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Asher Goldman Obituary
He was born November 8, 1986, in Norfolk, Va., to Arthur and Joan Goldman. He graduated with honors from Poquoson High School in 2005, and was a rising senior at the University of Chicago where he was studying philosophy and music. Asher was looking forward to continuing his studies in music composition after graduation in June.
Asher is survived by his loving parents, Arthur and Joan Goldman, of Poquoson, Va.; brother, Ben Goldman of Ann Arbor, Mich., his sister, Julia Goldman of New York City, N.Y., his grandparents, Bill and Libby Hatfield, of Williamsburg, Va., and Wanda Goldman of Baltimore, Md., and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends, who will miss him always.
A memorial services will be held at 2 p.m. Sunday Sept. 21 at Temple Ohef Shalom in Norfolk. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia, 800 Tidewater Dr. Norfolk, VA 23504. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Asher Goldman
Sponsored by Arthur J Goldman, his loving father.
Lisa Stern
September 4, 2022
Dear Joan and Arthur
I am incredibly saddened to just learn about Asher's passing. I remember a beautiful toe-headed inquisitive boy whose smile was ever ready and ability to share always stood out. I send my deepest condolences and hope that Asher's contributions, love and life are comforts to all of you.
Lisa Stern
Mary Mccray
September 4, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Mary Mccray
September 4, 2019
Aslways in prayer with the wonderful and loving Goldman family .may Asher rip and he will always be missed.a child of love will always stay in yr heart and soul.may god bless and keep this family in his loving care .with love to all Mary (bunzey) McCray
Stacy Kimball
December 26, 2013
I graduated with Asher...He was always nice to everyone...My thoughts and prayers is with your family at this time!!!
mary mccray
June 4, 2012
so sad i grieve for your lost
Bob and Christi Beil
July 26, 2011
Arthur and Joan....we had not heard of the loss of Asher until today. We want to express our shock and sorrow over his loss. Although we lost touch with the team after Jimmy left soccer...to us they are all out there living their lives and I was so shocked to know that we had lost one of our boys. You have our deepest sympathies.
October 9, 2009
Joan and Arthur,
We think of you often and grieve with you over the death of your beloved, wonderful Asher.
Please know that you remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Katherine and Jim Bowden
Liz Pettit
October 7, 2009
I still miss Asher. But his wonderful ideas are with me every day.
Arthur Goldman
September 26, 2009
It's been a year since he was here. We love and miss him with every breath we take. We struggle to accept the unacceptable, to believe the unbelievable. We're learning to live our lives without his beautiful presence. It new and unexplored territory for us. We struggle to keep our hearts open. Asher's father, Arthur Goldman
Dr. Mattie Kain
November 10, 2008
Dearest Arthur, Joan and family---
I just found out about the loss of your beloved son Asher. What can anyone say at a time like this--words are so inadequate. May God bless you and be with you during this most difficult time. My love to you all--- Mattie
Marcie Dodson
October 26, 2008
Joan, Arthur, Ben and Julia,
I was so saddened to hear the terrible news of Asher's passing. It seems like only yesterday that I received the joyful news of his birth.
I wish you all strength to carry on. My thoughts are with you.
Bruce and Donna Kinter
October 24, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben and Julia,
We were shocked and deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Asher. We can not imagine the depth of your sorrow but we will hold you in our hearts and keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength to move forward each day. May the memories of your dear Asher help to sustain you now and forever.
With love,
Bruce & Donna Kinter
mitsy pobiak
October 11, 2008
Dr Goldmann and family,
I am so shocked and saddened by the loss your son, Asher. The loss of anyone young is always so difficult. I pray for your strength and comfort. I worked with Dr Goldman for many years at Sentara Hampton general, He always enjoyed talking about his children and how difficult it was to get his family started to give me some comfort because I too had difficulty. I still have not had the blessing of having children, so I can only imagine what you are going through. Many prayers.
