an ex Patricia I remember Vaughn from our service together and recall that he was an excellent soldier and overall extremely likeable person. I am very sorry to see that he has had to make the ultimate sacrifice. Rest in peace brother.
steve gillingham
February 27, 2008
I served as an Infantry Medic in Vaughn's Company. I saw the man as a true leader, he expected alot because he gave alot. I recall how ho took care of his troops, he was an example to us all. Definitely taken too early. To his family and many friends and comrades, I offer my sincere condolences
Mark &Danuta Grykin
January 28, 2008
To all of the Ingram family members.
Vaughan as we all know he was a great person to know,love &respect
We only knew Vaughan for a short time but we sure liked him alot especialy when he started telling allot of his crazy jokes amongst other things as well.
So long Vaughan it was a pleasure to know you.
I am sure we one day will meet again.
We salute you ( Vaughan )for all what you did.
God Bless you Vaughan&rest in peace .
Michelle (Hayes) Philpott
January 9, 2008
I knew Vaughn through my brother Darren. Our family loved Vaughn. He'd come over and hang out with my brother. We didnt live in Burgeo for long but my brother and Vaughn kept in contact from time to time. Our family were very sad to hear the news of his passing. Vaughn I will always remember you. I will tell my children how I knew a true Canadian hero. I will tell them of how he made the country very proud, doing what he believed in. To the Ingram family, We will always keep Vaughn in our hearts.
Aiden Bowen
December 23, 2007
Anne Marie & Brooke
Its been a while since i spoke to you, but you have been in my heart & in my mind ever since. Vaughn will be deeply missed, from just sittin around the back yard with friends to goin out huntin with him. I have so much respect for the man who gave his life for this cause, more than you will ever believe... words cant convey how i feel...
I hope all is well for you, keep in touch...
Aiden Bowen
Melissa Ingram
November 19, 2007
It has been just over a year since his death....and it still hurts...so much. I don't know why but lately he is always on my mind. I miss him dearly & I cherish every memory I have of him. I hope he knows he is still loved so much it hurts, he is still being remembered for everything he did for our counrty. He was a wonderful cousin, amazing son, loving father & most of all, a good soldier. You will never be forgotten and may you rest in peace. I love you & I am so proud of you. You will always be in my heart & my thoughts.
Heather Reid
November 11, 2007
Its been a little over a year and today is one of the hardest days. You were an outstanding leader and made many people porud. Your subordinates looked up to you and consider you one of the best role models. Today I carry you and Annie in my heart and know that I think of both of you everyday and miss you. Rest in Peace and Thank you for being the person you are.
Serena McLuskie
November 7, 2007
In my school we were told to write a story about a Canadian soldier. I was happy that I got Vaughn, because my aunt is good friends with him. I'm very dissapointed that he is gone. I'll miss him.
Jessi messi
November 2, 2007
wut up thanx for saving our land
anthony dunham
October 29, 2007
Im not sure quite who you are but Im honored to have men like you protecting my country.
Angelo Manzara
September 16, 2007
Vaugh
Its been over a year and we still miss you. We will always think about you and try to live the way you did, dedicated, good friend, always a good wing man on a Friday night.
Fair Winds Soft Landings
Airborne!
August 4, 2007
rip sarge
Helen & Mel Keller
August 3, 2007
To Vaughn's wife, daughters & family,
You are in our thoughts today.
Natasha Dodge
July 9, 2007
God Bless to Ann marie and family!!! Your in my thoughts and prayers !!!!!
Krista Spracklin (Langer)
June 1, 2007
To Vaughn's wife and daughters,
I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Vaughn along time ago. He was a good man and a good friend. I hate that I never got to say goodbye. But I know in my heart that he is up in heaven looking over and keeping safe everyone he loved and cared about.My deepest sympathy.
