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December 12, 2011
Dear Mr.&Mrs. Cutler: I didn't know your daughter personally ,just when I heard her on WGN. She always put a big smile on my face when she spoke with Steve Cochran. I stopped what I was doing and always looked forward to hearing her, she always brightened my day. Please accept my condolences... Glenn Anderson (Montgomery, IL )
Kris Gardiner-Barry
August 6, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Cutler,
I went to NSCDS with Becky. Please know you are in my thoughts.
Kris Gardiner-Barry
Ellie & Allen Farkas
July 1, 2004
Dear Norm & Gail,
Just hear of your loss and we are extremely sorry to have heard of Rebecca death. Please accept our prayers and condolences at this time.
Fondly,
Ellie & Allen Farkas
Ellie & Allen Farkas
July 1, 2004
Dear Norm & Karen,
Just hear of your loss and we are extremely sorry to have heard of Rebecca death. Please accept our prayers and condolences at this time.
Fondly,
Ellie & Allen Farkas
Our friend, Bex.
Laurel Sutherland
June 22, 2004
Gail and Norman:
I met you briefly at Rebecca's 30th birthday party, and I wanted you both to know that she loved you and talked about you so kindly to me. She did feel lucky and proud to have you as parents, although that might be hard to feel for you both right now...but she really, really did. I'm used to seeing her almost every day, and I still catch myself looking for her. There simply are not words to express how vibrant a personality she was, nor any words to express how it feels to be without her. I know that there is nothing to say to ease the pain you must feel, but I hope it helps, even ever so infinitesimally, to know that if nothing else, you are not alone, and that people are thinking of you.
Laurel
Ron Mattox
June 19, 2004
I didn't know Rebecca personally. But the company I work for does daily business with the magazine Rebecca worked for. Our hearts are very grieved over this enormous tragedy and loss.
But might we look to the wonderful God of the Bible for our ultimate strength and refuge in these troubling times. "Fear thou not: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of My righteousness." (Isaiah 41:10)
"Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need." (Hebrews 4:16)
Linda Palay
June 13, 2004
Dear Gail, Norman, Brett, Susan, and the Cutler Family,
We are so sorry for the passing away of Rebecca. She triumphed over her struggles for so long but it is never long enough. Our hearts go out to all of you. It is so hard to lose someone you love deeply. May her name and memory be a blessing.
Love, Bob and Linda Palay
Jerry Dubin
June 11, 2004
Gail, Norm:
I know there can be nothing worse than the loss of a child.
There is really noting I can say that will ease the pain. I can only wish you the strength to get through the next several weeks.
You know my thoughts are with you.
Love,
Jerry Dubin
Adriane and Marvin Bernstein
June 11, 2004
Gail,Norm and Brett; I'm so sorry to hear of Becky's struggle. The girls were so close..she was just a darling girl who always was the life of the party. Hopefully it will help someone else..your kindness in sharing Becky's story..You are all in my thoughts and I share in your sorrow. Adriane Kay Bernstein (Dana's Mom)
Amber Gitter
June 10, 2004
Rebecca is a dear friend of my dear friend, Amy. Both Rebecca and Amy decided that I should be in the singles issue that is coming out next week. I never met Rebecca in person, but I had talked to her a few times on the phone, and her mother went to school with my stepmother. I did have one opportunity to meet her at Amy's house, but she never showed up. I really wished I had met her because I truly wanted to thank her in person for giving me this incredible opportunity to be in one of the most respectable magazines in Chicago. My thoughts and prayers are with the Cutler family. I would have been honored to have known her like so many people did.
judy and tom ARONSON
June 10, 2004
GAIL AND NORM, TOM AND I SEND OUR DEEPEST THOUGHTS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE ARE THINKING OF YOU AT THIS SAD TIME. OUR BEST JUDY AND TOM ARONSON
Julia
June 10, 2004
To the Cutler family --
I want to offer my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Rebecca. I did not know her, but from the obituary, I could see that she was accomplished, open, inspired and inspiring -- qualities that will live on, to give you strength and peace.