Sincerely,
Mitsy Pobiak, SanAntonio Texas
Donna Mader
September 29, 2008
Dr. Goldman & Family,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your son, Asher. May God provide comfort and peace during this difficult time. Please know you are in my prayers.
Gretchen Ward
September 29, 2008
Dr. and Mrs. Goldman,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Dr. Goldman many years ago at 'Hampton General' and recall him telling many fond stories of the children growing up. Nothing can fill the void, but I hope you feel comfort in knowing you and your family are in many prayers.
Sincerely,
Reese Bishop
September 23, 2008
Dr. Goldman & Family,
I just learned of the loss of your precious son. There are really no words that I can say that would heal the pain, but please know that you are in my prayers. I hope God gives you that peace that passes all understanding and you find some comfort in memories of Asher. I know he will forever live on in your hearts and the hearts of those who knew and love him.
God Bless,
Reese Bishop
Patti Haley
September 23, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Goldman family during this very difficult time. My prayers will be with the family. I did not have the pleasure to know Asher, but if he was anything like his father he was a special person. Patti Haley..PACU nurse SCP
Jason Bryant
September 22, 2008
My condolences and prayers go to the Goldman family.
Emily Schuller
September 22, 2008
Dear Goldman family,
I am so glad I could be there for Asher's memorial on Sunday---I couldn't imagine a better service for him. I feel truly honored to have been one of Asher's friends. He always made me feel so special by staying in touch with me and always fitting in time to see me whenever he could. I was so lucky to have grown up with Asher--From the days when he was every third grade girl's crush to the many hours we spent working together in journalism class and as class officers, he is in some of my most favorite memories. And no matter what, Asher could always make me laugh--especially over his many adventures, including his most recent bike to Milwaukee.
I was so lucky to have seen Asher right before we went back to school, and I am convinced that he is one of the most unique and talented individuals I'll ever know. I'll never forget his kind spirit, or how peaceful it felt to be in his company.
My love and prayers are with you always,
Emily Schuller
Jon Swenson
September 22, 2008
Dear Arthur Joan and family
We were so sad to hear about Asher's death. It seems like only yesterday that we saw you and Asher at soccer tryouts. What happy times those were! What a contrast to how we feel now. Asher will always be there on that soccer field at Wolftrap in our memory. You have our sympathy at this tragic time. We will be praying for you.
I'm sorry we missed the memorial service yesterday - we were in Ft Lauderdale at one of Eric's soccer tournaments.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help
Sincerely,
Jon and Christina Swenson and family
David Auslender
September 22, 2008
Dear Goldman family,
Asher's was my best friend. I will remember the tasty milkshakes that he would feed me and his amazing ability to recognize fighter jets by their engine noise. I remember the countless soccer games and practices and I remember all the moments that we spent hanging out together. Asher was a very special guy. He was an amazing athlete, an incredible musician, but most of all he was the best friend I could have ever imagined. I miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, David Auslender
Will Musser
September 22, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben and Julia,
Valerie and I are very saddened by your loss. We have been thinking of you often since Asher's death. I remember watching him grow up at family gatherings and at your house over the years. We will miss Asher as well. He was a kind and talented young man.
Love,
Will, Valerie, Ethan and Claudia Musser
Elizabeth Pettit
September 21, 2008
Dear Goldman Family,
I remember hearing Asher make a comment the first day of Summer Governor's School and thinking "I need to get to know this kid." From that point on Asher was one of my closest friends, always ready to talk about anything from milkshakes to philosophy, allowing me to accompany him as he snuck in to the U of R chapel to practice jazz organ, always ready to take off on a weekend trip, explore the nooks and crannies of life. I remember setting out to hike with him in the Blue Ridge in winter only to find that the roads were closed. Asher insisted we walk the road to the trail head and I reluctantly consented. After a couple of miles and frozen toes, it started to snow. Instead of feeling discouraged, he was elated, hopping around, catching flakes with his fingers. His elation was contagious. We never made it to the trail head but just walking down a snowy road with him was a journey. I will carry that memory, among countless others, of Asher's singular presence, in my heart forever. For you all, I can only extend my deepest sympathies.
