Sandra M. "Sandy" Cross, nee Dingels, age 30, passed away suddenly surrounded by family and friends; loving and devoted wife of Brian; loving mother of newborn Kennedy Catherine; cherished daughter of Thomas and Sandra, nee Wojcik; dear sister of Tom and Sue (Chris) Padulo; fond daughter-in-law of Joe and Mary Ann Cross; niece of Carol McGowan, Jerry (Jassia) Wojcik and many other aunts and uncles as well as cousin of many. Active member of the Chicago Frozen Snappers Hockey Team, graduate of Elmhurst College and Co-Founder of Puck Cancer. Sandy lived a life dedicated to the loving and caring of others. She will be greatly missed by all who had the blessing of knowing her. Visitation Monday, 2 p.m. until 8 p.m. and Tuesday, 8:15 a.m. until time of funeral 9:15 a.m. at Gibbons Funeral Home, 134 South York Rd. (1/2 mile North of Saint Charles Rd.), Elmhurst. Mass of Christian burial 10 a.m. at Saint Domitilla Catholic Church, Hillside. Interment Queen of Heaven Catholic Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Kennedy Catherine Cross Trust Fund, c/o Chase Bank, 11211 Cermak Road, Westchester, IL 60154. For funeral information please call 630-832-0018 or
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elizabeth homan
January 16, 2008
We are very sorry to hear about Sandy. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. She was a wonderful person. We have very fond memories of her. Sincerely, Liz and Jenny Homan
Jodi Meyer (Novak)
January 15, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about Sandy. I remember her happy smile throughout grade school. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Kristen Berardi (Pesola)
January 14, 2008
I am so sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Jackie Lesch
November 21, 2007
San was loved by so many people and will be missed more than I can say. I will never forget all the great times we had together. I cant wait until KC is old enough to hear about all of our fun times. Just remember that San is now our angel looking over us and protecting us.
November 20, 2007
Thomas Walsh
November 16, 2007
Brian,
I was very sorry to hear about the death of your wife. My prayers and the prayers of our family are with you and your family.
Very Truly Yours,
Tom Walsh
Sharon Docherty-Bafetti
November 16, 2007
Dear Brain,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that your little girl will be a constant source of comfort for you! I know you will teach her to play chess well! Sharon Docherty-Bafetti
We Love You!!!
November 15, 2007
Gege Leon
November 15, 2007
I'm still in disbelief that Sandy is gone. I miss her so much and I miss going out to lunch with her everyday. She was my girl who always had my back.I'm glad I have so many happy memories of her. I'm so sorry for your loss Brian & K.C. You are in my prayers.
Tonika and Gurel Tokgoz
November 14, 2007
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy is with you and your family.
MARGARET DOCHERTY
November 14, 2007
BRIAN-- OUR SINCERE SYMPATHY AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND KENNEDY AND ALL THE FAMILY AT THIS SAD TIME
SINCERELY
HUGH AND MARGARET DOCHERTY
NORTH CAROLINA
Katrina (Day) Rewerts
November 14, 2007
Brian, I cannot even begin to tell you how very sorry I am. Sandy was a lovely person and such a good match for you. I will keep you and Kennedy in my prayers. Please don't be afraid to lean on your friends during this difficult time. We are here for you, Brian.
The Romeoville Hounds
November 14, 2007
Please accept the deepest sympathies of our entire team. Sandy's passing affects and saddens each of us and we'll be sure to pass the helmet for her daughter.
Mary Pat Quinn-Headley
November 14, 2007
Dear Brian and Cross Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your sudden loss of your wonderful wife.
We will keep your family in our prayers. May the blessings that your newborn daughter brings into your life be a comfort for you and always. The Quinn Family (Bellwood)
Bridget Cale (Carpenter)
November 13, 2007
Sandy was a wonderful person. I knew Sandy from grade school. I hope the memories you have of her will ease your pain and suffering. I will keep you in my prayers.
Marcy Buschbacher
November 13, 2007
Most sincere thoughts are with all of you at this time.
Carrie Roca-Dawson
November 13, 2007
Brian and KC, we only met Sandy a few times but she was such a wonderful and beautiful person she will always be remembered. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Sincerely, Carrie and Don Roca-Dawson
Kristin Carter
November 13, 2007
I was so sad to learn of Sandy's death. I really enjoyed meeting her and Brian at a Young Democrats Conference, and remained in contact with Brian through YD's. I can't imagine how hard this must be for Brian and for Sandy's loved ones whom I never had the chance to meet. I hope you find strength and comfort in one another until, in time, the pain of losing her gives way to the joy of memories of the happy times you had with her.
Jim & Julie Korte
November 13, 2007
Brian,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts, prayers and best wishes are with you. If there is anything we can do to help, please don't hesitate to let us know.
