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Roger Borchert
November 7, 2017
Lest We Forget.
My poem for Remembrance Day 2017. So proudly I can stand Canadian with the freedom of my voice; in the peace of the most wonderful nation in our world, gifted to me and my fellow Canadians through the efforts and sacrifices of so many.
So many lay across our world
A great wide world divide
Separated by oceans wide
Politics and strife
Our heroes stood
So strong, so proud
To lift
To help
Protect
Those in need a world away
To bring them a new day
Beyond a century
They have stood
So strong and given all
To place a face
A heart a soul
Show a world where it belongs
Not in vengeance
Not in war
Not in carrying forth
An ethnic cleansing which has no place
In our world stepping forth
Not in terror
Not in pain
Not in beating down
Those who need us standing by
To help them finally stand
Waste not your tears
Let them flow
The reason so well known
For with a tear a thought is shared
For a soldier you may not know
No longer necessary to travel far
To find a hero laid
For now they lay across our land
Near the homes, where they were raised
They were Neighbors
Classmates
Moms or Dads
Sons or Daughters
Loved Ones
Friends
Or just the soldier
Down the road
You use to see each day
At a glance they were, just like you and I
If one didn't even know
Of the step
They took to stand
In a far off distant land
They stepped forth to build a better world
Protect those they did not know
Placed themselves in danger's way
To stop terror where it roamed
So sadly soldiers pay the price
So do their families, loved ones, friends
To protect a world, from itself
Against the terrors that evil sends
Forever Grateful
May They R.I.P.
We Will Remember Them
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family
Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
November 10, 2016
In thoughts of all those who have given all that could be given for our freedoms, our beliefs, our futures and in thoughts of their families, loved ones, friends and fellow soldiers. Thank You. We Will Remember
Etched in history's past hundred years
Is freedom's struggle forth
As nations stood allied to stand
To stop tyranny's closing doors
So many sons
Lay in far off lands
Never to return
Except in thoughts and memories shared
By their fellow soldiers, families, friends
What touches hearts still beating for
Those who stood that ground
Are those who shared their stories forth
Of a war that turned around
As years passed by
Nations share
A bond that cannot brake
Those who found freedom's door
Opened in their wake
Dear Lord, sons and daughters taught
Their children, of the past
Now years and years
So little's changed
Except the speed the news is passed
Yes war has changed
This past hundred years
As more and more have stood
Fallen near, that brethren strong
Freedom held so dear
I wish my tears could wash away
The reality war has shown
Shown to me, as one who cares
As one who's stood so near
One who allowed the tears to flow
As a mom talked and shared her love
For a fallen one
She held so dear
Now lifted high above
To continue caring, listening
As their daughters chatted so
And let me know
Of a love they held
For a dad who gave his all
His love
For his Nation dear
His all for a world to be
That which he would pass along
To his children strong and free
I stand with fallen angels
Their families, loved ones, friends
I stand with soldier bears who've heard
Over and over and over, again
I love you dad, I love you mom
I wish, you could come home
But now I know you look after me
From where ever angels go
By Roger Borchert For Remembrance Day 2016
My heart goes out to so many families who have shared with me, their journey to overcome such loss. My thanks to Britt and Sarah Stewart of Allan' s Angels Camp for introducing me to your soldier bears and letting me hear your dad say in his own voice good night to you even 3 years after his loss. My journey into 8 years of poetry and caring for the families of our fallen and wounded has taken so much of a bite out of me and left me so proud of our soldiers and their military families; I cannot turn away. Hugs to all: We Will Remember Them.
Roger, Eileen and The Borchert Family Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2015
In thoughts of our fallen, their families, fellow soldiers, loved ones, and friends this Christmas 2015. May you enjoy the beauty, the wonder, and the miracles Christmas lays at our sides and in our hearts.
They stand nearby the window
Looking out through frost and fog
In hopes of seeing that miracle
That brings a loved one close
Their sighs in frosted vapor
Cling to that window pane
And will not melt
Until their heart, allows it to be felt
A moment, a special moment
A gentle thought recalled
Warms a heart
Fills a mind, with love once held so close
Oh Lord, I pray, their angel
Wanders close
Wanders near
For hearts, who held a soldier dear
Would see their loved one near
A child, a wife, a mom, a dad
A brother, sister, fellow soldier, loved one, friend
Would see the vision of one who stood
So proudly for all of them
I pray, Oh Lord, Our Canada
Feels their hearts, shares their tears
And holds them close, near beside
At this special time of year
For it is that time, when hearts break so
When hearts feel so much pain
For those they love
Those who gave
For a better world to save
I pray they view the value
Of the colours that appear
At this time, in Christmas joy
That brings us all so near
A special child
Found in love
For a world, held so dear
Walked among, mortal souls
Allowed a moment near
A moment of a lifetime
Albeit short, standing proud
Never flinched, never swayed
Towards a better world to save
Onward, onward, they have stood
Hold back tyranny or terror
In memory of one who shone
A light of Christmas Cheer
If we could just, but capture
A moment out of time
To share the glow of angels near
As a soldier left behind
All that was so sacred
All that held so dear
All that was the love of life
That held so many near
We would know that there, is more to life
Than each of us can give
It's seen within the window's glow
Through the frost on which it clings
As fond, fond memories melt its cold
And friends, loved ones, do recall
A Soldier as he wandered near
Near for all of us
By Roger Borchert
Wishing you all the Joy and Warmth Christmas has to offer. Know only; we just need to open our hearts to allow its's wonder to appear.