Matthew Leonard
May 1, 2007
Vaughn I was very proud to have served with you in the same company on the same tour.I feel for your family who I had the good fortune to meet and spend time with. I just wish it had have been under better cicumstances. Thank you for your inspiration,Lenny. ( Cpl Matthew Leonard )
Mike Rude
March 29, 2007
Hey Vaughn, sorry I never wrote in here yet. These books are awesome because whenever I guy wants, he can stop in and say hi! The other weekend I was having a few (you know what I mean) pints with Stacey at the Crown after we did the Sgts/Wo's mess dinner. It brought back some memories of when we used to go drink at that country bar by the Mayfield Inn, we couldn't quite come up with the name, I keep thinking Mustangs but who knows. I remember we'd go there for cheap draft, i think it was on a Sunday night the specials there. Everytime there would at least be a half dozen of us to consume the cheap draft and of course there was Karaoke. I remember get up on the stage with you and we attempted to sing Battle of New Orleans, it wasn't the fancy karaoke with the words I think we had to remember them ourselves. This of course led us to singing the first bit okay and than both of us switching to whistling the remainder of the song. Anyways, I've talked too long, take care and I'll talk to you later buddy, AIRBORNE!
P.S. I'm currently in Corner Brook checking out your province!
John Skinner
March 22, 2007
Hi, my name is John, I met Vaughn In early 2001 and as a fellow Newfounlander and former member of the Canadian Forces I don't know how to explain how sorry I am for your Loss, This is the second good ole newfie I have known who has died for what they believe in. They always say God always takes the good ones first but he was to good to go. Once again I am sorry and I envy you for all the strenght that you have.
eugene stamp
March 19, 2007
hi my name is eugene and i go to virginia park elementary school. this week is history week and i am doing a project on newfoundland war heros. you are a hero so i am doing my project on you ok. i want everyone at my school to know you are a hero.thank you for caring and wanting peace and freedom. i am proud of you and wish i could meet you. god wanted you mommy told me that and i know you are in a happy place.
your friend eugene 9 years old
Love From Jenny & Simon Tsang
March 5, 2007
We were devistated to hear of the passing of one of our closest friends Vaughn , and are still so hurt to think he is no longer with us ,we will remember the times and all the moments shard with you and one day we to will walk beside you and catch up on what we once had and continue from where we once left off. Our sencerest condolences for the Ingram Family and anyone that this man has touched the hearts of.
Sonia Sheehan
January 30, 2007
Well Vaughn, what do I say? You left us way to early. There is not a day that goes by that we don't think of you. You make us proud Vaughn. Right now you are probably up there watching everyone and singing along to your old newfie and country music, having a nice cold one, and trying to win at poker!!!! :) For Samantha(who I never met, but heard alot of) and my little Brooke, always know that your dad was the man. He loved you both very much and was so happy to be your dad! For anyone that knows about Vaughn's dog Ranger, she is with us, and doing great! And Vaughn, we named our cat after you JED!!!!
Cpl. Jason Joe and Sonia Sheehan
Elizabeth Lyder
January 30, 2007
My son Jason Mark Joe served with sgt.Vaughn Ingram. Jason has his dog Ranger and we love her very much, she spent christmas with us here in Winnipeg.I know Vaughn is watching over everyone.
Tammy & Jason Benoite
January 28, 2007
Clayton and Linda,
During this time of sadness and pain, may you take comfort in the wonderful memories you have of your son and let those memories take you through the days to come. Always remember, he is a true Hero. God Bless.
MCpl Renay Groves
January 24, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Tony and Bonita Tucker
January 9, 2007
We will remember him.
James Parsons
January 3, 2007
This man is a hero, I hope, as time passes by...we NEVER forget this. There is a profound sense from many of us, that Vaughn was dedicated to, and believed in the cause...to help the people, specifically, the children, of Afghanistan.
Jim Vigue
December 16, 2006
I will miss you RIP
Jason Miller
November 16, 2006
Vaughn will be truly missed. An excellent soldier and an excellent leader. You'll be missed bro.
Murray & Tammy Smith
November 14, 2006
My Heart goes out to you all and I'm sure he will not be forgotten, he is a true HERO.
Troy McCoubrey (nee Hedley)
November 9, 2006
What can we say that has not already been said... Troy, Sam and Ash
Micheal Denine
October 20, 2006
I served with Vaughn on several tours. He was a good friend and an excellent soldier and he won't be forgotten.
