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Raymond Arndt Obituary
Arndt was killed and three others injured when a G-Wagon making a supply run collided with a civilian truck on Aug. 5, just hours after the soldiers bid farewell to four of their fallen mates in a sombre ramp ceremony that drew more than 3,000 troops from several NATO countries at the Kandahar Air Field.
The soldiers, all reservists with the National Support Element, were running medical supplies to the Canadian Forward Operating Base at Spinboldak, a town sharing a porous border with Pakistan, when the collision occurred.
Prime Minister Stephen Harper expressed his condolences in a statement.
"On behalf of Canadians, I extend my sincere condolences to the loved ones of Master Cpl. Raymond Arndt," Harper said. "My thoughts and prayers are also with the three other Canadian Forces personnel who were injured.
"Canadians are united in pride and gratitude behind this young man who represented our nation, and our values, with courage and honour. He is mourned by his countrymen on this sad day.
"I offer my heartfelt sympathies to Master Corporal Arndt's family and friends, and to them I extend Canada's profound gratitude. Canada stands in honour of his sacrifice."
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Ian MacDonald
October 1, 2019
its been a long time, but youre not forgotten pal.
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2013
For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013
Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more
May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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Roger Borchert
November 8, 2013
We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013
For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today
We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Chance Arndt
September 26, 2013
Miss you cousin. Wish you were here so I could have a beer with you. I still remember the times camping at fickle lake and all the jokes you always had. Miss you tons man. I'll have to stop by peers and have a cold one.. or two with you! Rest Easy Raymond! See you again sometime! Have a cold Canadian waiting for me!
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Di Arndt
September 26, 2013
My guardian angel I miss you soo... Your laugh, your hugs, your crazy sense of humour... I'm sure all the other angels really are in heaven since you have been there...
Enbrace me now so I can feel that overwhelming happiness I always got when I saw you!!!!
Love you soo.... "ALWAYS"
You'd be proud of Jordan he is following in your footsteps....
Roger Borchert
March 30, 2013
My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.
Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2012
For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012
Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you
Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 11, 2012
For Remembrance Day 2012
Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day
We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB
Cuz Di Arndt
November 11, 2012
I am soo honored..
Rest in peace...I will see you on the other side! Xoxo
Jennifer Thibodeau
November 6, 2012
I miss you very much and I think of you every day. I know you watch over us all. Love you
Dianna Arndt
November 5, 2012
My guardian angel I miss you soo... Your laugh, your hugs, your crazy sense of humour... I'm sure all the other angels really are in heaven since you have been there...
Enbrace me now so I can feel that overwhelming happiness I always got when I saw you!!!!
Love you soo....
Di Arndt
March 4, 2012
I need my talk to hear your laughter to make me smile and your big bear hug full of LOVE!!!
Miss you soo much....
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2011
For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011
The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Your Cuz- Stacy Arndt
November 10, 2011
There isn't a day that goes by that we don't Remember you Raymond. We remember your smile, laugh and comforting hugs. Thank you for being You and being apart of our lives.
You be good or your Mom will have to straighten you out!
Betty McDonald
November 10, 2011
With Remembrance day upon us we thank you for all you did. I miss your smile and your friendship. i pray that your family is finding peace in your memories..ps give Jonny a hug for me im sure you two are quite a pair keeping our moms on their toes. xoxo
Roger Borchert
August 5, 2011
Thank You Master Cpl. Arndt for your service, sacrifice, and efforts towards making our world a better place. We will remember. R.I.P
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family
Slave Lake, Alberta
Cuz Dianna
August 5, 2011
Today is an Anniversary of Honor! I honor you Raymond for all your courage and strength... I miss you you with every breathe... When i'm down you still pick me up! All I have to do is think of you and I see your smile, feel your embrace and hear your positive approach... <3 You are sadly missed :(
Karen Youell
November 10, 2010
Thinking of you
Geoff Chamberlain
November 3, 2010
" PRO PATRIA "
Roger Borchert
November 1, 2010
Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.
They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave
By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Derrick Pelke
August 6, 2010
Even after 4 years, your memory still lingers almost daily in my mind, and I hope my son I named after you, grows up to be great as you were!