Merry Christmas
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
April 3, 2015
My poem for this Easter 2015
There are times respect
Grasps at the heart
For a gift so far beyond
Incomprehensibly stilled within the minds
Of those who've seen the light
So brightly shone within mind's eye
As real as life can bare
As heroes rode a highway home
Tears welled up within eyes
A nation stood, so near, to show
Their families, loved ones, friends
They weren't alone in sorrow's depth
As their loved ones returned home
On this, such special weekend
As hearts ponder a gift t'was given
To all mankind across our earth
From one who stood divine
A gift to grant a new birth
Believe in me, the message taught
He spread his good across the lands
Followed every step he took
He lived, he died, at the hands
Of those who could not see
The good he shared, the morals taught
The love that came to be
For all mankind forgiveness
For all another chance
For all to see each other
With a mutual respect
To pass along wherever roamed
A foundation of a world to be
He rose again from where entombed
To show, living, is more than life
It is how we live
What we give
During our moment here on earth
For centuries throughout history
There are those who are the beast
Who walk our earth immoral
Defile everything they see
Decimate, exterminate
Terrorize all within their path
Who do not share a vision held
In the mind, the beast has grasped
Easter weekend is about a love
Respect beyond compare
Passed on from one
Who stood, who gave
For a better world to come
Canada was founded
On this love passed along
A nation of mutual tolerance
And respect for all mankind
We are a collage of humanity
Evolved for a world to see
That mankind from a world surround
Can share a nation free
That rise to share this goodness
Stand across a world protect
A gift from those who make it so
Who stand to hold the beast
For all those who have stood, been wounded, or given their lives to foster this goodness across our world, we remain forever in your debt. May you know the light of eternal life shared and celebrated each Easter.
By Roger Borchert
Our hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family
Morinville, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2014
For the Families of our Canadian Forces who lost a loved one during or due to their service for our nation, Christmas 2014
I have seen the frost the low clouds bring
As it rests on every branch
Glistens forth from each blade of grass
Paints pictures on the glass
Captured for a moment
Till sunshine's glow warms the chill
That froze each thought
The low clouds brought
As they wrapped around the soul
But the glisten, oh that glisten
Its sparkle shining forth
It brings the smiles, then the tears
As Christmas gathers forth
Lord our world is a reality
That spills what life unfolds
And those who've stood, those who gave
Are those we hold so close
Captured in a memory
Of a sibling, daughter, son, mom or dad
Who took that step, held out that hand
In a far off distant land
They took that step for Canada
For a whole wide world protect
And visit now at special times
As if they've never left
They are that sparkle that brings a tear
They are that laughter that brings a smile
They are that warmth now ever held so close
And at Christmas they're always near
Held forever in a heart's belief
Glowing brighter than the stars
That shines in eyes that hold them close
Throughout each Christmas time
Hang that special bulb upon the tree
The one that gleams and glows
That one that holds all Frosty shines
Glistening in the snow
For a special, special son was born
Who stepped forth to change a world
Who shared his life for all mankind
Brought forth hope of eternal life
So many tears at Christmas time
So many found in joy
So many smiles surround the tree
Each blessed Christmas morn
By Roger Borchert
We Will Remember Them. Wishing You All a Very Joyous Christmas and All the Best in the Coming Year
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2014
A thought in Remembrance, 2014. Please Know, We Will Remember Them.
A nation is measured by the hearts that beat
That make up its collective soul
And is witnessed in steps taken forth
As across a world they've roamed
I gathered my thoughts reluctantly
While about, out on a walk
A blustery day, as wind blew by
Leaves falling from the sky
I looked into the heavens
As tears were rolling down
My cheeks a chill, the tears they froze
As at once I realized
The leaves were endless soldiers
Who stood for all and gave
So we might each day have the joy
To walk in freedom's way
To not be hiding who we are
Not worry, to grow old
To not be shuffled to the side
To stand and be so bold
To demand that freedom is the goal
Of our nation standing strong
For founded in the leaves that blow
Are the hearts, the very souls
The torches passed to soldiers
From a brethren strong and free
Who stood and said no more, no more
As tyranny roamed the streets
Of far off lands, now close at home
They stood, they lived, they died
They paid the price of freedom
The price of Canada
For they have stood and given all
On behalf of all of us
A tear is just a moment
A fleeting moment's thought
2 minutes in a year that's passed
For freedom for all of us
2 minutes to remember
Those who lived, those who gave
That we could build a nation strong
Stronger by the day
But only through reflection
In the pool of tears now shed
For those who gave their very all
That we might live the dream they bled
A precious little flower
A poppy just to say
That we remember
Those who stood
In such an honoured way
Please stop for just a moment
A thought, a prayer, a tear
For those who've lost
Those who've stood
Their families, loved ones, friends
Please reflect on what
Life might have brought
If not for all of them
By Roger Borchert
Thank You to all those who have served, serve presently, all of their families, loved ones, and friends who walk so nearby their sides and support them as they step forth on our behalf. A very special Thank You to all those who have shared and lost their loved one in the service or because of their service on behalf of our Canada.