Mcpl Randy J. Smith
October 20, 2006
It was a pleasure and honour to serve with him in Aghanistan, OP Archer Roto 1 TF Orion.(1VP Battle Group,C-Coy)
In memory of Vaughn and our fallen comrades "Lest We Forget"
Cashala Ladouceur
October 11, 2006
i am a friend of his daugter samantha and the lose of vaughn was not just hard for her it was also hard for me, beacause she is my best friend i also felt the sasnest and to the rest of his family, his life not only ended but has also started over
Steve Ingram
October 9, 2006
My Heart felt condolances. My dad was in military and brother is currently in military, I appreciate the sacrifice Vaughn made. We all in the free world should be greatful for the modern day heros like him. Fello Ingram (unrelated?).
DJ
October 2, 2006
i had a pleasure to work as an interpreter for Vaughn when he was stacioned in Bosnia in Drvar as a part of CCSFOR. Mine deepest Condolences to family.I m very sorry for your loss. He was a great man and great solider.
Henrietta Billard
September 15, 2006
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Chad Kendall
September 12, 2006
The lost of a soldier of Vaughn`s skills and respect to duty will be felt by all of the people that he has ever had contact with. I will be praying for all of his family in this time of tragic lost.
Fr: Sgt Kendall C.H.
September 8, 2006
Vaughn was a true canadian HERO...He will never be for gotten.......And i will pray for his family and friends forever..RIP Vaughn
Alfreda & Douglas Jesso
September 7, 2006
Sorry to hear about your lost and I am praying for you and your family for god to give you strength each day. God bless!
dave & juanita coley
September 5, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Doug and Dianne Kendell
September 4, 2006
It was with great sorrow and heartbreak that we heard of Vaughans passing.However we have also celebrated his life and we hold dear to our hearts the joys and laughter we shared in watching Vaughan grow into the great man he became.Whatever Vaughan did he always gave it 100% .He was like a son to us and the precious memories we have will remain in our hearts and we will treasure them forever. May God`s blessing be with all the family.Our prayers and thoughts are with you and may time the great healer ease your pain and sorrow.
Jason Vardy
September 3, 2006
My thougths are with you and your family. Sorry for your loss.
Jenesta Christian (Ingram)
September 2, 2006
I left for my trip to the east coast on Aug.1 to attend my high school reunion in Annapolis Royal NS. Plans changed on Aug .3 when my cousin Melissa called me in Moncton NB to tell me the news about our cousin Vaughan. I will never forget the moment I got the news, my heart was broken and it did not seem real. I wish I spent more time with Vaughan and got to know the great man he had become. I will cherish all of the stories I heard while in Burgeo. To my Uncle Clayton, Aunt Linda, Stacey, Chad, Joanne and all of Vaughan’s family and close friends: May you find the courage to face tomorrow in the love that surrounds you today.
Vaughan, you are in my thoughts and prayers and I will never forget you. You will be in my heart forever. Love your cousin Jenesta Dawn
jody macdonald
September 2, 2006
sorry for your loss
ISRAEL KINSLOW
September 2, 2006
my thoughs are with your family
joan green john coley
September 1, 2006
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Vicki Macdonald
August 31, 2006
Well I am at a loss for words when it comes to this tragedy. Vaughn was a good man, a husband, father and a Soldier. I knew him for several years and my most recent memories of Vaughn is Remberance day where we always ran into him at the Legion. It will never be the same. Vaughn will be missed by all.
Ian Pestana
August 31, 2006
There are 3 types of men; the alive, the dead, and the AIRBORNE! Fair winds and soft landings brother.
Scott Findlay
August 28, 2006
Vaughn and I were recruits together in PPCLI Battle School, Wainwright Atla together. We were members of Mount Sorrel Platoon. We were posted to gether in April 1991 to Victoria B.C, Rainbow block 2nd floor....I remeber the first night we were there, Beers at the Carlton Club & Panagopolous Pizza... We are so proud of the soldier you became... 3VP forever,....
Pte (T) (retired) Findlay
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