Take care Raymond
Dan Gray
August 5, 2010
No sleep tonight for the morning, brings back thoughts and memories
of my soldiers passing, so he could keep us free
No sleep tonight then it may not come, the pain, the hurt, the tears
because it feels like yesterday, not like it's been a few years.
No sleep tonight, no sunset nor sunrise, then it will stay today forever,
I won't have to be hurt again, or be forced to remember.
The taxiway, the pipers, or the Highway of Hero's
the flags, the banners, your comrades at your funeral.
No sleep tonight, but alas, tomorrow will be here soon,
another breakfast, lunch and supper at a table without you.
No kiss good-morning, or hug goodnight, or comfort of your voice,
No sleep tonight because God, our father made a choice.
No sleep tonight, not much since, he called to take you home
to call you from my life, and to leave me here alone
No sleep tonight, my soldier, for I am afraid of what morning will bring
but through the pain and sorry, your torch I'll carry, your praise I'll sing.
Written in remembrance of Raymond Ardnt for Darcia:
Dan Gray
Elyshia Korobko
May 6, 2010
Its May, and its coming up to the last time that I saw you. The last time I saw you smile, heard you laugh and had a Ray sized hug from you. It was also the last time that you gave me advice in person.
You are someone that I am never going to forget and what I wouldn't give to have advice from you now, and to have a Ray sized hug....they always made me feel better. You continue to be my hero, and someone that I constantly look up to and remember.
I still try to write that song that shows how much you mean to all of us and how much we remember you. I will come and visit you again this summer. It was strange on the last trip to see you...when Grant and I were almost there and "when you say nothing at all" came on the radio...the song I sang at your wedding...it was hard but I got through it.
Never forget to show us signs that you are around, that you approve or disapprove of what we are doing...because we will never forget you!
Love you!
April 20, 2010
Missing you.
Roger Borchert
April 3, 2010
As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone
They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice
By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Terris Stordock
January 7, 2010
Soldier on.
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2009
To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas
The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile
By Roger Borchert
We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Rinaldi Gulinao
November 12, 2009
Ray was in my QL3 Infantry course, 0001. He was an amazing person.
Roger Borchert
November 7, 2009
In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day
For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live
By Roger Borchert
So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Derrick Pelke
August 6, 2009
Well Ray it has been 3 years and you are missed. Tisha is having baby #2 and his name will be Jesse Raymond Pelke. Rest well I will see ya on the other side.
Take care
Derrick and Tisha & family
Elyshia
August 4, 2009
I don't think it gets easier each year, even though people keep telling me it does. I wonder what crazy advice you would be giving me right now if I was sitting across from you. You are my hero and always will be and i will never forget what you told me!!!
Di Arndt
August 4, 2009
It seems like yesterday, oh how I wish you were still here! I miss you soo...
I need my talk to hear your laughter to make me smile and your big bear hug full of LOVE!!! :(
Aunt Rita Stinert
May 14, 2009
Our thoughts turn to you often in a week. Miss you!
Roger Borchert
April 8, 2009
Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.
We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you
Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.
Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Amanda & Zak Arndt
March 24, 2009
Oh, what I wouldn't do for a big dose of big brother advice right now....even 2 1/2 years later, I keep wondering what you would say about my life. I miss having you around....
Dianna Arndt
March 13, 2009
Hey Cuz, more boys coming home... You have made us all proud!!!
Wishing you all came home standing tall! Now we stand tall and Salute ALL OF YOU!!!
Miss you...
Dianna Arndt
January 23, 2009
Missing you lots!!!
Would love to hear your laugh right about now...
Roger Borchert
December 31, 2008
For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes
May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see
May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.
Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Dianna Arndt
December 23, 2008
Hey my wonderful cousin of mine I haven't written in a while... I think of you daily always with a smile!
When my thoughts have almost past... Some end with a tear or a laugh!
I try to smile even through the tears... As you brought so much joy and love to all of us throughout the years!
I wish if only for a second we could see you again... If only for a moment my cousin, my savior, my friend!