Our hearts, our tears, our prayers
We Will Remember Them
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2013
For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013
Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more
May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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Roger Borchert
November 6, 2013
We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013
For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today
We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Roger Borchert
March 30, 2013
My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.
Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
December 23, 2012
For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012
Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you
Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
November 11, 2012
For Remembrance Day 2012
Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day
We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB
Jason Learn
November 11, 2012
To my nephew Mark, always loved and missed!
jason learn
November 11, 2012
Sadly missed by his uncle Jason! Condolences to his daughter, and parents at this time! He is spoken of highly and often.
Denise Stark
May 2, 2012
To the Graham Family
My sincere condolences on the passing of Mark. May he be resting in peace, though giving you strength from above. The journey is a difficult and long one as I am finding out. We lost our son/soldier in Oct/11. The pain of losing a child is like that of no other. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers as I remember those who gave their lives for us and this country! R.I.P. Mark
Supporting our Troops
Roger Borchert
December 24, 2011
For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011
The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth
By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Brad Otsuka
November 11, 2011
Your sacrifice is never forgotten. R.I.P. Mark.
Jason LaPorte
November 11, 2011
Thank you , Mark.
I'm sad that you died.
jodie
September 14, 2011
thinking of you....
Jeff Phinney
November 12, 2010
Miss you bro!!!!!!!!
Dave Williams
November 11, 2010
In memory of Mark and the many others who have sacrificed themselves to allow us to live our lives free of the fear of terrorism. You will always have a special place in my heart.
R.D. (Dave) Williams CD, Capt (ret'd)
jodie
November 11, 2010
never forgotten
Linda Dorion
November 11, 2010
In loving memory of Mark Graham. We will never forget you. Your friends from Hamilton and Sir Allan McNabb will always honour your memory and your ultimate sacrifice.
Kerry Thomas
November 3, 2010
God Bless our fallen soldiers and those who continue to brave their lives for this Country.
Kerry
www.victoriouslegacy.com
Roger Borchert
November 1, 2010
Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.
They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave
By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Sara Domeier
May 17, 2010
Thinking of you extra today as it would have been your 37th birthday. Time doesn't take away the pain, it only teaches us how to handle it. I miss you, Mark Anthony. ~Love is Eternal, you'll always be in my heart~
always,
Sara
Roger Borchert
April 3, 2010
As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone
They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice
By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert
December 23, 2009
To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas
The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile
By Roger Borchert
We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
November 7, 2009
In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day
For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live
By Roger Borchert
So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Francis Mahe
September 7, 2009
Thank you Mark for your service and sacrifice. We will always be grateful.
Sandy Mellish
September 1, 2009
As we approach the day that changed lives forever Mark; we are thinking of you and those who love you and hold you so close.
For sure, life can never be the same again for them. Those who loved you see the world so differently now without you here to share it with them.
To them; our hearts too ache for the loss they feel every day; but; especially on the 4th of September; we will keep them and you close in prayer.
Rest in Peace oh Good and Faithful Servant.
Sandy Mellish
Mother of a Canadian Hero
WO Frank Mellish KIA 03 Sep 2006
jodie
August 14, 2009
though its just around the corner.....i try not to think of that day and focus on all the other wonderful days in your life. keep smiling until we meet agian
Roger Borchert
April 8, 2009
Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.
We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you
Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.
Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
December 31, 2008
For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes
May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see
May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.
Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Roger Borchert
December 20, 2008
For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.
I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside
Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you
I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory
I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye
I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near
As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near
May our Lord be near you all.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
[email protected]
Mandy Cameron
November 10, 2008
Hey Mark. We only knew each other at track meets, and the occasional party. I always thought you were great. I remember you would kick everybody's butt in track, but you were so down to earth, and made everyone feel like your friend. Thanks for that. God sure is lucky to have you up there. :)
Roger Borchert
November 6, 2008
In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:
There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.
We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost
Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
[email protected]
Sara Domeier
October 21, 2008
Speak His Name
Don’t be afraid to speak his name,
I know things aren’t the same.
He lives in my heart, soul and mind,
It’s a kind of peace that I find.
We all have memories that we can share,
Don’t hide them, it’s not fair.
So don’t let silence become a game,
That would be such a shame.
I love it when we reminisce,
The days with him that I still miss.