I will leave you with a line Asher wrote to me as comfort in a time of need:
"...People become lost in navigating what is depressing, when really there is a pragmatic space at the core, locating one's bounds is part of the meaning of life."
Yours,
Liz Pettit
Nancy & Joel Futterman
September 21, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Julia, and Ben,
In Memory of Asher:
Eternity spoke
and opened a Door
to Perfection and Peace.
We wished a Pause
But were given his eternal youth --
A young innocent
questing, conscious, kind
Took in the novel melodies of life.
Asher trusted, and inquired, and developed.
Joel and I opened our door
Enjoyed the moments of his quest
and consciousness
And reluctantly say goodbye with love
And we remember his gentle spirit now
and will always.
The Robbins Family
September 21, 2008
To the Goldman Family
Children are such a gift and although he wasn't here long, Asher brought you so much joy. Our families have shared much over the years, words can't express our sadness.
Connie Cook & family
September 21, 2008
Dr. Goldman, Mrs Goldman and Family,
May God be with you and comfort you during this time of unfathomable loss. With sincerest prayers and deepest sympathy,
Meredith Richard
September 21, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Ben and Julia,
I was so sad to hear the news about Asher. Seeing you all this summer was wonderful and I am glad I had the chance to visit with you. You all are in our hearts and minds on this very difficult day. Here in Arkansas we will be getting together to remember and honor Asher. He is loved and will be missed.
Love you all,
Meredith, Brice, Davis, and Kate Richard
Susan Quenville
September 20, 2008
Dear Goldman family,
It is with such profound sadness that we heard of Asher's passing. I will always remember Asher as not only a gifted student and musician but also a gifted athlete. I can still see him out on the soccer field dribbling the ball and creating his own plays. He was always able to bring a fresh perspective to whatever he did. Your beautiful son will always be remembered and missed.
The Quenville family
Barbara Whitlow
September 20, 2008
To The Goldman Family,
On behalf of the Poquoson Library Advisory Board, please accept our sympathy for your loss.
Donna Perry
September 20, 2008
Julia and the Goldman Family--
The William Byrd Society C.A.R. was shocked to hear of Asher's untimely passing. Please accept our sympathy, as many C.A.R. Families are thinking of you at this time.
Donna (LaVoie) Perry
Sr. Society President William Byrd Society
Sr. Editor/Publisher Voice of Virginia
Teresa Dale
September 19, 2008
Dr. Goldman and family
I was so sadden to hear about the loss of your son. May you someday soon find peace through the wonderful memories you must have. With deepest sympathy
Teresa Dale
I C Vernon Netto
September 19, 2008
Dear Dr & Mrs Goldman
It is with much sadness that we heard about your recent loss of your son. Please accept our heartfelt condolences
With prayers and regards
Vernon & Molly Netto
Anne Banes
September 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family over the loss of Asher.
Love Anne, Bud, Sue,David and Sherri Banes
Marcella Rodriguez
September 19, 2008
We are very sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you.
Marcella Rodriguez
sarah massey
September 18, 2008
I am truley sorry for your loss. Dr Goldman you are a very proud father and always talked so prouldly and foundly about your kids. I am praying for you and your family.
Bill Dowling
September 18, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Ben and Julia,
We are all so terribly saddened by the loss of Asher. There are no words to convey the depth of your loss or the sympathy we wish to extend.
Your family here in central New York has you in our hearts and our thoughts.
Bill Dowling
DeWitt , New York
JAMES@BEVERLYN@FAMILY BELLE
September 18, 2008
My family and I have you in our thoughts.These words from the Bible gave me great comfort at Isaiah chapter 25 verse 9,Very soon death will be swallowed up forever.And in the book of Act chapter 24 verse15 tells the joy of seeing our love ones on a PARADISE EARTH.(PSALMS CHAPTER 37 VERSE 29) We love you all...and again ,PLEASE,ACCEPT OUR SINCERE CONDOLES...