I know you're watching over us still... I can feel your spirit present and always will!
I miss you Ray and love you dearly!
Merry Christmas Cuz...
You are the brightest star shining!!!
Roger Borchert
December 20, 2008
For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.
I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside
Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you
I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory
I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye
I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near
As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near
May our Lord be near you all.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Cyndi Peters
December 7, 2008
May god bless the Arndt family for the loss of their son Raymond. I remember him as a very sweet person who made me laugh. My heart goes out to the family and friends of Raymond. Peace Ray.
Roger Borchert
November 5, 2008
In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:
There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.
We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost
Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
September 28, 2008
With a heavy heart stepping forth
Please forgive me when I say
That I let you down in the past
In not a little way
I did not write to let you know
Just how much I cared
For the sacrifice you’ve given
For so many in despair
You stepped forth and joined our forces
Laid your life upon the line
To bring about a safer world
A new world in our time
Fellow soldiers friends and families
And those you held so dear
Still think of you most everyday
For us others it’s not so clear
We must slow down and take the time
Understand how great the cost
For if not placed in front of us
Can we comprehend the loss
Sometimes we’re just so very shy
Or we don’t know what to say
Or do not want to interfere
Or seem superficial in any way
I can no longer withhold my thoughts
I have to pass them on
For it breaks my heart just thinking of
All those left to carry on
Please know that you are in my prayers
Will be there for years to come
Know that you are in my thoughts
For the efforts you have done
Oh yes there is that special day
To remember not to forget
Those who’ve paid the greatest price
We can never repay this debt
Master Corporal Raymond Arndt we knew you not, but our prayers reach out for you, your loved ones, friends, and fellow soldiers. We do, so dearly, thank you and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.
The Borchert Family Slave Lake Alberta
Eileen Tay
September 20, 2008
~{Rest In Peace}~
Amanda & Zak Arndt
August 5, 2008
Two years have passed now, but a lifetime of memories continue to provide us comfort. Life is certainly not the same without my big brother....we love and miss you dearly...
Amanda & Zak Arndt
April 2, 2008
It is in these days that I find I miss you the most....please take good care of Jonny for us....we love you all
Momma #2.
November 20, 2007
Raymond..
Thinking of you lots lately, but especially today..Lots of love..
I miss you..
Di
November 13, 2007
Hey Raymond,
Thought alot about you the other day. Actually met some of your comrads in Edmonton. I am so proud of you all! Miss you...
Juanita Little
November 11, 2007
Hey Bro! Missing you today. Thinking about you and your comrades. Thanks for the sacrifices you all made. Love ya
Raymond Arndt
September 29, 2007
Hallo Raymond,
viele Grüße aus Deutschland
September 23, 2007
Hey you, fall has arrived, it still seems like you should come home any day now. We made it through summer but it was not a good one in many ways, but I think of you and it brings a smile to my face and my heart and I go on.I know you are watching over us and for that I am thankful, but you are missed so much. I went to the cemetary in August and put an angel of light there for you, so you would see the light and remember the bright times we had.
I still miss you and I will see you again!
Love Momma #2.
Brendan Yuill, CD (MCpl.)
August 9, 2007
Ray was one hell of a guy who was always there for you and therefore was often easy to take for granted. I miss him terribly, and still haven't completely been the same since the news of his passing was broken to me last year.
As long as I live, I will never let Ray's memory fade away and I will also pay tribute to that memory by never taking my family or my regimental family for granted again.
Amanda & Zak Arndt
August 8, 2007
A year has passed since you left us - I'm still amazed by this, as it truly has not felt like a year. I still miss you as much today as I did the day you left us, but remembering you has gotten easier. Thank you for creating a lifetime of memories that are so wonderful to share! We love and miss you, but know that Mom is taking very good care of you. Until we meet again...keep an eye on us, won't you?
Trish Arndt
August 7, 2007
well bro...