Don’t be afraid that we might cry,
Don’t make us have to say good-bye.
When we talk about the past,
It helps make the memories last.
So be my friend so dear,
End the silence that I fear!
MARK-ANTHONY GRAHAM.... you are missed and your memory is kept alive...."love is eternal, you'll always be in my heart"
Roger Borchert
September 29, 2008
With a heavy heart stepping forth
Please forgive me when I say
That I let you down in the past
In not a little way
I did not write to let you know
Just how much I cared
For the sacrifice you’ve given
For so many in despair
You stepped forth and joined our forces
Laid your life upon the line
To bring about a safer world
A new world in our time
Fellow soldiers friends and families
And those you held so dear
Still think of you most everyday
For us others it’s not so clear
We must slow down and take the time
Understand how great the cost
For if not placed in front of us
Can we comprehend the loss
Sometimes we’re just so very shy
Or we don’t know what to say
Or do not want to interfere
Or seem superficial in any way
I can no longer withhold my thoughts
I have to pass them on
For it breaks my heart just thinking of
All those left to carry on
Please know that you are in my prayers
Will be there for years to come
Know that you are in my thoughts
For the efforts you have done
Oh yes there is that special day
To remember not to forget
Those who’ve paid the greatest price
We can never repay this debt
Pte. Mark Anthony Graham we knew you not, but our prayers reach out for you, your loved ones, friends, and fellow soldiers. We do, so dearly, thank you and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.
The Borchert Family Slave Lake Alberta
Eileen Tay
September 20, 2008
~{Rest In Peace}~
Jodie
September 4, 2008
2 years ago today you were taken from this world to serve in gods army of angles, to watch over all your loved ones just as you did when you were here. Never far from my thoughts, always in my heart. Till we meet agian friend.
jodie
July 9, 2008
Just thinking of you and your beautiful smile. Never far from my thoughts and always in heart.
Garth Lee
February 28, 2008
I miss you big guys.I think about all of you guy's that where there.I wish we could have know each other more then 5 mths before you left it was hard to hear what happen and I will think about you and your family every day. God bless I see you up there in the near time. your freind and your cook.
Andre Poulin
November 12, 2007
i dont really know what to say here, except that for some reason this one stuck with me. its made me want to join the armed forces even more. every day i wake up thinking about what happened, and even though i never knew you personally, i will honour your death.
god bless your family and friends.
David VanSickle
November 8, 2007
Im a student at Port Dover Composite School and on Friday November 9th I am standing in recognition of Mark Graham at a school assembly. I would also like to say I am sorry for your loss.
October 13, 2007
You are cordially invited to attend the “Celebration of Life” Event as we honor and recognize the lives of Our Community Members and Fallen Soldiers we have lost during 2006-2007.
The program includes, a DVD Pictorial Memorial Tribute, Music, Candle lighting, Balloon Release, and Refreshments. Each family receives a personalized ornament to place on a Christmas tree as a remembrance of their loved one.
Families who have experienced loss find this event a wonderful time of remembrance and healing. We would love your family to be apart of this event as our Community joins together to recognize and honor your loved one during this Holiday Season.
We will be honoring all the Fallen Soldiers that were assigned to Fort Hood Texas. If you are not able to attend and would like to send a favorite photo, please feel free to do so.
RSVP By Website www.col2007.com
Call Celebration of Life Staff at 254-245-7061
October 1, 2007
Ecclesiastes 3
A Time for Everything
There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven--
A time to give birth and a time to die;
A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted.
time to kill and a time to heal;
A time to tear down and a time to build up.
A time to weep and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn and a time to dance.
A time to throw stones and a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace and a time to shun embracing.
A time to search and a time to give up as lost;
A time to keep and a time to throw away.
A time to tear apart and a time to sew together;
A time to be silent and a time to speak.
A time to love and a time to hate;
A time for war and a time for peace.
Mysti Connolly
September 5, 2007
It's been one year since you've been gone, and I still think about you a lot. I've had the Spectator with your story in it on my kitchen table since I bought it last Saturday. I've been staring at it all week and finally got myself to read it this morning. I knew it would be hard, it took me over an hour to read as I couldn't believe what I was reading, I read sentences over and over again and stopped clearly because I couldn't see because of my tears. You were so brave Mark and I am so proud of you. Your last days will always be with me, your words and your memory. "These people need help" you wrote in your diary... thank you Mark for fighting for a safer future for us and for your compassion to help the unfortunate people who do not live in a stable, safe,environment. I will always look up to you and someday will tell you myself what you mean to me. Until then you are in my prayers, and your family too, I can't imagine how they must be feeling... God bless you all...
Kelly Dove
September 4, 2007
I have never met you but it feels like I have known you forever. It still feels like yesterday even though it is a year ago today, you will never be forgotten. Godspeed Mark.
To the Graham family.
I am sorry I never got a chance to speek to you. I guess I have been wrapped up in my own grief and could'nt look pass my pain. You are in my prayers.