Eileen Foley
June 10, 2004
Dear Cutler Family:
I am so sorry about your loss. I did not know Rebecca but I am grateful for your article about her and her triumphs and stuggles. After reading all the condolences, I can see she was lucky to have a wonderful family and I hope you find strength in the fact that you did everything you could do for Becky. My sister died at 37 years of age because of depression. Please know that things will get better. Praying for you and your family. Eileen
Jeanne
June 10, 2004
Dear Cutler Family:
I was so incredibly saddened to hear of your loss. Rebecca was one of those people you could just open up to instantly as I did many times. She brought me much peace during some difficult times through her understanding and kind words. Although we were only acquaintances, she is someone I will always remember.
Sincere condolences to you all,
Jeanne
Cindy Topel
June 10, 2004
Dear Gail and Norman:
Although I don't personally know you, I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I, too, lost my 36 year old daughter on December 7, 2003 to bi-polar disease. I know the devastation you are going through and my heart goes out to you. Just know that Rebecca is in a better place and she is at peace. I pray that God gives you strength through this most difficult time.
Sincerely, Cindy Topel
Jodi Garber-Simon
June 10, 2004
Dear Cutlers,
Neil and I are so sad and so sorry that Rebecca is gone. We are so sorry for your loss.
I really looked up to Rebecca. To the younger and less self-assured person (me), Rebecca seemed to have it all. She worked as a writer for a magazine, was beautiful, funny, fun to be around, kind, had an amazing family, lit up the room when she walked in...I wish she could have seen herself the way I saw her -- at least for a moment.
I hope you all find strength to get through this. I wish there was something more that I could say, but as is sometimes the case, words fail.
We love you guys very much,
Jodi and Neil
Jackie
June 10, 2004
I am so sorry, trust she is in the care of a better place. You were so blessed to have had her for thirty years, remember her beauty and the love she gave you.
Bobby & Sheri Weinstein
June 9, 2004
Dear Norm & Gail,
Our sinere comdolence to you and your family at this most difficult time.
Bobby & Sheri Weinstein
Marlys and Elliott Badzin
June 9, 2004
Norman and Gail: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. love, Marlys and Elliott Badzin
gloria taussig
June 9, 2004
dear gail and norm..
i wanted to extend my deepest sympathy to you both.. i hope that as each day passes the pain will lessen and the wonderful memories will linger...
Cindy Schwimmer
June 9, 2004
Dear Gail, Norman and Family,
My heart is heavy with the news of your beloved daughter's passing. There are no adequate words to express the sorrow I feel for your loss.
Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless,
Aaron Brooks
June 9, 2004
Brett, Gail, and Norman:
Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. As Liz said in an earlier message - I too was always fond of "Brett's little sister" in high school. My and my family's thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Stuart and Mickey Altman
June 9, 2004
Larry Dubin called to tell us of your tragic loss. Mickey and I, and my mother, send our sincere condolences to the two of you and the rest of your family.
Elaine
June 9, 2004
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Cutler,
I read of your daughters passing in today's paper. I do not know your family, but felt the need to pass on my condolences and prayers to your family. The article on Rebecca accomplishments and struggles touched my heart.
I will pray for your daughter and your family.
Sam Perlman
June 9, 2004
Dearest Cousins-
I was so shocked and saddened to hear about Becky. I will always treasure great memories of our family gatherings. We wish that you find some peace and comfort in these difficult days.
Love Always, Sam and Mariah
Judith & Woody Zwirn
June 9, 2004
Dear Gail and Norm,
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Rebecca. Our thoughts and prayers and hearts are with you at this most difficult time.
Diane Ross
June 9, 2004
To the Cutler family,
I was Becky's teacher at Lake Forest College. I have proudly followed her writing career. I learned of your loss this morning and am filled with sorrow and compassion for the family. May she find peace.
Clare
June 9, 2004
To the family of Rebecca Cutler, I would like to express my deepest sympathy on the loss of your daughter, sister and aunt. I did not have the privilege of knowing Rebecca, she was truly a remarkable woman. Your memorial in today's paper was so loving yet also made it clear how difficult the struggle with mental health issues are. Thank you for honoring your daughter by addressing bi-polar disorder and how devastating severe depression can be.
Beth Shapiro Kopin
June 9, 2004
Dear Gail and Norm,
We are so sorry to hear about the devestating loss of your Rebecca. We hope that our sincere condolences as your neighbors, along with those of your entire community and Rebecca's friends, brings you some comfort in this time of great sorrow.