It had been a year now since you were taken from us. The memories of that horrible day are all still clear, and the call that I still wish had never happened. I miss you so much. I am still so greatful for all the love and memories you have given to all of us. You touched so many lives and hearts your memory and spirit will live on. Thank-you for being who you were and the great brother that you were. WE are so proud of you and wish you were here with us. Take care my brother I love you with all my heart. Until we meet again....you are in my thoughts and prayers. Continue to watch over us...
Hayley and Corey Selby
July 11, 2007
I think of Ray every time I see the news. I was roomates in Edmonton with Ray for a few years and have many great memories of that time. He is sadly missed by everyone that knew him.
June 25, 2007
Raymond,
Summer has arrived, our 1st. without you. I know you are not far from my side as I can feel you as I go along in this life you left us to live as best we could. I would love to hear you laugh out loud again, it always made me feel so much better as did the hugs that I miss.
Give your mom a hug for me and I will see you both again when my turn arrives.
Love you lots.. Momma #2.
Jesse Luckhardt
April 13, 2007
I actually met Ray as a room-mate of sorts while I went to NAIT in 2003. We lived in a house on 125th Ave in Edmonton he in the basement suite and I on the main floor. I remember fondly the nights where I would just hang out and shoot the "bull"; and he was ALWAYS excited about reserve weekends. There weren't too many of those nights as it was only 1 school year and of course life took us totally different directions. But when I found out, I was in shock. I was actually reading a 3 day old newspaper and I saw the smile. I recognized that smile. I looked at the rest of the picture. I knew that face. Then I read the headline. I couldn't believe it. Absolute shock. My deepest condolences to his wife and family. Ray will always be in my memories.
Amanda & Zak Arndt
April 9, 2007
Another holiday has come & gone without you....we were so blessed to have had you in our family, but its not the same without you. I miss you smile, your enthusiasm & love for life & family - our hearts will heal, but we will always miss you. You were truly one of a kind, Ray - thank you for all that you gave us (And don't worry - I'll keep Dad & the girls in line for you!) Love you
Cpl Donald Hookey
March 14, 2007
Ray,
I know I didn't know you for very long, but for the time that I did know you, I'm a better person for it. You always had something positive to say, even when the chips were down.
This country of ours owes you alot my friend.
To the family members of Ray, condolences from my family.
Timothy Torpy
February 22, 2007
Its been a while sence i have been on this page, as i miss my friend, who was there to talk to and would give me a sholder to cry on. Since you have gone you seem to give me a smile on my face when the times are dark. The worst thing of all i seam to be stuck with your crazy sisters to look up to in the future and present.
Trish Arndt
February 13, 2007
Hey Ray,
well the time has come and it was this week that you left for afghanistan one year ago. I am so greatful for our going away party and for the visit with you while you were on leave. I think of you daily and so wish you were here with us. I know you will still look over us and you are now keeping mom company. You truly are the best brother a girl could have and I am so greatful for all the memories I have of you. I will never forget you. Until we meet again, I will have a few beers here for you. I Love you and miss you very much. Take care and Happy Valentines day, my love is with you. Love Runt!
Jennifer MOntgomery
February 6, 2007
Ill miss you buddy!!!
Cuz Dianna
February 6, 2007
Raymond, I know you are with me in spirit today! I know you would be cheersing me today on my Birthday! Sending me a big bear hug, like you would! I think of you often...
Students and Staff Niton Central School
January 29, 2007
Dear Ray,
The students and staff at Niton Central School dedicated their Christmas Concert in memory of you. On December 22, 2006 students tied yellow ribbons along Highway 16, in the town of Niton Junction, on the school and on their desks to remember you and the other soldiers who could not come home for Christmas. Your father came by to support this campaign. Take care
Students and Staff of Niton Central School.
Cpl Shaun Collins
January 27, 2007
It was a great honor to serve with Ray and to know him on a personal level. Our terrifying kareoke nights of 2005 will never be forgotten. All of your encouraging words and the laughter you brought with them. And who could forget that crazy grin, catch you later Squidsworth.