Kelly(wife of WO Richard Nolan)
Chauntelle Whitehead
September 4, 2007
A year ago today.......so hard to beleive. Me and Vance miss you sooooooooooo much it hurts. Jordan refers to you as Uncle Mark now. Anytime he sees your pictures he turns to us and says Uncle Mark. I really wish you could be here with all of us. Thinking of your family always. Miss you and love you
September 4, 2007
Grief comes in one size, Extra Large.
If we tuck it away in the bottom drawer
where it never sees the light of day,
it remains exactly the same.
On the other hand,
if we wear it, feel it, talk about it,
and share it with others,
it is likely that it will become faded, shrunk and worn,
or will simply no longer fit.
When grief has served its purpose,
we are able to recognize the many gifts we have gained.
Danielle Field
September 3, 2007
Well its been a year now since u've been gone. Life is carrying on, i didnt know how to do that for awhile. Rylies really big now, and she'd be able to say ur name now, sometimes it sounds like she is but shes talkin to the dog. Fielder and I really miss you, i htink of u often. sinful chocolate, i miss you
STEVE BUCKETT
August 25, 2007
To the Graham family I hope you have enjoyed the framed pictures of Mark playing in our regional championships. Those are some awsome pictures of Mark skying over everyone.It's the best pictures I've seen. I just wanted Mark to know that We finally won the mens NATIONAL BASKETBALL CHAMPIONSHIPS and i must say it was the hardest finals I've been in. The guys and I were thinking about mark throughout the tourney, and it wasn't until we were down by 3 with a minute or so left in the final that we called a time out. We were pretty quiet when one of the guys said listen up, lets win this for MARK man did we get fired up and before we knew it MARK ANTHONY GRAHAM WAS A CFB PETAWAWA STAG NATIONAL BASKETBALL CHAMPION and our MVP.Mark that was for you. Miss you man. Thinking of you always.
July 31, 2007
Mark...what to say...you will forever be remembered...you have made such a positive impact on our lives, and for that we are grateful for..such wisdom could never be forgotten
Jim Garnham
June 26, 2007
Mark,
I just wanted to let you know that I will be coming to see you next week. I am looking forward to talking with you again. I miss you more than words can describe, you were a great person and a better friend. Until next week. Take care!
jodie
May 17, 2007
hey mark just wanted to say happy birthday. i know you'll be looking down tommrow night when we celebrate you. cheers friend till we meet agian
Robert Fountaine
May 16, 2007
I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday.
kerrie kean
May 10, 2007
hey Graham. Its the craziest thing. I cant believe I was in basic with you only 3 years ago. time sure does fly, but wishing now it could of went a little slower. I miss you like mad, your an amzing person and im sure there are many that feel the same way. Im a little speachless right now cause i got the news about you by doing a report, which was not very easy to take. Miss you lots!!!!
Tracy Hughes
May 7, 2007
Hey Mark Anthony. Missing you lots today. Keep thinking about the way you taught me to remain a positive person and to see good in everyone. Just want to say thank you for making me a better person. I miss you dearly.
Davin Conway
April 9, 2007
Hey Mark, i'll never forget you for giving me back my life man... the things you said will stay with me forever.. you were an angel to us all
Glen Fox
March 9, 2007
Hi Mark. It's Fox's brother. I never got to know you well but i heard great things about you. My Brother and my Father loved you dearly. I wish you were still here. I'm deeply proud of all your accomplishments and for keeping Kyle out of trouble, lol. I live to fight another day in your's and all other fallen comrades names. Pro Patria.
Monty MacDonald
February 13, 2007
I was in Mark's section on work up training, and overseas. He was an outstanding driver and good soldier one of the best i have ever served with, and a personality unlike i have ever met. Truly a special person he will be missed. My condolences to the Graham family
CherryTomato
February 3, 2007
I miss you, I love you, you are always in my heart. It so hard to say goodbye, so I won't, I can't. So hello my love, you are alive with me still.
Hugs and Kisses your CherryTomato
Dawn-Noel Brennan
January 30, 2007
mark i didnt know you for a long time, but for the time i did know you was great and i will never forget it. you were as great a person as you were a soldier. you'll forever be remember.
"Another soldier dies and enters the gates of heaven, to St. Peter he says 'another soldier reporting sir, i've served my time in hell"
fallen but NEVER forgotten.
you and everyone else who sacraficed your lives are true heroes.
steve buckett
January 26, 2007
Dear Pte. Mark Anthony Graham and Graham Family. Mark we first met 3 years ago playing military basketball. We travelled down to CFB Trenton for the regionals in 2005, we lost in the finals. But i've never seen or met anyone like you, who could talk to people the way you did.Even the refs had a smile on their faces running up the court. I just could not believe the way you respected people and the respect they returned to you. It was a blessing to watch. Mark this year I have your initials on my basketball shoes I had to have you with us. At our basketball regionals last week in CFB Borden, we won, that win was for you . You will always be in our hearts forever. The guys on the Stags basketball team miss you like you could never imagine. I miss your presence on the court and your friendship.Every time I enter the gym I start thinking about you and the fun we had on and off the court, it always puts a smile on my face.The Nationals are for YOU.RIP MY FRIEND THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS.YOU MILITARY FAMILY.To the Graham family, my family send our condolences to you.It was my pleasure to meet and be a great friend of mark. I miss you mark thinking of you always.