Scott, Maryalice, & Bob Goldman
September 18, 2008
Asher in the snow
Moving through the wind and mist
Skiing forever
David & Shannon Mrazik
September 17, 2008
Your are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our condolences.
Thomas Christensen
September 17, 2008
A memory of Asher walking down Greenwood Aveneue from school one afternoon in May absorbed listening to some music on his Ipod and oblivious to his music theory professor approaching from the opposite direction. "What are you listening to, Asher?" The startled student stops and removes his earphones. "Uh, hello" he stammers, seemingly embarassed to be caught in such a personal moment of musical absorbtion. "It's Schubert" I'm told. Asher is thinking about his upcoming composition projects and looking for some inspiration. That's the Asher I remember from class: a quiet, absorbed, creative young man dreaming of the music he'd like to compose someday and that we sadly will never have a chance to hear. But the face of Asher lighting up as he listens to his Schubert while walking slowly down Greenwood Aveneue will always be one memory this Professor will retain of this very special student.
Jennifer n.
September 16, 2008
I'm so sorry for your lost. May God be with you at this most difficult time. Keep your memories close to you always.
chip rogers
September 16, 2008
Arthur,Joan, Ben and Julia:
My sincerest condolences to you all , I was so shocked to here of the loss of Asher. I know how close all of you are and my heart aches for you. I wish I had the words to ease your pain but I can only greive with you at this time. You have all been very good to me during my times of struggle and pain and I am here for you if you need me. Asher was a spectacular person and I will forever remember him as the Boy that could always put a smile on my face no matter the situation. I will miss him very much. My prayers go out to you and all that are in pain right now. I hope to talk with you soon.
Your Friend forever and always
Chip
Mazhar Talibi
September 16, 2008
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
Stephanie Smith
September 16, 2008
I am so deeply saddened to hear this news. I took computer music courses with Asher in 2006, and I know it was a great learning experience for both of us. I continued to see him around campus, and it was always a pleasure to catch up and learn about his music projects. We once worked together on a production of "Goblin Market" where he used objects such as a painting canvas and a bucket as percussion. I'll never forget those fun memories, and I'll never forget Asher.
Barbara Tessler
September 15, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Ben, and Julia,
Our hearts are aching. The world has been diminished. The memories of your beloved Asher are with us forever. May God give you strength.
Alex, Barbara, Lee, Veronica, and Michael Tessler
Martha Feldman
September 15, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Ben, and Julia,
The profound sadness of Asher's passing continues to engulf the Music Department. Everyone knows Asher as a sweet, passionate, highly original and creative person. The Director of the Middle East Music Ensemble in which Asher was so active told me "our heart is just broken, he was really dear to all of us." People in the Computer Music Studio, as well as his composition and theory teachers, emphasize how lively, intelligent, independent, hard-working, and idealistic Asher was. He was a joy and an inspiration to all who knew him. His passing is a tremendous loss for us in the Music Department, where the memory of him will live on and on. I can't begin to imagine what each of us you is experiencing. My heart goes out to you. I wish you peace and solace in the knowledge of what a special impact Asher has made on so many of us here in Chicago.
Yours in deep sympathy,
Martha Feldman
Steven Rings
September 15, 2008
Asher was a student in one of my music theory courses at the University of Chicago. He was a very memorable student, in fact -- highly intelligent, an independent and original thinker, and always willing to challenge ossified ideas; he kept me on my toes, in the best sense. I was impressed by the depth of his passion for music, as well as by his strong convictions and the integrity of his unique aesthetic outlook. I am deeply saddened by his death and offer my sincerest condolences to his family and friends.
A B
September 15, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of this tragedy. I did not know Asher well, but I was also a music student at U Chicago, and we often crossed paths between composition lessons. I remember during a concert, hearing a piece of his and thinking to myself that it was a shame I was graduating, since I had only begun to realize how talented some of the other student composers were. He seemed like a wonderful person, and I wish I had gotten the chance to know him as more than a fellow music student. From what I have seen, your family is strong and has a great amount of support from within and from friends and acquaintances - I hope that this helps to carry you through an unspeakably difficult time.