MCpl Renay Groves
January 16, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Sgt. Ian MacDonald
December 19, 2006
Hi Ray, i can't stop thinking about you since i've been back, especially now that it's Christmas. Darcia i've never met you but your husband was the greatest guy to work with and one of the most honest, decent human beings i've ever met, so i'm sure you're a lovely person. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas. Ray, sure wish you made it home buddy, you did an awesome job over there. Miss you very much.
kenton little
December 15, 2006
Raynond was my brother in law we wernt really close but we had a few christmas together and familly visits we had a good time whene we were together he was a really nice guy and i will miss him alot untill we meet again brother love kenton
Michelle Axmann
November 23, 2006
I cryed when i found out he had pasted. He sounded like a nice guy.
Taryn Buoy
November 23, 2006
Raymond is really missed by everyone!
Alyssa A.
November 11, 2006
Ray was always such a breath of fresh air who could put a smile on anybodys face. All who knew him were truely blessed. Although I never got to see him or talk to him often I will miss him dearly.
Michelle Wright
November 11, 2006
I was so sad to see Ray's name in the Vancouver Province's Rememberance Day article yesterday for our fallen soldiers. I completed Basic Training with Ray back in Wainwright. Ray was such a friendly guy, real salt of the earth quality, fun to be around. I will always remember him as a friend. My condolences to his family.
Leslie McGuire
November 10, 2006
I have always had a great deal of respect for those stronger than I, willing to fight for my freedom. Also, I have had the privilege to be friends with Ray and his family, who are all tremedous people. I believe Ray's grin and his service to a cause bigger than he, is a reflection of his upbringing, with great commendation to Walter and Shirley (as god keeps her soul). "Ray, Thank you."
Kaitlyn Huyck
November 9, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a brave man.
Dianna
November 7, 2006
As the days get closer for us to remember all who fought the war for us and risked their lives my heart aches as I remember you everyday and miss you! I am soo honored, that on this day Millions will be thankful for all you have done!
You indeed are OUR GUARDIAN ANGEL!
I miss you and think of you everyday...love one of your favorite cousins!
Janine M.
November 7, 2006
The coolest unkle I knew.
He was always laughing and had a great smile. When he was in war he and I used to e-mail each other back and fourth day after day but he also loved kids. I couldn't wait to see him again now I just have to wait longer!
kiley+zakary mandrusiak
October 26, 2006
To the coolest brother in law!
You love the army, loved your family, and loved your friends! I hope you find peace, for you are always in our thoughts! I will truly miss your smile and your laugh!! I only wish Zakary could have gotten to know you as he grows up to be a man. He could have learned so much from you, especially army tactics with GI Joes!! To the Arndt family, my deepest sympathy and condolences. Have peace in mind for Raymond is with Mom now, and i'm sure they have a lot of catching up to do!
Jordan Nelson
October 18, 2006
What can you say about Raymond. what I can say is that he was a great out going friend and very fun guy to hang out with! I must give my condolences to the Arndt family because Raymond was one of a kind and will be greatly missed by all that new him or were aquantances of his!
Cindy Jardine
October 5, 2006
My sincere condolences and sympathy go out to your family & friends, you are a hero in my eyes. Love and prayers.
Judy Carter
September 27, 2006
Dear Darcia,
I am so sorry for your loss. You know you have the whole support from all of us over on the MCF Board, and those of here in Edmonton.
Mark & Darcy Arndt
September 12, 2006
My thoughts & prayers are with the family of Raymond Arndt. I know how you feel at the lost of your; husband, son, and brother . Raymond is a hero and his memory will always be with my family and myself. I lost my son, Travis, one year ago in Iraq . This past year the sincere, kind, words & letters of support from people all over the country have helped me and I hope by writing this letter I can do the same for Raymond’s loved ones. The men and women serving their countries have our love and support. My family and I send you our deepest sympathy and offer prayers for your family during this difficult time.
elie cohen
September 7, 2006
Sinceres condolences and sympathies to his family,
very sad to hear those news and G.OD Bless!