MCpl Renay Groves
January 15, 2007
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Daniel Graham
January 13, 2007
Hey BIG brother mark i missed you soo much during christmas, i dont come to this site often i cant really handle it, i know your watchen over me evry day i put on the same uniform you passed in and wear it with so much more pride. I love you so much and miss you
Marilyn Kinden
January 2, 2007
I do not know you only through my son who was in , Charlie Company 1RCR with you and was there when your life was taken on Sept 4, 2006. He said that you were the biggest and strongest and one of the nicest soldiers he has met. In reading alot of the comments posted about you, my heart breaks knowing the pain endured by many and that it could also be my son today, tommorrow, who knows. You will never be forgotton....watch over your fellow comrades on the front lines as they battle with the Taliban in Afghanistan.....
Susan Cushman
December 27, 2006
I knew Mark as we competed together at the '92 Olympic Games in Barcelona.Mark, your death brought into perspective for me to continue to live my life with the end in mind. Mark you were my first true love and I will never forget how you enriched my life in all ways.I know you are running right beside me as I run my first marathon.!Cherished in my heart!..Love Me
jodie
December 22, 2006
At this time of year of joy and cheer know that you are not forgotten. As we celebrate over the next few days we will reflect that is because of men & women like Mark that we have the freedom to do so. Rest in Peace my friend.Until we meet agian....
Dan Miller
December 13, 2006
I used to work with Mark Anthony about four years ago. He and I became instant friends. We attended the same high school, but not at the same time. Mark was five years older then myself. I was fortunate enough to see him occasionally, after we no longer worked together, because we lived relatively close to one another and because I have friends who live in the same court as his parents. However, we didn't see one another often enough. I, myself became a funeral director, while Mark went and joined the military. I can recall when Mark told me his plans and I told him that I thought he was crazy. Unfortunetly, circumstances being what they are, that was the last conversation that I would have with Mark, right there at his kitchen table. I can still remember the day I was getting ready for work and saw Mark's parents on CH Morning live, watching his casket come off of the plane. I was beside myself. This was the first I had heard of his untimely death, as I was away Labour Day Weekend. I found myself going to the church to visit with his parents and the whole way there I was hoping that this was some sort of mistake. Obviously not. I had a very difficult time sitting through his funeral as I kept thinking of what a happy guy he was and how much fun he was to be around. When I would go to work with Mark, it certainly didn't feel like work. I was lucky enough to drive in and out of work with Mark. He made the day go by quickly. I found that we would have such a good time, that at the end of the day I was doing a full day's work in one and a half hours because of all of the hours spent on fun. I know that three months have passed since Mark's death, but I find myself thinking of him a lot. Throughout the day things are constantly reminding me of Mark. As Christmas approaches, I can't help but feel badly for Mark's family. There is a poem that I have come across at work entitled "My First Christmas In Heaven" I truly hope that Mark is enjoying his first Christmas in Heaven, because it is going to be a difficult day for a lot of people this year and likely the years to come. Anyhow, I felt it necessary to share a brief tale of the Mark Anthony I knew. Thanks for the oppertunity. Mark, you are truly missed. Rememberence day cerimonies certainly have a new meaning for me. Rest in Peace, from someone who is proud to call you friend, Dan Miller. You are missed beyond belief!
Kambiz Salami
November 11, 2006
As you lay in rest. Your country has not forgotten you. Today I held the honour of holding your name in our Remembrance day parade and wanted to share that with you.
I hope as you stand by god that he may protect those who are already serving.
Lest we forget.
Cpl.Salami
Queens York Rangers
1st American Regiment
32 Brigade, Toronto, Canada
Joseph F
November 6, 2006
Dear Pte. Mark Anthony Graham and Graham Family,
I have never met you, or seen you until recently. I am in grade 10, and i was recently assigned a Rememberance Day project... a project on a fallen, brave, Canadian soldier. I did Pte. Mark Anthony Graham. I would like to give my most sincere condolences to the Graham family, and i would like to thank Pte. Mark Anthony Graham for his sacrifice to make this country and this world a better place.
Yours Most Sincerely,
Joseph F.