Coach Bill MacArthur
September 14, 2008
Joan & Arthur,
Please accept our sincerest condolences upon the untimely passing of your son Asher. He was such a great kid and a fine young man. As his coach since he was 10 years old, I have many fond memories of him. He was such a dedicated player. How he loved playing soccer! To this day, and of all the players I have coached, there has never been anyone who could hold the ball and dribble like Asher. He was such a well rounded & gifted young man, but you already knew that! Words cannot express of how sorry we are and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Allison Ogden
September 14, 2008
I was working as the TA for the Computer Music Classes at U of C, and worked with Asher in that capacity. I worked with him in tutorial sessions, one on one, and in classes over the years. I was impressed with his enthusiasm and the continued interest he expressed in the subject matter, and watched him learn and grow as an artist. He was more than a good student, expressing interest above and beyond, helping with setup for computer music concerts, showing up at outside events and offering support and giving encouragement to his peers. Both Krzysztof and I are very sad to hear of his passing. We are very glad to have known Asher, and his memory will stay with us.
Our thoughts are with his family and friends during this difficult time.
with heartfelt condolences,
Allison Ogden and Krzysztof Wolek
Donna Anderson
September 14, 2008
As Asher's first piano teacher, I am so saddened. I know how very gifted Asher was, and it is so hard to wrap my mind around this disheartening news. He was moved and motivated by music, so natural and so ready to learn new things. I have many fond memories of our piano lessons together. My prayers are with the whole family, may God be with you all.
Cathy Ann Elias
September 14, 2008
To the Goldman Family
Asher was a student in a class of mine. He was always
overflowing with energy and extremely polite, an unusual quality these days! Where I really got to know him was in the gym. We always seemed to arrive about the same time every day, and we often talked. He was full of ideas and plans (often changing) for his future. He was interested in so many things and loved to talk. His enthusiasm was catching. This is a sad moment in time to loose someone so young and full of promise. God gives and God takes away without an obvious explanation. Surely there is some justification, as unfair as it seems now, and future good that is beyond our understanding. I wish him eternal peace.
Christine Buras
September 14, 2008
Dear Goldman family,
I was a classmate of Asher's in several music classes. Although I never got to know him as well as I would have liked, I always enjoyed having class with him. He was an extremely thoughtful and kind student, and I know that the entire music department will miss him terribly. I am so sorry for your loss, and my prayers are with you.
Andrea Simmons
September 13, 2008
Dearest Goldman Family,
It has taken me since Wednesday when Britney phoned to tell me of Asher's passing to be able to write to you. I kept hoping that I would wake up to find it was all a bad dream. Asher gave me a crash course in how to parent a teenager. I considered him my own! He was always bopping around the house humming some tune and I was challenged with keeping him on task. It was a battle sometimes because he marched to his own beat. I enjoyed every moment as his chauffer, chef, overseer, companion and weekday mother.
To Ben and Julia, Asher adored you. He didn't care much for my choice of music so when he got in my car he would politely turn off the radio and often talk of how he admired his big brother and sister.
Dr. Goldman, you are a true example of a father who loved unconditionally. And, Joan, you are sincerely the best mother I have ever known. Thank you for sharing your "baby boy" with me. God bless you all.
Patricia Brauner
September 13, 2008
Dear Dr. and Mrs. Goldman and family,
With great sadness I have learned of Asher's death from Martha Feldman. Your loss is indeed terrible. May the support of family, friends, and the Jewish community help you through this time of grief, and may you be comforted among the mourners of Zion.
Paula Ogiba
September 13, 2008
Having walked in your shoes, Jim & I extend our sympathy to you & your family. The heart-break is unbelievable, tears are unrelenting; but days pass by and eventually it becomes tolerable - you'll never 'get over it' so don't make that an expectation. Just lean on one another. I'm so sorry that you must travel this path. We're thinking of you.