elie
Laneli Mangmalik
August 25, 2006
We never meet him but he touch alot of feeling's to any one in Edmonton and he from canada. Remember his in your heart. I know it's reallt hard with out him but remember he was thinking of you all that time went he was away from family.We will thinking of you all in prayer and take care and god bless his family bye for now
Laneli Mangmalik
August 25, 2006
We are sorry about your loss we will thinking about you on prayer and I know It's really hard with out him. but He's in your heart we well be their on prayer for you all the one who loss take care and god bless
Laneli Mangmalik
August 25, 2006
We are sorry about youe loss we will thinking about you on prayer and I know It's really hard with out him. but He's in your heart we well be their on prayer for you all the one who loss take care and god bless
Amanda & Zak Arndt
August 24, 2006
Ray - you have been someone I idolized, respected and enjoyed being around since I was 3 years old & we would torment Trish together. You did everything from teaching me to tie my shoes, modeling my walking style and boring us with "Norman plays soccer" at bed; teaching me the value of money & ownership when you would sell me your toys and maintain first ownership rights; teaching me that there is value in every moment with everyone, and that approaching life with a grin may not always improve a situation, but it keeps people guessing! You always made me feel important and included, and I will treasure all of my memories of you, from sitting in my stairwell in Red Deer to birthday nights with the boys to being a part of your wedding...you were the greatest of brothers, the most amazing of uncles. I am so proud of the life you led, and know that you died not only as my hero, but as a hero for us all.
Melissa Plante
August 23, 2006
I am deeply sorry Amanda, Patricia and family for your loss. Raymond will forever be in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you Raymond for standing up for what you believe in to make this world a better place.
Toni Ice
August 22, 2006
Dear Arndt Family,
Raymond was a sweet guy that will always be as close as a memory and the God of all comfort as close as a prayer. Our thoughts are with you all during this sad time.
Regards,
The Ice Family
Pat Mayo
August 22, 2006
Darcia,
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. You were so proud of Ray, as I'm sure he was of you. Anytime you need a hug, your friends at NCC are here for you.
Bob Dresser
August 22, 2006
Dianna and family,
Our hearts and thoughts are with you. Be proud and be strong, just like the way you have talked to us about Raymond. You are all hero's indeed and we thank you for all that he has done for us all.
The Lauren Group of Companies
Wanda Haire
August 22, 2006
Walter,Juanita,Amanda,Trish &Darcia; I'm so very sorry for your loss! My heart broke when I heard the news as I had prayed so hard for Raymond's safe return. With his big grin,friendliness & special sense of humor, he was always a joy to visit & spend time with. My sympathy & love to you all.
Jodi, Chris and Hailey Arneson
August 21, 2006
Darcia,
I am so sorry for your loss. After our talk about what was happening over there, I had a better appreciation for how a military wife handles life back home. You were so proud of Ray and his accomplishments. I know he was a wonderful man. I wish I had a chance to meet him. My heart goes out to you and your family.
B and Simon Barrett
August 19, 2006
To the Arndt and Lawrence families:
Please know that you are not alone in your grief – a nation mourns for your Raymond. So many stories, so many lives touched. I find that so many have echoed much of what I wished to say. Let me add my voice to theirs: my heart is grieving with yours and you have my unending support and sympathy always. Lest we forget.
jenna hammond
August 19, 2006
hey this is out to the Arndts im very sorry for your loss im sure he was an amazing son and friend and brother. i wish your family will get over this with love and caring.im sorry i didnt go to the funeral
love yas from patricas future sister in law
Uncle Gary & Aunt Rita Stinert
August 18, 2006
Raymond, I am so proud of you. A truly special "kid". We will miss you wonderful laugh, the water fights, the jokes, and your presence. I know your O.K.. God bless you kiddo.... till we meet again....
Anneliese Lesyshen
August 18, 2006
Darcia,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family.
Andrea Lawrence
August 18, 2006
We are saddened to hear about Ray. We stand proud to have had such a fine man in our family. Our thoughts are with you.
the Sask Lawrence's
Marshall
Aaron & Andrea
Rick, Gayle, Richard & David
Tasha Semenko
August 18, 2006
Ray always had a kind smile and word for everyone. He will be remembered of fondly, heartfelt condolences to the family. Best wishes Ray.
Tom & Sandy Carr
August 17, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Juanita and Wayne. God Bless.
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