Corrinne Cox
October 30, 2006
I miss you Mark with all my heart and soul, you were truely one of a kind, and your passing is a great loss to this world, I will always be grateful for your friendship,all the times you were there for me, and for the wisdom you shared.You made a very important and positive impact in my life. My thoughts and prayers are with the Graham family and daughter Shae-Lynn, R.I.P Mark-Anthony, Love Always
Dani Field
October 28, 2006
Gman, sometimes I still insist that there was a mistake and you'll come back home. mine and chris' house isnt the same without u. I miss your dancing around, ur singing about mango trees and pirates. Rylies getting big now, i cry every day cuz i keep realizing that she wont ever get to know her godfather, not the way we hoped her too. Gman you taught me how to embrace everything life throws your way, but at this time i find it the hardest thing to do. I know your still here watching listening, sp i just want you to know that i hope we can teach Rylie to embrace and celebrate life the way you did. Ilove you my rent a date, and miss you as well, you are and will always be in mine and chris's heart, minds and soul
Kyle Fox
October 24, 2006
Mark man its Foxy...I know your'e still here with me man, Still fighting beside me,I miss you man...Sudbury won't be the same without you brother. Remember the bowling ally...Brothers for life man remember....I Love you man.cpl fox
Stephane Pare
October 23, 2006
Mark, I'll always remember you as a dear friend who enjoyed life to it's fullest, and the many times you slammed that ball in the hoop in those many times I played against you. For ever in debt to your sacrifice, you friend, Steph. Peace bro.
Tobin Simcox
October 20, 2006
Dear Mark
You were one of my best friends , the times in Owen sound and then in Petawawa at 1 RCR , its not going to be the same with out you when i get back from Afghanistan, my prayers are with your family and friends ( PRO PATRIA )
anisa arshi
October 16, 2006
you touched all of us. i just wanted to thank you for doing everything you did. you have blessed my soul. we will remember you as a friend. rest in peace
Anthony Spicer
October 16, 2006
Thanks for serveing our country.we are doing a social project and i got to do a study on pte.Mark Graham
Ashley L
October 13, 2006
It has been almost 6 weeks since Mark's death and I still find myself sobbing uncontrollably. I can't imagine what it must be like for his family. I pray every night for them, for his parents, siblings, daughter, aunts, uncles, I pray for you all. I knew Mark for a couple of years and he was an outstanding person, always having the right thing to say and always willing to help. He knew how to make people laugh when they needed it or had open arms when you needed them. He was the most genuine person I have ever known and I thank God for the time that I spent with him. His fellow soldiers, friends, are in my prayers as well. God bless.
Anthony Burrell
October 12, 2006
He was a true Buffalo Soldier. Rest in Peace my Brother.
October 4, 2006
Dearest Mark Anthony Graham,
You were an amazing, smart, soul capturing person. Your words, were like a breath of air to me. Your heart was such a beautiful place to visit. So caring, and always sharing such wonderful, inspirational words. I have and will always think of you! Please keep close watch over your family, friends and all Canadians who are left over seas that are fighting for whats right over there! I miss you so it hurts.
Mike Wong
September 30, 2006
Graham Family. Mark will be watching us. Don't be sad. He will always be in our heart for the rest of our lives. Rest in Peace my friend.
Ed & Kathy White
September 30, 2006
To the Graham Family
We feel truly blessed to have known such a wonderful man as Mark. We first met Mark and Basic Training Graduation with our son Adam.We really got to know what a truly remarkable person he was when he stayed here at our home. My husband remembers talking to Mark about how apprehensive we were with Adam being only 18 and joining the Army. His first response was to assure us that he would always watch over Adam. That one comment speaks volumes of the kind of man that he was. Adam and Billy formed a lasting friendship with your son, that will last forever. He was such an influence on both our son's lives and we thank you for that. May God bless you all and we will keep you in our prayers.
Kara Bellefeuille
September 30, 2006
I only Knew youy for a short time but I will never forget you. You always had this huge presence where ever you went. You're glowing personality and that wonderful smile was enough to make anyone comfortable. You will sadly missed and fondly remember by scores of people. My condolences to your family and friends. You gave up the ultimate thing to keep people safe. thank you!
Sean Michael Sopha
September 29, 2006
Dear Graham Family, I had the pleasure of competing with Mark and your other son Jason as we were all part of Sir Allan MacNab Track Team. When I heard the news that Mark had given the altimate sacrifice for our great country, my heart sank. I also serve as Mark did, and because of that I know that he would have believed as I do,that what we are doing there in Afghanistan is the right thing. My deapest sympathy goes out to Mark and his Family. It was an honour knowing Mark, and he will be missed.
Bdrc Sean Michael Sopha
5e RALC
UBIQUE!
Adam White
September 28, 2006
Albert, Linda, Jay and Dan Graham
I would like to personally thank you for letting me be there with you all in Hamilton and treating me like I was part of the family. Mark was my best friend and he always will be. Albert I constantly think about what you said to me that night at the kitchen table about how Mark is running that perfect track in heaven. I miss Mark so much it makes me sick but I know I will see him again in Paradise. We used to discuss bible versus together and Mark would always have the bible verse to set my mind at ease. That night in Meaford when he told me about JOSHUA 1:9 and how he thought I should read it and tell him what I think, I was amazed at how that verse touched my life in so many ways."BE STRONG AND OF A GOOD COURAGE;BE NOT AFRAID,NEITHER BE THOU DISMAYED: FOR THE LORD THY GOD IS WITH THEE WHITHERSOEVER THOU GOEST". I remember getting it tattooed on my arm and Mark being more excited than I was.He was my best friend and I will never forget everything he tought me and what an impact he made on my life.I know he is still looking out for me like a big brother from heaven and I will always feel like he is present with me wherever I go. I remember those late nights,Mark and I hangin out, just talking about all the great life experiences he had and the pointers he would give me. He always knew how to bring a smile onto anyone's face.I am excited for the day where I will be reunited with my best friend and we can hang out at the gates of heaven and talk again.