Paula & Jim Ogiba
Rita Golub
September 13, 2008
Dear Joan and Arthur, Julie and Ben,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time in your lives. On belhalf of myself and my sons, Jonathan and Phillip, I extend our deepest condolences.
May Asher's memory be for a blessing.
barbara seligman
September 13, 2008
Dearest Joan, Ben, Julia, and Family,
Words cannot adequately express the sadness in our hearts at this time of Dear Asher's untimely passing. His spirit, his amazing talents were and will always remain an inspiration to us all. Our deepest, heartfelt sympathy to you all. We are so grateful for all the special family life cycles you have shared with us, and the fondest memories will always remain with us. Asher will remain in our hearts forever. May his memory be for a blessing. May you all gain comfort in knowing how much we all care and share in your sadness. All of you are in our prayers and hearts with special blessings. We are always here for you with much love. You have been and are like family to us.
Barbara and Jack
Joel Futterman
September 13, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben and Julia,
Asher's spirit is universal. Asher was a ray of light that taught us to be kind and tolerant of others. Asher saw, heard, and felt more in one moment than others may do in a lifetime.
I felt honored to be his teacher as we both explored creative improvisation. Asher's goal was to create his own music, in the moment, without any agenda.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will deeply miss Asher. Yet his spirit will be with us forever.
Peace, Love, Health,
Joel Futterman&Family
margie auslender
September 12, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Ben and Julia,
It is with such sadness and grief we write these words of love and comfort to you. We will always remember Asher's warmth and compassion, spirit and determination. He is in our hearts, and you are in our thoughts. Margie, Aaron, David and Sam Auslender
Regina McKinney & Family
September 12, 2008
Dr. and Mrs. Goldman & Family,
I was saddened to hear about the loss of your son, Asher. I have always enjoyed listening to the both of you share of his many accomplishments. I know you all are proud of him. May those fond family memories of your trips to Colorado and Canada fill your hearts with love and joy today and into the future. My prayers, support and love will be with you all during your loss. May God continue to provide comfort and peace to your entire family.
Martha Katz-Hyman
September 12, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Julia & Ben,
Tsvi & I are so saddened to learn of Asher's untimely passing. Your pride in his accomplishments and hopes for his future were evident every time you spoke of him; his death is a loss to all who knew him.
May you find some comfort in knowing that friends are thinking of you at this sad time, and may his memory always be for a blessing.
Moshe, Michael and Sarah join us in sending you our deepest condolences.
Martha & Tsvi Katz-Hyman
Joyce and Harry Graber
September 12, 2008
To all the Goldman family,
We are shocked by this impossible news. Please know that we are thinking of you during these incredibly difficult days. We sincerely hope that you will ultimately find comfort in your love for each other.
Missy Jones
September 12, 2008
Dr. Goldman and family,
I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Dr. Goldman, your love of Asher was so evident in the way you always beam when speaking about him and your visits to Chicago. I pray peace and courage for you and your family as you grieve the loss of your precious boy.
Missy Jones L&D MIH
Martha Eckhardt
September 12, 2008
Dear Dr Goldman and family, Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 12, 2008
Dear Dr. Arthur and Joan.
There are no mere words that I can say to express my deepest sympathy. I carry you both deep within my heart and utter your names in my prayers. Your beloved Asher will be missed by so many.
Weegie
Jennifer Milanesi
September 12, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know this is a huge tragedy that no one should ever have to endure. My prayers are with you.
Paula & Darryl Houston
September 12, 2008
Dear Goldman Family,
We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ronald Miller
September 12, 2008
With thoughts of sympathy at your loss.
Ronald Miller
David Fierman
Adam, Debra, Cameron and Ben Silbar
September 12, 2008
Oh God - the loss of a son and one with so many gifts is beyond my ability to comprehend emotionally and, I'm sure, there are no words that I can say that would even get close to giving you comfort or solace at this time. I can only imagine how you must be feeling and, although we are devastated by the loss of Asher, we would never claim to know the depths of your pain. Please know that our love for you Arthur and Ben, Julia and Joan run deep in us and if there is any weight we can share or any possible burden you could shift, we would humbly bear it. We're so sorry.