The Vikings
November 13, 2007
Sandy will be deeply missed. Our condolences go out to her family and friends for their sudden loss.
Barbara Kevin Niall Niamh Hogan
November 13, 2007
Dear Brian,I know Sandy will guide you and all the family at this very sad time and remember you always have part of her with Kennedy Catherine,love always from your Irish cousins.We will pray for all of ye,we will never forget Sandy.We are so lucky to have known her.God Bless ye all.
Bill & Julie Ahern
November 13, 2007
Brian you and Kennedy Catherine will always be in our hearts. We cannot imagine the pain you are suffering. We may be many miles away but you are always with us.
Lily Chin
November 13, 2007
Brian
I'm so sorry about Sandy. If you need anything please let me know. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Tom Duffy
November 13, 2007
Brian,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Norma and Robert Ceci
November 12, 2007
Brain and the Dingle family: my heart goes out to everyone at this time, life goes on and with everyones love this too will pass, but you will always relive her last moments.
Elizabeth Whitten
November 12, 2007
Brian, please accept my condolences. I am keeping you and your baby in my prayers.
Elizabeth Whitten
Ohio YDA Committeewoman
Maureen Ceci
November 12, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to Sandys family.I know that her baby girl will be loved by all of you.
Joyce Baarlaer
November 12, 2007
My deepest condolence to the Cross and Dingles family in the lost of Sandy. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Georgia Schmit
November 12, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of grief. We remember Sandy from the Puck Cancer tournaments. She was so friendly, helpful, and always smiling. May your memories bring you comfort. Tim and Georgia Schmit (Quad City Blueliners)
November 12, 2007
Brian and Dingle family, we are very sorry for your loss.
The McGowan Family
Jennifer (Doyle) Garza
November 12, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May Sandy's legacy live on through Kennedy.
Bethany (Herbik) Fryer
November 12, 2007
My condolences to the Dingels and Cross families. I remember Sandy fondly from our grade school days at Dom's, especially the sleepovers. I am praying for your family and your baby girl.
RoseAnne Lynch - Caboor
November 12, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
George Katsambas
November 12, 2007
Brian I am so sorry to hear of your terrible loss, our deepest symapthies to your families, she is a great and wonderful person who lives on in our memories and dreams.
Katsambas Family
Dean & Jennie Docherty
November 12, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
Kevin & Erin Engels
November 12, 2007
Brian,
Our prayers are with you and your precious baby girl during this time. May Sandy's love for you continue to shine through Kennedy.
Colleen (Devereux) Lyerla
November 12, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the Cross and Dingle families. I remember Sandy fondly from all those Saturday morning cheerleading competitions.
Cathy Gordon
November 12, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Sue Bishop
November 12, 2007
Sandy I miss you. May time heal the saddness in our hearts and allow the fond memories to remain.
Cathy Bayliss
November 12, 2007
Sandy was a welcome addition to the Cross family and was spoken of many times, we had her and Brian in our thoughts daily. She will be remembered by auntie Betty and auntie Kay in their thoughts and prayers. We welcome Kennedy Catherine, with open arms. Much love and unending support, from your cousin Cathy and her family.
Mark & Mary Seavey
November 12, 2007
Brian,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. God Bless.
Julie Loverher
November 12, 2007
Sandy was one of the most True and Real people I have ever had the pleasure to call a friend. I will miss her so much and my thought's and prayers go out to Sue and Brian and her Mom and Dad right now,and for everyone who loves her. I know everyone will miss her but remember her beautiful SMILE. She was a genuine loving woman. Her love will live on in Kennedy.
Edward F. Landmesser, Jr.
November 12, 2007
We offer our deepest condolences to
The Cross and Dingels families.
Love and prayers,
Ed and Marianne Landmesser
Lou and Margaret Siragusa
November 12, 2007
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.
Krista Siegrist
November 12, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. How sad for this young mother to pass away. My thoughts are with your family.
Mary Ellen Charlebois
November 12, 2007
Dear Brian and Family,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear of Sandy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
With Love -
Mary Ellen & The Tretina Family
Lisa Magad
November 12, 2007
Sandy was a warm, vivacious and caring person. She will be missed by all who had the pleasure to have known her.
Kristin Harrison
November 12, 2007
We are thinking of you during this difficult time. -Harrison family.
Karen Johnson
November 12, 2007
I just would like to say that she would be very deeply missed .
Valerie Goldstein
November 12, 2007
My condolences go out to Sandy's family and friends. She has touched the lives of many and will never be forgotten. We will miss her on the ice! (Glacier Vixens)
Carolyn McGowan
November 12, 2007
Sandy,
We all love you so very much. I can't even begin to tell you how much you will be missed. We will take care of KC for you.
Aunty Carol
The Gibbons Family
November 12, 2007
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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