You are in our thoughts and our prayers,
Beth Shapiro Kopin and Ben Kopin
Erin (Wohlreich) Gutierrez
June 9, 2004
Cutler Family,
My deepest condolences. Becky and I were friends at HPHS. We had a lot of fun in theater and dance together. My memories of her are all fond. She will be truly missed.
Erin Gutierrez
and your friends at the Ben Hahn Foundation.
Harvey, Susan, Ron and Dana Lambert & Lil Krako
June 9, 2004
Our sincere sympathy to your entire family.
Jodi Glenn Fox
June 8, 2004
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Cutler and Family,
I attended HPHS with Becky and Brett, and remember her as incredibly bright and friendly. Please accept my family's and my sincere condolences on your loss.
Kindest regards,
Rachael Widen
June 8, 2004
Gail, Norm, Brett, Susan, Ethan, Asa & Kylie--I hope that during this painful time you can find a bit of comfort in the happy memories from people who cared about Becky.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all--Rachael
Barney Rose
June 8, 2004
I am a friend of Susanne Frumin. Sorry to hear about Rebecca. Please preserve your happy memories of her since she made a difference in your lives. You will rise again.
Susanne Frumin
June 8, 2004
Gail, Norman, Brett & Family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your tragic loss. My heart goes out to all of you.
Rebecca was a special person, and I'll always cherish the memories I have of the days when we used to play together.
My deepest sympathy to all of you.
Billie and Ron Briskman
June 8, 2004
We were so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.
Billie and Ron
Tina Schmidt
June 8, 2004
Dearest Gail, there are no words that can adequately express how sad I was hearing about the loss of your beloved daughter Rebecca. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Tina
Jerold Heisler
June 8, 2004
Dear Norman and Gail...
Lois joins me in sending our deepest sympathies to you. We are so sorry to learn of your loss and want you to know we are thinking of you at this most difficult time.
Jerry Heisler
Everyone at Olga's Day Spa
June 8, 2004
Dear Gail and Norm,
Words cannot describe how sorry we are to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Love,
Everyone at Olga's
Jack Ring Hazel Gitlitz
June 8, 2004
Dear Gail, Norman, Brett and Susan: As you know I just adored "Becky". I always felt she was like my adopted daughter. I do not know how to express my sorrow and feelings for your terrible loss. Hazel joins in with me to express her deepest sympathies. Our heart and prayers are with you. Much love, Jack and Hazel
Howard Tasner
June 8, 2004
Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss.
Amy (Strauss) Friedman
June 8, 2004
I just heard about Becky's passing. I am so deeply sorry for what you are going through. She was always such a special person and I count myself lucky for having known her. I enjoyed being friends with her, even attended Lake Forest College with her as a fellow English major. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Liz Zoller Cohen
June 8, 2004
My dear Cutlers,
How devastating to read about Becky this morning... I was always so fond of "Brett's little sister" back in high school. She grew up to be a beautiful woman. I send you my heartfelt wishes for strength and comfort during this difficult time.
With love,
Bruce and Fanchon Simons
June 8, 2004
Norm and Gail:
So sorry to learn of the terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Jessica Alexander
June 8, 2004
Cutlers
I am profoundly sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Becky. What I recall most of Becky was her smile and the light she brought to anyone
and everyone she encountered. Much love and peace,
Jessica (Decky) Alexander
Barbara King
June 8, 2004
Norm and Gail,
Our heartfelt sympathies, love, and prayers are with you today and always! Barbara Sackheim King and Michael King, Lauren and Josh
Andree and John McArthur
June 8, 2004
Sweet, funny Rebecca... we love you and will miss you. Our sincere condolences to your family whom we met at your 30th birthday. You will never be forgotten.
Arnie & Linda Epstein
June 8, 2004
Although we can't begin to imagine what you are going through, we would like to offer our condolences and prayers for your entire family.
Arnie & Linda
Lois & Joel Weinstein
June 8, 2004
Dear Gail & Norm.
We want to extend our deepest sympathy on the loss of your daughter Rebecca. Our heart goes out to you at this time.
Joyce Hamel
June 8, 2004
Dear Gail, Norman and Brett:
I am so sorry for your devastating loss. We have known each other since college and discussed many issues throughout the years. My deepest sympathies to all of you.
Joyce (Alexander) Hamel
David and Cheryl Bradford
June 8, 2004
Dearest Gail and Norm,
Our hearts are with you.
Cheryl and David
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