Good bye Asher. This world will never forget you.
Jeff and Lisa Silbar
September 12, 2008
We remember seeing Asher in New York...riding his bike ...working at the Virgin Mega Store...excited about college and his music... thinking what a bright, talented kid he is... Asher's picture is on our piano... He will be with us always.. Arthur and Joan, Ben and Julia...we love you and know Asher 's love will live on forever....
Peace in the storm,
Cousins Jeff, Lisa, Garrett and Natalie
Denise Dailey
September 12, 2008
Dear Dr. Goldman and Family,
I am so saddened to hear of your loss. No words can express the pain of losing a child. I lost my son five years ago and know the grief you all feel. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with all of your family.
Donna Poland
September 12, 2008
I will always think fondly of Asher as I remember him on our trip to the Sakharov Readings in Russia. He was so curious - always exploring the local music and art of St. Petersburg. He was an interesting person and a pleasure to be around. He will be greatly missed.
Donna Poland - past director of the New Horizons Governor's School
Gail Weston
September 12, 2008
Dr. Goldman and family, Many prayers and thoughts are with each of you today and will continue to be so in the many difficult days to come. Please know that if ever you need someone to talk to or just listen I will be there. I pray now that your strong family bonds, faith and love of so many will offer you some much needed support and comfort. May God comfort you each as only He can.
frank and Ann Russell
September 12, 2008
Please accept our heartfeld sympathy The loss of a child is the greatest of all.
Frank and Ann Russell
granparents of Peter Russell, Asher's good friend
Gerri Howard
September 12, 2008
My heart is so saddened by the loss of your son, Asher. Your family has my sincerest sympathies.
Allyson Smith
September 12, 2008
Dear Goldman family,
I was very sorry to hear about your loss. I can not even begin to know how saddened you are. Please know my thoughts are with you all.
Kathie Cantone
September 12, 2008
I am a member of the Middle East Music Ensemble at U of C, in which Asher also performed. He was a warm, engaging soul whose loss will be felt by all of us. Our director was beside himself with grief when I spoke with him yesterday. I can still recall the conversation we all had at the end of last season about our accomplishments and hopes for the coming season, and how much we all enjoyed making music together. My heart goes out to his family and friends and I pray for their comfort during this hard time.
Joel Buhyoff
September 12, 2008
Dear Dr Goldman and Family;
In this difficult time that you are experiencing I hope you know that you have so many friends that grieve with you. The continual memory and highlight of our conversations at work always were centered on your children, their concerns and aspirations. You always inspired me in my own parenting
With much love and respect:
Joel Buhyoff and Family
ajmal sobhan
September 11, 2008
At this time of grief,our hearts are with Joan and Arthur.
The loss of a child is incomparable to any other loss.
The same GOD that gave us life will give us strength to bare such a loss.22 years is precious small time in the life of any one but they were preciuos and we celebrate that life.
Lynn Eck
September 11, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of sadness. Asher was in so many of Savannah's classes in primary and elementary school and we will always remember him as a sweet, intelligent young man. Our sincere condolences, Lynn and Savannah Eck
Penny Collins MIH L&D
September 11, 2008
Dr. and Mrs. Goldman and family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your beloved Asher. Dr. Goldman, I know how proud you were of him and how much joy he brought to you from our conversations at the hospital. May you find comfort in your memories of Asher.
Williamsburg Soccer - Greensboro, North Carolina 2002
Butch Adams
September 11, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben, and Julia,
We are very saddened by your loss. Asher was an amazing young man. I have included a picture from The Greensboro Soccer Tournament a few years back. Butch, Christy, Kyle, and Casey Adams.