Love you all,
Adam
STEVE and the gang
September 28, 2006
My freinds and I had the pleasure of knowing Mark while he was doing his training in Meaford. The entire time Mark was there, our weekends consisted of non stop fun. A few of us girls and some of the guys Mark was training with, headed to Wasaga Beach for a weekend. What an interesting time that was. Just walking into a room, Mark would light it up. mark joined my roomate and I for Thanksgiving that year and I attended Marks DP1 grad in Meaford, proud that this amazing man had made it. We kept in contact over his time in Petawawa. May of this year, the gals and I made the 6 hour journey to visit Mark and another one of the boys we had the pleasure of meeting. We had an amazing time talking about the old times back in the sound. I only wish that that 6 hour journey we made 2 weeks ago was to talk to you again.Mark Anthony Graham you always were and always will be in our thoughts. We will see you again some day. Keep watch over those boys Mark. Peace and Love!!
PRO PATRIA
errol & elaine cushley
September 24, 2006
to the graham family,we did not have much time to talk at trenton,we were to wrapped up in our own grief,and we are sorry for that.our son william talked about your son and what a great guy he was.they were on the same bus out together.we just wanted you to know that we feel the same pain as you and hope that in feeling your pain it will help to lessen yours a little.
Hope-Ann Morgan
September 21, 2006
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to the Graham family. I have had the pleasure to talk and see Mark Anthony Graham almost every day on Base Petawawa. He was such a warm, caring and extemely funny guy. I spoke to Mark and many of the same men that were hit by "Friendly Fire" the morning they were leaving for Afganistan, and writing to Mark through emails while in Afagan. We took pictures, laughed and had just a good time. Once they got their hugs and words of comfort they were off, walking down the hall. I remember calling out to Mark and told him along with the others "Don't be a hero, cower" It was meant to lighten what was getting to be a anxious time. Mark was so relaxed and confident though. This is what he wanted to do, and no one was going to stop him. My heart breaks for all the soldiers loved ones, and to the injured. It breaks for Mark's Daughter, for his parents, his brothers and everyone who knew him. I feel like I see Mark all through G-101 where he lived, it's comforting and yet there's a feeling that something is missing. I miss his smile, his knowledge, his sense of style, his kindness and his humour. I so miss my Special Friend. Its amazing how in his short life he was able to touch so many people's lives. We have all been truly blessed by knowing Mark and to know that he's smiling down and watching over us.
We all Miss you so Very Much Mark. RIP
Love Hope
Kim Allmer
September 15, 2006
I first met Mark Anthony while he lived in Calgary in 1993. He was a truly unique and amazing human being, who positively affected so many lives. When we spent time together, it was remarkable to watch him make such strong and positive impressions through even the most casual interactions. More than a decade later I still think of him often and am inspired by the presence he had – his strong example resonates, and continues to help me develop myself as a person. He was so caring, considerate, encouraging and healthy (in mind, body and spirit). He had a fantastic way of looking at everything with such a fresh perspective and a beautifully contagious smile (still contagious in fact - a smile sneaks across my face right now as I recall it so clearly). Just reading some of the entries here confirms what I’ve often believed about Mark Anthony Graham; The efforts that he made during his stay on this earth brought much beauty and support to many others during their time here as well…I too think he is smiling down protectively from above, doing just as he did in life. While he has left this world far too soon, his beautiful spirit will live on in the memories of those blessed with having known him…My thoughts and prayers are with the Graham family.
Kim Allmer
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. ~Author Unknown
Steve Lamrock
September 15, 2006
I am the course Warrant Officer that was in charge of the driver wheel crse Pte Graham attended as his last crse prior to leaving LFCA TC Meaford.
As a 21 year veteran I do not know of or have I ever known a better man or able soldier. Mark was the example the crse strove to emulate. Mark is and ever shall be a hero. May he rest in peace. Godspeed Mark
Mike Caza
September 14, 2006
Mark and I were roomates at Kent State University. We shared many good times together. My condolences go out to all of Mark's family and friends during this time.
Jim Thomson CD
September 14, 2006
You are truly a hero. You will not be forgotten. Rest in Peace.
Pro Patria
Ron Andrews
September 14, 2006
May i offer my condolences to you, Marks family and friends, for the great sacrifice given to all mankind by Mark, may he now rest in the peace he so richly deserves.
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