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John Adam Ely

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John Adam Ely entered the Kingdom Triumphant on October 20th, 2006 to be with his Lord and Savior. Born on September 3, 1926 in Wetmore, Kansas, John was the only son of Ethel Mae Trapp and Clyde Patton Ely. John grew up with his three sisters, Estella, Mary Ann and Melba. He was preceded in death by his sister Mable. John attended and graduated from Wetmore schools and took classes at both Washburn University and the University of Kansas where he studied accounting. He moved to Topeka where he was employed by Southwick Automotive for almost 40 years. John then kept himself busy by working at Aldersgate Village in Maintenance and Security. John was married to Jo Ann Rutherford from 1951 until their divorce in 1979. John and Jo Ann had four children - Ann Catherine "Kay" who is married to Dr. Paul Decelles, Barbara Gayle, who is married to Rodney Heptig, John Patton, who passed away in 1973 at the age of 19 and James William, who is married to Patti Patton. John is survived by his 8 grandchildren - Brad, John, Kim, Emily, Bret, Courtney, Jeff and Rachael and 4 great grandchildren, John Robert, Brenden, Alex and Alysen. While in Holton, John was active in the Methodist Church and Odd Fellows, serving as an officer. In Topeka, John was active in Parents without Partners, serving as President, and with the East Topeka Senior Center. John had a rare sense of humor and will be greatly missed. Mr. Ely will lie in state after 1:00 pm, Monday, Oct. 23, 2006 at Penwell-Gabel Mid Town Chapel where the family will receive friends from 7:00 to 8:00 pm that evening. A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Oct. 24 at the funeral home with burial to follow in the Wetmore Cemetery in Wetmore, Kan. Memorial contributions may be made to the East Topeka Senior Center, 1114 SE. 10th Ave., Topeka, KS 66607 or to the charity of the donors choice. To leave a special meassage fr the family online, please visit www.PenwellGabel.com

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal from Oct. 22 to Oct. 23, 2006.

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Dorothy (Lynn) Young

October 23, 2006

Though we have been sparated by many miles since youth, we could always ccount on John being present when we visited. Dinner and coffee together and time to fellowship. Family was important to John. We will miss you cousin.

Nancy Lynn Rose

October 22, 2006

John was a very unique individual and friendly to all. He was blessed with a loving extended family and he will be missed.

Henry Staub

October 22, 2006

John was a dear friend of mine. I've known and worked with John for years in Parents Without Partners. Wednesday night cards was always a brighter event when John arrived. We enjoyed his humor, affable nature, and history lessons. He was kind in every way. I can't imagine his ever having an enemy. We used to laugh with him and lovingly giving him the title of "dishonest John" because of his tricky bidding in Pitch knowing full well that he knew what he was doing.
I'm sure that there will never be a finer friend in my lifetime. I will very much miss him but he will always be in my heart. My condolences to his family.

Carolyn Shelton Rebek

October 22, 2006

When I found myself in Topeka in 1978 John became my friend. He fixed/assembled a few things in my home since I am not a "do-it-yourselfer." One year when my parents were on vacation I had to put my dog to sleep. John came over, took me to the vet for the euthanasia, buried my dog and had a cup of coffee with me. John used to get up at the crack of dawn Sunday mornings and prepare coffee for the SASS class at First Baptist. I always knew he was there for me if I had a minor catastrophe like a disabled car. John was very well read and could talk about a number of interesting books. He was always laughing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I share your grief in losing a good man and friend.

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