Donna Haney
September 11, 2008
Though words cannot express the sadness you must be feeling with the loss of your son. he was a special person that left us with memories of him we will never forget. We will certainly keep you and your family in our prayers.
Prue and Mike Salasky
September 11, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Julia and Ben,
Our sincere condolences on the untimely, terrible loss of your beloved Asher. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. With our love, Salasky family
Cornelia Watkins
September 11, 2008
Dr.Arthur and Joan, My heart is broken for you all in the loss of Asher..Please accept my sincerest sympathy. I felt like I knew him well from all our conversations at work. He was so gifted. We lost our daughter three years ago, so I know too well what it is like to lose your child. Death is so hard,but it cannot steal memories. So try to concentrate on these precious memories, and know that Asher's name was written in the Book of Life. You'll be reunited in God's own time .For now , God needed him with HIM. Much love and prayers, "Watty" and Charles
The Lesnicks
September 11, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben, and Julia,
We are so sorry to hear of your sudden loss of your son, Asher. We send our symphathy and our prayers.
Jim and Trina
Sharon Simon
September 11, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben, and Julia,
Jose and I are so saddened to hear about Asher's death. He and our daughter, Courtney Simon, served on the PHS newspaper staff together and she always talked about what a brilliant musician he was and how much she enjoyed his sense of humor. You are all in our prayers.
Jose and Sharon Simon
Heath's
September 11, 2008
Dear Goldman Family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Asher’s passing. We cannot imagine what your family must be going through. Asher was a very talented, wonderful person, and he will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Our heart goes out to your family and we will keep you in our prayers.
Sincerely,
The Heath Family
Ram & Geeta Chandran
September 11, 2008
We are so sorry to hear about your loss.
Please accept our deepest sympathies and know that.
our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May God bless you and your family.
September 11, 2008
Dr. & Mrs. Goldman and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son and brother. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Lisa Price Newport News, Virginia
Schullers
September 11, 2008
Our entire family is so sad for your loss. Emily will miss having Asher in her life but is so thankful for many memories of their special friendship. What a blessing they saw each other in August before heading back to school.
Ron, Stuart, Ashleigh, Catherine and Emily
Ann Wilson
September 11, 2008
Dear Joan, Arthur, Ben and Julia,
Brian and I were so saddened to learn of such terrible news about Asher. He was such a wonderful, bright light in so many lives. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Brian and Ann Wilson
The Richardson's
September 11, 2008
Arthur and Joan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time after the sudden loss of Asher.
Katy, Greg & Kyle Richardson
Tomahawk Road
Elaine Gould
September 11, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben, and Julia
I was so shocked and saddened to hear about Asher. My prayers are with you and your family during this time of terrible loss.
Amy Kartage
September 11, 2008
Arthur and Joan--I was so saddened to hear the news. I remember Asher as a precocious toddler--what a cutie! Please accept my sincerest condolences to you and your entire family.
Amy Kartage
Janice Segall
September 11, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben and Julia,
Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time. We haven't seen Asher since he was very young but it looks like he has accomplished great things. May his memories be a blessing, now and forever.
With love and prayers,
Janice, Jim, Gayle, Aryn and Craig Segall
Donald Fernald
September 11, 2008
Arthur,Joan,Ben and Julia,
It is with a heavy heart that we write this. It was such a shock to learn of your sudden loss. Words can not tell you how sorry we are, that you must go through this extreme loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Don and Susan Fernald
Ray and Kim Silbar
September 11, 2008
Dear Arthur, Joan, Ben and Julia,
Though no words can provide the comfort you seek at this time, may your hearts know that your sorrow is shared by all whose lives were touched by your precious son. May your grief be softened by the love you have around you and the love from your family and friends who may not be near you now.
With all our hearts,
Ray, Kim, Eliot and Aaron
Kevin Jones
September 11, 2008
Dear Goldman Family,
I was terribly saddened to hear of the news. Though I have not seen you all in some time, I still carry many great memories of your family and the times I spent with you. You all were always so special and Asher was no exception. He was a wonderful person.
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